(4798,1,'2022-07-25 19:44:55','2022-07-25 19:44:55','<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.7 - 03-07-2022 */\n.e-container.e-container--row .elementor-spacer-inner{width:var(--spacer-size)}.e-container.e-container--column .elementor-spacer-inner,.elementor-column .elementor-spacer-inner{height:var(--spacer-size)}</style>		\n            <h1>\n                Body+Soul            \n        </h1>\n            Article - source: Body+Soul        \n            <h2>\n                The number one thing to improve couple communication            \n        </h2>\n            3 September 2021        \n		<h4>Whether it’s tension over long-standing issues or bickering over the last prawn, arguments at Christmas can quash festive joy. Here’s how to keep the peace.</h4> <p>In the words of the Ramones, “Merry Christmas, I Don’t Want To Fight Tonight!”</p><p>Yet if you put family members with diverse views together tensions can boil over – and things can get particularly nasty if alcohol is involved.</p><p>Having a more harmonious family get-together isn’t out of reach, so here are some things to try ahead of your Christmas get-together.</p>		\n			<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.7 - 03-07-2022 */\n.elementor-heading-title{padding:0;margin:0;line-height:1}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title[class*=elementor-size-]>a{color:inherit;font-size:inherit;line-height:inherit}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-small{font-size:15px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-medium{font-size:19px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-large{font-size:29px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xl{font-size:39px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xxl{font-size:59px}</style><h3>Understand your family dynamic</h3>		\n		<p>Perhaps you’re the quieter family member who always gets talked over, or the eldest child who is expected to carry more of the load with the Christmas preparations.</p><p>You could be used to walking on eggshells around a temperamental parent or trying to tune out the bragging of a sibling.</p><p>“We may be in adult bodies, yet these early family dynamics stay the same,” individual and couple therapist Lissy Abrahams says.</p><p>“They may have been uncomfortable and touched a nerve in childhood, and these are still raw as adults in a similar environment.”</p><p>Lissy says being conscious of these dynamics can help you understand the patterns and be more deliberate in how you react to any triggers.</p>		\n			<h3>Keep your expectations realistic</h3>		\n		<p>While advertisements, film, TV and social media would have us believe that everyone besides our family has a harmonious Christmas, this isn’t the case.</p><p>Having unrealistic expectations – that no one will bicker or get grumpy – can set you up for disappointment.</p><p>Rather than expecting the day to be drama-free, focus on trying to reduce conflict and accept the imperfect nature of family get-togethers.</p><p>Keep in mind too that many of us are experiencing increased stress associated with the Covid-19 pandemic and subsequent lockdowns, according to an Australian Bureau of Statistics survey from June 2021.</p>		\n			<h3>Avoid controversial topics</h3>		\n		<p>“We’re living in a time where opinions about the pandemic, lockdowns and vaccinations are rife and varied,” family counsellor Kylie Heenan says.</p><p>“This adds another layer of stress to families where differing choices are creating divides, even in long-term marriages or between parents and their adult children.”</p><p>Our lives have been shaped by the pandemic in recent years, so it’s unrealistic to expect that conversation won’t revolve around it, but says Kylie, you can set boundaries.</p><p>“See if you can agree in advance of a family gathering to set aside particular topics known to cause arguments,” she says.</p><p>And if you get drawn into a dicey conversation, be conscious about how you want to respond.</p><p>“If someone asserts their opinion and you disagree, decide if now is the time to engage – pick your battles carefully,” she says.</p><p>“Can you let this go for now? Can you change the topic? Do you need to be right?”</p><p>It’s also worth remembering you don’t all need to think the same to get along.</p><p>“Allowing space to hear each other without judgment can create a feeling of connection, even when we don’t agree,” Kylie says.</p>		\n			<h3>How to resolve conflict</h3>		\n		<p>You need to know when it’s time to try, and if everyone’s been drinking that’s not it, says Lissy.</p><p>“Be careful trying to resolve conflict when alcohol has been consumed, as it may escalate and quickly become emotionally or physically unsafe,” she says.</p><p>Even without alcohol, Kylie says moments of heightened tension are not always the best time to work on resolution.</p><p>“Deflecting from the conflict might be better,” she says.</p><p>“Ask to put the topic aside, redirect the topic in a fun, light-hearted way, or divert attention.”</p><p>Once things have cooled down, you might find it helpful to discuss what happened with that family member or one-on-one with a counsellor.</p>','Body+Soul','Love your life more with advice on how to lead a healthy lifestyle, lose weight, stay fit, stress less, be happy and so much more from Australia\'s home of health and happiness, body+soul.','inherit','closed','closed','','4789-revision-v1','','','2022-07-25 19:44:55','2022-07-25 19:44:55','',4789,'https://www.lissyabrahams.com/?p=4798',0,'revision','',0),(4799,1,'2022-07-25 19:44:55','2022-07-25 19:44:55','<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.7 - 03-07-2022 */\n.e-container.e-container--row .elementor-spacer-inner{width:var(--spacer-size)}.e-container.e-container--column .elementor-spacer-inner,.elementor-column .elementor-spacer-inner{height:var(--spacer-size)}</style>		\n            <h1>\n                Body+Soul            \n        </h1>\n            Article - source: Body+Soul        \n            <h2>\n                The number one thing to improve couple communication            \n        </h2>\n            3 September 2021        \n		<p>Body+Soul investigates how to quell a fight in the early stages and deal with it in a way that will be better for you and your partner.</p><p>Have you ever had your partner say, do (or not do) something and just loose the plot?</p><p>Maybe they’ve been rubbing you the wrong way and then there was that moment the switch flicked and it was game time on the screaming match, with both sides likely to lose out?</p><p>Well, you’re not alone, but psychotherapist and couples counsellor Lissy Abrahams, <a href=\"https://www.bodyandsoul.com.au/sex-relationships/relationships/the-common-arguments-all-couples-have-over-christmas/news-story/3c76f08bd0623577c1381887d749c51f\" data-tgev=\"event119\" data-tgev-metric=\"ev\" data-tgev-order=\"3c76f08bd0623577c1381887d749c51f\" data-tgev-label=\"sex-relationships\" data-tgev-container=\"bodylink\">says it doesn’t have to be that way.</a></p><p>Speaking on Body+Soul’s daily podcast <em>Healthy-ish</em>, she says that the single most important step to stop fighting is to literally stop. To take a breather.</p><p>“There\'s absolutely nothing we can say to each other that we\'re really going to take in. Our defences are up, we\'re often in fight or flight mode, and we’re trying to survive the moment,” she tells host Felicity Harley on the <em>Healthy-ish </em>episode <em>A psychotherapist on the No 1. thing to improve couple communication.</em></p><p>“The first thing we can do is just take a pause, take 10 minutes and see if that\'s enough time to calm down.”</p><p>If you’re having trouble calming down, Abrahams suggests trying breath work and taking the time to move your mind away from the discussion. Essentially, relax and regroup.</p><p>It may also be beneficial to reflect on the part of yourself that was triggered in the situation, the ‘ego’. And no – we don\'t mean ego in the sense of self-importance – it\'s a term often used to describe part of your personality in psychology and, in fact, everyone has one.</p><p>“One of the ways that we can really look after our relationship and not damage it is by understanding our ego and also understand it\'s linked to feeling fear or shame,” she explains.</p><p>“Where we perceive our partner as a threat…or feel like they’re shaming us in any way, we’re going to get into fight or flight mode and we’re going to have something to tell them that we’re not very happy about.”</p><p>This response can be one of two things:</p><ol><li><strong>Superiority:</strong> That we feel like they don’t know the situation like we do, and that we know how to navigate the relationship better.</li><li><strong>Inferiority:</strong> This is victim mode, where one partner may start crying or show weakness to get their partner back alongside.</li></ol><p>“We can do a lot of damage through the ego by not understanding it. The best thing we can do is to learn about what it is that makes us feel frightened with a partner or ashamed and then take responsibility for that and go and learn about it,” says Abrahams.</p>		\n			<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.7 - 03-07-2022 */\n.elementor-heading-title{padding:0;margin:0;line-height:1}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title[class*=elementor-size-]>a{color:inherit;font-size:inherit;line-height:inherit}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-small{font-size:15px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-medium{font-size:19px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-large{font-size:29px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xl{font-size:39px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xxl{font-size:59px}</style><h3>How to keep your ego in check</h3>		\n		<p>The first step is to understand our ego and how it operates. What is your response? It could be attacking, blaming, judgement, complaining, screaming, shouting, standing up and making your body big.</p><p>If we know what it looks like when we’ve been triggered, we can notice it and say to ourselves, ‘that’s my ego’. It might be time for a cool down minute.</p><p>“We don\'t always know that we\'ve got a choice in those moments. We feel fully justified to be sulky or be attacking in that moment. So the best thing we can do is to identify themes around it and work out what upsets you.”</p><p>That’s the second part – knowing what it was that triggered you.</p><p>Even if you didn’t start the fight, there’s always a point where you became invested in it. Which button did your partner push that made you respond?</p><p>Abrahams says this might be a tone of voice, when your partner doesn’t listen to you, or perhaps even a particular behavior or body language movement that irks you.</p><p>Think about why it sets your teeth on edge.</p><p>Do you hate not being listened to? Perhaps you were always listened to as a child and you’ve come to expect that, or maybe you weren’t listened to and you regress back to the way you acted when you were younger to get attention. Unravel those feelings and it will help you respond better next time.</p><p>If you have trouble doing this on your own, a professional therapist may be the perfect person to help you work through it.</p>		\n			<h3>Can we get over it?</h3>		\n		<p>Abrahams says we can.</p><p>“It\'s a life journey for all of us. And with different people, they\'ll be different,” she says.</p><p>“The ones who are doing it well are people who have the ability to really listen to each other and allow their partner to be different from them.”</p><p>She explains that often when we meet our partner we accept their differences, but as time goes on we can see them as a threat because they’re not alongside us in the way we want them to be.</p><p>“So, one thing we can really do is to learn to listen to our partner and to allow them to have their own mind and not be threatened by them in that way.”</p><p><em>You can download Lissy’s free ebook, Top Tips for Improving Couple Communication, <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/service/top-tips-for-improving-couple-communication/\" rel=\"nofollow\" data-saferedirecturl=\"https://www.google.com/url?q=https://www.lissyabrahams.com/resources/download-top-tips-for-improving-couple-communication-e-book/&amp;source=gmail&amp;ust=1630113750745000&amp;usg=AFQjCNGneYNMZHuyS2WEYz4FuTIpfV2EXA\">here</a>, or for more info, see her website <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/\" rel=\"nofollow\" data-saferedirecturl=\"https://www.google.com/url?q=https://www.lissyabrahams.com/&amp;source=gmail&amp;ust=1630113750745000&amp;usg=AFQjCNGij7lKvn-1BaiNEZkBIRedU7tETg\">here.</a></em></p>','Body+Soul','Love your life more with advice on how to lead a healthy lifestyle, lose weight, stay fit, stress less, be happy and so much more from Australia\'s home of health and happiness, body+soul.','inherit','closed','closed','','4789-revision-v1','','','2022-07-25 19:44:55','2022-07-25 19:44:55','',4789,'https://www.lissyabrahams.com/?p=4799',0,'revision','',0),(4800,1,'2022-07-25 19:47:38','2022-07-25 19:47:38','<style>/*! 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She was intrigued hearing about court cases, hearing about people’s strengths and vulnerabilities, and the nightmare for children caught in the parental crossfire. This paved the way for her to study psychology.</p>\r\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">Later, Lissy headed to London and was blessed to have been selected as one of four candidates invited into the Master of psychoanalytic psychotherapy for couples at the world-renowned Tavistock Relationships. Following this 4-year training, she had the good fortune to be employed by Tavistock Relationships to work as a tutor, lecturer, and couples therapist.</p>\r\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">Lissy returned to Sydney, and founded the Sydney-based therapy clinic, Heath Group Practice. Here she manages and works therapeutically with clients around the world. She has published academic work, was vice-president of the Couple, Child and Family Psychotherapy Association of Australasia, and held various positions on the Tavistock Relationships Association of Psychotherapists and Counsellors. Lissy is also part of Mamamia’s health expert panel.</p>\r\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">Lissy believes we all have the capacity to improve our lives and relationships with the right knowledge and practical strategies. Yet not everyone can access Lissy one-on-one, so she ensures help is available through her interviews on podcasts, TV appearances, and via her blogs and resources. Her successful online course - ‘<a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/products/\">Fight Less, Love More</a>’ - helps partners stop fighting and communicate respectfully. 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More\n        </a>\n            12 Rules that will help deepen your relationship        \n            30 November 2021        \n															<img src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/plugins/elementor/assets/images/placeholder.png\" title=\"\" alt=\"\" />															\n            <a href=\"\" target=\"\" rel=\"noopener\">\n            Read More\n        </a>\n            The one after the one        \n            22 November 2022        \n															<img src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/plugins/elementor/assets/images/placeholder.png\" title=\"\" alt=\"\" />															\n            <a href=\"\" target=\"\" rel=\"noopener\">\n            Read More\n        </a>\n            10 signs you and your partner are &#039;fake happy&#039; in your relationship        \n            15 November 2021        \n															<img src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/shutterstock_1745850722-300x200-1.jpg\" title=\"\" alt=\"\" />															\n            <a href=\"\" target=\"\" rel=\"noopener\">\n            Read More\n        </a>\n            15 Things your partner will never do if you are in a healthy relationship        \n            8 November 2021        \n															<img width=\"640\" height=\"427\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/reed-naliboff-tP0ZiwR-LQ-unsplash-1024x683.jpg\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/reed-naliboff-tP0ZiwR-LQ-unsplash-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/reed-naliboff-tP0ZiwR-LQ-unsplash-300x200.jpg 300w, https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/reed-naliboff-tP0ZiwR-LQ-unsplash-768x512.jpg 768w, https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/reed-naliboff-tP0ZiwR-LQ-unsplash-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/reed-naliboff-tP0ZiwR-LQ-unsplash-2048x1365.jpg 2048w, https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/reed-naliboff-tP0ZiwR-LQ-unsplash-600x400.jpg 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" />															\n            <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/15-things-partner-never-do-if-healthy-relationship/\" target=\"\" rel=\"noopener\">\n            Read More\n        </a>\n            8 Signs you&#039;re in the right relationship        \n            20 October 2022        \n															<img width=\"640\" height=\"427\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/shutterstock_305085290.jpg\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/shutterstock_305085290.jpg 1000w, https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/shutterstock_305085290-300x200.jpg 300w, https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/shutterstock_305085290-768x512.jpg 768w, https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/shutterstock_305085290-600x400.jpg 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" />															\n            <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/8-signs-in-right-relationship/\" target=\"\" rel=\"noopener\">\n            Read More\n        </a>\n            what is a &#039;highly sensitive&#039; person?        \n            29 September 2021        \n															<img src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/plugins/elementor/assets/images/placeholder.png\" title=\"\" alt=\"\" />															\n            <a href=\"\" target=\"\" rel=\"noopener\">\n            Read More\n        </a>\n            Why your relationship feels like a struggle right now        \n            23 September 2021        \n															<img src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/plugins/elementor/assets/images/placeholder.png\" title=\"\" alt=\"\" />															\n            <a href=\"\" target=\"\" rel=\"noopener\">\n            Read More\n        </a>','Mamamia','Mamamia (stylised as MamaM!a) is an Australian news, opinion and lifestyle website targeted at women.','inherit','closed','closed','','4757-revision-v1','','','2022-07-25 20:23:41','2022-07-25 20:23:41','',4757,'https://www.lissyabrahams.com/?p=4815',0,'revision','',0),(4816,1,'2022-07-25 20:24:33','2022-07-25 20:24:33','<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.7 - 03-07-2022 */\n.e-container.e-container--row .elementor-spacer-inner{width:var(--spacer-size)}.e-container.e-container--column .elementor-spacer-inner,.elementor-column .elementor-spacer-inner{height:var(--spacer-size)}</style>		\n            <h1>\n                Articles            \n        </h1>\n            interviews        \n            <h2>\n                Lissy\'s Guest Interview Segments             \n        </h2>\n            Click on the images below to review the articles        \n			<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.7 - 03-07-2022 */\n.elementor-widget-image{text-align:center}.elementor-widget-image a{display:inline-block}.elementor-widget-image a 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https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/House-of-Wellness.png 363w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" />								</a>\n																<a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/the-daily-telegraph/\">\n							<img width=\"160\" height=\"80\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/daily-telegraph-small-1.png\" alt=\"\" />								</a>','Articles','A selection of articles where Lissy has been interviewed.','inherit','closed','closed','','4317-revision-v1','','','2022-07-25 20:24:33','2022-07-25 20:24:33','',4317,'https://www.lissyabrahams.com/?p=4816',0,'revision','',0),(4817,1,'2022-07-25 20:24:33','2022-07-25 20:24:33','<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.7 - 03-07-2022 */\n.e-container.e-container--row .elementor-spacer-inner{width:var(--spacer-size)}.e-container.e-container--column .elementor-spacer-inner,.elementor-column .elementor-spacer-inner{height:var(--spacer-size)}</style>		\n            <h1>\n                Articles            \n        </h1>\n            interviews        \n            <h2>\n                Lissy\'s Guest Interview Segments             \n        </h2>\n            Click on the images below to review the articles        \n			<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.7 - 03-07-2022 */\n.elementor-widget-image{text-align:center}.elementor-widget-image a{display:inline-block}.elementor-widget-image a img[src$=\".svg\"]{width:48px}.elementor-widget-image img{vertical-align:middle;display:inline-block}</style>													<a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/mamamia/\">\n							<img src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/elementor/thumbs/mamamia-small-1-ps1a2cmifxjwafmq3z9xbdhvozhxq66jsxpmjnxce8.png\" title=\"mamamia-small\" alt=\"mamamia-small\" />								</a>\n																<a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/bodysoul/\">\n							<img width=\"100\" height=\"100\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/logo5-100x100-1.png\" alt=\"\" />								</a>\n																<a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/the-house-of-wellness/\">\n							<img width=\"300\" height=\"84\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/House-of-Wellness-300x84.png\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/House-of-Wellness-300x84.png 300w, https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/House-of-Wellness.png 363w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" />								</a>\n																<a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/the-daily-telegraph/\">\n							<img width=\"160\" height=\"80\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/daily-telegraph-small-1.png\" alt=\"\" />								</a>','Articles','A selection of articles where Lissy has been interviewed.','inherit','closed','closed','','4317-revision-v1','','','2022-07-25 20:24:33','2022-07-25 20:24:33','',4317,'https://www.lissyabrahams.com/?p=4817',0,'revision','',0),(4818,1,'2022-07-25 20:24:34','2022-07-25 20:24:34','<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.7 - 03-07-2022 */\n.e-container.e-container--row .elementor-spacer-inner{width:var(--spacer-size)}.e-container.e-container--column .elementor-spacer-inner,.elementor-column .elementor-spacer-inner{height:var(--spacer-size)}</style>		\n            <h1>\n                Articles            \n        </h1>\n            interviews        \n            <h2>\n                Lissy\'s Guest Interview Segments             \n        </h2>\n            Click on the images below to review the articles        \n			<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.7 - 03-07-2022 */\n.elementor-widget-image{text-align:center}.elementor-widget-image a{display:inline-block}.elementor-widget-image a img[src$=\".svg\"]{width:48px}.elementor-widget-image img{vertical-align:middle;display:inline-block}</style>												<img src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/elementor/thumbs/mamamia-small-1-ps1a2cmifxjwafmq3z9xbdhvozhxq66jsxpmjnxce8.png\" title=\"mamamia-small\" alt=\"mamamia-small\" />															\n																<a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/bodysoul/\">\n							<img width=\"100\" height=\"100\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/logo5-100x100-1.png\" alt=\"\" />								</a>\n																<a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/the-house-of-wellness/\">\n							<img width=\"300\" height=\"84\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/House-of-Wellness-300x84.png\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/House-of-Wellness-300x84.png 300w, https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/House-of-Wellness.png 363w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" />								</a>\n																<a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/the-daily-telegraph/\">\n							<img width=\"160\" height=\"80\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/daily-telegraph-small-1.png\" alt=\"\" />								</a>','Articles','A selection of articles where Lissy has been interviewed.','inherit','closed','closed','','4317-revision-v1','','','2022-07-25 20:24:34','2022-07-25 20:24:34','',4317,'https://www.lissyabrahams.com/?p=4818',0,'revision','',0),(4819,1,'2022-07-26 03:52:13','2022-07-26 03:52:13','<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.7 - 03-07-2022 */\n.e-container.e-container--row .elementor-spacer-inner{width:var(--spacer-size)}.e-container.e-container--column .elementor-spacer-inner,.elementor-column .elementor-spacer-inner{height:var(--spacer-size)}</style>		\n            <h1>\n                Podcasts            \n        </h1>\n			<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.7 - 03-07-2022 */\n.elementor-widget-image{text-align:center}.elementor-widget-image a{display:inline-block}.elementor-widget-image a img[src$=\".svg\"]{width:48px}.elementor-widget-image img{vertical-align:middle;display:inline-block}</style>												<img width=\"100\" height=\"100\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/BodySoul-Healthish-e1658306050495.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n            BODY+SOUL HEALTHY-ISH        \n            <h2>\n                The No 1. Thing to Improve Couple Communication<br />\n        </h2>\n            2 September 2021        \n		<p><iframe title=\"A psychotherapist on the No 1. thing to improve couple communication\" src=\"https://omny.fm/shows/healthy-ish/a-psychotherapist-on-the-no-1-thing-to-improve-cou/embed?style=Cover\" width=\"100%\" height=\"180\" frameborder=\"0\"></iframe></p>		\n            <h2>\n                When Christmas Stress Hits            \n        </h2>\n            16 December 2021        \n		<p><iframe title=\"When Christmas stress hits...\" src=\"https://omny.fm/shows/healthy-ish/when-christmas-stress-hits/embed?style=Cover\" width=\"100%\" height=\"180\" frameborder=\"0\"></iframe></p>		\n															<img width=\"120\" height=\"105\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/BodySoul-Healthy-ish-extra-e1658551477615.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n            body+soul Healthy-ish extra        \n            <h2>\n                What Couples Who Communicate Well Do Differently            \n        </h2>\n            2 September 2021        \n		<iframe src=\"https://omny.fm/shows/extra-healthy-ish/what-couples-who-communicate-well-do-differently/embed?style=Cover\" width=\"100%\" height=\"180\" allow=\"autoplay; clipboard-write\" frameborder=\"0\" title=\"What couples who communicate well do differently\"></iframe>		\n            <h2>\n                How to  Deal with Family Crap at Christmas            \n        </h2>\n            16 December 2021        \n		<iframe src=\"https://omny.fm/shows/extra-healthy-ish/how-to-deal-with-family-crap-at-christmas/embed?in_playlist=extra-healthy-ish&style=Cover\" width=\"100%\" height=\"180\" allow=\"autoplay; clipboard-write\" frameborder=\"0\" title=\"How to deal with family crap at Christmas\"></iframe>		\n															<img width=\"160\" height=\"80\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/ido-podcast-small-1.