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But they won\'t. Change happens when we change.</p><p>And for change, we need to have awkward conversations, first in our own minds, and then with others in our lives.</p><p>But...we need to know how.</p><p>If this is you, I get it! It feels so complicated. How do you know how to fix it if you don\'t know what the real problem is right?</p><p>That\'s where I can help. Will you be the next person I help move from mediocre to magnificent (or hell to happy)?</p>		\n															<img width=\"65\" height=\"42\" src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/LA_AboutUs_Lissy_Signature.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n				<h3>\n						Lissy Abrahams					\n				</h3>\n									<p>\n						The Queen of Awkward					</p>\n        <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/Lissy-Studio-10-Socials-1.mp4\">\n        </a>\n		<p>Click to play</p>		\n            <h3>\n                1\n                +\n            </h3>\n                    <h4>clients trust me</h4>\n            latest        \n            <h2>\n            <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/blog/\">\n                Blog Posts            </a>\n        </h2>\n            Click her to view all blogs        \n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/2021/05/07/the-ego-and-how-it-can-hurt-or-even-destroy-relationships/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/2021/05/scott-broome-8pIDovXFknY-unsplash-1-scaled-500x300.jpg\" width=\"500\" height=\"300\" alt=\"scott-broome-8pIDovXFknY-unsplash\" title=\"scott-broome-8pIDovXFknY-unsplash\" /></a>\n                                <h3>\n                                    <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/2021/05/07/the-ego-and-how-it-can-hurt-or-even-destroy-relationships/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">The Ego and How It Can Hurt or Even Destroy Relationships</a>\n                                </h3>\n                                <ul>\n                                    <li>\n                                        <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/author/admin/\">\n                                            By admin                                        </a>\n                                    </li>\n                                    <li>\n                                        May 7, 2021                                    </li>\n                                    <li>\n                                        <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/2021/05/07/the-ego-and-how-it-can-hurt-or-even-destroy-relationships/\">0 Comments</a>\n                                    </li>\n                                </ul>\n                                    As featured in... 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I\'m Lissy Abrahams&hellip;                                \n                                        <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/2021/05/07/the-ego-and-how-it-can-hurt-or-even-destroy-relationships/\">Read More</a>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/2021/04/26/what-is-couple-mindedness/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/2021/04/giorgio-trovato-6rKkr2fh2-I-unsplash-1-scaled-500x300.jpg\" width=\"500\" height=\"300\" alt=\"giorgio-trovato-6rKkr2fh2-I-unsplash\" title=\"giorgio-trovato-6rKkr2fh2-I-unsplash\" /></a>\n                                <h3>\n                                    <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/2021/04/26/what-is-couple-mindedness/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">What is Couple Mindedness and Why is it Important for a Healthy Couple Relationship?</a>\n                                </h3>\n                                <ul>\n                                    <li>\n                                        <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/author/admin/\">\n                                            By admin                                        </a>\n                                    </li>\n                                    <li>\n                                        April 26, 2021                                    </li>\n                                    <li>\n                                        <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/2021/04/26/what-is-couple-mindedness/\">0 Comments</a>\n                                    </li>\n                                </ul>\n                                    As featured in... Have you ever felt awkward? Too awkward to have conversations that need to be had? I can help you. I\'m Lissy Abrahams&hellip;                                \n                                        <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/2021/04/26/what-is-couple-mindedness/\">Read More</a>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/2021/01/21/10-reasons-why-getting-help-with-your-relationship-is-important/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/Relationship-Is-Important-500x300.jpg\" width=\"500\" height=\"300\" alt=\"Relationship Is Important\" title=\"Relationship-Is-Important\" /></a>\n                                <h3>\n                                    <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/2021/01/21/10-reasons-why-getting-help-with-your-relationship-is-important/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">10 Reasons Why Getting Help With Your Relationship Is Important</a>\n                                </h3>\n                                <ul>\n                                    <li>\n                                        <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/author/admin/\">\n                                            By admin                                        </a>\n                                    </li>\n                                    <li>\n                                        January 21, 2021                                    </li>\n                                    <li>\n                                        <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/2021/01/21/10-reasons-why-getting-help-with-your-relationship-is-important/\">0 Comments</a>\n                                    </li>\n                                </ul>\n                                    As featured in... 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Have you ever felt awkward? Too awkward to have conversations that need to be had? I can help you. I\'m Lissy Abrahams&hellip;                                \n                                        <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/2021/01/15/why-it-is-vital-to-create-a-co-parenting-relationship-following-a-separation/\">Read More</a>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/2021/01/10/how-to-improve-communication-among-partners/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/2021/01/blog-image-1-500x300.jpg\" width=\"500\" height=\"300\" alt=\"blog-image-1\" title=\"blog-image-1\" /></a>\n                                <h3>\n                                    <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/2021/01/10/how-to-improve-communication-among-partners/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">How to Improve Communication Among Partners</a>\n                                </h3>\n                                <ul>\n                                    <li>\n                                        <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/author/admin/\">\n                                            By admin                                        </a>\n                                    </li>\n                                    <li>\n                                        January 10, 2021                                    </li>\n                                    <li>\n                                        <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/2021/01/10/how-to-improve-communication-among-partners/\">0 Comments</a>\n                                    </li>\n                                </ul>\n                                    As featured in... Have you ever felt awkward? Too awkward to have conversations that need to be had? I can help you. I\'m Lissy Abrahams&hellip;                                \n                                        <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/2021/01/10/how-to-improve-communication-among-partners/\">Read More</a>\n            WHAT HAPPY CLIENTS SAY        \n            <h2>\n                Testimonials            \n        </h2>\n            Understanding your requirements and objectives is important to me. 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We couldn’t be more grateful for all that we learnt with Lissy.”</p>\n                                         <h5></h5>                                     \n                                                                    <p>My partner and I were going to give up on our relationship as we bickered all the time and struggled to get through an evening without arguing. With Lissy’s guidance we learnt how to better communicate and have difficult conversations.</p>\n                                         <h5></h5>                                     \n                                                                    <p>“Our relationship now has a more robust foundation in which there is lots of warmth and very little conflict.”.</p>\n                                         <h5></h5>                                     \n                                                                    <p>“My wife and I learnt how to talk to each other in a respectful and non-hostile manner, and to listen to each other in a way that is curious and empathic. 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But they won\'t. Change happens when we change.</p><p>And for change, we need to have awkward conversations, first in our own minds, and then with others in our lives.</p><p>But...we need to know how.</p><p>If this is you, I get it! It feels so complicated. How do you know how to fix it if you don\'t know what the real problem is right?</p><p>That\'s where I can help. 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Have you ever felt awkward? Too awkward to have conversations that need to be had? I can help you. I\'m Lissy Abrahams&hellip;                                \n                                        <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/2021/01/10/how-to-improve-communication-among-partners/\">Read More</a>\n            WHAT HAPPY CLIENTS SAY        \n            <h2>\n                Testimonials            \n        </h2>\n            Understanding your requirements and objectives is important to me. 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We couldn’t be more grateful for all that we learnt with Lissy.”</p>\n                                         <h5></h5>                                     \n                                                                    <p>My partner and I were going to give up on our relationship as we bickered all the time and struggled to get through an evening without arguing. 