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            Article - source: yahoo!lifestyle        
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                How To Survive The Festive Season With Your Relationship Intact            
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            14 December 2021        
		<p>It’s no secret that Christmas can stretch credit cards, waistlines and relationships. And, a recent study by HCF Australia found that Aussies are feeling more stressed about this Christmas and feeling the effects of pandemic stress in their relationships.</p><p>One in four Australians who were in a relationship during the pandemic say it was negatively impacted, with the equivalent of 980,000 Aussies saying they are seriously considering, or have already left their relationship during lockdown.</p><p>So, knowing that stress levels are high, how can you get through Christmas with your relationship intact? We’ve collected expert tips to help you out.</p>		
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		<p>HCF partner PSYCH2U Psychologist Jeremy Cowden explains “Christmas is always a tough time for people and a lot of it is caused by a build-up of expectation, which this year will be greater because we’ve had a long time to think about it.”</p><p>The study asked what is causing Aussies the most stress, with responses showing...</p><p style="padding-left: 40px;">23 percent fear that the combination of overeating and under-exercising will lead to weight gain<br />22 percent feel pressure to be more social with family and friends than they want to be<br />21 percent are worried about travel restrictions and whether they will be able to have the Christmas they want<br />19 percent of Aussies are feeling pressure to spend more than they can afford on Christmas (foods and gifts)<br />19 percent also reported feeling lonelier and sadder at this time of year.</p>		
			<h3>Simple ways to look after your relationship</h3>		
		<p>According to Psychotherapist Lissy Abrahams, the key to smoother relationships at Christmas is to understand your own triggers for conflict and your defence mechanisms.</p><p>“There’s an expectation to make Christmas a happy time, especially when the host works hard to create this, but family dynamics are not always enjoyable. No-one wins when we argue, upset people, or lose our temper,” Lissy explains.</p><p>“Try to avoid controversial topics, the hot-heads or know-it-alls at your festive gatherings. At Christmas, it’s often easier to get on if we keep conversations lighter and in a safe zone.”</p><p>To support the health of your relationship during the holiday season, Lissy also suggests the following strategies...</p><p style="padding-left: 40px;">- Pick your battles – be careful you’re not criticising your partner(s) just for the sake of it<br />- Have new experiences together that neither of you have done before lockdown<br />- Lower your expectations of each other’s stereotypes of gender roles. Think about who your partner(s) needs to be for themselves and their own fulfilment in life, not just for you<br />- Set time away from each other. During lockdown partners were cooped up together. Allow some breathing space so you can look forward to seeing each other<br />- Express gratitude for what your partner(s) does do for you<br />- Laugh a lot and let them know you like them.</p>		
			<h3>Seek professional support
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		<p>If you notice that you’re struggling with your mental health, withdrawing or isolating yourself from your partner(s), or you’re unable to resolve arguments, professional support can help you to safely work through these challenges.</p><p>Mental health support for yourself or a loved one can also be found by calling <a href="https://www.lifeline.org.au/find-help/online-services/crisis-chat?gclid=CM7l3sGRla0CFQSFhwodmzMikw"><strong>Lifeline</strong></a> on 13 11 14, <a href="https://mensline.org.au/"><strong>Mensline</strong></a> on 1300 789 978, or <a href="https://www.kidshelp.com.au/"><strong>Kids Helpline</strong></a> on 1800 551 800. Online support is available via <a href="https://www.beyondblue.org.au/get-support/get-immediate-support"><strong>Beyond Blue</strong></a>.</p>