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n            i do podcast        \n            <h2>\n                How to Have a Peaceful Divorce or Separation            \n        </h2>\n		<iframe allow=\"autoplay *; encrypted-media *; fullscreen *; clipboard-write\" frameborder=\"0\" height=\"175\" style=\"width:100%;max-width:660px;overflow:hidden;background:transparent;\" sandbox=\"allow-forms allow-popups allow-same-origin allow-scripts allow-storage-access-by-user-activation allow-top-navigation-by-user-activation\" src=\"https://embed.podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/how-to-have-a-peaceful-divorce-or-separation/id840534227?i=1000535247963\"></iframe>		\n															<img width=\"93\" height=\"43\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/291768450_602847517894882_6401580038014845901_n.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n            faster than normal by peter shankman        \n            <h2>\n                Creating Connected Relationships            \n        </h2>\n																<a href=\"https://www.fasterthannormal.com/creating-connected-relationships-w-psychotherapist-lissy-abrahams/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">\n							<img width=\"562\" height=\"102\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/faster-than-normal-podcast-1.png\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/faster-than-normal-podcast-1.png 562w, https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/faster-than-normal-podcast-1-300x54.png 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 562px) 100vw, 562px\" />								</a>\n															<img width=\"150\" height=\"150\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/Feed-Play-Love-150x150.jpg\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/Feed-Play-Love-150x150.jpg 150w, https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/Feed-Play-Love-300x300.jpg 300w, https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/Feed-Play-Love-e1658306061762.jpg 100w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px\" />															\n            feed play love with Shevonne hunt        \n            <h2>\n                Coming Soon...            \n        </h2>','Podcasts',' Lissy is often invited as a guest expert on podcasts.','inherit','closed','closed','','4319-revision-v1','','','2022-07-26 03:52:13','2022-07-26 03:52:13','',4319,'https://www.lissyabrahams.com/?p=4819',0,'revision','',0),(4820,1,'2022-07-26 03:52:14','2022-07-26 03:52:14','<style>/*! 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But they won\'t. Change happens when we change.</p><p>And for change, we need to have awkward conversations, first in our own minds, and then with others in our lives.</p><p>But...we need to know how.</p><p>If this is you, I get it! It feels so complicated. How do you know how to fix it if you don\'t know what the real problem is right?</p><p>That\'s where I can help. 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But they won\'t. Change happens when we change.</p><p>And for change, we need to have awkward conversations, first in our own minds, and then with others in our lives.</p><p>But...we need to know how.</p><p>If this is you, I get it! It feels so complicated. How do you know how to fix it if you don\'t know what the real problem is right?</p><p>That\'s where I can help. 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Here\'s how\"></iframe>		\n															<img src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/elementor/thumbs/SCS_podcast_3-pswdwslwyp4cqnpj3l6hiqqiqd2o17znoimf9uqd7g.png\" title=\"Segal Conflict Solutions\" alt=\"Segal Conflict Solutions\" />															\n            segal conflict solutions        \n            <h2>\n                Why employers should be wooing employees back to the office after COVID            \n        </h2>\n            3 August 2022        \n		<iframe style=\"border-radius: 12px;\" src=\"https://open.spotify.com/embed/episode/5z4i6sWqlra07N86EzhQHs?utm_source=generator\" width=\"100%\" height=\"180\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"></iframe>','Podcasts',' Lissy is often invited as a guest expert on podcasts.','inherit','closed','closed','','4319-revision-v1','','','2022-08-07 06:04:14','2022-08-07 06:04:14','',4319,'https://www.lissyabrahams.com/?p=4872',0,'revision','',0),(4873,1,'2022-08-07 06:04:14','2022-08-07 06:04:14','<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.8 - 27-07-2022 */\n.e-container.e-container--row .elementor-spacer-inner{width:var(--spacer-size)}.e-container.e-container--column .elementor-spacer-inner,.elementor-column .elementor-spacer-inner{height:var(--spacer-size)}</style>		\n            <h1>\n                Podcasts            \n        </h1>\n			<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.8 - 27-07-2022 */\n.elementor-widget-image{text-align:center}.elementor-widget-image a{display:inline-block}.elementor-widget-image a img[src$=\".svg\"]{width:48px}.elementor-widget-image img{vertical-align:middle;display:inline-block}</style>												<img width=\"100\" height=\"100\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/BodySoul-Healthish-e1658306050495.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n            BODY+SOUL HEALTHY-ISH        \n            <h2>\n                The No 1. Thing to Improve Couple Communication<br />\n        </h2>\n            2 September 2021        \n		<p><iframe title=\"A psychotherapist on the No 1. thing to improve couple communication\" src=\"https://omny.fm/shows/healthy-ish/a-psychotherapist-on-the-no-1-thing-to-improve-cou/embed?style=Cover\" width=\"100%\" height=\"180\" frameborder=\"0\"></iframe></p>		\n            <h2>\n                When Christmas Stress Hits            \n        </h2>\n            16 December 2021        \n		<p><iframe title=\"When Christmas stress hits...\" src=\"https://omny.fm/shows/healthy-ish/when-christmas-stress-hits/embed?style=Cover\" width=\"100%\" height=\"180\" frameborder=\"0\"></iframe></p>		\n															<img width=\"120\" height=\"105\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/BodySoul-Healthy-ish-extra-e1658551477615.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n            body+soul Healthy-ish extra        \n            <h2>\n                What Couples Who Communicate Well Do Differently            \n        </h2>\n            2 September 2021        \n		<iframe src=\"https://omny.fm/shows/extra-healthy-ish/what-couples-who-communicate-well-do-differently/embed?style=Cover\" width=\"100%\" height=\"180\" allow=\"autoplay; clipboard-write\" frameborder=\"0\" title=\"What couples who communicate well do differently\"></iframe>		\n            <h2>\n                How to  Deal with Family Crap at Christmas            \n        </h2>\n            16 December 2021        \n		<iframe src=\"https://omny.fm/shows/extra-healthy-ish/how-to-deal-with-family-crap-at-christmas/embed?in_playlist=extra-healthy-ish&style=Cover\" width=\"100%\" height=\"180\" allow=\"autoplay; clipboard-write\" frameborder=\"0\" title=\"How to deal with family crap at Christmas\"></iframe>		\n															<img width=\"160\" height=\"80\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/ido-podcast-small-1.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n            i do podcast        \n            <h2>\n                How to Have a Peaceful Divorce or Separation            \n        </h2>\n		<iframe allow=\"autoplay *; encrypted-media *; fullscreen *; clipboard-write\" frameborder=\"0\" height=\"175\" style=\"width:100%;max-width:660px;overflow:hidden;background:transparent;\" sandbox=\"allow-forms allow-popups allow-same-origin allow-scripts allow-storage-access-by-user-activation allow-top-navigation-by-user-activation\" src=\"https://embed.podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/how-to-have-a-peaceful-divorce-or-separation/id840534227?i=1000535247963\"></iframe>		\n															<img width=\"93\" height=\"43\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/291768450_602847517894882_6401580038014845901_n.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n            faster than normal by peter shankman        \n            <h2>\n                Creating Connected Relationships            \n        </h2>\n																<a href=\"https://www.fasterthannormal.com/creating-connected-relationships-w-psychotherapist-lissy-abrahams/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">\n							<img width=\"562\" height=\"102\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/faster-than-normal-podcast-1.png\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/faster-than-normal-podcast-1.png 562w, https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/faster-than-normal-podcast-1-300x54.png 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 562px) 100vw, 562px\" />								</a>\n															<img width=\"150\" height=\"150\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/Feed-Play-Love-150x150.jpg\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/Feed-Play-Love-150x150.jpg 150w, https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/Feed-Play-Love-300x300.jpg 300w, https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/Feed-Play-Love-e1658306061762.jpg 100w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px\" />															\n            feed play love with Shevonne hunt        \n            <h2>\n                Want to Stop Fighting with Your Partner? <br>- Here\'s How            \n        </h2>\n            26 July 2022        \n		<iframe src=\"https://omny.fm/shows/feed-play-love1/want-to-stop-fighting-with-your-partner/embed?style=Cover\" width=\"100%\" height=\"180\" allow=\"autoplay; clipboard-write\" frameborder=\"0\" title=\"Want to stop fighting with your partner? Here\'s how\"></iframe>		\n															<img src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/elementor/thumbs/SCS_podcast_3-pswdwslwyp4cqnpj3l6hiqqiqd2o17znoimf9uqd7g.png\" title=\"Segal Conflict Solutions\" alt=\"Segal Conflict Solutions\" />															\n            segal conflict solutions        \n            <h2>\n                Why employers should be wooing employees back to the office after COVID            \n        </h2>\n            3 August 2022        \n		<iframe style=\"border-radius: 12px;\" src=\"https://open.spotify.com/embed/episode/5z4i6sWqlra07N86EzhQHs?utm_source=generator\" width=\"100%\" height=\"180\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"></iframe>','Podcasts',' Lissy is often invited as a guest expert on podcasts.','inherit','closed','closed','','4319-revision-v1','','','2022-08-07 06:04:14','2022-08-07 06:04:14','',4319,'https://www.lissyabrahams.com/?p=4873',0,'revision','',0),(4874,1,'2022-08-07 06:04:57','2022-08-07 06:04:57','<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.8 - 27-07-2022 */\n.e-container.e-container--row .elementor-spacer-inner{width:var(--spacer-size)}.e-container.e-container--column .elementor-spacer-inner,.elementor-column .elementor-spacer-inner{height:var(--spacer-size)}</style>		\n            <h1>\n                Podcasts            \n        </h1>\n			<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.8 - 27-07-2022 */\n.elementor-widget-image{text-align:center}.elementor-widget-image a{display:inline-block}.elementor-widget-image a img[src$=\".svg\"]{width:48px}.elementor-widget-image img{vertical-align:middle;display:inline-block}</style>												<img width=\"100\" height=\"100\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/BodySoul-Healthish-e1658306050495.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n            BODY+SOUL HEALTHY-ISH        \n            <h2>\n                The No 1. Thing to Improve Couple Communication<br />\n        </h2>\n            2 September 2021        \n		<p><iframe title=\"A psychotherapist on the No 1. thing to improve couple communication\" src=\"https://omny.fm/shows/healthy-ish/a-psychotherapist-on-the-no-1-thing-to-improve-cou/embed?style=Cover\" width=\"100%\" height=\"180\" frameborder=\"0\"></iframe></p>		\n            <h2>\n                When Christmas Stress Hits            \n        </h2>\n            16 December 2021        \n		<p><iframe title=\"When Christmas stress hits...\" src=\"https://omny.fm/shows/healthy-ish/when-christmas-stress-hits/embed?style=Cover\" width=\"100%\" height=\"180\" frameborder=\"0\"></iframe></p>		\n															<img width=\"120\" height=\"105\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/BodySoul-Healthy-ish-extra-e1658551477615.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n            body+soul Healthy-ish extra        \n            <h2>\n                What Couples Who Communicate Well Do Differently            \n        </h2>\n            2 September 2021        \n		<iframe src=\"https://omny.fm/shows/extra-healthy-ish/what-couples-who-communicate-well-do-differently/embed?style=Cover\" width=\"100%\" height=\"180\" allow=\"autoplay; clipboard-write\" frameborder=\"0\" title=\"What couples who communicate well do differently\"></iframe>		\n            <h2>\n                How to  Deal with Family Crap at Christmas            \n        </h2>\n            16 December 2021        \n		<iframe src=\"https://omny.fm/shows/extra-healthy-ish/how-to-deal-with-family-crap-at-christmas/embed?in_playlist=extra-healthy-ish&style=Cover\" width=\"100%\" height=\"180\" allow=\"autoplay; clipboard-write\" frameborder=\"0\" title=\"How to deal with family crap at Christmas\"></iframe>		\n															<img width=\"160\" height=\"80\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/ido-podcast-small-1.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n            i do podcast        \n            <h2>\n                How to Have a Peaceful Divorce or Separation            \n        </h2>\n		<iframe allow=\"autoplay *; encrypted-media *; fullscreen *; clipboard-write\" frameborder=\"0\" height=\"175\" style=\"width:100%;max-width:660px;overflow:hidden;background:transparent;\" sandbox=\"allow-forms allow-popups allow-same-origin allow-scripts allow-storage-access-by-user-activation allow-top-navigation-by-user-activation\" src=\"https://embed.podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/how-to-have-a-peaceful-divorce-or-separation/id840534227?i=1000535247963\"></iframe>		\n															<img width=\"93\" height=\"43\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/291768450_602847517894882_6401580038014845901_n.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n            faster than normal by peter shankman        \n            <h2>\n                Creating Connected Relationships            \n        </h2>\n																<a href=\"https://www.fasterthannormal.com/creating-connected-relationships-w-psychotherapist-lissy-abrahams/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">\n							<img width=\"562\" height=\"102\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/faster-than-normal-podcast-1.png\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/faster-than-normal-podcast-1.png 562w, https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/faster-than-normal-podcast-1-300x54.png 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 562px) 100vw, 562px\" />								</a>\n															<img width=\"150\" height=\"150\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/Feed-Play-Love-150x150.jpg\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/Feed-Play-Love-150x150.jpg 150w, https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/Feed-Play-Love-300x300.jpg 300w, https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/Feed-Play-Love-e1658306061762.jpg 100w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px\" />															\n            feed play love with Shevonne hunt        \n            <h2>\n                Want to Stop Fighting with Your Partner? <br>- Here\'s How            \n        </h2>\n            26 July 2022        \n		<iframe src=\"https://omny.fm/shows/feed-play-love1/want-to-stop-fighting-with-your-partner/embed?style=Cover\" width=\"100%\" height=\"180\" allow=\"autoplay; clipboard-write\" frameborder=\"0\" title=\"Want to stop fighting with your partner? Here\'s how\"></iframe>		\n															<img src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/elementor/thumbs/SCS_podcast_3-pswdwslwyp4cqnpj3l6hiqqiqd2o17znoimf9uqd7g.png\" title=\"Segal Conflict Solutions\" alt=\"Segal Conflict Solutions\" />															\n            segal conflict solutions        \n            <h2>\n                Why employers should be wooing employees back to the office after COVID            \n        </h2>\n            3 August 2022        \n		<iframe style=\"border-radius: 12px;\" src=\"https://open.spotify.com/embed/episode/5z4i6sWqlra07N86EzhQHs?utm_source=generator\" width=\"100%\" height=\"180\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"></iframe>','Podcasts',' Lissy is often invited as a guest expert on podcasts.','inherit','closed','closed','','4319-revision-v1','','','2022-08-07 06:04:57','2022-08-07 06:04:57','',4319,'https://www.lissyabrahams.com/?p=4874',0,'revision','',0),(4875,1,'2022-08-07 06:04:57','2022-08-07 06:04:57','<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.8 - 27-07-2022 */\n.e-container.e-container--row .elementor-spacer-inner{width:var(--spacer-size)}.e-container.e-container--column .elementor-spacer-inner,.elementor-column .elementor-spacer-inner{height:var(--spacer-size)}</style>		\n            <h1>\n                Podcasts            \n        </h1>\n			<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.8 - 27-07-2022 */\n.elementor-widget-image{text-align:center}.elementor-widget-image a{display:inline-block}.elementor-widget-image a img[src$=\".svg\"]{width:48px}.elementor-widget-image img{vertical-align:middle;display:inline-block}</style>												<img width=\"100\" height=\"100\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/BodySoul-Healthish-e1658306050495.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n            BODY+SOUL HEALTHY-ISH        \n            <h2>\n                The No 1. Thing to Improve Couple Communication<br />\n        </h2>\n            2 September 2021        \n		<p><iframe title=\"A psychotherapist on the No 1. thing to improve couple communication\" src=\"https://omny.fm/shows/healthy-ish/a-psychotherapist-on-the-no-1-thing-to-improve-cou/embed?style=Cover\" width=\"100%\" height=\"180\" frameborder=\"0\"></iframe></p>		\n            <h2>\n                When Christmas Stress Hits            \n        </h2>\n            16 December 2021        \n		<p><iframe title=\"When Christmas stress hits...\" src=\"https://omny.fm/shows/healthy-ish/when-christmas-stress-hits/embed?style=Cover\" width=\"100%\" height=\"180\" frameborder=\"0\"></iframe></p>		\n															<img width=\"120\" height=\"105\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/BodySoul-Healthy-ish-extra-e1658551477615.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n            body+soul Healthy-ish extra        \n            <h2>\n                What Couples Who Communicate Well Do Differently            \n        </h2>\n            2 September 2021        \n		<iframe src=\"https://omny.fm/shows/extra-healthy-ish/what-couples-who-communicate-well-do-differently/embed?style=Cover\" width=\"100%\" height=\"180\" allow=\"autoplay; clipboard-write\" frameborder=\"0\" title=\"What couples who communicate well do differently\"></iframe>		\n            <h2>\n                How to  Deal with Family Crap at Christmas            \n        </h2>\n            16 December 2021        \n		<iframe src=\"https://omny.fm/shows/extra-healthy-ish/how-to-deal-with-family-crap-at-christmas/embed?in_playlist=extra-healthy-ish&style=Cover\" width=\"100%\" height=\"180\" allow=\"autoplay; clipboard-write\" frameborder=\"0\" title=\"How to deal with family crap at Christmas\"></iframe>		\n															<img width=\"160\" height=\"80\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/ido-podcast-small-1.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n            i do podcast        \n            <h2>\n                How to Have a Peaceful Divorce or Separation            \n        </h2>\n		<iframe allow=\"autoplay *; encrypted-media *; fullscreen *; clipboard-write\" frameborder=\"0\" height=\"175\" style=\"width:100%;max-width:660px;overflow:hidden;background:transparent;\" sandbox=\"allow-forms allow-popups allow-same-origin allow-scripts allow-storage-access-by-user-activation allow-top-navigation-by-user-activation\" src=\"https://embed.podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/how-to-have-a-peaceful-divorce-or-separation/id840534227?i=1000535247963\"></iframe>		\n															<img width=\"93\" height=\"43\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/291768450_602847517894882_6401580038014845901_n.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n            faster than normal by peter shankman        \n            <h2>\n                Creating Connected Relationships            \n        </h2>\n																<a href=\"https://www.fasterthannormal.com/creating-connected-relationships-w-psychotherapist-lissy-abrahams/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">\n							<img width=\"562\" height=\"102\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/faster-than-normal-podcast-1.png\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/faster-than-normal-podcast-1.png 562w, https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/faster-than-normal-podcast-1-300x54.png 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 562px) 100vw, 562px\" />								</a>\n															<img width=\"150\" height=\"150\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/Feed-Play-Love-150x150.jpg\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/Feed-Play-Love-150x150.jpg 150w, https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/Feed-Play-Love-300x300.jpg 300w, https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/Feed-Play-Love-e1658306061762.jpg 100w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px\" />															\n            feed play love with Shevonne hunt        \n            <h2>\n                Want to Stop Fighting with Your Partner? <br>- Here\'s How            \n        </h2>\n            26 July 2022        \n		<iframe src=\"https://omny.fm/shows/feed-play-love1/want-to-stop-fighting-with-your-partner/embed?style=Cover\" width=\"100%\" height=\"180\" allow=\"autoplay; clipboard-write\" frameborder=\"0\" title=\"Want to stop fighting with your partner? Here\'s how\"></iframe>		\n															<img src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/elementor/thumbs/SCS_podcast_3-pswdwslwyp4cqnpj3l6hiqqiqd2o17znoimf9uqd7g.png\" title=\"Segal Conflict Solutions\" alt=\"Segal Conflict Solutions\" />															\n            segal conflict solutions        \n            <h2>\n                Why employers should be wooing employees back to the office after COVID            \n        </h2>\n            3 August 2022        \n		<iframe style=\"border-radius: 12px;\" src=\"https://open.spotify.com/embed/episode/5z4i6sWqlra07N86EzhQHs?utm_source=generator\" width=\"100%\" height=\"180\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"></iframe>','Podcasts',' Lissy is often invited as a guest expert on podcasts.','inherit','closed','closed','','4319-revision-v1','','','2022-08-07 06:04:57','2022-08-07 06:04:57','',4319,'https://www.lissyabrahams.com/?p=4875',0,'revision','',0),(4876,1,'2022-08-07 06:04:58','2022-08-07 06:04:58','<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.8 - 27-07-2022 */\n.e-container.e-container--row .elementor-spacer-inner{width:var(--spacer-size)}.e-container.e-container--column .elementor-spacer-inner,.elementor-column .elementor-spacer-inner{height:var(--spacer-size)}</style>		\n            <h1>\n                Podcasts            \n        </h1>\n			<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.8 - 27-07-2022 */\n.elementor-widget-image{text-align:center}.elementor-widget-image a{display:inline-block}.elementor-widget-image a img[src$=\".svg\"]{width:48px}.elementor-widget-image img{vertical-align:middle;display:inline-block}</style>												<img width=\"100\" height=\"100\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/BodySoul-Healthish-e1658306050495.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n            BODY+SOUL HEALTHY-ISH        \n            <h2>\n                The No 1. Thing to Improve Couple Communication<br />\n        </h2>\n            2 September 2021        \n		<p><iframe title=\"A psychotherapist on the No 1. thing to improve couple communication\" src=\"https://omny.fm/shows/healthy-ish/a-psychotherapist-on-the-no-1-thing-to-improve-cou/embed?style=Cover\" width=\"100%\" height=\"180\" frameborder=\"0\"></iframe></p>		\n            <h2>\n                When Christmas Stress Hits            \n        </h2>\n            16 December 2021        \n		<p><iframe title=\"When Christmas stress hits...\" src=\"https://omny.fm/shows/healthy-ish/when-christmas-stress-hits/embed?style=Cover\" width=\"100%\" height=\"180\" frameborder=\"0\"></iframe></p>		\n															<img width=\"120\" height=\"105\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/BodySoul-Healthy-ish-extra-e1658551477615.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n            body+soul Healthy-ish extra        \n            <h2>\n                What Couples Who Communicate Well Do Differently            \n        </h2>\n            2 September 2021        \n		<iframe src=\"https://omny.fm/shows/extra-healthy-ish/what-couples-who-communicate-well-do-differently/embed?style=Cover\" width=\"100%\" height=\"180\" allow=\"autoplay; clipboard-write\" frameborder=\"0\" title=\"What couples who communicate well do differently\"></iframe>		\n            <h2>\n                How to  Deal with Family Crap at Christmas            \n        </h2>\n            16 December 2021        \n		<iframe src=\"https://omny.fm/shows/extra-healthy-ish/how-to-deal-with-family-crap-at-christmas/embed?in_playlist=extra-healthy-ish&style=Cover\" width=\"100%\" height=\"180\" allow=\"autoplay; clipboard-write\" frameborder=\"0\" title=\"How to deal with family crap at Christmas\"></iframe>		\n															<img width=\"160\" height=\"80\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/ido-podcast-small-1.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n            i do podcast        \n            <h2>\n                How to Have a Peaceful Divorce or Separation            \n        </h2>\n		<iframe allow=\"autoplay *; encrypted-media *; fullscreen *; clipboard-write\" frameborder=\"0\" height=\"175\" style=\"width:100%;max-width:660px;overflow:hidden;background:transparent;\" sandbox=\"allow-forms allow-popups allow-same-origin allow-scripts allow-storage-access-by-user-activation allow-top-navigation-by-user-activation\" src=\"https://embed.podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/how-to-have-a-peaceful-divorce-or-separation/id840534227?i=1000535247963\"></iframe>		\n															<img width=\"93\" height=\"43\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/291768450_602847517894882_6401580038014845901_n.