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But they won\'t. Change happens when we change.</p><p>And for change, we need to have awkward conversations, first in our own minds, and then with others in our lives.</p><p>But...we need to know how.</p><p>If this is you, I get it! It feels so complicated. How do you know how to fix it if you don\'t know what the real problem is right?</p><p>That\'s where I can help. Will you be the next person I help move from mediocre to magnificent (or hell to happy)?</p>		\n															<img width=\"65\" height=\"42\" src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/LA_AboutUs_Lissy_Signature.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n				<h3>\n						Lissy Abrahams					\n				</h3>\n									<p>\n						The Queen of Awkward					</p>\n        <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/Lissy-Studio-10-Socials-1.mp4\">\n        </a>\n		<p>Click to play</p>		\n            <h3>\n                1\n                +\n            </h3>\n                    <h4>clients trust me</h4>\n            latest        \n            <h2>\n            <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/blog/\">\n                Blog Posts            </a>\n        </h2>\n            Click her to view all blogs        \n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/2021/05/07/the-ego-and-how-it-can-hurt-or-even-destroy-relationships/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/2021/05/scott-broome-8pIDovXFknY-unsplash-1-scaled-500x300.jpg\" width=\"500\" height=\"300\" alt=\"scott-broome-8pIDovXFknY-unsplash\" title=\"scott-broome-8pIDovXFknY-unsplash\" /></a>\n                                <h3>\n                                    <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/2021/05/07/the-ego-and-how-it-can-hurt-or-even-destroy-relationships/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">The Ego and How It Can Hurt or Even Destroy Relationships</a>\n                                </h3>\n                                <ul>\n                                    <li>\n                                        <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/author/admin/\">\n                                            By admin                                        </a>\n                                    </li>\n                                    <li>\n                                        May 7, 2021                                    </li>\n                                    <li>\n                                        <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/2021/05/07/the-ego-and-how-it-can-hurt-or-even-destroy-relationships/\">0 Comments</a>\n                                    </li>\n                                </ul>\n                                    As featured in... Have you ever felt awkward? Too awkward to have conversations that need to be had? I can help you. I\'m Lissy Abrahams&hellip;                                \n                                        <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/2021/05/07/the-ego-and-how-it-can-hurt-or-even-destroy-relationships/\">Read More</a>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/2021/04/26/what-is-couple-mindedness/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/2021/04/giorgio-trovato-6rKkr2fh2-I-unsplash-1-scaled-500x300.jpg\" width=\"500\" height=\"300\" alt=\"giorgio-trovato-6rKkr2fh2-I-unsplash\" title=\"giorgio-trovato-6rKkr2fh2-I-unsplash\" /></a>\n                                <h3>\n                                    <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/2021/04/26/what-is-couple-mindedness/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">What is Couple Mindedness and Why is it Important for a Healthy Couple Relationship?</a>\n                                </h3>\n                                <ul>\n                                    <li>\n                                        <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/author/admin/\">\n                                            By admin                                        </a>\n                                    </li>\n                                    <li>\n                                        April 26, 2021                                    </li>\n                                    <li>\n                                        <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/2021/04/26/what-is-couple-mindedness/\">0 Comments</a>\n                                    </li>\n                                </ul>\n                                    As featured in... 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I\'m Lissy Abrahams&hellip;                                \n                                        <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/2021/04/26/what-is-couple-mindedness/\">Read More</a>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/2021/01/21/10-reasons-why-getting-help-with-your-relationship-is-important/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/Relationship-Is-Important-500x300.jpg\" width=\"500\" height=\"300\" alt=\"Relationship Is Important\" title=\"Relationship-Is-Important\" /></a>\n                                <h3>\n                                    <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/2021/01/21/10-reasons-why-getting-help-with-your-relationship-is-important/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">10 Reasons Why Getting Help With Your Relationship Is Important</a>\n                                </h3>\n                                <ul>\n                                    <li>\n                                        <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/author/admin/\">\n                                            By admin                                        </a>\n                                    </li>\n                                    <li>\n                                        January 21, 2021                                    </li>\n                                    <li>\n                                        <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/2021/01/21/10-reasons-why-getting-help-with-your-relationship-is-important/\">0 Comments</a>\n                                    </li>\n                                </ul>\n                                    As featured in... 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I\'m Lissy Abrahams&hellip;                                \n                                        <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/2021/01/15/why-it-is-vital-to-create-a-co-parenting-relationship-following-a-separation/\">Read More</a>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/2021/01/10/how-to-improve-communication-among-partners/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/2021/01/blog-image-1-500x300.jpg\" width=\"500\" height=\"300\" alt=\"blog-image-1\" title=\"blog-image-1\" /></a>\n                                <h3>\n                                    <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/2021/01/10/how-to-improve-communication-among-partners/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">How to Improve Communication Among Partners</a>\n                                </h3>\n                                <ul>\n                                    <li>\n                                        <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/author/admin/\">\n                                            By admin                                        </a>\n                                    </li>\n                                    <li>\n                                        January 10, 2021                                    </li>\n                                    <li>\n                                        <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/2021/01/10/how-to-improve-communication-among-partners/\">0 Comments</a>\n                                    </li>\n                                </ul>\n                                    As featured in... Have you ever felt awkward? Too awkward to have conversations that need to be had? I can help you. I\'m Lissy Abrahams&hellip;                                \n                                        <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/2021/01/10/how-to-improve-communication-among-partners/\">Read More</a>\n            WHAT HAPPY CLIENTS SAY        \n            <h2>\n                Testimonials            \n        </h2>\n            Understanding your requirements and objectives is important to me. I\'ll listen and work <br>together with you to create a truly unique and unforgettable experience.        \n                                                                    <p>“We can’t recommend Lissy’s guidance highly enough for anyone looking to better understand why they relate, react and communicate the way they do in relationships, and how to improve the quality of these relationships to ensure their long-term success.”</p>\n                                         <h5></h5>                                     \n                                                                    <p>“With Lissy’s help we have been able to not only relate to each other more constructively during conflict resolution, we are also able to approach each other with more empathy and less judgement on all levels within our relationship.”</p>\n                                         <h5></h5>                                     \n                                                                    <p>“We are now better able to navigate our relationship, and the triggers that would have once led to arguments now lead to empathetic and conscious discussions. We couldn’t be more grateful for all that we learnt with Lissy.”</p>\n                                         <h5></h5>                                     \n                                                                    <p>My partner and I were going to give up on our relationship as we bickered all the time and struggled to get through an evening without arguing. With Lissy’s guidance we learnt how to better communicate and have difficult conversations.</p>\n                                         <h5></h5>                                     \n                                                                    <p>“Our relationship now has a more robust foundation in which there is lots of warmth and very little conflict.”.</p>\n                                         <h5></h5>                                     \n                                                                    <p>“My wife and I learnt how to talk to each other in a respectful and non-hostile manner, and to listen to each other in a way that is curious and empathic. The experience has been regenerative.”</p>\n                                         <h5></h5>                                     \n                                                                    <p>“I highly recommend any couple to listen to her council.”