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n            faster than normal by peter shankman        \n            <h2>\n                Creating Connected Relationships            \n        </h2>\n																<a href=\"https://www.fasterthannormal.com/creating-connected-relationships-w-psychotherapist-lissy-abrahams/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">\n							<img width=\"562\" height=\"102\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/faster-than-normal-podcast-1.png\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/faster-than-normal-podcast-1.png 562w, https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/faster-than-normal-podcast-1-300x54.png 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 562px) 100vw, 562px\" />								</a>\n															<img width=\"150\" height=\"150\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/Feed-Play-Love-150x150.jpg\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/Feed-Play-Love-150x150.jpg 150w, https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/Feed-Play-Love-300x300.jpg 300w, https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/Feed-Play-Love-e1658306061762.jpg 100w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px\" />															\n            feed play love with Shevonne hunt        \n            <h2>\n                Want to Stop Fighting with Your Partner? <br>- Here\'s How            \n        </h2>\n            26 July 2022        \n		<iframe src=\"https://omny.fm/shows/feed-play-love1/want-to-stop-fighting-with-your-partner/embed?style=Cover\" width=\"100%\" height=\"180\" allow=\"autoplay; clipboard-write\" frameborder=\"0\" title=\"Want to stop fighting with your partner? Here\'s how\"></iframe>		\n															<img src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/elementor/thumbs/SCS_podcast_3-e1659852287780-pswfn2ezqkd7wn96h07p7j0vic52zc7h8qjgsb3d34.png\" title=\"Segal Conflict Solutions\" alt=\"Segal Conflict Solutions\" />															\n            segal conflict solutions        \n            <h2>\n                Why employers should be wooing employees back to the office after COVID            \n        </h2>\n            3 August 2022        \n		<iframe style=\"border-radius: 12px;\" src=\"https://open.spotify.com/embed/episode/5z4i6sWqlra07N86EzhQHs?utm_source=generator\" width=\"100%\" height=\"180\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"></iframe>','Podcasts',' Lissy is often invited as a guest expert on podcasts.','inherit','closed','closed','','4319-revision-v1','','','2022-08-07 06:04:58','2022-08-07 06:04:58','',4319,'https://www.lissyabrahams.com/?p=4876',0,'revision','',0),(4878,1,'2021-05-24 08:31:59','2021-05-24 08:31:59','Trust is essential in couple relationships as much of our lives together rely on trusting our partner emotionally, physically, financially and practically. Broken trust can feel like a betrayal and can take time to heal.\r\n\r\nThe difficulty for couples is that there is no universal definition of what constitutes a betrayal or a broken boundary, and we all have our own rules of what is or isn’t acceptable. We may think we are aligned with <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/2021/04/26/what-is-couple-mindedness/\">our partner</a>, however, when we are not it can feel devastating. This can lead to conflict, disappointment, blame, judgment, criticism, feeling alone, ashamed, a lack of sexual or emotional intimacy, anxiety, jealousy, sadness, distress, or rage. Sometimes relationships head toward separation and/or divorce.\r\n\r\nHere are 3 tips to build a relationship based on trust:\r\n\r\n<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.8 - 27-07-2022 */<br />\r\n.elementor-widget-image{text-align:center}.elementor-widget-image a{display:inline-block}.elementor-widget-image a img[src$=\".svg\"]{width:48px}.elementor-widget-image img{vertical-align:middle;display:inline-block}</style>\r\n\r\n<img src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/1.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"59\" height=\"59\" />\r\n\r\n<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.8 - 27-07-2022 */<br />\r\n.elementor-heading-title{padding:0;margin:0;line-height:1}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title[class*=elementor-size-]>a{color:inherit;font-size:inherit;line-height:inherit}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-small{font-size:15px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-medium{font-size:19px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-large{font-size:29px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xl{font-size:39px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xxl{font-size:59px}</style>\r\n<h3>Conversations to create a framework of trust</h3>\r\nHave a series of conversations about how we will treat each other and important issues that we will need to navigate in life together. It is critical to understand each other\'s viewpoint, as this can guide behaviour, actions and words to be more protective and trustworthy.\r\n\r\nThese issues include -\r\n\r\n&nbsp;\r\n<ul>\r\n 	<li>Emotional and sexual intimacy – How do we like to be sexually intimate? How often? What will we do if we are worried about the frequency or type of intimacy in our relationship?</li>\r\n 	<li>Being with others – flirting, porn, strip clubs, sex. We all have a different line in the sand. Discuss this upfront so there is clarity about your boundary.</li>\r\n 	<li>Sharing information with others – What do we tell others about aspects of our relationship? Do we complain or bitch about each other? Do we reveal financial information? Do we talk about details of our sex life? Do we share any intimacy struggles with anyone else?</li>\r\n 	<li>Communication – What do we do when our communication is hurting us? Do we say sorry? How do we talk to each other? Are we fighting too much? Do we listen anymore? How do we become more respectful again?</li>\r\n 	<li>Children – Do you both want them? If you do and they don’t, do not assume you can change their mind. If yes, how many? When? Views on day-care, nannies, and private or public education. Who takes time off work? For how long? Who is the primary carer for children? Organises babysitters and playdates? Liaises with the school?</li>\r\n 	<li>Financial matters – How do you feel about debt? Mortgages? Spending? Savings? Separate or shared bank accounts?</li>\r\n 	<li>Drugs and alcohol – How do we use substances in our relationship? Do we expect the other to be more moderate or stop at some point? When is that point?</li>\r\n 	<li>Roles – Do we take on particular roles? Who does the cooking? Food shopping? Cleans the home? Earns the money? Has career development?</li>\r\n 	<li>Extended family – Expectations around the role and involvement of extended family members.</li>\r\n</ul>\r\n<img src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/2.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"59\" height=\"59\" />\r\n<h3>Understand your conscious and unconscious past experiences regarding trust</h3>\r\nWe all need to understand aspects of our own past experiences with broken trust and how we carry these into our couple relationship. Some of our trust difficulties are conscious and others are unconscious. As you will see from the examples below, trust issues will impact our relationship whether we are aware of them or not. It is critical to understand them so we keep our relationship as healthy as possible.\r\n\r\n<u>Example 1:</u> If an ex-partner cheated on me then I may secretly check my new partner’s phone in an attempt to feel more secure that no one else is on the scene. Can you see that my <strong>conscious</strong> need for security in this area changes my behaviour, and I justify being secretive with my new partner. Will this ever solve my trust issues? What do I do with any “evidence” I find? Will my partner be happy with me checking their phone? Or will they mistrust me now? Will this cause us further relationship issues if I don’t resolve it?\r\n\r\n<u>Example 2:</u> If one of my parents had an affair when I was young, I may not be aware this is impacting me in the present. It is <strong>unconscious</strong>. Do I understand why I send my partner frequent text messages when they are out at night or why I question them like a detective on their return? I am filtering my relationship through my historical lens. What impact is my unresolved trust issue from the past having on our relationship?\r\n\r\n<img src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/3.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"59\" height=\"59\" />\r\n<h3>Create an agreement</h3>\r\nIf you want to build a relationship based on trust, I believe partners should create an agreement stating that “if we cannot solve a difficulty in our relationship by ourselves, and one of us wants us to go to couples therapy – we go. No excuses, no waiting period, we honour our agreement.”','How to Build a Relationship Based on Trust','','publish','open','open','','how-to-build-a-relationship-based-on-trust','','\nhttps://www.lissyabrahams.com/2021/04/26/what-is-couple-mindedness/','2022-08-07 10:48:31','2022-08-07 10:48:31','',0,'https://www.lissyabrahams.com/?p=4878',0,'post','',0),(4879,1,'2022-08-07 08:34:24','2022-08-07 08:34:24','We all have heard the word ego and many of us use it in conversation but what is the ego and how can it hurt or even destroy our relationships?\r\n\r\n<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.7 - 03-07-2022 */<br />.elementor-heading-title{padding:0;margin:0;line-height:1}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title[class*=elementor-size-]>a{color:inherit;font-size:inherit;line-height:inherit}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-small{font-size:15px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-medium{font-size:19px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-large{font-size:29px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xl{font-size:39px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xxl{font-size:59px}</style>\r\n<h3>What is the ego?</h3>\r\nWell simply speaking the ego is a part of the mind that is concerned with \"me\", \"I\" or \"mine\". <strong>I</strong> have thoughts, emotions, behaviours, and reactions, and they belong <strong>to me</strong> or they are <strong>mine</strong>. The ego is where things become personal. Opinions are stated from <strong>my own perspective and my own framework</strong>. The ego uses many \"should\" or \"shouldn\'t\" statements and judgments about ourselves and other people, and these are mostly stated as if they are facts.\r\n\r\nSome examples include -\r\n\r\n\"I am still upset that Michael didn\'t call me. He is so irresponsible!\"\r\n\r\n\"Pia should never have spoken to Arki like that.\"\r\n\r\n\"Oh no, I can\'t wear this on my date. She is going to think I am fat.\"\r\n<h3>What is the role of the ego?</h3>\r\nThe role of the ego is to alert us to any situation where it feels insecure, wobbly, or unsafe. Our egos are constantly trying to alert us of threats or even just perceived threats. Think of the ego as you’re an early warning detector when we are moved out of our comfort zone. Our egos want to keep us safely in boxes, so we “don’t fail”, “don’t expose ourselves”, “don’t be vulnerable”, or “don’t end the relationship in case you are alone forever”.\r\n\r\nWhen we feel ourselves wobble or even feel unsafe, our ego is looking for a way to bolster itself. We don’t like to feel insecure, and we want a quick fix to feel better again. We do this by creating ego-based stories. For example, if we feel someone has slighted us, we may create a story in our own minds that judges them as somehow inferior to us or that we are superior to them in a particular area. We may even tell ourselves a story that degrades them and calls them a name, such as “stupid” to make ourselves feel better. Sometimes we create angry or anxious stories, where we put others down. In these stories we can also play the victim, we can make stories where someone is frightening and dangerous for us to be around. Our egos can also create stories where we complain, blame, and accuse others when we feel disrespected or hurt. These stories can be directed toward our partner in a couple relationship.','How to Build a Relationship Based on Trust','','inherit','closed','closed','','4878-revision-v1','','','2022-08-07 08:34:24','2022-08-07 08:34:24','',4878,'https://www.lissyabrahams.com/?p=4879',0,'revision','',0),(4880,1,'2022-08-07 08:38:13','2022-08-07 08:38:13','','how to build a relationship based on trust','','inherit','open','closed','','how-to-build-a-relationship-based-on-trust-2','','','2022-08-07 08:38:13','2022-08-07 08:38:13','',4878,'http://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/05/how-to-build-a-relationship-based-on-trust.jpeg',0,'attachment','image/jpeg',0),(4881,1,'2022-08-07 09:18:15','2022-08-07 09:18:15','<p>Trust is essential in couple relationships as much of our lives together rely on trusting our partner emotionally, physically, financially and practically. Broken trust can feel like a betrayal and can take time to heal.</p><p>The difficulty for couples is that there is no universal definition of what constitutes a betrayal or a broken boundary, and we all have our own rules of what is or isn’t acceptable. We may think we are aligned with <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/2021/04/26/what-is-couple-mindedness/\">our partner</a>, however, when we are not it can feel devastating. This can lead to conflict, disappointment, blame, judgment, criticism, feeling alone, ashamed, a lack of sexual or emotional intimacy, anxiety, jealousy, sadness, distress, or rage. Sometimes relationships head toward separation and/or divorce.</p><p>Here are 3 tips to build a relationship based on trust:</p>		\n			<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.8 - 27-07-2022 */\n.elementor-widget-image{text-align:center}.elementor-widget-image a{display:inline-block}.elementor-widget-image a img[src$=\".svg\"]{width:48px}.elementor-widget-image img{vertical-align:middle;display:inline-block}</style>												<img width=\"59\" height=\"59\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/1.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n			<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.8 - 27-07-2022 */\n.elementor-heading-title{padding:0;margin:0;line-height:1}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title[class*=elementor-size-]>a{color:inherit;font-size:inherit;line-height:inherit}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-small{font-size:15px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-medium{font-size:19px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-large{font-size:29px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xl{font-size:39px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xxl{font-size:59px}</style><h3>What is the ego?</h3>		\n		<p>Well simply speaking the ego is a part of the mind that is concerned with \"me\", \"I\" or \"mine\". <strong>I</strong> have thoughts, emotions, behaviours, and reactions, and they belong <strong>to me</strong> or they are <strong>mine</strong>. The ego is where things become personal. Opinions are stated from <strong>my own perspective and my own framework</strong>. The ego uses many \"should\" or \"shouldn\'t\" statements and judgments about ourselves and other people, and these are mostly stated as if they are facts.</p><p>Some examples include -</p><p>\"I am still upset that Michael didn\'t call me. He is so irresponsible!\"</p><p>\"Pia should never have spoken to Arki like that.\"</p><p>\"Oh no, I can\'t wear this on my date. She is going to think I am fat.\"</p>		\n			<h3>What is the role of the ego?</h3>		\n		<p>The role of the ego is to alert us to any situation where it feels insecure, wobbly, or unsafe. Our egos are constantly trying to alert us of threats or even just perceived threats. Think of the ego as you’re an early warning detector when we are moved out of our comfort zone. Our egos want to keep us safely in boxes, so we “don’t fail”, “don’t expose ourselves”, “don’t be vulnerable”, or “don’t end the relationship in case you are alone forever”.</p><p>When we feel ourselves wobble or even feel unsafe, our ego is looking for a way to bolster itself. We don’t like to feel insecure, and we want a quick fix to feel better again. We do this by creating ego-based stories. For example, if we feel someone has slighted us, we may create a story in our own minds that judges them as somehow inferior to us or that we are superior to them in a particular area. We may even tell ourselves a story that degrades them and calls them a name, such as “stupid” to make ourselves feel better. Sometimes we create angry or anxious stories, where we put others down. In these stories we can also play the victim, we can make stories where someone is frightening and dangerous for us to be around. Our egos can also create stories where we complain, blame, and accuse others when we feel disrespected or hurt. These stories can be directed toward our partner in a couple relationship.</p>','How to Build a Relationship Based on Trust','','inherit','closed','closed','','4878-revision-v1','','','2022-08-07 09:18:15','2022-08-07 09:18:15','',4878,'https://www.lissyabrahams.com/?p=4881',0,'revision','',0),(4882,1,'2022-08-07 09:18:15','2022-08-07 09:18:15','<p>Trust is essential in couple relationships as much of our lives together rely on trusting our partner emotionally, physically, financially and practically. Broken trust can feel like a betrayal and can take time to heal.</p><p>The difficulty for couples is that there is no universal definition of what constitutes a betrayal or a broken boundary, and we all have our own rules of what is or isn’t acceptable. We may think we are aligned with <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/2021/04/26/what-is-couple-mindedness/\">our partner</a>, however, when we are not it can feel devastating. This can lead to conflict, disappointment, blame, judgment, criticism, feeling alone, ashamed, a lack of sexual or emotional intimacy, anxiety, jealousy, sadness, distress, or rage. Sometimes relationships head toward separation and/or divorce.</p><p>Here are 3 tips to build a relationship based on trust:</p>		\n			<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.8 - 27-07-2022 */\n.elementor-widget-image{text-align:center}.elementor-widget-image a{display:inline-block}.elementor-widget-image a img[src$=\".svg\"]{width:48px}.elementor-widget-image img{vertical-align:middle;display:inline-block}</style>												<img width=\"59\" height=\"59\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/1.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n			<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.8 - 27-07-2022 */\n.elementor-heading-title{padding:0;margin:0;line-height:1}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title[class*=elementor-size-]>a{color:inherit;font-size:inherit;line-height:inherit}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-small{font-size:15px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-medium{font-size:19px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-large{font-size:29px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xl{font-size:39px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xxl{font-size:59px}</style><h3>What is the ego?</h3>		\n		<p>Well simply speaking the ego is a part of the mind that is concerned with \"me\", \"I\" or \"mine\". <strong>I</strong> have thoughts, emotions, behaviours, and reactions, and they belong <strong>to me</strong> or they are <strong>mine</strong>. The ego is where things become personal. Opinions are stated from <strong>my own perspective and my own framework</strong>. The ego uses many \"should\" or \"shouldn\'t\" statements and judgments about ourselves and other people, and these are mostly stated as if they are facts.</p><p>Some examples include -</p><p>\"I am still upset that Michael didn\'t call me. He is so irresponsible!\"</p><p>\"Pia should never have spoken to Arki like that.\"</p><p>\"Oh no, I can\'t wear this on my date. She is going to think I am fat.\"</p>		\n			<h3>What is the role of the ego?</h3>		\n		<p>The role of the ego is to alert us to any situation where it feels insecure, wobbly, or unsafe. Our egos are constantly trying to alert us of threats or even just perceived threats. Think of the ego as you’re an early warning detector when we are moved out of our comfort zone. Our egos want to keep us safely in boxes, so we “don’t fail”, “don’t expose ourselves”, “don’t be vulnerable”, or “don’t end the relationship in case you are alone forever”.</p><p>When we feel ourselves wobble or even feel unsafe, our ego is looking for a way to bolster itself. We don’t like to feel insecure, and we want a quick fix to feel better again. We do this by creating ego-based stories. For example, if we feel someone has slighted us, we may create a story in our own minds that judges them as somehow inferior to us or that we are superior to them in a particular area. We may even tell ourselves a story that degrades them and calls them a name, such as “stupid” to make ourselves feel better. Sometimes we create angry or anxious stories, where we put others down. In these stories we can also play the victim, we can make stories where someone is frightening and dangerous for us to be around. Our egos can also create stories where we complain, blame, and accuse others when we feel disrespected or hurt. These stories can be directed toward our partner in a couple relationship.</p>','How to Build a Relationship Based on Trust','','inherit','closed','closed','','4878-revision-v1','','','2022-08-07 09:18:15','2022-08-07 09:18:15','',4878,'https://www.lissyabrahams.com/?p=4882',0,'revision','',0),(4883,1,'2022-08-07 09:18:16','2022-08-07 09:18:16','<p>Trust is essential in couple relationships as much of our lives together rely on trusting our partner emotionally, physically, financially and practically. Broken trust can feel like a betrayal and can take time to heal.</p><p>The difficulty for couples is that there is no universal definition of what constitutes a betrayal or a broken boundary, and we all have our own rules of what is or isn’t acceptable. We may think we are aligned with <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/2021/04/26/what-is-couple-mindedness/\">our partner</a>, however, when we are not it can feel devastating. This can lead to conflict, disappointment, blame, judgment, criticism, feeling alone, ashamed, a lack of sexual or emotional intimacy, anxiety, jealousy, sadness, distress, or rage. Sometimes relationships head toward separation and/or divorce.</p><p>Here are 3 tips to build a relationship based on trust:</p>		\n			<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.8 - 27-07-2022 */\n.elementor-widget-image{text-align:center}.elementor-widget-image a{display:inline-block}.elementor-widget-image a img[src$=\".svg\"]{width:48px}.elementor-widget-image img{vertical-align:middle;display:inline-block}</style>												<img width=\"59\" height=\"59\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/1.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n			<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.8 - 27-07-2022 */\n.elementor-heading-title{padding:0;margin:0;line-height:1}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title[class*=elementor-size-]>a{color:inherit;font-size:inherit;line-height:inherit}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-small{font-size:15px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-medium{font-size:19px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-large{font-size:29px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xl{font-size:39px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xxl{font-size:59px}</style><h3>Conversations to create a framework of trust</h3>		\n															<img width=\"59\" height=\"59\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/2.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n			<h3>Understand your conscious and unconscious past experiences regarding trust</h3>		\n		<p>We all need to understand aspects of our own past experiences with broken trust and how we carry these into our couple relationship. Some of our trust difficulties are conscious and others are unconscious. As you will see from the examples below, trust issues will impact our relationship whether we are aware of them or not. It is critical to understand them so we keep our relationship as healthy as possible.</p><p><u>Example 1:</u> If an ex-partner cheated on me then I may secretly check my new partner’s phone in an attempt to feel more secure that no one else is on the scene. Can you see that my <strong>conscious</strong> need for security in this area changes my behaviour, and I justify being secretive with my new partner. Will this ever solve my trust issues? What do I do with any “evidence” I find? Will my partner be happy with me checking their phone? Or will they mistrust me now? Will this cause us further relationship issues if I don’t resolve it?</p><p><u>Example 2:</u> If one of my parents had an affair when I was young, I may not be aware this is impacting me in the present. It is <strong>unconscious</strong>. Do I understand why I send my partner frequent text messages when they are out at night or why I question them like a detective on their return? I am filtering my relationship through my historical lens. What impact is my unresolved trust issue from the past having on our relationship?</p>		\n															<img width=\"59\" height=\"59\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/3.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n			<h3>Create an agreement</h3>		\n		<p>If you want to build a relationship based on trust, I believe partners should create an agreement stating that “if we cannot solve a difficulty in our relationship by ourselves, and one of us wants us to go to couples therapy – we go. No excuses, no waiting period, we honour our agreement.”</p>','How to Build a Relationship Based on Trust','','inherit','closed','closed','','4878-revision-v1','','','2022-08-07 09:18:16','2022-08-07 09:18:16','',4878,'https://www.lissyabrahams.com/?p=4883',0,'revision','',0),(4884,1,'2022-08-07 10:15:52','2022-08-07 10:15:52','<p>Trust is essential in couple relationships as much of our lives together rely on trusting our partner emotionally, physically, financially and practically. Broken trust can feel like a betrayal and can take time to heal.</p><p>The difficulty for couples is that there is no universal definition of what constitutes a betrayal or a broken boundary, and we all have our own rules of what is or isn’t acceptable. We may think we are aligned with <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/2021/04/26/what-is-couple-mindedness/\">our partner</a>, however, when we are not it can feel devastating. This can lead to conflict, disappointment, blame, judgment, criticism, feeling alone, ashamed, a lack of sexual or emotional intimacy, anxiety, jealousy, sadness, distress, or rage. Sometimes relationships head toward separation and/or divorce.</p><p>Here are 3 tips to build a relationship based on trust:</p>		\n			<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.8 - 27-07-2022 */\n.elementor-widget-image{text-align:center}.elementor-widget-image a{display:inline-block}.elementor-widget-image a img[src$=\".svg\"]{width:48px}.elementor-widget-image img{vertical-align:middle;display:inline-block}</style>												<img width=\"59\" height=\"59\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/1.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n			<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.8 - 27-07-2022 */\n.elementor-heading-title{padding:0;margin:0;line-height:1}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title[class*=elementor-size-]>a{color:inherit;font-size:inherit;line-height:inherit}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-small{font-size:15px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-medium{font-size:19px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-large{font-size:29px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xl{font-size:39px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xxl{font-size:59px}</style><h3>Conversations to create a framework of trust</h3>		\n															<img width=\"59\" height=\"59\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/2.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n			<h3>Understand your conscious and unconscious past experiences regarding trust</h3>		\n		<p>We all need to understand aspects of our own past experiences with broken trust and how we carry these into our couple relationship. Some of our trust difficulties are conscious and others are unconscious. As you will see from the examples below, trust issues will impact our relationship whether we are aware of them or not. It is critical to understand them so we keep our relationship as healthy as possible.</p><p><u>Example 1:</u> If an ex-partner cheated on me then I may secretly check my new partner’s phone in an attempt to feel more secure that no one else is on the scene. Can you see that my <strong>conscious</strong> need for security in this area changes my behaviour, and I justify being secretive with my new partner. Will this ever solve my trust issues? What do I do with any “evidence” I find? Will my partner be happy with me checking their phone? Or will they mistrust me now? Will this cause us further relationship issues if I don’t resolve it?</p><p><u>Example 2:</u> If one of my parents had an affair when I was young, I may not be aware this is impacting me in the present. It is <strong>unconscious</strong>. Do I understand why I send my partner frequent text messages when they are out at night or why I question them like a detective on their return? I am filtering my relationship through my historical lens. What impact is my unresolved trust issue from the past having on our relationship?</p>		\n															<img width=\"59\" height=\"59\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/3.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n			<h3>Create an agreement</h3>		\n		<p>If you want to build a relationship based on trust, I believe partners should create an agreement stating that “if we cannot solve a difficulty in our relationship by ourselves, and one of us wants us to go to couples therapy – we go. No excuses, no waiting period, we honour our agreement.”</p>','How to Build a Relationship Based on Trust','','inherit','closed','closed','','4878-revision-v1','','','2022-08-07 10:15:52','2022-08-07 10:15:52','',4878,'https://www.lissyabrahams.com/?p=4884',0,'revision','',0),(4885,1,'2022-08-07 10:15:52','2022-08-07 10:15:52','<p>Trust is essential in couple relationships as much of our lives together rely on trusting our partner emotionally, physically, financially and practically. Broken trust can feel like a betrayal and can take time to heal.</p><p>The difficulty for couples is that there is no universal definition of what constitutes a betrayal or a broken boundary, and we all have our own rules of what is or isn’t acceptable. We may think we are aligned with <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/2021/04/26/what-is-couple-mindedness/\">our partner</a>, however, when we are not it can feel devastating. This can lead to conflict, disappointment, blame, judgment, criticism, feeling alone, ashamed, a lack of sexual or emotional intimacy, anxiety, jealousy, sadness, distress, or rage. Sometimes relationships head toward separation and/or divorce.</p><p>Here are 3 tips to build a relationship based on trust:</p>		\n			<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.8 - 27-07-2022 */\n.elementor-widget-image{text-align:center}.elementor-widget-image a{display:inline-block}.elementor-widget-image a img[src$=\".svg\"]{width:48px}.elementor-widget-image img{vertical-align:middle;display:inline-block}</style>												<img width=\"59\" height=\"59\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/1.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n			<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.8 - 27-07-2022 */\n.elementor-heading-title{padding:0;margin:0;line-height:1}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title[class*=elementor-size-]>a{color:inherit;font-size:inherit;line-height:inherit}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-small{font-size:15px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-medium{font-size:19px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-large{font-size:29px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xl{font-size:39px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xxl{font-size:59px}</style><h3>Conversations to create a framework of trust</h3>		\n															<img width=\"59\" height=\"59\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/2.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n			<h3>Understand your conscious and unconscious past experiences regarding trust</h3>		\n		<p>We all need to understand aspects of our own past experiences with broken trust and how we carry these into our couple relationship. Some of our trust difficulties are conscious and others are unconscious. As you will see from the examples below, trust issues will impact our relationship whether we are aware of them or not. It is critical to understand them so we keep our relationship as healthy as possible.</p><p><u>Example 1:</u> If an ex-partner cheated on me then I may secretly check my new partner’s phone in an attempt to feel more secure that no one else is on the scene. Can you see that my <strong>conscious</strong> need for security in this area changes my behaviour, and I justify being secretive with my new partner. Will this ever solve my trust issues? What do I do with any “evidence” I find? Will my partner be happy with me checking their phone? Or will they mistrust me now? Will this cause us further relationship issues if I don’t resolve it?</p><p><u>Example 2:</u> If one of my parents had an affair when I was young, I may not be aware this is impacting me in the present. It is <strong>unconscious</strong>. Do I understand why I send my partner frequent text messages when they are out at night or why I question them like a detective on their return? I am filtering my relationship through my historical lens. What impact is my unresolved trust issue from the past having on our relationship?</p>		\n															<img width=\"59\" height=\"59\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/3.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n			<h3>Create an agreement</h3>		\n		<p>If you want to build a relationship based on trust, I believe partners should create an agreement stating that “if we cannot solve a difficulty in our relationship by ourselves, and one of us wants us to go to couples therapy – we go. No excuses, no waiting period, we honour our agreement.”</p>','How to Build a Relationship Based on Trust','','inherit','closed','closed','','4878-revision-v1','','','2022-08-07 10:15:52','2022-08-07 10:15:52','',4878,'https://www.lissyabrahams.com/?p=4885',0,'revision','',0),(4886,1,'2022-08-07 10:15:55','2022-08-07 10:15:55','<p>Trust is essential in couple relationships as much of our lives together rely on trusting our partner emotionally, physically, financially and practically. Broken trust can feel like a betrayal and can take time to heal.</p><p>The difficulty for couples is that there is no universal definition of what constitutes a betrayal or a broken boundary, and we all have our own rules of what is or isn’t acceptable. We may think we are aligned with <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/2021/04/26/what-is-couple-mindedness/\">our partner</a>, however, when we are not it can feel devastating. This can lead to conflict, disappointment, blame, judgment, criticism, feeling alone, ashamed, a lack of sexual or emotional intimacy, anxiety, jealousy, sadness, distress, or rage. Sometimes relationships head toward separation and/or divorce.</p><p>Here are 3 tips to build a relationship based on trust:</p>		\n			<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.8 - 27-07-2022 */\n.elementor-widget-image{text-align:center}.elementor-widget-image a{display:inline-block}.elementor-widget-image a img[src$=\".svg\"]{width:48px}.elementor-widget-image img{vertical-align:middle;display:inline-block}</style>												<img width=\"59\" height=\"59\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/1.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n			<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.8 - 27-07-2022 */\n.elementor-heading-title{padding:0;margin:0;line-height:1}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title[class*=elementor-size-]>a{color:inherit;font-size:inherit;line-height:inherit}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-small{font-size:15px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-medium{font-size:19px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-large{font-size:29px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xl{font-size:39px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xxl{font-size:59px}</style><h3>Conversations to create a framework of trust</h3>		\n															<img width=\"59\" height=\"59\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/2.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n			<h3>Understand your conscious and unconscious past experiences regarding trust</h3>		\n		<p>We all need to understand aspects of our own past experiences with broken trust and how we carry these into our couple relationship. Some of our trust difficulties are conscious and others are unconscious. As you will see from the examples below, trust issues will impact our relationship whether we are aware of them or not. It is critical to understand them so we keep our relationship as healthy as possible.</p><p><u>Example 1:</u> If an ex-partner cheated on me then I may secretly check my new partner’s phone in an attempt to feel more secure that no one else is on the scene. Can you see that my <strong>conscious</strong> need for security in this area changes my behaviour, and I justify being secretive with my new partner. Will this ever solve my trust issues? What do I do with any “evidence” I find? Will my partner be happy with me checking their phone? Or will they mistrust me now? Will this cause us further relationship issues if I don’t resolve it?</p><p><u>Example 2:</u> If one of my parents had an affair when I was young, I may not be aware this is impacting me in the present. It is <strong>unconscious</strong>. Do I understand why I send my partner frequent text messages when they are out at night or why I question them like a detective on their return? I am filtering my relationship through my historical lens. What impact is my unresolved trust issue from the past having on our relationship?</p>		\n															<img width=\"59\" height=\"59\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/3.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n			<h3>Create an agreement</h3>		\n		<p>If you want to build a relationship based on trust, I believe partners should create an agreement stating that “if we cannot solve a difficulty in our relationship by ourselves, and one of us wants us to go to couples therapy – we go. No excuses, no waiting period, we honour our agreement.”</p>','How to Build a Relationship Based on Trust','','inherit','closed','closed','','4878-revision-v1','','','2022-08-07 10:15:55','2022-08-07 10:15:55','',4878,'https://www.lissyabrahams.com/?p=4886',0,'revision','',0),(4887,1,'2022-08-07 10:46:13','2022-08-07 10:46:13','<p>Trust is essential in couple relationships as much of our lives together rely on trusting our partner emotionally, physically, financially and practically. Broken trust can feel like a betrayal and can take time to heal.</p><p>The difficulty for couples is that there is no universal definition of what constitutes a betrayal or a broken boundary, and we all have our own rules of what is or isn’t acceptable. We may think we are aligned with <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/2021/04/26/what-is-couple-mindedness/\">our partner</a>, however, when we are not it can feel devastating. This can lead to conflict, disappointment, blame, judgment, criticism, feeling alone, ashamed, a lack of sexual or emotional intimacy, anxiety, jealousy, sadness, distress, or rage. Sometimes relationships head toward separation and/or divorce.</p><p>Here are 3 tips to build a relationship based on trust:</p>		\n			<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.8 - 27-07-2022 */\n.elementor-widget-image{text-align:center}.elementor-widget-image a{display:inline-block}.elementor-widget-image a img[src$=\".svg\"]{width:48px}.elementor-widget-image img{vertical-align:middle;display:inline-block}</style>												<img width=\"59\" height=\"59\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/1.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n			<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.8 - 27-07-2022 */\n.elementor-heading-title{padding:0;margin:0;line-height:1}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title[class*=elementor-size-]>a{color:inherit;font-size:inherit;line-height:inherit}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-small{font-size:15px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-medium{font-size:19px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-large{font-size:29px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xl{font-size:39px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xxl{font-size:59px}</style><h3>Conversations to create a framework of trust</h3>		\n															<img width=\"59\" height=\"59\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/2.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n			<h3>Understand your conscious and unconscious past experiences regarding trust</h3>		\n		<p>We all need to understand aspects of our own past experiences with broken trust and how we carry these into our couple relationship. Some of our trust difficulties are conscious and others are unconscious. As you will see from the examples below, trust issues will impact our relationship whether we are aware of them or not. It is critical to understand them so we keep our relationship as healthy as possible.</p><p><u>Example 1:</u> If an ex-partner cheated on me then I may secretly check my new partner’s phone in an attempt to feel more secure that no one else is on the scene. Can you see that my <strong>conscious</strong> need for security in this area changes my behaviour, and I justify being secretive with my new partner. Will this ever solve my trust issues? What do I do with any “evidence” I find? Will my partner be happy with me checking their phone? Or will they mistrust me now? Will this cause us further relationship issues if I don’t resolve it?</p><p><u>Example 2:</u> If one of my parents had an affair when I was young, I may not be aware this is impacting me in the present. It is <strong>unconscious</strong>. Do I understand why I send my partner frequent text messages when they are out at night or why I question them like a detective on their return? I am filtering my relationship through my historical lens. What impact is my unresolved trust issue from the past having on our relationship?</p>		\n															<img width=\"59\" height=\"59\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/3.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n			<h3>Create an agreement</h3>		\n		<p>If you want to build a relationship based on trust, I believe partners should create an agreement stating that “if we cannot solve a difficulty in our relationship by ourselves, and one of us wants us to go to couples therapy – we go. No excuses, no waiting period, we honour our agreement.”</p>','How to Build a Relationship Based on Trust','','inherit','closed','closed','','4878-revision-v1','','','2022-08-07 10:46:13','2022-08-07 10:46:13','',4878,'https://www.lissyabrahams.com/?p=4887',0,'revision','',0),(4888,1,'2022-08-07 10:46:13','2022-08-07 10:46:13','<p>Trust is essential in couple relationships as much of our lives together rely on trusting our partner emotionally, physically, financially and practically. Broken trust can feel like a betrayal and can take time to heal.</p><p>The difficulty for couples is that there is no universal definition of what constitutes a betrayal or a broken boundary, and we all have our own rules of what is or isn’t acceptable. We may think we are aligned with <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/2021/04/26/what-is-couple-mindedness/\">our partner</a>, however, when we are not it can feel devastating. This can lead to conflict, disappointment, blame, judgment, criticism, feeling alone, ashamed, a lack of sexual or emotional intimacy, anxiety, jealousy, sadness, distress, or rage. Sometimes relationships head toward separation and/or divorce.</p><p>Here are 3 tips to build a relationship based on trust:</p>		\n			<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.8 - 27-07-2022 */\n.elementor-widget-image{text-align:center}.elementor-widget-image a{display:inline-block}.elementor-widget-image a img[src$=\".svg\"]{width:48px}.elementor-widget-image img{vertical-align:middle;display:inline-block}</style>												<img width=\"59\" height=\"59\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/1.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n			<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.8 - 27-07-2022 */\n.elementor-heading-title{padding:0;margin:0;line-height:1}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title[class*=elementor-size-]>a{color:inherit;font-size:inherit;line-height:inherit}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-small{font-size:15px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-medium{font-size:19px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-large{font-size:29px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xl{font-size:39px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xxl{font-size:59px}</style><h3>Conversations to create a framework of trust</h3>		\n															<img width=\"59\" height=\"59\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/2.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n			<h3>Understand your conscious and unconscious past experiences regarding trust</h3>		\n		<p>We all need to understand aspects of our own past experiences with broken trust and how we carry these into our couple relationship. Some of our trust difficulties are conscious and others are unconscious. As you will see from the examples below, trust issues will impact our relationship whether we are aware of them or not. It is critical to understand them so we keep our relationship as healthy as possible.</p><p><u>Example 1:</u> If an ex-partner cheated on me then I may secretly check my new partner’s phone in an attempt to feel more secure that no one else is on the scene. Can you see that my <strong>conscious</strong> need for security in this area changes my behaviour, and I justify being secretive with my new partner. Will this ever solve my trust issues? What do I do with any “evidence” I find? Will my partner be happy with me checking their phone? Or will they mistrust me now? Will this cause us further relationship issues if I don’t resolve it?</p><p><u>Example 2:</u> If one of my parents had an affair when I was young, I may not be aware this is impacting me in the present. It is <strong>unconscious</strong>. Do I understand why I send my partner frequent text messages when they are out at night or why I question them like a detective on their return? I am filtering my relationship through my historical lens. What impact is my unresolved trust issue from the past having on our relationship?</p>		\n															<img width=\"59\" height=\"59\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/3.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n			<h3>Create an agreement</h3>		\n		<p>If you want to build a relationship based on trust, I believe partners should create an agreement stating that “if we cannot solve a difficulty in our relationship by ourselves, and one of us wants us to go to couples therapy – we go. No excuses, no waiting period, we honour our agreement.”</p>','How to Build a Relationship Based on Trust','','inherit','closed','closed','','4878-revision-v1','','','2022-08-07 10:46:13','2022-08-07 10:46:13','',4878,'https://www.lissyabrahams.com/?p=4888',0,'revision','',0),(4889,1,'2022-08-07 10:46:13','2022-08-07 10:46:13','<p>Trust is essential in couple relationships as much of our lives together rely on trusting our partner emotionally, physically, financially and practically. Broken trust can feel like a betrayal and can take time to heal.</p><p>The difficulty for couples is that there is no universal definition of what constitutes a betrayal or a broken boundary, and we all have our own rules of what is or isn’t acceptable. We may think we are aligned with <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/2021/04/26/what-is-couple-mindedness/\">our partner</a>, however, when we are not it can feel devastating. This can lead to conflict, disappointment, blame, judgment, criticism, feeling alone, ashamed, a lack of sexual or emotional intimacy, anxiety, jealousy, sadness, distress, or rage. Sometimes relationships head toward separation and/or divorce.</p><p>Here are 3 tips to build a relationship based on trust:</p>		\n			<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.8 - 27-07-2022 */\n.elementor-widget-image{text-align:center}.elementor-widget-image a{display:inline-block}.elementor-widget-image a img[src$=\".svg\"]{width:48px}.elementor-widget-image img{vertical-align:middle;display:inline-block}</style>												<img width=\"59\" height=\"59\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/1.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n			<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.8 - 27-07-2022 */\n.elementor-heading-title{padding:0;margin:0;line-height:1}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title[class*=elementor-size-]>a{color:inherit;font-size:inherit;line-height:inherit}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-small{font-size:15px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-medium{font-size:19px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-large{font-size:29px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xl{font-size:39px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xxl{font-size:59px}</style><h3>Conversations to create a framework of trust</h3>		\n			<link rel=\"stylesheet\" href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/plugins/elementor/assets/css/widget-icon-list.min.css\">		<ul>\n							<li>\n										Emotional and sexual intimacy – How do we like to be sexually intimate? How often? What will we do if we are worried about the frequency or type of intimacy in our relationship?\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Being with others – flirting, porn, strip clubs, sex. We all have a different line in the sand. Discuss this upfront so there is clarity about your boundary.\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Sharing information with others – What do we tell others about aspects of our relationship? Do we complain or bitch about each other? Do we reveal financial information? Do we talk about details of our sex life? Do we share any intimacy struggles with anyone else?\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Communication – What do we do when our communication is hurting us? Do we say sorry? How do we talk to each other? Are we fighting too much? Do we listen anymore? How do we become more respectful again?\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Children – Do you both want them? If you do and they don’t, do not assume you can change their mind. If yes, how many? When? Views on day-care, nannies, and private or public education. Who takes time off work? For how long? Who is the primary carer for children? Organises babysitters and playdates? Liaises with the school?\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Financial matters – How do you feel about debt? Mortgages? Spending? Savings? Separate or shared bank accounts?\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Drugs and alcohol – How do we use substances in our relationship? Do we expect the other to be more moderate or stop at some point? When is that point?\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Roles – Do we take on particular roles? Who does the cooking? Food shopping? Cleans the home? Earns the money? Has career development?\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Extended family – Expectations around the role and involvement of extended family members.\n									</li>\n						</ul>\n															<img width=\"59\" height=\"59\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/2.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n			<h3>Understand your conscious and unconscious past experiences regarding trust</h3>		\n		<p>We all need to understand aspects of our own past experiences with broken trust and how we carry these into our couple relationship. Some of our trust difficulties are conscious and others are unconscious. As you will see from the examples below, trust issues will impact our relationship whether we are aware of them or not. It is critical to understand them so we keep our relationship as healthy as possible.</p><p><u>Example 1:</u> If an ex-partner cheated on me then I may secretly check my new partner’s phone in an attempt to feel more secure that no one else is on the scene. Can you see that my <strong>conscious</strong> need for security in this area changes my behaviour, and I justify being secretive with my new partner. Will this ever solve my trust issues? What do I do with any “evidence” I find? Will my partner be happy with me checking their phone? Or will they mistrust me now? Will this cause us further relationship issues if I don’t resolve it?</p><p><u>Example 2:</u> If one of my parents had an affair when I was young, I may not be aware this is impacting me in the present. It is <strong>unconscious</strong>. Do I understand why I send my partner frequent text messages when they are out at night or why I question them like a detective on their return? I am filtering my relationship through my historical lens. What impact is my unresolved trust issue from the past having on our relationship?</p>		\n															<img width=\"59\" height=\"59\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/3.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n			<h3>Create an agreement</h3>		\n		<p>If you want to build a relationship based on trust, I believe partners should create an agreement stating that “if we cannot solve a difficulty in our relationship by ourselves, and one of us wants us to go to couples therapy – we go. No excuses, no waiting period, we honour our agreement.”</p>','How to Build a Relationship Based on Trust','','inherit','closed','closed','','4878-revision-v1','','','2022-08-07 10:46:13','2022-08-07 10:46:13','',4878,'https://www.lissyabrahams.com/?p=4889',0,'revision','',0),(4890,1,'2022-08-07 10:47:33','2022-08-07 10:47:33','<p>Trust is essential in couple relationships as much of our lives together rely on trusting our partner emotionally, physically, financially and practically. Broken trust can feel like a betrayal and can take time to heal.</p><p>The difficulty for couples is that there is no universal definition of what constitutes a betrayal or a broken boundary, and we all have our own rules of what is or isn’t acceptable. We may think we are aligned with <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/2021/04/26/what-is-couple-mindedness/\">our partner</a>, however, when we are not it can feel devastating. This can lead to conflict, disappointment, blame, judgment, criticism, feeling alone, ashamed, a lack of sexual or emotional intimacy, anxiety, jealousy, sadness, distress, or rage. Sometimes relationships head toward separation and/or divorce.</p><p>Here are 3 tips to build a relationship based on trust:</p>		\n			<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.8 - 27-07-2022 */\n.elementor-widget-image{text-align:center}.elementor-widget-image a{display:inline-block}.elementor-widget-image a img[src$=\".svg\"]{width:48px}.elementor-widget-image img{vertical-align:middle;display:inline-block}</style>												<img width=\"59\" height=\"59\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/1.