</p>\n                                         <h5></h5>                                     \n                                                                    <p>“We had prolonged period of ongoing life stressors beyond our control, work, trying to have a child through IVF, and sick parents. We were no longer communicating properly, and we were flat and felt isolated. 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But they won\'t. Change happens when we change.</p><p>And for change, we need to have awkward conversations, first in our own minds, and then with others in our lives.</p><p>But...we need to know how.</p><p>If this is you, I get it! It feels so complicated. How do you know how to fix it if you don\'t know what the real problem is right?</p><p>That\'s where I can help. 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Have you ever felt awkward? Too awkward to have conversations that need to be had? I can help you. I\'m Lissy Abrahams&hellip;                                \n                                        <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/2021/01/10/how-to-improve-communication-among-partners/\">Read More</a>\n            WHAT HAPPY CLIENTS SAY        \n            <h2>\n                Testimonials            \n        </h2>\n            Understanding your requirements and objectives is important to me. 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But they won\'t. Change happens when we change.</p><p>And for change, we need to have awkward conversations, first in our own minds, and then with others in our lives.</p><p>But...we need to know how.</p><p>If this is you, I get it! It feels so complicated. How do you know how to fix it if you don\'t know what the real problem is right?</p><p>That\'s where I can help. Will you be the next person I help move from mediocre to magnificent (or hell to happy)?</p>		\n															<img width=\"65\" height=\"42\" src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/LA_AboutUs_Lissy_Signature.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n				<h3>\n						Lissy Abrahams					\n				</h3>\n									<p>\n						The Queen of Awkward					</p>\n        <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/Lissy-Studio-10-Socials-1.mp4\">\n        </a>\n		<p>Click to play</p>		\n            <h3>\n                1\n                +\n            </h3>\n                    <h4>clients trust me</h4>\n            latest        \n            <h2>\n            <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/blog/\">\n                Blog Posts            </a>\n        </h2>\n            Click her to view all blogs        \n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/2021/05/07/the-ego-and-how-it-can-hurt-or-even-destroy-relationships/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/2021/05/scott-broome-8pIDovXFknY-unsplash-1-scaled-500x300.jpg\" width=\"500\" height=\"300\" alt=\"scott-broome-8pIDovXFknY-unsplash\" title=\"scott-broome-8pIDovXFknY-unsplash\" /></a>\n                                <h3>\n                                    <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/2021/05/07/the-ego-and-how-it-can-hurt-or-even-destroy-relationships/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">The Ego and How It Can Hurt or Even Destroy Relationships</a>\n                                </h3>\n                                <ul>\n                                    <li>\n                                        <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/author/admin/\">\n                                            By admin                                        </a>\n                                    </li>\n                                    <li>\n                                        May 7, 2021                                    </li>\n                                    <li>\n                                        <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/2021/05/07/the-ego-and-how-it-can-hurt-or-even-destroy-relationships/\">0 Comments</a>\n                                    </li>\n                                </ul>\n                                    As featured in... 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Have you ever felt awkward? Too awkward to have conversations that need to be had? I can help you. I\'m Lissy Abrahams&hellip;                                \n                                        <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/2021/01/15/why-it-is-vital-to-create-a-co-parenting-relationship-following-a-separation/\">Read More</a>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/2021/01/10/how-to-improve-communication-among-partners/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/2021/01/blog-image-1-500x300.jpg\" width=\"500\" height=\"300\" alt=\"blog-image-1\" title=\"blog-image-1\" /></a>\n                                <h3>\n                                    <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/2021/01/10/how-to-improve-communication-among-partners/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">How to Improve Communication Among Partners</a>\n                                </h3>\n                                <ul>\n                                    <li>\n                                        <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/author/admin/\">\n                                            By admin                                        </a>\n                                    </li>\n                                    <li>\n                                        January 10, 2021                                    </li>\n                                    <li>\n                                        <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/2021/01/10/how-to-improve-communication-among-partners/\">0 Comments</a>\n                                    </li>\n                                </ul>\n                                    As featured in... Have you ever felt awkward? Too awkward to have conversations that need to be had? I can help you. I\'m Lissy Abrahams&hellip;                                \n                                        <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/2021/01/10/how-to-improve-communication-among-partners/\">Read More</a>\n            WHAT HAPPY CLIENTS SAY        \n            <h2>\n                Testimonials            \n        </h2>\n            Understanding your requirements and objectives is important to me. 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We couldn’t be more grateful for all that we learnt with Lissy.”</p>\n                                         <h5></h5>                                     \n                                                                    <p>My partner and I were going to give up on our relationship as we bickered all the time and struggled to get through an evening without arguing. 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Such as...</p>		\n			<link rel=\"stylesheet\" href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/plugins/elementor/assets/css/widget-icon-list.min.css\">		<ul>\n							<li>\n										Communication\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Boundaries\n									</li>\n								<li>\n										Conflict...\n									</li>\n						</ul>\n            <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/blog-sidebar/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">\n            Read More\n        </a>\n				<h3>\n						Online Course					\n				</h3>\n		<p>Committed relationships are difficult. For many of us, our communication difficulties can lead to upsetting conflict.</p><p>This course has been created to make sure that your relationship can not only survive but thrive. </p>		\n            <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/products/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">\n            learn more\n        </a>\n				<h3>\n						Relationship Reset Book					\n				</h3>\n		<p>Even small changes can help people reduce conflict and reconnect with their partners. </p><p>Filled with insightful research, case studies and exercises, <em>Relationship Reset</em> will help you rewrite the stories underlying your emotional life, and build a secure and loving union. </p>		\n            <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/our-services/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">\n            Purchase Book\n        </a>\n            welcome        \n		<p>As a therapist, of both individuals and couples, I have dedicated my career to helping hundreds of clients navigate life\'s obstacles and challenges.</p><p>As humans, we\'d love for everyone else to change in order for us to feel safer, more trusting, and respected. But they won\'t. Change happens when we change.</p><p>And for change, we need to have awkward conversations, first in our own minds, and then with others in our lives.</p><p>But...we need to know how.</p><p>If this is you, I get it! It feels so complicated. How do you know how to fix it if you don\'t know what the real problem is right?</p><p>That\'s where I can help. Will you be the next person I help move from mediocre to magnificent (or hell to happy)?</p>		\n															<img width=\"65\" height=\"42\" src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/LA_AboutUs_Lissy_Signature.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n				<h3>\n						Lissy Abrahams					\n				</h3>\n									<p>\n						The Queen of Awkward					</p>\n        <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/Lissy-Studio-10-Socials-1.mp4\">\n        </a>\n		<p>Click to play</p>		\n            <h3>\n                1\n                +\n            </h3>\n                    <h4>clients trust me</h4>\n            latest        \n            <h2>\n            <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/blog/\">\n                Blog Posts            </a>\n        </h2>\n    <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/blog/\">\n                Click here to view all blogs\n    </a>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/2021/05/07/the-ego-and-how-it-can-hurt-or-even-destroy-relationships/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/2021/05/scott-broome-8pIDovXFknY-unsplash-1-scaled-500x300.jpg\" width=\"500\" height=\"300\" alt=\"scott-broome-8pIDovXFknY-unsplash\" title=\"scott-broome-8pIDovXFknY-unsplash\" /></a>\n                                <h3>\n                                    <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/2021/05/07/the-ego-and-how-it-can-hurt-or-even-destroy-relationships/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">The Ego and How It Can Hurt or Even Destroy Relationships</a>\n                                </h3>\n                                <ul>\n                                    <li>\n                                        <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/author/admin/\">\n                                            By admin                                        </a>\n                                    </li>\n                                    <li>\n                                        May 7, 2021                                    </li>\n                                    <li>\n                                        <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/2021/05/07/the-ego-and-how-it-can-hurt-or-even-destroy-relationships/\">0 Comments</a>\n                                    </li>\n                                </ul>\n                                    As featured in... Have you ever felt awkward? Too awkward to have conversations that need to be had? I can help you. I\'m Lissy Abrahams&hellip;                                \n                                        <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/2021/05/07/the-ego-and-how-it-can-hurt-or-even-destroy-relationships/\">Read More</a>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/2021/04/26/what-is-couple-mindedness/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/2021/04/giorgio-trovato-6rKkr2fh2-I-unsplash-1-scaled-500x300.jpg\" width=\"500\" height=\"300\" alt=\"giorgio-trovato-6rKkr2fh2-I-unsplash\" title=\"giorgio-trovato-6rKkr2fh2-I-unsplash\" /></a>\n                                <h3>\n                                    <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/2021/04/26/what-is-couple-mindedness/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">What is Couple Mindedness and Why is it Important for a Healthy Couple Relationship?</a>\n                                </h3>\n                                <ul>\n                                    <li>\n                                        <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/author/admin/\">\n                                            By admin                                        </a>\n                                    </li>\n                                    <li>\n                                        April 26, 2021                                    </li>\n                                    <li>\n                                        <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/2021/04/26/what-is-couple-mindedness/\">0 Comments</a>\n                                    </li>\n                                </ul>\n                                    As featured in... Have you ever felt awkward? Too awkward to have conversations that need to be had? I can help you. I\'m Lissy Abrahams&hellip;                                \n                                        <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/2021/04/26/what-is-couple-mindedness/\">Read More</a>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/2021/01/21/10-reasons-why-getting-help-with-your-relationship-is-important/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/Relationship-Is-Important-500x300.jpg\" width=\"500\" height=\"300\" alt=\"Relationship Is Important\" title=\"Relationship-Is-Important\" /></a>\n                                <h3>\n                                    <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/2021/01/21/10-reasons-why-getting-help-with-your-relationship-is-important/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">10 Reasons Why Getting Help With Your Relationship Is Important</a>\n                                </h3>\n                                <ul>\n                                    <li>\n                                        <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/author/admin/\">\n                                            By admin                                        </a>\n                                    </li>\n                                    <li>\n                                        January 21, 2021                                    </li>\n                                    <li>\n                                        <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/2021/01/21/10-reasons-why-getting-help-with-your-relationship-is-important/\">0 Comments</a>\n                                    </li>\n                                </ul>\n                                    As featured in... 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Have you ever felt awkward? Too awkward to have conversations that need to be had? I can help you. I\'m Lissy Abrahams&hellip;                                \n                                        <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/2021/01/15/why-it-is-vital-to-create-a-co-parenting-relationship-following-a-separation/\">Read More</a>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/2021/01/10/how-to-improve-communication-among-partners/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/2021/01/blog-image-1-500x300.jpg\" width=\"500\" height=\"300\" alt=\"blog-image-1\" title=\"blog-image-1\" /></a>\n                                <h3>\n                                    <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/2021/01/10/how-to-improve-communication-among-partners/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">How to Improve Communication Among Partners</a>\n                                </h3>\n                                <ul>\n                                    <li>\n                                        <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/author/admin/\">\n                                            By admin                                        </a>\n                                    </li>\n                                    <li>\n                                        January 10, 2021                                    </li>\n                                    <li>\n                                        <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/2021/01/10/how-to-improve-communication-among-partners/\">0 Comments</a>\n                                    </li>\n                                </ul>\n                                    As featured in... Have you ever felt awkward? Too awkward to have conversations that need to be had? I can help you. I\'m Lissy Abrahams&hellip;                                \n                                        <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/2021/01/10/how-to-improve-communication-among-partners/\">Read More</a>\n            WHAT HAPPY CLIENTS SAY        \n            <h2>\n                Testimonials            \n        </h2>\n            Understanding your requirements and objectives is important to me. 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We couldn’t be more grateful for all that we learnt with Lissy.”</p>\n                                         <h5></h5>                                     \n                                                                    <p>My partner and I were going to give up on our relationship as we bickered all the time and struggled to get through an evening without arguing. With Lissy’s guidance we learnt how to better communicate and have difficult conversations.</p>\n                                         <h5></h5>                                     \n                                                                    <p>“Our relationship now has a more robust foundation in which there is lots of warmth and very little conflict.”.</p>\n                                         <h5></h5>                                     \n                                                                    <p>“My wife and I learnt how to talk to each other in a respectful and non-hostile manner, and to listen to each other in a way that is curious and empathic. 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Lissy helps her individual and couple clients not just get back on track but also to thrive again.</p><p>Lissy believes we all have the capacity to improve our lives and couple relationships with the right knowledge and skills. Her mission is to help as many people as possible transform their lives by creating happier and more connected  relationships.</p><p>Lissy studied psychology in Sydney and then completed her Masters of Couple Psychoanalytic Psychotherapy at the internationally renowned Tavistock Relationships, London. Here, she worked therapeutically with couples, as well as lectured and tutored trainee counsellors. She has held positions on the British Society of Couple Psychotherapists and Counsellors (BSCPC) and was Vice President of the Couple, Child, and Family Psychotherapy Association of Australasia (CCAFPAA).</p><p>Lissy runs a Sydney-based therapy clinic, Heath Group Practice, and works therapeutically with clients here and around the world<br />via online sessions. She also has an online course ‘Fight Less, Love More - Learn to skillfully communicate with your partner and decrease conflict’. The course explores the real reasons why couples fight, provides guided activities for participants to identify<br />why they are having difficulty communicating, and teaches the vital skills needed to break repeated cycles of conflict.</p>		\n    <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/get-in-touch/\">\n                Apply for a guest appearance\n    </a>\n			<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.7 - 03-07-2022 */\n.elementor-heading-title{padding:0;margin:0;line-height:1}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title[class*=elementor-size-]>a{color:inherit;font-size:inherit;line-height:inherit}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-small{font-size:15px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-medium{font-size:19px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-large{font-size:29px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xl{font-size:39px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xxl{font-size:59px}</style><h2>As featured in</h2>		\n		[elementor-template id=\"4098\"]		\n            <h2>\n                Guest Appearances            \n        </h2>\n            Below is  a selection of some of Lissy\'s guest appearances        \n            All\n                    Article                \n                    Mamamia                \n                            <h3>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/?post_type=case-study&#038;p=4177\">Elementor #4177</a>\n                            </h3>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study/mamamia/\"><img src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/2020/04/case_std1-768x530.jpg\" width=\"768\" height=\"530\" alt=\"case-featured\" title=\"case_std1\" /></a>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study-category/mamamia/\" rel=\"tag\">Mamamia</a>                            \n                            <h3>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study/mamamia/\">Mamamia</a>\n                            </h3>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study/john-seriously-psychologically-customer-satisfaction/\"><img src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/2020/05/case_std6-768x530.jpg\" width=\"768\" height=\"530\" alt=\"case-featured\" title=\"case_std6\" /></a>\n                            <h3>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study/john-seriously-psychologically-customer-satisfaction/\">John