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n			<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.8 - 27-07-2022 */\n.elementor-heading-title{padding:0;margin:0;line-height:1}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title[class*=elementor-size-]>a{color:inherit;font-size:inherit;line-height:inherit}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-small{font-size:15px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-medium{font-size:19px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-large{font-size:29px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xl{font-size:39px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xxl{font-size:59px}</style><h3>Conversations to create a framework of trust</h3>		\n			<link rel=\"stylesheet\" href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/plugins/elementor/assets/css/widget-icon-list.min.css\">		<ul>\n							<li>\n										Emotional and sexual intimacy – How do we like to be sexually intimate? How often? What will we do if we are worried about the frequency or type of intimacy in our relationship?\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Being with others – flirting, porn, strip clubs, sex. We all have a different line in the sand. Discuss this upfront so there is clarity about your boundary.\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Sharing information with others – What do we tell others about aspects of our relationship? Do we complain or bitch about each other? Do we reveal financial information? Do we talk about details of our sex life? Do we share any intimacy struggles with anyone else?\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Communication – What do we do when our communication is hurting us? Do we say sorry? How do we talk to each other? Are we fighting too much? Do we listen anymore? How do we become more respectful again?\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Children – Do you both want them? If you do and they don’t, do not assume you can change their mind. If yes, how many? When? Views on day-care, nannies, and private or public education. Who takes time off work? For how long? Who is the primary carer for children? Organises babysitters and playdates? Liaises with the school?\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Financial matters – How do you feel about debt? Mortgages? Spending? Savings? Separate or shared bank accounts?\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Drugs and alcohol – How do we use substances in our relationship? Do we expect the other to be more moderate or stop at some point? When is that point?\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Roles – Do we take on particular roles? Who does the cooking? Food shopping? Cleans the home? Earns the money? Has career development?\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Extended family – Expectations around the role and involvement of extended family members.\n									</li>\n						</ul>\n															<img width=\"59\" height=\"59\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/2.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n			<h3>Understand your conscious and unconscious past experiences regarding trust</h3>		\n		<p>We all need to understand aspects of our own past experiences with broken trust and how we carry these into our couple relationship. Some of our trust difficulties are conscious and others are unconscious. As you will see from the examples below, trust issues will impact our relationship whether we are aware of them or not. It is critical to understand them so we keep our relationship as healthy as possible.</p><p><u>Example 1:</u> If an ex-partner cheated on me then I may secretly check my new partner’s phone in an attempt to feel more secure that no one else is on the scene. Can you see that my <strong>conscious</strong> need for security in this area changes my behaviour, and I justify being secretive with my new partner. Will this ever solve my trust issues? What do I do with any “evidence” I find? Will my partner be happy with me checking their phone? Or will they mistrust me now? Will this cause us further relationship issues if I don’t resolve it?</p><p><u>Example 2:</u> If one of my parents had an affair when I was young, I may not be aware this is impacting me in the present. It is <strong>unconscious</strong>. Do I understand why I send my partner frequent text messages when they are out at night or why I question them like a detective on their return? I am filtering my relationship through my historical lens. What impact is my unresolved trust issue from the past having on our relationship?</p>		\n															<img width=\"59\" height=\"59\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/3.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n			<h3>Create an agreement</h3>		\n		<p>If you want to build a relationship based on trust, I believe partners should create an agreement stating that “if we cannot solve a difficulty in our relationship by ourselves, and one of us wants us to go to couples therapy – we go. No excuses, no waiting period, we honour our agreement.”</p>','How to Build a Relationship Based on Trust','','inherit','closed','closed','','4878-revision-v1','','','2022-08-07 10:47:33','2022-08-07 10:47:33','',4878,'https://www.lissyabrahams.com/?p=4890',0,'revision','',0),(4891,1,'2022-08-07 10:47:33','2022-08-07 10:47:33','<p>Trust is essential in couple relationships as much of our lives together rely on trusting our partner emotionally, physically, financially and practically. Broken trust can feel like a betrayal and can take time to heal.</p><p>The difficulty for couples is that there is no universal definition of what constitutes a betrayal or a broken boundary, and we all have our own rules of what is or isn’t acceptable. We may think we are aligned with <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/2021/04/26/what-is-couple-mindedness/\">our partner</a>, however, when we are not it can feel devastating. This can lead to conflict, disappointment, blame, judgment, criticism, feeling alone, ashamed, a lack of sexual or emotional intimacy, anxiety, jealousy, sadness, distress, or rage. Sometimes relationships head toward separation and/or divorce.</p><p>Here are 3 tips to build a relationship based on trust:</p>		\n			<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.8 - 27-07-2022 */\n.elementor-widget-image{text-align:center}.elementor-widget-image a{display:inline-block}.elementor-widget-image a img[src$=\".svg\"]{width:48px}.elementor-widget-image img{vertical-align:middle;display:inline-block}</style>												<img width=\"59\" height=\"59\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/1.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n			<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.8 - 27-07-2022 */\n.elementor-heading-title{padding:0;margin:0;line-height:1}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title[class*=elementor-size-]>a{color:inherit;font-size:inherit;line-height:inherit}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-small{font-size:15px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-medium{font-size:19px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-large{font-size:29px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xl{font-size:39px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xxl{font-size:59px}</style><h3>Conversations to create a framework of trust</h3>		\n			<link rel=\"stylesheet\" href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/plugins/elementor/assets/css/widget-icon-list.min.css\">		<ul>\n							<li>\n										Emotional and sexual intimacy – How do we like to be sexually intimate? How often? What will we do if we are worried about the frequency or type of intimacy in our relationship?\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Being with others – flirting, porn, strip clubs, sex. We all have a different line in the sand. Discuss this upfront so there is clarity about your boundary.\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Sharing information with others – What do we tell others about aspects of our relationship? Do we complain or bitch about each other? Do we reveal financial information? Do we talk about details of our sex life? Do we share any intimacy struggles with anyone else?\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Communication – What do we do when our communication is hurting us? Do we say sorry? How do we talk to each other? Are we fighting too much? Do we listen anymore? How do we become more respectful again?\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Children – Do you both want them? If you do and they don’t, do not assume you can change their mind. If yes, how many? When? Views on day-care, nannies, and private or public education. Who takes time off work? For how long? Who is the primary carer for children? Organises babysitters and playdates? Liaises with the school?\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Financial matters – How do you feel about debt? Mortgages? Spending? Savings? Separate or shared bank accounts?\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Drugs and alcohol – How do we use substances in our relationship? Do we expect the other to be more moderate or stop at some point? When is that point?\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Roles – Do we take on particular roles? Who does the cooking? Food shopping? Cleans the home? Earns the money? Has career development?\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Extended family – Expectations around the role and involvement of extended family members.\n									</li>\n						</ul>\n															<img width=\"59\" height=\"59\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/2.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n			<h3>Understand your conscious and unconscious past experiences regarding trust</h3>		\n		<p>We all need to understand aspects of our own past experiences with broken trust and how we carry these into our couple relationship. Some of our trust difficulties are conscious and others are unconscious. As you will see from the examples below, trust issues will impact our relationship whether we are aware of them or not. It is critical to understand them so we keep our relationship as healthy as possible.</p><p><u>Example 1:</u> If an ex-partner cheated on me then I may secretly check my new partner’s phone in an attempt to feel more secure that no one else is on the scene. Can you see that my <strong>conscious</strong> need for security in this area changes my behaviour, and I justify being secretive with my new partner. Will this ever solve my trust issues? What do I do with any “evidence” I find? Will my partner be happy with me checking their phone? Or will they mistrust me now? Will this cause us further relationship issues if I don’t resolve it?</p><p><u>Example 2:</u> If one of my parents had an affair when I was young, I may not be aware this is impacting me in the present. It is <strong>unconscious</strong>. Do I understand why I send my partner frequent text messages when they are out at night or why I question them like a detective on their return? I am filtering my relationship through my historical lens. What impact is my unresolved trust issue from the past having on our relationship?</p>		\n															<img width=\"59\" height=\"59\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/3.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n			<h3>Create an agreement</h3>		\n		<p>If you want to build a relationship based on trust, I believe partners should create an agreement stating that “if we cannot solve a difficulty in our relationship by ourselves, and one of us wants us to go to couples therapy – we go. No excuses, no waiting period, we honour our agreement.”</p>','How to Build a Relationship Based on Trust','','inherit','closed','closed','','4878-revision-v1','','','2022-08-07 10:47:33','2022-08-07 10:47:33','',4878,'https://www.lissyabrahams.com/?p=4891',0,'revision','',0),(4892,1,'2022-08-07 10:47:33','2022-08-07 10:47:33','<p>Trust is essential in couple relationships as much of our lives together rely on trusting our partner emotionally, physically, financially and practically. Broken trust can feel like a betrayal and can take time to heal.</p><p>The difficulty for couples is that there is no universal definition of what constitutes a betrayal or a broken boundary, and we all have our own rules of what is or isn’t acceptable. We may think we are aligned with <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/2021/04/26/what-is-couple-mindedness/\">our partner</a>, however, when we are not it can feel devastating. This can lead to conflict, disappointment, blame, judgment, criticism, feeling alone, ashamed, a lack of sexual or emotional intimacy, anxiety, jealousy, sadness, distress, or rage. Sometimes relationships head toward separation and/or divorce.</p><p>Here are 3 tips to build a relationship based on trust:</p>		\n			<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.8 - 27-07-2022 */\n.elementor-widget-image{text-align:center}.elementor-widget-image a{display:inline-block}.elementor-widget-image a img[src$=\".svg\"]{width:48px}.elementor-widget-image img{vertical-align:middle;display:inline-block}</style>												<img width=\"59\" height=\"59\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/1.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n			<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.8 - 27-07-2022 */\n.elementor-heading-title{padding:0;margin:0;line-height:1}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title[class*=elementor-size-]>a{color:inherit;font-size:inherit;line-height:inherit}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-small{font-size:15px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-medium{font-size:19px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-large{font-size:29px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xl{font-size:39px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xxl{font-size:59px}</style><h3>Conversations to create a framework of trust</h3>		\n		<p>Have a series of conversations about how we will treat each other and important issues that we will need to navigate in life together. It is critical to understand each other\'s viewpoint, as this can guide behaviour, actions and words to be more protective and trustworthy.</p>		\n			<link rel=\"stylesheet\" href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/plugins/elementor/assets/css/widget-icon-list.min.css\">		<ul>\n							<li>\n										Emotional and sexual intimacy – How do we like to be sexually intimate? How often? What will we do if we are worried about the frequency or type of intimacy in our relationship?\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Being with others – flirting, porn, strip clubs, sex. We all have a different line in the sand. Discuss this upfront so there is clarity about your boundary.\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Sharing information with others – What do we tell others about aspects of our relationship? Do we complain or bitch about each other? Do we reveal financial information? Do we talk about details of our sex life? Do we share any intimacy struggles with anyone else?\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Communication – What do we do when our communication is hurting us? Do we say sorry? How do we talk to each other? Are we fighting too much? Do we listen anymore? How do we become more respectful again?\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Children – Do you both want them? If you do and they don’t, do not assume you can change their mind. If yes, how many? When? Views on day-care, nannies, and private or public education. Who takes time off work? For how long? Who is the primary carer for children? Organises babysitters and playdates? Liaises with the school?\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Financial matters – How do you feel about debt? Mortgages? Spending? Savings? Separate or shared bank accounts?\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Drugs and alcohol – How do we use substances in our relationship? Do we expect the other to be more moderate or stop at some point? When is that point?\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Roles – Do we take on particular roles? Who does the cooking? Food shopping? Cleans the home? Earns the money? Has career development?\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Extended family – Expectations around the role and involvement of extended family members.\n									</li>\n						</ul>\n															<img width=\"59\" height=\"59\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/2.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n			<h3>Understand your conscious and unconscious past experiences regarding trust</h3>		\n		<p>We all need to understand aspects of our own past experiences with broken trust and how we carry these into our couple relationship. Some of our trust difficulties are conscious and others are unconscious. As you will see from the examples below, trust issues will impact our relationship whether we are aware of them or not. It is critical to understand them so we keep our relationship as healthy as possible.</p><p><u>Example 1:</u> If an ex-partner cheated on me then I may secretly check my new partner’s phone in an attempt to feel more secure that no one else is on the scene. Can you see that my <strong>conscious</strong> need for security in this area changes my behaviour, and I justify being secretive with my new partner. Will this ever solve my trust issues? What do I do with any “evidence” I find? Will my partner be happy with me checking their phone? Or will they mistrust me now? Will this cause us further relationship issues if I don’t resolve it?</p><p><u>Example 2:</u> If one of my parents had an affair when I was young, I may not be aware this is impacting me in the present. It is <strong>unconscious</strong>. Do I understand why I send my partner frequent text messages when they are out at night or why I question them like a detective on their return? I am filtering my relationship through my historical lens. What impact is my unresolved trust issue from the past having on our relationship?</p>		\n															<img width=\"59\" height=\"59\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/3.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n			<h3>Create an agreement</h3>		\n		<p>If you want to build a relationship based on trust, I believe partners should create an agreement stating that “if we cannot solve a difficulty in our relationship by ourselves, and one of us wants us to go to couples therapy – we go. No excuses, no waiting period, we honour our agreement.”</p>','How to Build a Relationship Based on Trust','','inherit','closed','closed','','4878-revision-v1','','','2022-08-07 10:47:33','2022-08-07 10:47:33','',4878,'https://www.lissyabrahams.com/?p=4892',0,'revision','',0),(4893,1,'2022-08-07 10:47:55','2022-08-07 10:47:55','<p>Trust is essential in couple relationships as much of our lives together rely on trusting our partner emotionally, physically, financially and practically. Broken trust can feel like a betrayal and can take time to heal.</p><p>The difficulty for couples is that there is no universal definition of what constitutes a betrayal or a broken boundary, and we all have our own rules of what is or isn’t acceptable. We may think we are aligned with <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/2021/04/26/what-is-couple-mindedness/\">our partner</a>, however, when we are not it can feel devastating. This can lead to conflict, disappointment, blame, judgment, criticism, feeling alone, ashamed, a lack of sexual or emotional intimacy, anxiety, jealousy, sadness, distress, or rage. Sometimes relationships head toward separation and/or divorce.</p><p>Here are 3 tips to build a relationship based on trust:</p>		\n			<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.8 - 27-07-2022 */\n.elementor-widget-image{text-align:center}.elementor-widget-image a{display:inline-block}.elementor-widget-image a img[src$=\".svg\"]{width:48px}.elementor-widget-image img{vertical-align:middle;display:inline-block}</style>												<img width=\"59\" height=\"59\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/1.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n			<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.8 - 27-07-2022 */\n.elementor-heading-title{padding:0;margin:0;line-height:1}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title[class*=elementor-size-]>a{color:inherit;font-size:inherit;line-height:inherit}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-small{font-size:15px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-medium{font-size:19px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-large{font-size:29px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xl{font-size:39px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xxl{font-size:59px}</style><h3>Conversations to create a framework of trust</h3>		\n		<p>Have a series of conversations about how we will treat each other and important issues that we will need to navigate in life together. It is critical to understand each other\'s viewpoint, as this can guide behaviour, actions and words to be more protective and trustworthy.</p>		\n			<link rel=\"stylesheet\" href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/plugins/elementor/assets/css/widget-icon-list.min.css\">		<ul>\n							<li>\n										Emotional and sexual intimacy – How do we like to be sexually intimate? How often? What will we do if we are worried about the frequency or type of intimacy in our relationship?\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Being with others – flirting, porn, strip clubs, sex. We all have a different line in the sand. Discuss this upfront so there is clarity about your boundary.\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Sharing information with others – What do we tell others about aspects of our relationship? Do we complain or bitch about each other? Do we reveal financial information? Do we talk about details of our sex life? Do we share any intimacy struggles with anyone else?\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Communication – What do we do when our communication is hurting us? Do we say sorry? How do we talk to each other? Are we fighting too much? Do we listen anymore? How do we become more respectful again?\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Children – Do you both want them? If you do and they don’t, do not assume you can change their mind. If yes, how many? When? Views on day-care, nannies, and private or public education. Who takes time off work? For how long? Who is the primary carer for children? Organises babysitters and playdates? Liaises with the school?\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Financial matters – How do you feel about debt? Mortgages? Spending? Savings? Separate or shared bank accounts?\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Drugs and alcohol – How do we use substances in our relationship? Do we expect the other to be more moderate or stop at some point? When is that point?\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Roles – Do we take on particular roles? Who does the cooking? Food shopping? Cleans the home? Earns the money? Has career development?\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Extended family – Expectations around the role and involvement of extended family members.\n									</li>\n						</ul>\n															<img width=\"59\" height=\"59\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/2.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n			<h3>Understand your conscious and unconscious past experiences regarding trust</h3>		\n		<p>We all need to understand aspects of our own past experiences with broken trust and how we carry these into our couple relationship. Some of our trust difficulties are conscious and others are unconscious. As you will see from the examples below, trust issues will impact our relationship whether we are aware of them or not. It is critical to understand them so we keep our relationship as healthy as possible.</p><p><u>Example 1:</u> If an ex-partner cheated on me then I may secretly check my new partner’s phone in an attempt to feel more secure that no one else is on the scene. Can you see that my <strong>conscious</strong> need for security in this area changes my behaviour, and I justify being secretive with my new partner. Will this ever solve my trust issues? What do I do with any “evidence” I find? Will my partner be happy with me checking their phone? Or will they mistrust me now? Will this cause us further relationship issues if I don’t resolve it?</p><p><u>Example 2:</u> If one of my parents had an affair when I was young, I may not be aware this is impacting me in the present. It is <strong>unconscious</strong>. Do I understand why I send my partner frequent text messages when they are out at night or why I question them like a detective on their return? I am filtering my relationship through my historical lens. What impact is my unresolved trust issue from the past having on our relationship?</p>		\n															<img width=\"59\" height=\"59\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/3.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n			<h3>Create an agreement</h3>		\n		<p>If you want to build a relationship based on trust, I believe partners should create an agreement stating that “if we cannot solve a difficulty in our relationship by ourselves, and one of us wants us to go to couples therapy – we go. No excuses, no waiting period, we honour our agreement.”</p>','How to Build a Relationship Based on Trust','','inherit','closed','closed','','4878-revision-v1','','','2022-08-07 10:47:55','2022-08-07 10:47:55','',4878,'https://www.lissyabrahams.com/?p=4893',0,'revision','',0),(4894,1,'2022-08-07 10:47:55','2022-08-07 10:47:55','<p>Trust is essential in couple relationships as much of our lives together rely on trusting our partner emotionally, physically, financially and practically. Broken trust can feel like a betrayal and can take time to heal.</p><p>The difficulty for couples is that there is no universal definition of what constitutes a betrayal or a broken boundary, and we all have our own rules of what is or isn’t acceptable. We may think we are aligned with <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/2021/04/26/what-is-couple-mindedness/\">our partner</a>, however, when we are not it can feel devastating. This can lead to conflict, disappointment, blame, judgment, criticism, feeling alone, ashamed, a lack of sexual or emotional intimacy, anxiety, jealousy, sadness, distress, or rage. Sometimes relationships head toward separation and/or divorce.</p><p>Here are 3 tips to build a relationship based on trust:</p>		\n			<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.8 - 27-07-2022 */\n.elementor-widget-image{text-align:center}.elementor-widget-image a{display:inline-block}.elementor-widget-image a img[src$=\".svg\"]{width:48px}.elementor-widget-image img{vertical-align:middle;display:inline-block}</style>												<img width=\"59\" height=\"59\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/1.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n			<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.8 - 27-07-2022 */\n.elementor-heading-title{padding:0;margin:0;line-height:1}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title[class*=elementor-size-]>a{color:inherit;font-size:inherit;line-height:inherit}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-small{font-size:15px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-medium{font-size:19px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-large{font-size:29px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xl{font-size:39px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xxl{font-size:59px}</style><h3>Conversations to create a framework of trust</h3>		\n		<p>Have a series of conversations about how we will treat each other and important issues that we will need to navigate in life together. It is critical to understand each other\'s viewpoint, as this can guide behaviour, actions and words to be more protective and trustworthy.</p>		\n			<link rel=\"stylesheet\" href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/plugins/elementor/assets/css/widget-icon-list.min.css\">		<ul>\n							<li>\n										Emotional and sexual intimacy – How do we like to be sexually intimate? How often? What will we do if we are worried about the frequency or type of intimacy in our relationship?\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Being with others – flirting, porn, strip clubs, sex. We all have a different line in the sand. Discuss this upfront so there is clarity about your boundary.\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Sharing information with others – What do we tell others about aspects of our relationship? Do we complain or bitch about each other? Do we reveal financial information? Do we talk about details of our sex life? Do we share any intimacy struggles with anyone else?\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Communication – What do we do when our communication is hurting us? Do we say sorry? How do we talk to each other? Are we fighting too much? Do we listen anymore? How do we become more respectful again?\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Children – Do you both want them? If you do and they don’t, do not assume you can change their mind. If yes, how many? When? Views on day-care, nannies, and private or public education. Who takes time off work? For how long? Who is the primary carer for children? Organises babysitters and playdates? Liaises with the school?\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Financial matters – How do you feel about debt? Mortgages? Spending? Savings? Separate or shared bank accounts?\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Drugs and alcohol – How do we use substances in our relationship? Do we expect the other to be more moderate or stop at some point? When is that point?\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Roles – Do we take on particular roles? Who does the cooking? Food shopping? Cleans the home? Earns the money? Has career development?\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Extended family – Expectations around the role and involvement of extended family members.\n									</li>\n						</ul>\n															<img width=\"59\" height=\"59\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/2.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n			<h3>Understand your conscious and unconscious past experiences regarding trust</h3>		\n		<p>We all need to understand aspects of our own past experiences with broken trust and how we carry these into our couple relationship. Some of our trust difficulties are conscious and others are unconscious. As you will see from the examples below, trust issues will impact our relationship whether we are aware of them or not. It is critical to understand them so we keep our relationship as healthy as possible.</p><p><u>Example 1:</u> If an ex-partner cheated on me then I may secretly check my new partner’s phone in an attempt to feel more secure that no one else is on the scene. Can you see that my <strong>conscious</strong> need for security in this area changes my behaviour, and I justify being secretive with my new partner. Will this ever solve my trust issues? What do I do with any “evidence” I find? Will my partner be happy with me checking their phone? Or will they mistrust me now? Will this cause us further relationship issues if I don’t resolve it?</p><p><u>Example 2:</u> If one of my parents had an affair when I was young, I may not be aware this is impacting me in the present. It is <strong>unconscious</strong>. Do I understand why I send my partner frequent text messages when they are out at night or why I question them like a detective on their return? I am filtering my relationship through my historical lens. What impact is my unresolved trust issue from the past having on our relationship?</p>		\n															<img width=\"59\" height=\"59\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/3.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n			<h3>Create an agreement</h3>		\n		<p>If you want to build a relationship based on trust, I believe partners should create an agreement stating that “if we cannot solve a difficulty in our relationship by ourselves, and one of us wants us to go to couples therapy – we go. No excuses, no waiting period, we honour our agreement.”</p>','How to Build a Relationship Based on Trust','','inherit','closed','closed','','4878-revision-v1','','','2022-08-07 10:47:55','2022-08-07 10:47:55','',4878,'https://www.lissyabrahams.com/?p=4894',0,'revision','',0),(4895,1,'2022-08-07 10:47:55','2022-08-07 10:47:55','<p>Trust is essential in couple relationships as much of our lives together rely on trusting our partner emotionally, physically, financially and practically. Broken trust can feel like a betrayal and can take time to heal.</p><p>The difficulty for couples is that there is no universal definition of what constitutes a betrayal or a broken boundary, and we all have our own rules of what is or isn’t acceptable. We may think we are aligned with <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/2021/04/26/what-is-couple-mindedness/\">our partner</a>, however, when we are not it can feel devastating. This can lead to conflict, disappointment, blame, judgment, criticism, feeling alone, ashamed, a lack of sexual or emotional intimacy, anxiety, jealousy, sadness, distress, or rage. Sometimes relationships head toward separation and/or divorce.</p><p>Here are 3 tips to build a relationship based on trust:</p>		\n			<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.8 - 27-07-2022 */\n.elementor-widget-image{text-align:center}.elementor-widget-image a{display:inline-block}.elementor-widget-image a img[src$=\".svg\"]{width:48px}.elementor-widget-image img{vertical-align:middle;display:inline-block}</style>												<img width=\"59\" height=\"59\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/1.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n			<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.8 - 27-07-2022 */\n.elementor-heading-title{padding:0;margin:0;line-height:1}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title[class*=elementor-size-]>a{color:inherit;font-size:inherit;line-height:inherit}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-small{font-size:15px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-medium{font-size:19px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-large{font-size:29px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xl{font-size:39px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xxl{font-size:59px}</style><h3>Conversations to create a framework of trust</h3>		\n		<p>Have a series of conversations about how we will treat each other and important issues that we will need to navigate in life together. It is critical to understand each other\'s viewpoint, as this can guide behaviour, actions and words to be more protective and trustworthy.</p><p>These issues include -</p>		\n			<link rel=\"stylesheet\" href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/plugins/elementor/assets/css/widget-icon-list.min.css\">		<ul>\n							<li>\n										Emotional and sexual intimacy – How do we like to be sexually intimate? How often? What will we do if we are worried about the frequency or type of intimacy in our relationship?\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Being with others – flirting, porn, strip clubs, sex. We all have a different line in the sand. Discuss this upfront so there is clarity about your boundary.\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Sharing information with others – What do we tell others about aspects of our relationship? Do we complain or bitch about each other? Do we reveal financial information? Do we talk about details of our sex life? Do we share any intimacy struggles with anyone else?\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Communication – What do we do when our communication is hurting us? Do we say sorry? How do we talk to each other? Are we fighting too much? Do we listen anymore? How do we become more respectful again?\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Children – Do you both want them? If you do and they don’t, do not assume you can change their mind. If yes, how many? When? Views on day-care, nannies, and private or public education. Who takes time off work? For how long? Who is the primary carer for children? Organises babysitters and playdates? Liaises with the school?\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Financial matters – How do you feel about debt? Mortgages? Spending? Savings? Separate or shared bank accounts?\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Drugs and alcohol – How do we use substances in our relationship? Do we expect the other to be more moderate or stop at some point? When is that point?\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Roles – Do we take on particular roles? Who does the cooking? Food shopping? Cleans the home? Earns the money? Has career development?\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Extended family – Expectations around the role and involvement of extended family members.\n									</li>\n						</ul>\n															<img width=\"59\" height=\"59\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/2.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n			<h3>Understand your conscious and unconscious past experiences regarding trust</h3>		\n		<p>We all need to understand aspects of our own past experiences with broken trust and how we carry these into our couple relationship. Some of our trust difficulties are conscious and others are unconscious. As you will see from the examples below, trust issues will impact our relationship whether we are aware of them or not. It is critical to understand them so we keep our relationship as healthy as possible.</p><p><u>Example 1:</u> If an ex-partner cheated on me then I may secretly check my new partner’s phone in an attempt to feel more secure that no one else is on the scene. Can you see that my <strong>conscious</strong> need for security in this area changes my behaviour, and I justify being secretive with my new partner. Will this ever solve my trust issues? What do I do with any “evidence” I find? Will my partner be happy with me checking their phone? Or will they mistrust me now? Will this cause us further relationship issues if I don’t resolve it?</p><p><u>Example 2:</u> If one of my parents had an affair when I was young, I may not be aware this is impacting me in the present. It is <strong>unconscious</strong>. Do I understand why I send my partner frequent text messages when they are out at night or why I question them like a detective on their return? I am filtering my relationship through my historical lens. What impact is my unresolved trust issue from the past having on our relationship?</p>		\n															<img width=\"59\" height=\"59\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/3.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n			<h3>Create an agreement</h3>		\n		<p>If you want to build a relationship based on trust, I believe partners should create an agreement stating that “if we cannot solve a difficulty in our relationship by ourselves, and one of us wants us to go to couples therapy – we go. No excuses, no waiting period, we honour our agreement.”</p>','How to Build a Relationship Based on Trust','','inherit','closed','closed','','4878-revision-v1','','','2022-08-07 10:47:55','2022-08-07 10:47:55','',4878,'https://www.lissyabrahams.com/?p=4895',0,'revision','',0),(4896,1,'2022-08-07 10:48:05','2022-08-07 10:48:05','<p>Trust is essential in couple relationships as much of our lives together rely on trusting our partner emotionally, physically, financially and practically. Broken trust can feel like a betrayal and can take time to heal.</p><p>The difficulty for couples is that there is no universal definition of what constitutes a betrayal or a broken boundary, and we all have our own rules of what is or isn’t acceptable. We may think we are aligned with <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/2021/04/26/what-is-couple-mindedness/\">our partner</a>, however, when we are not it can feel devastating. This can lead to conflict, disappointment, blame, judgment, criticism, feeling alone, ashamed, a lack of sexual or emotional intimacy, anxiety, jealousy, sadness, distress, or rage. Sometimes relationships head toward separation and/or divorce.</p><p>Here are 3 tips to build a relationship based on trust:</p>		\n			<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.8 - 27-07-2022 */\n.elementor-widget-image{text-align:center}.elementor-widget-image a{display:inline-block}.elementor-widget-image a img[src$=\".svg\"]{width:48px}.elementor-widget-image img{vertical-align:middle;display:inline-block}</style>												<img width=\"59\" height=\"59\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/1.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n			<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.8 - 27-07-2022 */\n.elementor-heading-title{padding:0;margin:0;line-height:1}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title[class*=elementor-size-]>a{color:inherit;font-size:inherit;line-height:inherit}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-small{font-size:15px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-medium{font-size:19px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-large{font-size:29px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xl{font-size:39px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xxl{font-size:59px}</style><h3>Conversations to create a framework of trust</h3>		\n		<p>Have a series of conversations about how we will treat each other and important issues that we will need to navigate in life together. It is critical to understand each other\'s viewpoint, as this can guide behaviour, actions and words to be more protective and trustworthy.</p><p>These issues include -</p>		\n			<link rel=\"stylesheet\" href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/plugins/elementor/assets/css/widget-icon-list.min.css\">		<ul>\n							<li>\n										Emotional and sexual intimacy – How do we like to be sexually intimate? How often? What will we do if we are worried about the frequency or type of intimacy in our relationship?\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Being with others – flirting, porn, strip clubs, sex. We all have a different line in the sand. Discuss this upfront so there is clarity about your boundary.\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Sharing information with others – What do we tell others about aspects of our relationship? Do we complain or bitch about each other? Do we reveal financial information? Do we talk about details of our sex life? Do we share any intimacy struggles with anyone else?\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Communication – What do we do when our communication is hurting us? Do we say sorry? How do we talk to each other? Are we fighting too much? Do we listen anymore? How do we become more respectful again?\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Children – Do you both want them? If you do and they don’t, do not assume you can change their mind. If yes, how many? When? Views on day-care, nannies, and private or public education. Who takes time off work? For how long? Who is the primary carer for children? Organises babysitters and playdates? Liaises with the school?\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Financial matters – How do you feel about debt? Mortgages? Spending? Savings? Separate or shared bank accounts?\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Drugs and alcohol – How do we use substances in our relationship? Do we expect the other to be more moderate or stop at some point? When is that point?\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Roles – Do we take on particular roles? Who does the cooking? Food shopping? Cleans the home? Earns the money? Has career development?\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Extended family – Expectations around the role and involvement of extended family members.\n									</li>\n						</ul>\n															<img width=\"59\" height=\"59\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/2.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n			<h3>Understand your conscious and unconscious past experiences regarding trust</h3>		\n		<p>We all need to understand aspects of our own past experiences with broken trust and how we carry these into our couple relationship. Some of our trust difficulties are conscious and others are unconscious. As you will see from the examples below, trust issues will impact our relationship whether we are aware of them or not. It is critical to understand them so we keep our relationship as healthy as possible.</p><p><u>Example 1:</u> If an ex-partner cheated on me then I may secretly check my new partner’s phone in an attempt to feel more secure that no one else is on the scene. Can you see that my <strong>conscious</strong> need for security in this area changes my behaviour, and I justify being secretive with my new partner. Will this ever solve my trust issues? What do I do with any “evidence” I find? Will my partner be happy with me checking their phone? Or will they mistrust me now? Will this cause us further relationship issues if I don’t resolve it?</p><p><u>Example 2:</u> If one of my parents had an affair when I was young, I may not be aware this is impacting me in the present. It is <strong>unconscious</strong>. Do I understand why I send my partner frequent text messages when they are out at night or why I question them like a detective on their return? I am filtering my relationship through my historical lens. What impact is my unresolved trust issue from the past having on our relationship?</p>		\n															<img width=\"59\" height=\"59\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/3.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n			<h3>Create an agreement</h3>		\n		<p>If you want to build a relationship based on trust, I believe partners should create an agreement stating that “if we cannot solve a difficulty in our relationship by ourselves, and one of us wants us to go to couples therapy – we go. No excuses, no waiting period, we honour our agreement.”</p>','How to Build a Relationship Based on Trust','','inherit','closed','closed','','4878-revision-v1','','','2022-08-07 10:48:05','2022-08-07 10:48:05','',4878,'https://www.lissyabrahams.com/?p=4896',0,'revision','',0),(4897,1,'2022-08-07 10:48:05','2022-08-07 10:48:05','<p>Trust is essential in couple relationships as much of our lives together rely on trusting our partner emotionally, physically, financially and practically. Broken trust can feel like a betrayal and can take time to heal.</p><p>The difficulty for couples is that there is no universal definition of what constitutes a betrayal or a broken boundary, and we all have our own rules of what is or isn’t acceptable. We may think we are aligned with <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/2021/04/26/what-is-couple-mindedness/\">our partner</a>, however, when we are not it can feel devastating. This can lead to conflict, disappointment, blame, judgment, criticism, feeling alone, ashamed, a lack of sexual or emotional intimacy, anxiety, jealousy, sadness, distress, or rage. Sometimes relationships head toward separation and/or divorce.</p><p>Here are 3 tips to build a relationship based on trust:</p>		\n			<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.8 - 27-07-2022 */\n.elementor-widget-image{text-align:center}.elementor-widget-image a{display:inline-block}.elementor-widget-image a img[src$=\".svg\"]{width:48px}.elementor-widget-image img{vertical-align:middle;display:inline-block}</style>												<img width=\"59\" height=\"59\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/1.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n			<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.8 - 27-07-2022 */\n.elementor-heading-title{padding:0;margin:0;line-height:1}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title[class*=elementor-size-]>a{color:inherit;font-size:inherit;line-height:inherit}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-small{font-size:15px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-medium{font-size:19px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-large{font-size:29px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xl{font-size:39px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xxl{font-size:59px}</style><h3>Conversations to create a framework of trust</h3>		\n		<p>Have a series of conversations about how we will treat each other and important issues that we will need to navigate in life together. It is critical to understand each other\'s viewpoint, as this can guide behaviour, actions and words to be more protective and trustworthy.</p><p>These issues include -</p>		\n			<link rel=\"stylesheet\" href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/plugins/elementor/assets/css/widget-icon-list.min.css\">		<ul>\n							<li>\n										Emotional and sexual intimacy – How do we like to be sexually intimate? How often? What will we do if we are worried about the frequency or type of intimacy in our relationship?\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Being with others – flirting, porn, strip clubs, sex. We all have a different line in the sand. Discuss this upfront so there is clarity about your boundary.\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Sharing information with others – What do we tell others about aspects of our relationship? Do we complain or bitch about each other? Do we reveal financial information? Do we talk about details of our sex life? Do we share any intimacy struggles with anyone else?\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Communication – What do we do when our communication is hurting us? Do we say sorry? How do we talk to each other? Are we fighting too much? Do we listen anymore? How do we become more respectful again?\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Children – Do you both want them? If you do and they don’t, do not assume you can change their mind. If yes, how many? When? Views on day-care, nannies, and private or public education. Who takes time off work? For how long? Who is the primary carer for children? Organises babysitters and playdates? Liaises with the school?\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Financial matters – How do you feel about debt? Mortgages? Spending? Savings? Separate or shared bank accounts?\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Drugs and alcohol – How do we use substances in our relationship? Do we expect the other to be more moderate or stop at some point? When is that point?\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Roles – Do we take on particular roles? Who does the cooking? Food shopping? Cleans the home? Earns the money? Has career development?\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Extended family – Expectations around the role and involvement of extended family members.\n									</li>\n						</ul>\n															<img width=\"59\" height=\"59\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/2.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n			<h3>Understand your conscious and unconscious past experiences regarding trust</h3>		\n		<p>We all need to understand aspects of our own past experiences with broken trust and how we carry these into our couple relationship. Some of our trust difficulties are conscious and others are unconscious. As you will see from the examples below, trust issues will impact our relationship whether we are aware of them or not. It is critical to understand them so we keep our relationship as healthy as possible.</p><p><u>Example 1:</u> If an ex-partner cheated on me then I may secretly check my new partner’s phone in an attempt to feel more secure that no one else is on the scene. Can you see that my <strong>conscious</strong> need for security in this area changes my behaviour, and I justify being secretive with my new partner. Will this ever solve my trust issues? What do I do with any “evidence” I find? Will my partner be happy with me checking their phone? Or will they mistrust me now? Will this cause us further relationship issues if I don’t resolve it?</p><p><u>Example 2:</u> If one of my parents had an affair when I was young, I may not be aware this is impacting me in the present. It is <strong>unconscious</strong>. Do I understand why I send my partner frequent text messages when they are out at night or why I question them like a detective on their return? I am filtering my relationship through my historical lens. What impact is my unresolved trust issue from the past having on our relationship?</p>		\n															<img width=\"59\" height=\"59\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/3.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n			<h3>Create an agreement</h3>		\n		<p>If you want to build a relationship based on trust, I believe partners should create an agreement stating that “if we cannot solve a difficulty in our relationship by ourselves, and one of us wants us to go to couples therapy – we go. No excuses, no waiting period, we honour our agreement.”</p>','How to Build a Relationship Based on Trust','','inherit','closed','closed','','4878-revision-v1','','','2022-08-07 10:48:05','2022-08-07 10:48:05','',4878,'https://www.lissyabrahams.com/?p=4897',0,'revision','',0),(4898,1,'2022-08-07 10:48:05','2022-08-07 10:48:05','<p>Trust is essential in couple relationships as much of our lives together rely on trusting our partner emotionally, physically, financially and practically. Broken trust can feel like a betrayal and can take time to heal.</p><p>The difficulty for couples is that there is no universal definition of what constitutes a betrayal or a broken boundary, and we all have our own rules of what is or isn’t acceptable. We may think we are aligned with <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/2021/04/26/what-is-couple-mindedness/\">our partner</a>, however, when we are not it can feel devastating. This can lead to conflict, disappointment, blame, judgment, criticism, feeling alone, ashamed, a lack of sexual or emotional intimacy, anxiety, jealousy, sadness, distress, or rage. Sometimes relationships head toward separation and/or divorce.</p><p>Here are 3 tips to build a relationship based on trust:</p>		\n			<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.8 - 27-07-2022 */\n.elementor-widget-image{text-align:center}.elementor-widget-image a{display:inline-block}.elementor-widget-image a img[src$=\".svg\"]{width:48px}.elementor-widget-image img{vertical-align:middle;display:inline-block}</style>												<img width=\"59\" height=\"59\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/1.