Seriously Psychologically Customer Satisfaction</a>\n                            </h3>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study/serious-mental-disorders-resolved-how/\"><img src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/2020/05/case_std5-768x530.jpg\" width=\"768\" height=\"530\" alt=\"case_std5\" title=\"case_std5\" /></a>\n                            <h3>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study/serious-mental-disorders-resolved-how/\">Serious Mental Disorders,  Resolved How</a>\n                            </h3>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study/overcoming-difficulties-to-come-to-love/\"><img src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/2020/05/case_std4-768x530.jpg\" width=\"768\" height=\"530\" alt=\"case_std4\" title=\"case_std4\" /></a>\n                            <h3>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study/overcoming-difficulties-to-come-to-love/\">Overcoming Difficulties To  Come to Love</a>\n                            </h3>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study/a-rare-occurrence-of-small-cell-carcinoma/\"><img src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/2020/05/case_std3-1-768x530.jpg\" width=\"768\" height=\"530\" alt=\"case_std3\" title=\"case_std3\" /></a>\n                            <h3>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study/a-rare-occurrence-of-small-cell-carcinoma/\">A Rare Occurrence Of Small  Cell Carcinoma</a>\n                            </h3>','Media','','inherit','closed','closed','','3650-revision-v1','','','2022-07-24 08:56:27','2022-07-24 08:56:27','',3650,'http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/?p=4296',0,'revision','',0),(4297,1,'2022-07-24 08:56:27','2022-07-24 08:56:27','<style>/*! 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Lissy helps her individual and couple clients not just get back on track but also to thrive again.</p><p>Lissy believes we all have the capacity to improve our lives and couple relationships with the right knowledge and skills. Her mission is to help as many people as possible transform their lives by creating happier and more connected  relationships.</p><p>Lissy studied psychology in Sydney and then completed her Masters of Couple Psychoanalytic Psychotherapy at the internationally renowned Tavistock Relationships, London. Here, she worked therapeutically with couples, as well as lectured and tutored trainee counsellors. She has held positions on the British Society of Couple Psychotherapists and Counsellors (BSCPC) and was Vice President of the Couple, Child, and Family Psychotherapy Association of Australasia (CCAFPAA).</p><p>Lissy runs a Sydney-based therapy clinic, Heath Group Practice, and works therapeutically with clients here and around the world<br />via online sessions. She also has an online course ‘Fight Less, Love More - Learn to skillfully communicate with your partner and decrease conflict’. The course explores the real reasons why couples fight, provides guided activities for participants to identify<br />why they are having difficulty communicating, and teaches the vital skills needed to break repeated cycles of conflict.</p>		\n    <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/get-in-touch/\">\n                Apply for a guest appearance\n    </a>\n			<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.7 - 03-07-2022 */\n.elementor-heading-title{padding:0;margin:0;line-height:1}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title[class*=elementor-size-]>a{color:inherit;font-size:inherit;line-height:inherit}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-small{font-size:15px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-medium{font-size:19px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-large{font-size:29px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xl{font-size:39px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xxl{font-size:59px}</style><h2>As featured in</h2>		\n		[elementor-template id=\"4098\"]		\n            <h2>\n                Guest Appearances            \n        </h2>\n            Below is  a selection of some of Lissy\'s guest appearances        \n            All\n                    Article                \n                    Mamamia                \n                            <h3>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/?post_type=case-study&#038;p=4177\">Elementor #4177</a>\n                            </h3>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study/mamamia/\"><img src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/2020/04/case_std1-768x530.jpg\" width=\"768\" height=\"530\" alt=\"case-featured\" title=\"case_std1\" /></a>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study-category/mamamia/\" rel=\"tag\">Mamamia</a>                            \n                            <h3>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study/mamamia/\">Mamamia</a>\n                            </h3>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study/john-seriously-psychologically-customer-satisfaction/\"><img src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/2020/05/case_std6-768x530.jpg\" width=\"768\" height=\"530\" alt=\"case-featured\" title=\"case_std6\" /></a>\n                            <h3>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study/john-seriously-psychologically-customer-satisfaction/\">John Seriously Psychologically Customer Satisfaction</a>\n                            </h3>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study/serious-mental-disorders-resolved-how/\"><img src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/2020/05/case_std5-768x530.jpg\" width=\"768\" height=\"530\" alt=\"case_std5\" title=\"case_std5\" /></a>\n                            <h3>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study/serious-mental-disorders-resolved-how/\">Serious Mental Disorders,  Resolved How</a>\n                            </h3>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study/overcoming-difficulties-to-come-to-love/\"><img src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/2020/05/case_std4-768x530.jpg\" width=\"768\" height=\"530\" alt=\"case_std4\" title=\"case_std4\" /></a>\n                            <h3>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study/overcoming-difficulties-to-come-to-love/\">Overcoming Difficulties To  Come to Love</a>\n                            </h3>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study/a-rare-occurrence-of-small-cell-carcinoma/\"><img src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/2020/05/case_std3-1-768x530.jpg\" width=\"768\" height=\"530\" alt=\"case_std3\" title=\"case_std3\" /></a>\n                            <h3>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study/a-rare-occurrence-of-small-cell-carcinoma/\">A Rare Occurrence Of Small  Cell Carcinoma</a>\n                            </h3>','Media','','inherit','closed','closed','','3650-revision-v1','','','2022-07-24 08:56:27','2022-07-24 08:56:27','',3650,'http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/?p=4297',0,'revision','',0),(4298,1,'2022-07-24 08:56:27','2022-07-24 08:56:27','<style>/*! 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Lissy believes we all have the capacity to improve our lives, whether it’s our own mental wellbeing, or our work or home life. We just need the right knowledge and skills. Lissy helps her clients not just get back on track but also to flourish.</p><p style=\"margin-bottom: 12.75pt; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;\">Lissy studied psychology in Sydney and then completed her Masters of Couple Psychoanalytic Psychotherapy at the internationally renowned Tavistock Relationships, London. Here, she worked therapeutically with couples, as well as lectured and tutored trainee counsellors. She also had an independent therapy practice.</p><p style=\"margin-bottom: 12.75pt; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;\">She has held positions on the Tavistock Relationships Association of Psychotherapists and Counsellors, and was Vice President of the Couple, Child, and Family Psychotherapy Association of Australasia. Lissy is part of Mamamia’s health expert panel.</p><p> </p><p style=\"background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;\">Lissy founded and runs a Sydney-based therapy clinic, Heath Group Practice, and works therapeutically with clients here and around the world. Her successful online course ‘Fight Less, Love More’ explores the real reasons why couples fight, provides guided activities for participants to identify why they are having difficulty communicating, and teaches the vital skills needed to break repeated cycles of conflict. 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elementor - v3.9.1 - 14-12-2022 */\n.elementor-widget-image{text-align:center}.elementor-widget-image a{display:inline-block}.elementor-widget-image a img[src$=\".svg\"]{width:48px}.elementor-widget-image img{vertical-align:middle;display:inline-block}</style>													<a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/mamamia/\">\n							<img src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/elementor/thumbs/mamamia-small-1-ps1a2cmifxjwafmq3z9xbdhvozhxq66jsxpmjnxce8.png\" title=\"mamamia-small\" alt=\"mamamia-small\" />								</a>\n																<a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/bodysoul/\">\n							<img width=\"100\" height=\"100\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/logo5-100x100-1.png\" alt=\"\" />								</a>\n																<a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/the-house-of-wellness/\">\n							<img width=\"300\" height=\"84\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/House-of-Wellness-300x84.png\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/House-of-Wellness-300x84.png 300w, https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/House-of-Wellness.png 363w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" />								</a>\n																<a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/the-daily-telegraph/\">\n							<img width=\"160\" height=\"80\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/daily-telegraph-small-1.png\" alt=\"\" />								</a>\n																<a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/yahoo-lifestyle/\">\n							<img width=\"260\" height=\"35\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/yahoolifestyle.png\" alt=\"\" />								</a>\n																<a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/yahoofinance/\">\n							<img width=\"220\" height=\"32\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/YahooFinance.png\" alt=\"\" />								</a>\n																<a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/savings-com-au/\">\n							<img src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/elementor/thumbs/savings-logo-green-pylbgjuolqth0ks8kmodwjqu7h06538wvrjt2xy4mg.png\" title=\"savings.com.au\" alt=\"savings.com.au\" />								</a>\n																<a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/heraldsun/\">\n							