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n			<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.8 - 27-07-2022 */\n.elementor-heading-title{padding:0;margin:0;line-height:1}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title[class*=elementor-size-]>a{color:inherit;font-size:inherit;line-height:inherit}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-small{font-size:15px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-medium{font-size:19px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-large{font-size:29px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xl{font-size:39px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xxl{font-size:59px}</style><h3>Conversations to create a framework of trust</h3>		\n		<p>Have a series of conversations about how we will treat each other and important issues that we will need to navigate in life together. It is critical to understand each other\'s viewpoint, as this can guide behaviour, actions and words to be more protective and trustworthy.</p><p>These issues include -</p>		\n			<link rel=\"stylesheet\" href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/plugins/elementor/assets/css/widget-icon-list.min.css\">		<ul>\n							<li>\n										Emotional and sexual intimacy – How do we like to be sexually intimate? How often? What will we do if we are worried about the frequency or type of intimacy in our relationship?\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Being with others – flirting, porn, strip clubs, sex. We all have a different line in the sand. Discuss this upfront so there is clarity about your boundary.\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Sharing information with others – What do we tell others about aspects of our relationship? Do we complain or bitch about each other? Do we reveal financial information? Do we talk about details of our sex life? Do we share any intimacy struggles with anyone else?\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Communication – What do we do when our communication is hurting us? Do we say sorry? How do we talk to each other? Are we fighting too much? Do we listen anymore? How do we become more respectful again?\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Children – Do you both want them? If you do and they don’t, do not assume you can change their mind. If yes, how many? When? Views on day-care, nannies, and private or public education. Who takes time off work? For how long? Who is the primary carer for children? Organises babysitters and playdates? Liaises with the school?\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Financial matters – How do you feel about debt? Mortgages? Spending? Savings? Separate or shared bank accounts?\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Drugs and alcohol – How do we use substances in our relationship? Do we expect the other to be more moderate or stop at some point? When is that point?\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Roles – Do we take on particular roles? Who does the cooking? Food shopping? Cleans the home? Earns the money? Has career development?\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Extended family – Expectations around the role and involvement of extended family members.\n									</li>\n						</ul>\n															<img width=\"59\" height=\"59\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/2.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n			<h3>Understand your conscious and unconscious past experiences regarding trust</h3>		\n		<p>We all need to understand aspects of our own past experiences with broken trust and how we carry these into our couple relationship. Some of our trust difficulties are conscious and others are unconscious. As you will see from the examples below, trust issues will impact our relationship whether we are aware of them or not. It is critical to understand them so we keep our relationship as healthy as possible.</p><p><u>Example 1:</u> If an ex-partner cheated on me then I may secretly check my new partner’s phone in an attempt to feel more secure that no one else is on the scene. Can you see that my <strong>conscious</strong> need for security in this area changes my behaviour, and I justify being secretive with my new partner. Will this ever solve my trust issues? What do I do with any “evidence” I find? Will my partner be happy with me checking their phone? Or will they mistrust me now? Will this cause us further relationship issues if I don’t resolve it?</p><p><u>Example 2:</u> If one of my parents had an affair when I was young, I may not be aware this is impacting me in the present. It is <strong>unconscious</strong>. Do I understand why I send my partner frequent text messages when they are out at night or why I question them like a detective on their return? I am filtering my relationship through my historical lens. What impact is my unresolved trust issue from the past having on our relationship?</p>		\n															<img width=\"59\" height=\"59\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/3.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n			<h3>Create an agreement</h3>		\n		<p>If you want to build a relationship based on trust, I believe partners should create an agreement stating that “if we cannot solve a difficulty in our relationship by ourselves, and one of us wants us to go to couples therapy – we go. No excuses, no waiting period, we honour our agreement.”</p>','How to Build a Relationship Based on Trust','','inherit','closed','closed','','4878-revision-v1','','','2022-08-07 10:48:05','2022-08-07 10:48:05','',4878,'https://www.lissyabrahams.com/?p=4898',0,'revision','',0),(4899,1,'2022-08-07 10:48:31','2022-08-07 10:48:31','Trust is essential in couple relationships as much of our lives together rely on trusting our partner emotionally, physically, financially and practically. Broken trust can feel like a betrayal and can take time to heal.\r\n\r\nThe difficulty for couples is that there is no universal definition of what constitutes a betrayal or a broken boundary, and we all have our own rules of what is or isn’t acceptable. We may think we are aligned with <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/2021/04/26/what-is-couple-mindedness/\">our partner</a>, however, when we are not it can feel devastating. This can lead to conflict, disappointment, blame, judgment, criticism, feeling alone, ashamed, a lack of sexual or emotional intimacy, anxiety, jealousy, sadness, distress, or rage. Sometimes relationships head toward separation and/or divorce.\r\n\r\nHere are 3 tips to build a relationship based on trust:\r\n\r\n<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.8 - 27-07-2022 */<br />\r\n.elementor-widget-image{text-align:center}.elementor-widget-image a{display:inline-block}.elementor-widget-image a img[src$=\".svg\"]{width:48px}.elementor-widget-image img{vertical-align:middle;display:inline-block}</style>\r\n\r\n<img src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/1.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"59\" height=\"59\" />\r\n\r\n<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.8 - 27-07-2022 */<br />\r\n.elementor-heading-title{padding:0;margin:0;line-height:1}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title[class*=elementor-size-]>a{color:inherit;font-size:inherit;line-height:inherit}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-small{font-size:15px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-medium{font-size:19px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-large{font-size:29px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xl{font-size:39px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xxl{font-size:59px}</style>\r\n<h3>Conversations to create a framework of trust</h3>\r\nHave a series of conversations about how we will treat each other and important issues that we will need to navigate in life together. It is critical to understand each other\'s viewpoint, as this can guide behaviour, actions and words to be more protective and trustworthy.\r\n\r\nThese issues include -\r\n\r\n&nbsp;\r\n<ul>\r\n 	<li>Emotional and sexual intimacy – How do we like to be sexually intimate? How often? What will we do if we are worried about the frequency or type of intimacy in our relationship?</li>\r\n 	<li>Being with others – flirting, porn, strip clubs, sex. We all have a different line in the sand. Discuss this upfront so there is clarity about your boundary.</li>\r\n 	<li>Sharing information with others – What do we tell others about aspects of our relationship? Do we complain or bitch about each other? Do we reveal financial information? Do we talk about details of our sex life? Do we share any intimacy struggles with anyone else?</li>\r\n 	<li>Communication – What do we do when our communication is hurting us? Do we say sorry? How do we talk to each other? Are we fighting too much? Do we listen anymore? How do we become more respectful again?</li>\r\n 	<li>Children – Do you both want them? If you do and they don’t, do not assume you can change their mind. If yes, how many? When? Views on day-care, nannies, and private or public education. Who takes time off work? For how long? Who is the primary carer for children? Organises babysitters and playdates? Liaises with the school?</li>\r\n 	<li>Financial matters – How do you feel about debt? Mortgages? Spending? Savings? Separate or shared bank accounts?</li>\r\n 	<li>Drugs and alcohol – How do we use substances in our relationship? Do we expect the other to be more moderate or stop at some point? When is that point?</li>\r\n 	<li>Roles – Do we take on particular roles? Who does the cooking? Food shopping? Cleans the home? Earns the money? Has career development?</li>\r\n 	<li>Extended family – Expectations around the role and involvement of extended family members.</li>\r\n</ul>\r\n<img src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/2.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"59\" height=\"59\" />\r\n<h3>Understand your conscious and unconscious past experiences regarding trust</h3>\r\nWe all need to understand aspects of our own past experiences with broken trust and how we carry these into our couple relationship. Some of our trust difficulties are conscious and others are unconscious. As you will see from the examples below, trust issues will impact our relationship whether we are aware of them or not. It is critical to understand them so we keep our relationship as healthy as possible.\r\n\r\n<u>Example 1:</u> If an ex-partner cheated on me then I may secretly check my new partner’s phone in an attempt to feel more secure that no one else is on the scene. Can you see that my <strong>conscious</strong> need for security in this area changes my behaviour, and I justify being secretive with my new partner. Will this ever solve my trust issues? What do I do with any “evidence” I find? Will my partner be happy with me checking their phone? Or will they mistrust me now? Will this cause us further relationship issues if I don’t resolve it?\r\n\r\n<u>Example 2:</u> If one of my parents had an affair when I was young, I may not be aware this is impacting me in the present. It is <strong>unconscious</strong>. Do I understand why I send my partner frequent text messages when they are out at night or why I question them like a detective on their return? I am filtering my relationship through my historical lens. What impact is my unresolved trust issue from the past having on our relationship?\r\n\r\n<img src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/3.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"59\" height=\"59\" />\r\n<h3>Create an agreement</h3>\r\nIf you want to build a relationship based on trust, I believe partners should create an agreement stating that “if we cannot solve a difficulty in our relationship by ourselves, and one of us wants us to go to couples therapy – we go. No excuses, no waiting period, we honour our agreement.”','How to Build a Relationship Based on Trust','','inherit','closed','closed','','4878-revision-v1','','','2022-08-07 10:48:31','2022-08-07 10:48:31','',4878,'https://www.lissyabrahams.com/?p=4899',0,'revision','',0),(4900,1,'2021-06-28 10:50:31','2021-06-28 10:50:31','For many decades people have been looking for the perfect book to help solve their couple conflict or they seek regular help from a couple’s therapist in a consulting room, to stop their fights and to improve their ability to communicate as a couple.\r\n\r\nThe problem here is that books can be too general to apply to our own situation, and many people won’t attend couples therapy, even if their relationship can feel rocky and even at times, distressing. Often one partner refuses to go as they believe therapy will be too exposing or it may be financially difficult to afford regular sessions.\r\n\r\nWhat I do know is that, when couples fight regularly, or have what are called ‘cycles of conflict’, it is rare for the problems to go away without working through them. The couple communication can feel destructive at times. When this is occurring, we cannot permanently solve our struggles as we simply do not know how to, in turn resulting in it worsening over time. The reason being that we are missing the vital information, techniques, skills to process information, as well as the capacity to reflect on our own life and relationship. To help solve this, I have crafted and designed a course to provide you with all of this, and you can do it all online at your convenience.\r\n\r\n<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.8 - 27-07-2022 */<br />\r\n.elementor-heading-title{padding:0;margin:0;line-height:1}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title[class*=elementor-size-]>a{color:inherit;font-size:inherit;line-height:inherit}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-small{font-size:15px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-medium{font-size:19px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-large{font-size:29px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xl{font-size:39px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xxl{font-size:59px}</style>\r\n<h3>The top 10 benefits of doing this course:</h3>\r\n<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.8 - 27-07-2022 */<br />\r\n.elementor-widget-image{text-align:center}.elementor-widget-image a{display:inline-block}.elementor-widget-image a img[src$=\".svg\"]{width:48px}.elementor-widget-image img{vertical-align:middle;display:inline-block}</style>\r\n\r\n<img src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/1.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"59\" height=\"59\" />\r\n\r\nYou develop a greater understanding of why creating a ‘special’ relationship together was important and how this was linked to creating safety.\r\n\r\n<img src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/2.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"59\" height=\"59\" />\r\n\r\nYou develop a greater understanding of why you originally chose your partner and how this was linked to creating safety in the future for yourself, and any children you may have wanted at that time.\r\n\r\n<img src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/3.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"59\" height=\"59\" />\r\n\r\nYou develop a deeper understanding of how your past and present are affected by childhood experiences.\r\n\r\n<img src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/4.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"59\" height=\"59\" />\r\n\r\nYou develop a deeper understanding of why you respond or react to life, and especially your partner the way you do.\r\n\r\n<img src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/5.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"59\" height=\"59\" />\r\n\r\nYou learn about the ego, how it is developed and how it plays out in your own life.\r\n\r\n<img src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/6.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"59\" height=\"59\" />\r\n\r\nYou identify the role of both your ego and your partner’s ego is causing distressing and overwhelming conflict in your relationship.\r\n\r\n<img src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/7.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"59\" height=\"59\" />\r\n\r\nYou learn strategies for how to calm down once your nervous system has been triggered.\r\n\r\n<img src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/8.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"59\" height=\"59\" />\r\n\r\nYou develop essential skills for respectfully communicating with your partner, as these decrease conflict and promote understanding and intimacy.\r\n\r\n<img src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/9.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"59\" height=\"59\" />\r\n\r\nYou create sufficient space and safety for the two of you to bring your differences into the relationship and navigate these skilfully.\r\n\r\n<img src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/10.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"59\" height=\"59\" />\r\n\r\nYou understand why listening, being curious and learning to apologise is critical to the wellbeing of your relationship, and how these re-build trust.\r\n\r\nOnline courses are an increasingly popular and convenient way to learn. They allow you to learn on your terms when it suits you. They are portable. This means you can easily take it with you if you have a break from work, the children, or are on a holiday. Online courses have been designed to work for you.\r\n<h3>So how do you get the most out of your course? Top tips include;</h3>\r\n&nbsp;\r\n<ul>\r\n 	<li>Treat this online course seriously. This online course is life-transforming. To achieve this, you need to take in the content and reflect on how this applies to your own life situation.</li>\r\n 	<li>You need to set up your environment for learning and focused attention. Remove any distractions to allow yourself to have the benefits of greater knowledge and understanding so your relationship can improve. Turn off notifications, put your phone on airplane mode, grab some water and settle in to allow your learning and reflection to occur.</li>\r\n 	<li>Unlike a live event, you can re-watch any section of the course at any time you wish.</li>\r\n 	<li>This course has a detailed downloadable workbook with all the information from the course included. The workbook includes all of the activities to guide you through your own reflection and developmental process. The videos and the workbook have been designed together to optimise your online learning experience.</li>\r\n 	<li>Be accountable to yourself and commit to the course. You have purchased the course as you want help to improve your couple relationship. This is an amazing first step you have made. Make sure you honour your commitment to yourself by complete the course.</li>\r\n 	<li>Enjoy this process. Learning about yourself is rewarding and can be fascinating. Let yourself be curious and intrigued by how you operate in a relationship. The rewards will show themselves in all aspects of your life, not only in your relationship!</li>\r\n</ul>\r\n<a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/product/fight-less-love-more/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">This course</a> reflects many years of specialist therapy training, skills development, clinical work, supervising, tutoring, and lecturing. I have helped so many people reduce conflict and create healthier and happier relationships. If you want to this too, then join me, like all the others have, in creating the life and relationship you really want.','How To Get The Most Out Of Your Online Course for Decreasing Conflict and Improving Communication','','publish','open','open','','how-to-get-the-most-out-of-your-online-course','','','2022-08-07 11:15:00','2022-08-07 11:15:00','',0,'https://www.lissyabrahams.com/?p=4900',0,'post','',0),(4901,1,'2022-08-07 10:53:07','2022-08-07 10:53:07','','20210628','','inherit','open','closed','','20210628','','','2022-08-07 10:53:07','2022-08-07 10:53:07','',4900,'http://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/08/20210628.jpeg',0,'attachment','image/jpeg',0),(4902,1,'2022-08-07 10:53:51','2022-08-07 10:53:51','Trust is essential in couple relationships as much of our lives together rely on trusting our partner emotionally, physically, financially and practically. Broken trust can feel like a betrayal and can take time to heal.\r\n\r\nThe difficulty for couples is that there is no universal definition of what constitutes a betrayal or a broken boundary, and we all have our own rules of what is or isn’t acceptable. We may think we are aligned with <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/2021/04/26/what-is-couple-mindedness/\">our partner</a>, however, when we are not it can feel devastating. This can lead to conflict, disappointment, blame, judgment, criticism, feeling alone, ashamed, a lack of sexual or emotional intimacy, anxiety, jealousy, sadness, distress, or rage. Sometimes relationships head toward separation and/or divorce.\r\n\r\nHere are 3 tips to build a relationship based on trust:\r\n\r\n<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.8 - 27-07-2022 */<br />.elementor-widget-image{text-align:center}.elementor-widget-image a{display:inline-block}.elementor-widget-image a img[src$=\".svg\"]{width:48px}.elementor-widget-image img{vertical-align:middle;display:inline-block}</style>\r\n\r\n<img src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/1.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"59\" height=\"59\" />\r\n\r\n<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.8 - 27-07-2022 */<br />.elementor-heading-title{padding:0;margin:0;line-height:1}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title[class*=elementor-size-]>a{color:inherit;font-size:inherit;line-height:inherit}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-small{font-size:15px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-medium{font-size:19px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-large{font-size:29px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xl{font-size:39px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xxl{font-size:59px}</style>\r\n<h3>Conversations to create a framework of trust</h3>\r\nHave a series of conversations about how we will treat each other and important issues that we will need to navigate in life together. It is critical to understand each other\'s viewpoint, as this can guide behaviour, actions and words to be more protective and trustworthy.\r\n\r\nThese issues include -\r\n\r\n&nbsp;\r\n<ul>\r\n 	<li>Emotional and sexual intimacy – How do we like to be sexually intimate? How often? What will we do if we are worried about the frequency or type of intimacy in our relationship?</li>\r\n 	<li>Being with others – flirting, porn, strip clubs, sex. We all have a different line in the sand. Discuss this upfront so there is clarity about your boundary.</li>\r\n 	<li>Sharing information with others – What do we tell others about aspects of our relationship? Do we complain or bitch about each other? Do we reveal financial information? Do we talk about details of our sex life? Do we share any intimacy struggles with anyone else?</li>\r\n 	<li>Communication – What do we do when our communication is hurting us? Do we say sorry? How do we talk to each other? Are we fighting too much? Do we listen anymore? How do we become more respectful again?</li>\r\n 	<li>Children – Do you both want them? If you do and they don’t, do not assume you can change their mind. If yes, how many? When? Views on day-care, nannies, and private or public education. Who takes time off work? For how long? Who is the primary carer for children? Organises babysitters and playdates? Liaises with the school?</li>\r\n 	<li>Financial matters – How do you feel about debt? Mortgages? Spending? Savings? Separate or shared bank accounts?</li>\r\n 	<li>Drugs and alcohol – How do we use substances in our relationship? Do we expect the other to be more moderate or stop at some point? When is that point?</li>\r\n 	<li>Roles – Do we take on particular roles? Who does the cooking? Food shopping? Cleans the home? Earns the money? Has career development?</li>\r\n 	<li>Extended family – Expectations around the role and involvement of extended family members.</li>\r\n</ul>\r\n<img src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/2.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"59\" height=\"59\" />\r\n<h3>Understand your conscious and unconscious past experiences regarding trust</h3>\r\nWe all need to understand aspects of our own past experiences with broken trust and how we carry these into our couple relationship. Some of our trust difficulties are conscious and others are unconscious. As you will see from the examples below, trust issues will impact our relationship whether we are aware of them or not. It is critical to understand them so we keep our relationship as healthy as possible.\r\n\r\n<u>Example 1:</u> If an ex-partner cheated on me then I may secretly check my new partner’s phone in an attempt to feel more secure that no one else is on the scene. Can you see that my <strong>conscious</strong> need for security in this area changes my behaviour, and I justify being secretive with my new partner. Will this ever solve my trust issues? What do I do with any “evidence” I find? Will my partner be happy with me checking their phone? Or will they mistrust me now? Will this cause us further relationship issues if I don’t resolve it?\r\n\r\n<u>Example 2:</u> If one of my parents had an affair when I was young, I may not be aware this is impacting me in the present. It is <strong>unconscious</strong>. Do I understand why I send my partner frequent text messages when they are out at night or why I question them like a detective on their return? I am filtering my relationship through my historical lens. What impact is my unresolved trust issue from the past having on our relationship?\r\n\r\n<img src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/3.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"59\" height=\"59\" />\r\n<h3>Create an agreement</h3>\r\nIf you want to build a relationship based on trust, I believe partners should create an agreement stating that “if we cannot solve a difficulty in our relationship by ourselves, and one of us wants us to go to couples therapy – we go. No excuses, no waiting period, we honour our agreement.”','How To Get The Most Out Of Your Online Course for Decreasing Conflict and Improving Communication','','inherit','closed','closed','','4900-revision-v1','','','2022-08-07 10:53:51','2022-08-07 10:53:51','',4900,'https://www.lissyabrahams.com/?p=4902',0,'revision','',0),(4903,1,'2022-08-07 11:14:38','2022-08-07 11:14:38','<p>For many decades people have been looking for the perfect book to help solve their couple conflict or they seek regular help from a couple’s therapist in a consulting room, to stop their fights and to improve their ability to communicate as a couple.</p><p>The problem here is that books can be too general to apply to our own situation, and many people won’t attend couples therapy, even if their relationship can feel rocky and even at times, distressing. Often one partner refuses to go as they believe therapy will be too exposing or it may be financially difficult to afford regular sessions.</p><p>What I do know is that, when couples fight regularly, or have what are called ‘cycles of conflict’, it is rare for the problems to go away without working through them. The couple communication can feel destructive at times. When this is occurring, we cannot permanently solve our struggles as we simply do not know how to, in turn resulting in it worsening over time. The reason being that we are missing the vital information, techniques, skills to process information, as well as the capacity to reflect on our own life and relationship. To help solve this, I have crafted and designed a course to provide you with all of this, and you can do it all online at your convenience.