<img width=\"360\" height=\"76\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/HeraldSun.png\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/HeraldSun.png 360w, https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/HeraldSun-300x63.png 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 360px) 100vw, 360px\" />								</a>\n																<a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/the-oz/\">\n							<img width=\"271\" height=\"140\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/The-Oz.png\" alt=\"\" />								</a>\n																<a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/smh/\">\n							<img width=\"405\" height=\"81\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/SMH.png\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/SMH.png 405w, https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/SMH-300x60.png 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 405px) 100vw, 405px\" />								</a>\n            book reviews        \n            <h2>\n                Reviews of Lissy\'s Book - Relationship Reset             \n        </h2>\n            Click on the image below to review the reviews        \n																<a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/pacfa/\">\n							<img src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/elementor/thumbs/PACFA-logo-long-pza603fsrmaxzqd1o9zav23u2ploh7fjwsp1m2hwyo.png\" title=\"PACFA-logo-long\" alt=\"PACFA-logo-long\" />								</a>','Articles','A selection of articles where Lissy has been interviewed.','publish','closed','closed','','articles','','','2022-12-17 09:03:06','2022-12-17 09:03:06','',0,'http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/?post_type=case-study&#038;p=4317',0,'case-study','',0),(4318,1,'2022-07-24 09:55:14','2022-07-24 09:55:14','<style>/*! 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elementor - v3.10.2 - 29-01-2023 */\n.elementor-widget-image{text-align:center}.elementor-widget-image a{display:inline-block}.elementor-widget-image a img[src$=\".svg\"]{width:48px}.elementor-widget-image img{vertical-align:middle;display:inline-block}</style>												<img width=\"100\" height=\"100\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/BodySoul-Healthish-e1658306050495.png\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/BodySoul-Healthish-e1658306050495.png 100w, https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/elementor/thumbs/BodySoul-Healthish-e1658306050495-ps1a6rh7hnmuai5qk65cjs26ifxg0qjrtjgk48yisu.png 75w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 100px) 100vw, 100px\" />															\n            BODY+SOUL HEALTHY-ISH        \n            <h2>\n                The No 1. Thing to Improve Couple Communication<br />\n        </h2>\n            2 September 2021        \n		<p><iframe title=\"A psychotherapist on the No 1. thing to improve couple communication\" src=\"https://omny.fm/shows/healthy-ish/a-psychotherapist-on-the-no-1-thing-to-improve-cou/embed?style=Cover\" width=\"100%\" height=\"180\" frameborder=\"0\"></iframe></p>		\n            <h2>\n                When Christmas Stress Hits            \n        </h2>\n            16 December 2021        \n		<p><iframe title=\"When Christmas stress hits...\" src=\"https://omny.fm/shows/healthy-ish/when-christmas-stress-hits/embed?style=Cover\" width=\"100%\" height=\"180\" frameborder=\"0\"></iframe></p>		\n															<img width=\"120\" height=\"105\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/BodySoul-Healthy-ish-extra-e1658551477615.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n            body+soul Healthy-ish extra        \n            <h2>\n                What Couples Who Communicate Well Do Differently            \n        </h2>\n            2 September 2021        \n		<iframe src=\"https://omny.fm/shows/extra-healthy-ish/what-couples-who-communicate-well-do-differently/embed?style=Cover\" width=\"100%\" height=\"180\" allow=\"autoplay; clipboard-write\" frameborder=\"0\" title=\"What couples who communicate well do differently\"></iframe>		\n            <h2>\n                How to  Deal with Family Crap at Christmas            \n        </h2>\n            16 December 2021        \n		<iframe src=\"https://omny.fm/shows/extra-healthy-ish/how-to-deal-with-family-crap-at-christmas/embed?in_playlist=extra-healthy-ish&style=Cover\" width=\"100%\" height=\"180\" allow=\"autoplay; clipboard-write\" frameborder=\"0\" title=\"How to deal with family crap at Christmas\"></iframe>		\n															<img width=\"160\" height=\"80\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/ido-podcast-small-1.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n            i do podcast        \n            <h2>\n                How to Have a Peaceful Divorce or Separation            \n        </h2>\n		<iframe allow=\"autoplay *; encrypted-media *; fullscreen *; clipboard-write\" frameborder=\"0\" height=\"175\" style=\"width:100%;max-width:660px;overflow:hidden;background:transparent;\" sandbox=\"allow-forms allow-popups allow-same-origin allow-scripts allow-storage-access-by-user-activation allow-top-navigation-by-user-activation\" src=\"https://embed.podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/how-to-have-a-peaceful-divorce-or-separation/id840534227?i=1000535247963\"></iframe>		\n															<img width=\"93\" height=\"43\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/291768450_602847517894882_6401580038014845901_n.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n            faster than normal by peter shankman        \n            <h2>\n                Creating Connected Relationships            \n        </h2>\n																<a href=\"https://www.fasterthannormal.com/creating-connected-relationships-w-psychotherapist-lissy-abrahams/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">\n							<img width=\"562\" height=\"102\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/faster-than-normal-podcast-1.png\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/faster-than-normal-podcast-1.png 562w, https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/faster-than-normal-podcast-1-300x54.png 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 562px) 100vw, 562px\" />								</a>\n															<img width=\"150\" height=\"150\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/Feed-Play-Love-150x150.jpg\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/Feed-Play-Love-150x150.jpg 150w, https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/Feed-Play-Love-300x300.jpg 300w, https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/elementor/thumbs/Feed-Play-Love-e1658306061762-ps1a71tfku0zu7qpvsm8t7g91oihdeotiymweaj6we.jpg 75w, https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/Feed-Play-Love-e1658306061762.jpg 100w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px\" />															\n            feed play love with Shevonne hunt        \n            <h2>\n                Want to Stop Fighting with Your Partner? <br>- Here\'s How            \n        </h2>\n            26 July 2022        \n		<iframe src=\"https://omny.fm/shows/feed-play-love1/want-to-stop-fighting-with-your-partner/embed?style=Cover\" width=\"100%\" height=\"180\" allow=\"autoplay; clipboard-write\" frameborder=\"0\" title=\"Want to stop fighting with your partner? Here\'s how\"></iframe>		\n															<img src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/elementor/thumbs/SCS_podcast_3-e1659852287780-pswfn2ezqkd7wn96h07p7j0vic52zc7h8qjgsb3d34.png\" title=\"Segal Conflict Solutions\" alt=\"Segal Conflict Solutions\" loading=\"lazy\" />															\n            segal conflict solutions        \n            <h2>\n                Why employers should be wooing employees back to the office after COVID            \n        </h2>\n            3 August 2022        \n		<iframe style=\"border-radius: 12px;\" src=\"https://open.spotify.com/embed/episode/5z4i6sWqlra07N86EzhQHs?utm_source=generator\" width=\"100%\" height=\"180\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"></iframe>		\n															<img width=\"114\" height=\"68\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/Radio-National.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n            ABC Radio national        \n            <h2>\n                Could your childhood baggage be ruining your relationship?            \n        </h2>\n            4 August 2022 - <b>Interview starts at 32:13</b>        \n		<iframe allow=\"autoplay *; encrypted-media *; fullscreen *; clipboard-write\" frameborder=\"0\" height=\"175\" style=\"width:100%;max-width:660px;overflow:hidden;background:transparent;\" sandbox=\"allow-forms allow-popups allow-same-origin allow-scripts allow-storage-access-by-user-activation allow-top-navigation-by-user-activation\" src=\"https://embed.podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/retiring-when-inflation-is-high-and-resetting-your/id73330343?i=1000574948325\"></iframe> 		\n															<img src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/nova-entertainment-logo-e1661236396796.png\" title=\"nova-entertainment-logo\" alt=\"nova-entertainment-logo\" loading=\"lazy\" />															\n            Nova         \n            <h2>\n                It\'s not them...it\'s you<br>            \n        </h2>\n            22 August 2022        \n		<iframe src=\"https://omny.fm/shows/separate-bathrooms-and-other-handy-marriage-tips/lissy-abrahams/embed\" allow=\"autoplay; clipboard-write\" width=\"100%\" height=\"180\" frameborder=\"0\" title=\"It\'s Not Them... 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elementor - v3.6.7 - 03-07-2022 */\n.e-container.e-container--row .elementor-spacer-inner{width:var(--spacer-size)}.e-container.e-container--column .elementor-spacer-inner,.elementor-column .elementor-spacer-inner{height:var(--spacer-size)}</style>		\n            <h1>\n                8 Signs You\'re in the Right Relationship            \n        </h1>\n            Article - source: Mamamia        \n            <h2>\n                8 Signs You\'re in the Right Relationship            \n        </h2>\n            22 November 2021        \n		<p>When it comes to relationships, we spend a whole lotta time talking about red flags, don’t we? Those kind of intuitive indicators you should never ignore when it comes to dating someone.</p><p>But how often do we talk about *checks notes*… green flags? You know – the good stuff that means you’re with the right kinda person?</p><p>Approximately NEVER, you guys. Why is that?</p><p>Whether you’ve been in a relationship for <em>yonks</em> or in the midst of a pandemic love story and about to enter the world together IRL – there really couldn’t be a better time to check in with yourself.</p><p>To stop and reflect on how certain behaviours in your relationship impact you and make you feel. If the person you’re dating really is… <img role=\"img\" draggable=\"false\" src=\"https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/14.0.0/svg/2728.svg\" alt=\"&#x2728;\" />the one<img role=\"img\" draggable=\"false\" src=\"https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/14.0.0/svg/2728.svg\" alt=\"&#x2728;\" />.</p><p>So, we hit up psychotherapist and couples counsellor <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/about-me/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Lissy Abrahams</a> and asked her to tell us the most common signs of a healthy relationship.</p><p>Get your notepad out, friend. We’re doing a big ol’ listicle.</p>		\n			<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.7 - 03-07-2022 */\n.elementor-widget-image{text-align:center}.elementor-widget-image a{display:inline-block}.elementor-widget-image a img[src$=\".svg\"]{width:48px}.elementor-widget-image img{vertical-align:middle;display:inline-block}</style>												<img src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/elementor/thumbs/1-prxajyhczkhsht03tu0623eeuw48qi08fhbu0156r8.png\" title=\"1\" alt=\"1\" />															\n			<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.7 - 03-07-2022 */\n.elementor-heading-title{padding:0;margin:0;line-height:1}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title[class*=elementor-size-]>a{color:inherit;font-size:inherit;line-height:inherit}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-small{font-size:15px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-medium{font-size:19px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-large{font-size:29px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xl{font-size:39px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xxl{font-size:59px}</style><h3>You balance each other\'s needs</h3>		\n		<p>Whether or not you and your partner share the same goals and interests, Abrahams said couples that balance each other’s individual needs and see the relationship as a team, are in the green zone.</p><p>\"In less happy relationships, partners lose a sense of being a team and become competitors in their day-to-day lives, especially if there is a lot of conflict,\" she shares.</p><p>\"Happy couples have a secure sense that they are both working in the best interests of the team.\"</p><p>This means that both teammates will support each other to be as individually happy, well and fulfilled as possible, said Abrahams.</p><p>\"They understand that for the team to be happy, the two individuals in it need to be happy too. They celebrate each other’s wins and are generous with time, empathy, and attention,\" she says.</p><p>“At the same time, they work together for the greater good of their team, such as keeping their eye on how much money they spend and how much time they have together as a couple.”</p><p>Which team player are you?</p><p>It’s important to remember that when working as part of a group, everyone often has different strengths and abilities – something a happy couple will use to their advantage in order to flourish.</p><p>Think of it like a sport – you can’t play every position at once.</p><p>\"They work with the tension that is always there in couple relationships – balancing couple needs and desires with those of both partner’s individual needs and desires.</p><p>“They understand that these three entities (two partners and one couple relationship) all need to flourish to be happy together.”</p>		\n															<img src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/elementor/thumbs/2-prxajyhczkhsht03tu0623eeuw48qi08fhbu0156r8.png\" title=\"2\" alt=\"2\" />															\n			<h3>You communicate respectfully</h3>		\n		<p>If there’s one thing we know, it’s how important communication is to develop a healthy relationship.</p><p>“Happy couples understand their partner is different from them and will have different opinions, thoughts, behaviours, or viewpoints,” Abrahams says.</p><p>“They see their partner as interesting, and they are often curious about their partner’s ideas. They listen (as opposed to pretending to listen) and are non-judgmental. They are grateful to their partner for their contributions and helpful or kind gestures they make and thank each other for them.”</p><p>It’s critical that both parties feel like they can be super open and honest in this area, and be able to feel comfortable discussing all kinds of matters.</p><p>“Happy couples are not critical or rejecting. They apologise when they are out of line or have hurt their partner. All of this allows the partners to safely speak their minds, unlike less happy couples who shoot each other’s ideas down, don’t listen as it feels threatening, or are judgmental.”</p>		\n															<img src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/elementor/thumbs/3-prxajzf76ej2teyqocesml5vg9zly73yrlzbhb3sl0.png\" title=\"3\" alt=\"3\" />															\n			<h3>You can bounce off each other</h3>		\n		<p>If you regularly take innocent jabs at one another, join the club. But there is a difference between playfulness and dismissiveness.</p><p style=\"margin-bottom: 1rem; color: #4d4d4d; font-family: Lato, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, Arial, \'sans-serif\'; font-size: 16px;\">“Unhappy couples show each other how displeased, hurt, resentful or frustrated they are with their relationship and each other quite frequently,” Abrahams says.</p><p style=\"margin-bottom: 1rem; color: #4d4d4d; font-family: Lato, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, Arial, \'sans-serif\'; font-size: 16px;\">“They use strategies to cut the links between them, such as they push back, dismiss or reject their partner’s ideas.”</p><p style=\"margin-bottom: 1rem; color: #4d4d4d; font-family: Lato, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, Arial, \'sans-serif\'; font-size: 16px;\">Abrahams said to picture this as a pair of scissors cutting the link between two minds.</p><p style=\"margin-bottom: 1rem; color: #4d4d4d; font-family: Lato, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, Arial, \'sans-serif\'; font-size: 16px;\">Not good.</p><p style=\"margin-bottom: 1rem; color: #4d4d4d; font-family: Lato, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, Arial, \'sans-serif\'; font-size: 16px;\">“Happy couples allow their partner’s ideas, opinions, and suggestions to be considered. They share ideas and bounce them back and forth between them.”</p><p style=\"margin-bottom: 1rem; color: #4d4d4d; font-family: Lato, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, Arial, \'sans-serif\'; font-size: 16px;\">“They love discussing, creating projects, and even planning things in the future together. They can join their partner with a full range of experiences from laughter and playfulness to being empathic when needed.”</p>		\n															<img src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/elementor/thumbs/4-prxajzf76ej2teyqocesml5vg9zly73yrlzbhb3sl0.png\" title=\"4\" alt=\"4\" />															\n			<h3>You have boundaries</h3>		\n		<p style=\"margin-bottom: 1rem; color: #4d4d4d; font-family: Lato, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, Arial, \'sans-serif\'; font-size: 16px;\">All healthy relationships will understand that boundaries are important in order to keep each other protected.</p><p style=\"margin-bottom: 1rem; color: #4d4d4d; font-family: Lato, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, Arial, \'sans-serif\'; font-size: 16px;\">According to Abrahams, boundaries can be divided into two important parts:</p><ol><li dir=\"ltr\"><strong>Happy couples don’t need to tell everyone the ins and outs of their lives.</strong><br />“They are more private as they understand the difference between private and public information. They also keep their partner’s vulnerabilities and more fragile parts protected from others.”</li><li dir=\"ltr\"><strong>They have sexual boundaries.</strong><br />“They are faithful, don’t flirt or step over a line that would be disrespectful for their partner and the relationship.”</li></ol>		\n															<img src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/elementor/thumbs/5-prxak0d1d8kd50xdiutf72xc1nuz5w7p3qmsyl2ees.png\" title=\"5\" alt=\"5\" />															\n			<h3>You say “yes” to each other more than “no”</h3>		\n		<p>In the early days of a relationship, you’re usually both “yes” people – doing everything you can to make it clear you’re both pretty into each other.</p><p>However, like other things, this level of effort can fall to the wayside as things progress. More often than not, couples can end up wondering if the other person really… cares.</p><p>“Happy couples understand that when a partner invites them for lunch or a walk or to have sex, that these are gifts in the relationship. Their partner is offering the relationship opportunities to connect and have a space just for two.”</p><p>“Happy couples understand that when they say yes to these opportunities, it creates space for emotional, physical, and sexual intimacy. They understand that such intimacy is a special glue that holds them together and offers a buffer to protect against harder times,” explains Abrahams.</p><p>“When couples I see in therapy say ‘no’ to each other frequently, I encourage them to watch Jim Carrey’s film <em>Yes Man</em> to show how life-enhancing a yes position is. Frequently saying ‘no’ to our partner destroys links between us and the opportunity for connection.”</p>		\n															<img src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/elementor/thumbs/6-prxajvnuf2dxiz47aasacm412qi53ep1f3ddk79d9w.png\" title=\"6\" alt=\"6\" />															\n			<h3>You can depend on each other</h3>		\n		<p>The importance of trust is huge. Major. Without this, a relationship can’t function – you really can’t be comfortable if you don’t have faith in your SO.</p><p>“Happy couples offer each other care, protection and the ability to depend on each other,” says Abrahams.</p><p>She adds that both partners should be able to move between feeling strong, dependable and containing positions for their partner, to being more vulnerable and seeking support from their partner. It really needs to be a balancing act.</p><p>“Neither partner is locked permanently into ‘the carer’ role or ‘the cared for’ role. They move flexibly between these positions when needed.”</p>		\n															<img src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/elementor/thumbs/7-prxajvnuf2dxiz47aasacm412qi53ep1f3ddk79d9w.png\" title=\"7\" alt=\"7\" />															\n			<h3>You keep your identities separate</h3>		\n		<p>This is a big one. Abrahams said one of the most critical things in a healthy relationship is that a couple keeps their individuality.</p><p>“Way back when we met our partner, they had their own identity and engaged in many aspects of their life. We liked this about them and were attracted to who they were as a stand-alone individual.</p><p>“They were interesting, funny, clever, sexy, or had life experience in ways that we enjoyed. We chose to remain with this individual because out of all the other possible people on the planet to partner with, we believed this individual was the best for us.”</p><p>Remember those days?</p><p>Abrahams said as we start dating, we obviously start to make room for each other in our lives and prioritise this.</p><p>Read: That friend who gets into a relationship and you feel like you never see them again.