</p>		\n			<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.8 - 27-07-2022 */\n.elementor-heading-title{padding:0;margin:0;line-height:1}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title[class*=elementor-size-]>a{color:inherit;font-size:inherit;line-height:inherit}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-small{font-size:15px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-medium{font-size:19px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-large{font-size:29px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xl{font-size:39px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xxl{font-size:59px}</style><h3>The top 10 benefits of doing this course:\n</h3>		\n			<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.8 - 27-07-2022 */\n.elementor-widget-image{text-align:center}.elementor-widget-image a{display:inline-block}.elementor-widget-image a img[src$=\".svg\"]{width:48px}.elementor-widget-image img{vertical-align:middle;display:inline-block}</style>												<img width=\"59\" height=\"59\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/1.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n		<p>You develop a greater understanding of why creating a ‘special’ relationship together was important and how this was linked to creating safety.</p>		\n															<img width=\"59\" height=\"59\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/2.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n		<p>You develop a greater understanding of why you originally chose your partner and how this was linked to creating safety in the future for yourself, and any children you may have wanted at that time.</p>		\n															<img width=\"59\" height=\"59\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/3.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n		<p>You develop a deeper understanding of how your past and present are affected by childhood experiences.</p>		\n															<img width=\"59\" height=\"59\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/4.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n		<p>You develop a deeper understanding of why you respond or react to life, and especially your partner the way you do.</p>		\n															<img width=\"59\" height=\"59\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/5.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n		<p>You learn about the ego, how it is developed and how it plays out in your own life.</p>		\n															<img width=\"59\" height=\"59\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/6.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n		<p>You identify the role of both your ego and your partner’s ego is causing distressing and overwhelming conflict in your relationship.</p>		\n															<img width=\"59\" height=\"59\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/7.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n		<p>You learn strategies for how to calm down once your nervous system has been triggered.</p>		\n															<img width=\"59\" height=\"59\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/8.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n		<p>You develop essential skills for respectfully communicating with your partner, as these decrease conflict and promote understanding and intimacy.</p>		\n															<img width=\"59\" height=\"59\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/9.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n		<p>You create sufficient space and safety for the two of you to bring your differences into the relationship and navigate these skilfully.</p>		\n															<img width=\"59\" height=\"59\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/10.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n		<p>You understand why listening, being curious and learning to apologise is critical to the wellbeing of your relationship, and how these re-build trust.</p><p>Online courses are an increasingly popular and convenient way to learn. They allow you to learn on your terms when it suits you. They are portable. This means you can easily take it with you if you have a break from work, the children, or are on a holiday. Online courses have been designed to work for you.</p>		\n			<h3>So how do you get the most out of your course? Top tips include;\n</h3>		\n			<link rel=\"stylesheet\" href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/plugins/elementor/assets/css/widget-icon-list.min.css\">		<ul>\n							<li>\n										Emotional and sexual intimacy – How do we like to be sexually intimate? How often? What will we do if we are worried about the frequency or type of intimacy in our relationship?\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Being with others – flirting, porn, strip clubs, sex. We all have a different line in the sand. Discuss this upfront so there is clarity about your boundary.\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Sharing information with others – What do we tell others about aspects of our relationship? Do we complain or bitch about each other? Do we reveal financial information? Do we talk about details of our sex life? Do we share any intimacy struggles with anyone else?\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Communication – What do we do when our communication is hurting us? Do we say sorry? How do we talk to each other? Are we fighting too much? Do we listen anymore? How do we become more respectful again?\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Children – Do you both want them? If you do and they don’t, do not assume you can change their mind. If yes, how many? When? Views on day-care, nannies, and private or public education. Who takes time off work? For how long? Who is the primary carer for children? Organises babysitters and playdates? Liaises with the school?\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Financial matters – How do you feel about debt? Mortgages? Spending? Savings? Separate or shared bank accounts?\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Drugs and alcohol – How do we use substances in our relationship? Do we expect the other to be more moderate or stop at some point? When is that point?\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Roles – Do we take on particular roles? Who does the cooking? Food shopping? Cleans the home? Earns the money? Has career development?\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Extended family – Expectations around the role and involvement of extended family members.\n									</li>\n						</ul>\n															<img width=\"59\" height=\"59\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/2.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n			<h3>Understand your conscious and unconscious past experiences regarding trust</h3>		\n		<p>We all need to understand aspects of our own past experiences with broken trust and how we carry these into our couple relationship. Some of our trust difficulties are conscious and others are unconscious. As you will see from the examples below, trust issues will impact our relationship whether we are aware of them or not. It is critical to understand them so we keep our relationship as healthy as possible.</p><p><u>Example 1:</u> If an ex-partner cheated on me then I may secretly check my new partner’s phone in an attempt to feel more secure that no one else is on the scene. Can you see that my <strong>conscious</strong> need for security in this area changes my behaviour, and I justify being secretive with my new partner. Will this ever solve my trust issues? What do I do with any “evidence” I find? Will my partner be happy with me checking their phone? Or will they mistrust me now? Will this cause us further relationship issues if I don’t resolve it?</p><p><u>Example 2:</u> If one of my parents had an affair when I was young, I may not be aware this is impacting me in the present. It is <strong>unconscious</strong>. Do I understand why I send my partner frequent text messages when they are out at night or why I question them like a detective on their return? I am filtering my relationship through my historical lens. What impact is my unresolved trust issue from the past having on our relationship?</p>		\n															<img width=\"59\" height=\"59\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/3.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n			<h3>Create an agreement</h3>		\n		<p>If you want to build a relationship based on trust, I believe partners should create an agreement stating that “if we cannot solve a difficulty in our relationship by ourselves, and one of us wants us to go to couples therapy – we go. No excuses, no waiting period, we honour our agreement.”</p><p>Lorem ipsum dolor sit amet, consectetur adipiscing elit. Ut elit tellus, luctus nec ullamcorper mattis, pulvinar dapibus leo.</p><p>Lorem ipsum dolor sit amet, consectetur adipiscing elit. Ut elit tellus, luctus nec ullamcorper mattis, pulvinar dapibus leo.</p>','How To Get The Most Out Of Your Online Course for Decreasing Conflict and Improving Communication','','inherit','closed','closed','','4900-revision-v1','','','2022-08-07 11:14:38','2022-08-07 11:14:38','',4900,'https://www.lissyabrahams.com/?p=4903',0,'revision','',0),(4904,1,'2022-08-07 11:14:38','2022-08-07 11:14:38','<p>For many decades people have been looking for the perfect book to help solve their couple conflict or they seek regular help from a couple’s therapist in a consulting room, to stop their fights and to improve their ability to communicate as a couple.</p><p>The problem here is that books can be too general to apply to our own situation, and many people won’t attend couples therapy, even if their relationship can feel rocky and even at times, distressing. Often one partner refuses to go as they believe therapy will be too exposing or it may be financially difficult to afford regular sessions.</p><p>What I do know is that, when couples fight regularly, or have what are called ‘cycles of conflict’, it is rare for the problems to go away without working through them. The couple communication can feel destructive at times. When this is occurring, we cannot permanently solve our struggles as we simply do not know how to, in turn resulting in it worsening over time. The reason being that we are missing the vital information, techniques, skills to process information, as well as the capacity to reflect on our own life and relationship. To help solve this, I have crafted and designed a course to provide you with all of this, and you can do it all online at your convenience.</p>		\n			<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.8 - 27-07-2022 */\n.elementor-heading-title{padding:0;margin:0;line-height:1}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title[class*=elementor-size-]>a{color:inherit;font-size:inherit;line-height:inherit}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-small{font-size:15px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-medium{font-size:19px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-large{font-size:29px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xl{font-size:39px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xxl{font-size:59px}</style><h3>The top 10 benefits of doing this course:\n</h3>		\n			<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.8 - 27-07-2022 */\n.elementor-widget-image{text-align:center}.elementor-widget-image a{display:inline-block}.elementor-widget-image a img[src$=\".svg\"]{width:48px}.elementor-widget-image img{vertical-align:middle;display:inline-block}</style>												<img width=\"59\" height=\"59\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/1.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n		<p>You develop a greater understanding of why creating a ‘special’ relationship together was important and how this was linked to creating safety.</p>		\n															<img width=\"59\" height=\"59\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/2.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n		<p>You develop a greater understanding of why you originally chose your partner and how this was linked to creating safety in the future for yourself, and any children you may have wanted at that time.</p>		\n															<img width=\"59\" height=\"59\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/3.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n		<p>You develop a deeper understanding of how your past and present are affected by childhood experiences.</p>		\n															<img width=\"59\" height=\"59\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/4.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n		<p>You develop a deeper understanding of why you respond or react to life, and especially your partner the way you do.</p>		\n															<img width=\"59\" height=\"59\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/5.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n		<p>You learn about the ego, how it is developed and how it plays out in your own life.</p>		\n															<img width=\"59\" height=\"59\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/6.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n		<p>You identify the role of both your ego and your partner’s ego is causing distressing and overwhelming conflict in your relationship.</p>		\n															<img width=\"59\" height=\"59\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/7.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n		<p>You learn strategies for how to calm down once your nervous system has been triggered.</p>		\n															<img width=\"59\" height=\"59\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/8.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n		<p>You develop essential skills for respectfully communicating with your partner, as these decrease conflict and promote understanding and intimacy.</p>		\n															<img width=\"59\" height=\"59\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/9.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n		<p>You create sufficient space and safety for the two of you to bring your differences into the relationship and navigate these skilfully.</p>		\n															<img width=\"59\" height=\"59\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/10.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n		<p>You understand why listening, being curious and learning to apologise is critical to the wellbeing of your relationship, and how these re-build trust.</p><p>Online courses are an increasingly popular and convenient way to learn. They allow you to learn on your terms when it suits you. They are portable. This means you can easily take it with you if you have a break from work, the children, or are on a holiday. Online courses have been designed to work for you.</p>		\n			<h3>So how do you get the most out of your course? Top tips include;\n</h3>		\n			<link rel=\"stylesheet\" href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/plugins/elementor/assets/css/widget-icon-list.min.css\">		<ul>\n							<li>\n										Emotional and sexual intimacy – How do we like to be sexually intimate? How often? What will we do if we are worried about the frequency or type of intimacy in our relationship?\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Being with others – flirting, porn, strip clubs, sex. We all have a different line in the sand. Discuss this upfront so there is clarity about your boundary.\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Sharing information with others – What do we tell others about aspects of our relationship? Do we complain or bitch about each other? Do we reveal financial information? Do we talk about details of our sex life? Do we share any intimacy struggles with anyone else?\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Communication – What do we do when our communication is hurting us? Do we say sorry? How do we talk to each other? Are we fighting too much? Do we listen anymore? How do we become more respectful again?\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Children – Do you both want them? If you do and they don’t, do not assume you can change their mind. If yes, how many? When? Views on day-care, nannies, and private or public education. Who takes time off work? For how long? Who is the primary carer for children? Organises babysitters and playdates? Liaises with the school?\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Financial matters – How do you feel about debt? Mortgages? Spending? Savings? Separate or shared bank accounts?\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Drugs and alcohol – How do we use substances in our relationship? Do we expect the other to be more moderate or stop at some point? When is that point?\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Roles – Do we take on particular roles? Who does the cooking? Food shopping? Cleans the home? Earns the money? Has career development?\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Extended family – Expectations around the role and involvement of extended family members.\n									</li>\n						</ul>\n															<img width=\"59\" height=\"59\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/2.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n			<h3>Understand your conscious and unconscious past experiences regarding trust</h3>		\n		<p>We all need to understand aspects of our own past experiences with broken trust and how we carry these into our couple relationship. Some of our trust difficulties are conscious and others are unconscious. As you will see from the examples below, trust issues will impact our relationship whether we are aware of them or not. It is critical to understand them so we keep our relationship as healthy as possible.</p><p><u>Example 1:</u> If an ex-partner cheated on me then I may secretly check my new partner’s phone in an attempt to feel more secure that no one else is on the scene. Can you see that my <strong>conscious</strong> need for security in this area changes my behaviour, and I justify being secretive with my new partner. Will this ever solve my trust issues? What do I do with any “evidence” I find? Will my partner be happy with me checking their phone? Or will they mistrust me now? Will this cause us further relationship issues if I don’t resolve it?</p><p><u>Example 2:</u> If one of my parents had an affair when I was young, I may not be aware this is impacting me in the present. It is <strong>unconscious</strong>. Do I understand why I send my partner frequent text messages when they are out at night or why I question them like a detective on their return? I am filtering my relationship through my historical lens. What impact is my unresolved trust issue from the past having on our relationship?</p>		\n															<img width=\"59\" height=\"59\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/3.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n			<h3>Create an agreement</h3>		\n		<p>If you want to build a relationship based on trust, I believe partners should create an agreement stating that “if we cannot solve a difficulty in our relationship by ourselves, and one of us wants us to go to couples therapy – we go. No excuses, no waiting period, we honour our agreement.”</p><p>Lorem ipsum dolor sit amet, consectetur adipiscing elit. Ut elit tellus, luctus nec ullamcorper mattis, pulvinar dapibus leo.</p><p>Lorem ipsum dolor sit amet, consectetur adipiscing elit. Ut elit tellus, luctus nec ullamcorper mattis, pulvinar dapibus leo.</p>','How To Get The Most Out Of Your Online Course for Decreasing Conflict and Improving Communication','','inherit','closed','closed','','4900-revision-v1','','','2022-08-07 11:14:38','2022-08-07 11:14:38','',4900,'https://www.lissyabrahams.com/?p=4904',0,'revision','',0),(4905,1,'2022-08-07 11:14:38','2022-08-07 11:14:38','<p>For many decades people have been looking for the perfect book to help solve their couple conflict or they seek regular help from a couple’s therapist in a consulting room, to stop their fights and to improve their ability to communicate as a couple.</p><p>The problem here is that books can be too general to apply to our own situation, and many people won’t attend couples therapy, even if their relationship can feel rocky and even at times, distressing. Often one partner refuses to go as they believe therapy will be too exposing or it may be financially difficult to afford regular sessions.</p><p>What I do know is that, when couples fight regularly, or have what are called ‘cycles of conflict’, it is rare for the problems to go away without working through them. The couple communication can feel destructive at times. When this is occurring, we cannot permanently solve our struggles as we simply do not know how to, in turn resulting in it worsening over time. The reason being that we are missing the vital information, techniques, skills to process information, as well as the capacity to reflect on our own life and relationship. To help solve this, I have crafted and designed a course to provide you with all of this, and you can do it all online at your convenience.</p>		\n			<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.8 - 27-07-2022 */\n.elementor-heading-title{padding:0;margin:0;line-height:1}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title[class*=elementor-size-]>a{color:inherit;font-size:inherit;line-height:inherit}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-small{font-size:15px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-medium{font-size:19px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-large{font-size:29px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xl{font-size:39px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xxl{font-size:59px}</style><h3>The top 10 benefits of doing this course:\n</h3>		\n			<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.8 - 27-07-2022 */\n.elementor-widget-image{text-align:center}.elementor-widget-image a{display:inline-block}.elementor-widget-image a img[src$=\".svg\"]{width:48px}.elementor-widget-image img{vertical-align:middle;display:inline-block}</style>												<img width=\"59\" height=\"59\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/1.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n		<p>You develop a greater understanding of why creating a ‘special’ relationship together was important and how this was linked to creating safety.</p>		\n															<img width=\"59\" height=\"59\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/2.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n		<p>You develop a greater understanding of why you originally chose your partner and how this was linked to creating safety in the future for yourself, and any children you may have wanted at that time.</p>		\n															<img width=\"59\" height=\"59\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/3.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n		<p>You develop a deeper understanding of how your past and present are affected by childhood experiences.</p>		\n															<img width=\"59\" height=\"59\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/4.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n		<p>You develop a deeper understanding of why you respond or react to life, and especially your partner the way you do.</p>		\n															<img width=\"59\" height=\"59\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/5.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n		<p>You learn about the ego, how it is developed and how it plays out in your own life.</p>		\n															<img width=\"59\" height=\"59\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/6.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n		<p>You identify the role of both your ego and your partner’s ego is causing distressing and overwhelming conflict in your relationship.</p>		\n															<img width=\"59\" height=\"59\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/7.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n		<p>You learn strategies for how to calm down once your nervous system has been triggered.</p>		\n															<img width=\"59\" height=\"59\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/8.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n		<p>You develop essential skills for respectfully communicating with your partner, as these decrease conflict and promote understanding and intimacy.</p>		\n															<img width=\"59\" height=\"59\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/9.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n		<p>You create sufficient space and safety for the two of you to bring your differences into the relationship and navigate these skilfully.</p>		\n															<img width=\"59\" height=\"59\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/10.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n		<p>You understand why listening, being curious and learning to apologise is critical to the wellbeing of your relationship, and how these re-build trust.</p><p>Online courses are an increasingly popular and convenient way to learn. They allow you to learn on your terms when it suits you. They are portable. This means you can easily take it with you if you have a break from work, the children, or are on a holiday. Online courses have been designed to work for you.</p>		\n			<h3>So how do you get the most out of your course? Top tips include;\n</h3>		\n			<link rel=\"stylesheet\" href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/plugins/elementor/assets/css/widget-icon-list.min.css\">		<ul>\n							<li>\n										Treat this online course seriously. This online course is life-transforming. To achieve this, you need to take in the content and reflect on how this applies to your own life situation.\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										You need to set up your environment for learning and focused attention. Remove any distractions to allow yourself to have the benefits of greater knowledge and understanding so your relationship can improve. Turn off notifications, put your phone on airplane mode, grab some water and settle in to allow your learning and reflection to occur.\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Unlike a live event, you can re-watch any section of the course at any time you wish.\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										This course has a detailed downloadable workbook with all the information from the course included. The workbook includes all of the activities to guide you through your own reflection and developmental process. The videos and the workbook have been designed together to optimise your online learning experience.\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Be accountable to yourself and commit to the course. You have purchased the course as you want help to improve your couple relationship. This is an amazing first step you have made. Make sure you honour your commitment to yourself by complete the course.\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Enjoy this process. Learning about yourself is rewarding and can be fascinating. Let yourself be curious and intrigued by how you operate in a relationship. The rewards will show themselves in all aspects of your life, not only in your relationship!\n									</li>\n						</ul>\n		<p><a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/product/fight-less-love-more/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">This course</a> reflects many years of specialist therapy training, skills development, clinical work, supervising, tutoring, and lecturing. I have helped so many people reduce conflict and create healthier and happier relationships. If you want to this too, then join me, like all the others have, in creating the life and relationship you really want.</p>','How To Get The Most Out Of Your Online Course for Decreasing Conflict and Improving Communication','','inherit','closed','closed','','4900-revision-v1','','','2022-08-07 11:14:38','2022-08-07 11:14:38','',4900,'https://www.lissyabrahams.com/?p=4905',0,'revision','',0),