</p><p>“We gave up aspects of our individual identities for this relationship, like not seeing certain friends anymore, less time for hobbies, ditching plans to live overseas, or delaying a career choice,” she says.</p><p>“When we committed even more and lived together, maybe even had children, the stakes got higher, and we had less time for our individual desires to flourish. We all become more responsible to the couple or family unit, with more demands on our minds, time and freedom.”</p><p>And in the process, you kinda just… lose yourself.</p><p>“In relationships we often lose sight of our own identity and what makes us happy as an individual. I see many clients where they feel flat or even depressed at this loss.</p><p>“We need to keep finding time and space for both our own and our partner’s individual identity to be expressed. We can easily lose sight of what makes our heart sing. We may think it is selfish. It’s not, it’s life enhancing. We may not be able to engage in everything we used to, but we all have individual hopes and desires for our time on earth.”</p><p>Abrahams said that for some it can be reconnecting with old friends, picking up an instrument again, pursuing further study, picking up other hobbies, and more.</p><p>“We need to make time in our relationships for, ‘I’m doing more of me’ and ‘you do more of you’. Relationships are a marathon not a sprint. We need to refuel and hydrate ourselves in a way that is meaningful for each of us along the way.”</p><p>Hear, hear.</p>		\n															<img src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/elementor/thumbs/8-prxajwlolwf7ul2u4t6wx3vho4dib3srr80v1h7z3o.png\" title=\"8\" alt=\"8\" />															\n			<h3>You keep your identities separate</h3>		\n		<p>“Happy couples know that when there are difficulties, they need to work through them and not sweep issues under the rug,” says Abrahams.</p><p>“They know that life is not all rosy and there will be happier times and other times where life will be stressful. They are resourceful in how they work through difficulties.”</p><p>Two people who are in a healthy relationship should be able to have those difficult conversations about difficult things and be able to work through them – even if it means bringing in an extra mind or a set of ears.</p><p>“They may look for help online (courses, blogs, chat groups), read books, or even go seek help from wise family, friends, or a therapist. I see these couples who only need a few sessions to sort out an issue. They don’t let things fester,” she says.</p><p>“Less happy couples take longer to seek help and many end up living with upset and anxiety for years before seeking help. Couples take on average six years to see a couples therapist.”</p><p>Six. Years.</p><p>“That’s soul-destroying for many couples, as well as any children at home. Take a leaf out of the happy couples experience and get help as soon as possible.”</p><p><em>If you’re looking for help in improving your communication with your partner, Abrahams has a free e-book available <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/resources/download-top-tips-for-improving-couple-communication-e-book/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">here</a>.</em></p>[elementor-template id=\"3979\"][elementor-template id=\"3975\"]','8 Signs You\'re in the Right Relationship','Mamamia is an Australian news, opinion and lifestyle website targeted at women.','inherit','closed','closed','','4128-revision-v1','','','2022-07-24 10:27:46','2022-07-24 10:27:46','',4128,'http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/?p=4336',0,'revision','',0);
INSERT INTO `wpjr_posts` VALUES (4337,1,'2022-07-24 10:30:15','2022-07-24 10:30:15','<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.7 - 03-07-2022 */\n.e-container.e-container--row .elementor-spacer-inner{width:var(--spacer-size)}.e-container.e-container--column .elementor-spacer-inner,.elementor-column .elementor-spacer-inner{height:var(--spacer-size)}</style>		\n            <h1>\n                8 Signs You\'re in the Right Relationship            \n        </h1>\n            Article - source: Mamamia        \n            <h2>\n                8 Signs You\'re in the Right Relationship            \n        </h2>\n            22 November 2021        \n		<p>When it comes to relationships, we spend a whole lotta time talking about red flags, don’t we? Those kind of intuitive indicators you should never ignore when it comes to dating someone.</p><p>But how often do we talk about *checks notes*… green flags? You know – the good stuff that means you’re with the right kinda person?</p><p>Approximately NEVER, you guys. Why is that?</p><p>Whether you’ve been in a relationship for <em>yonks</em> or in the midst of a pandemic love story and about to enter the world together IRL – there really couldn’t be a better time to check in with yourself.</p><p>To stop and reflect on how certain behaviours in your relationship impact you and make you feel. If the person you’re dating really is… <img role=\"img\" draggable=\"false\" src=\"https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/14.0.0/svg/2728.svg\" alt=\"&#x2728;\" />the one<img role=\"img\" draggable=\"false\" src=\"https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/14.0.0/svg/2728.svg\" alt=\"&#x2728;\" />.</p><p>So, we hit up psychotherapist and couples counsellor <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/about-me/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Lissy Abrahams</a> and asked her to tell us the most common signs of a healthy relationship.</p><p>Get your notepad out, friend. We’re doing a big ol’ listicle.</p>		\n			<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.7 - 03-07-2022 */\n.elementor-widget-image{text-align:center}.elementor-widget-image a{display:inline-block}.elementor-widget-image a img[src$=\".svg\"]{width:48px}.elementor-widget-image img{vertical-align:middle;display:inline-block}</style>												<img src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/elementor/thumbs/1-prxajyhczkhsht03tu0623eeuw48qi08fhbu0156r8.png\" title=\"1\" alt=\"1\" />															\n			<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.7 - 03-07-2022 */\n.elementor-heading-title{padding:0;margin:0;line-height:1}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title[class*=elementor-size-]>a{color:inherit;font-size:inherit;line-height:inherit}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-small{font-size:15px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-medium{font-size:19px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-large{font-size:29px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xl{font-size:39px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xxl{font-size:59px}</style><h3>You balance each other\'s needs</h3>		\n		<p>Whether or not you and your partner share the same goals and interests, Abrahams said couples that balance each other’s individual needs and see the relationship as a team, are in the green zone.</p><p>\"In less happy relationships, partners lose a sense of being a team and become competitors in their day-to-day lives, especially if there is a lot of conflict,\" she shares.</p><p>\"Happy couples have a secure sense that they are both working in the best interests of the team.\"</p><p>This means that both teammates will support each other to be as individually happy, well and fulfilled as possible, said Abrahams.</p><p>\"They understand that for the team to be happy, the two individuals in it need to be happy too. They celebrate each other’s wins and are generous with time, empathy, and attention,\" she says.</p><p>“At the same time, they work together for the greater good of their team, such as keeping their eye on how much money they spend and how much time they have together as a couple.”</p><p>Which team player are you?</p><p>It’s important to remember that when working as part of a group, everyone often has different strengths and abilities – something a happy couple will use to their advantage in order to flourish.</p><p>Think of it like a sport – you can’t play every position at once.</p><p>\"They work with the tension that is always there in couple relationships – balancing couple needs and desires with those of both partner’s individual needs and desires.</p><p>“They understand that these three entities (two partners and one couple relationship) all need to flourish to be happy together.”</p>		\n															<img src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/elementor/thumbs/2-prxajyhczkhsht03tu0623eeuw48qi08fhbu0156r8.png\" title=\"2\" alt=\"2\" />															\n			<h3>You communicate respectfully</h3>		\n		<p>If there’s one thing we know, it’s how important communication is to develop a healthy relationship.</p><p>“Happy couples understand their partner is different from them and will have different opinions, thoughts, behaviours, or viewpoints,” Abrahams says.</p><p>“They see their partner as interesting, and they are often curious about their partner’s ideas. They listen (as opposed to pretending to listen) and are non-judgmental. They are grateful to their partner for their contributions and helpful or kind gestures they make and thank each other for them.”</p><p>It’s critical that both parties feel like they can be super open and honest in this area, and be able to feel comfortable discussing all kinds of matters.</p><p>“Happy couples are not critical or rejecting. They apologise when they are out of line or have hurt their partner. All of this allows the partners to safely speak their minds, unlike less happy couples who shoot each other’s ideas down, don’t listen as it feels threatening, or are judgmental.”</p>		\n															<img src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/elementor/thumbs/3-prxajzf76ej2teyqocesml5vg9zly73yrlzbhb3sl0.png\" title=\"3\" alt=\"3\" />															\n			<h3>You can bounce off each other</h3>		\n		<p>If you regularly take innocent jabs at one another, join the club. But there is a difference between playfulness and dismissiveness.</p><p style=\"margin-bottom: 1rem; color: #4d4d4d; font-family: Lato, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, Arial, \'sans-serif\'; font-size: 16px;\">“Unhappy couples show each other how displeased, hurt, resentful or frustrated they are with their relationship and each other quite frequently,” Abrahams says.</p><p style=\"margin-bottom: 1rem; color: #4d4d4d; font-family: Lato, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, Arial, \'sans-serif\'; font-size: 16px;\">“They use strategies to cut the links between them, such as they push back, dismiss or reject their partner’s ideas.”</p><p style=\"margin-bottom: 1rem; color: #4d4d4d; font-family: Lato, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, Arial, \'sans-serif\'; font-size: 16px;\">Abrahams said to picture this as a pair of scissors cutting the link between two minds.</p><p style=\"margin-bottom: 1rem; color: #4d4d4d; font-family: Lato, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, Arial, \'sans-serif\'; font-size: 16px;\">Not good.</p><p style=\"margin-bottom: 1rem; color: #4d4d4d; font-family: Lato, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, Arial, \'sans-serif\'; font-size: 16px;\">“Happy couples allow their partner’s ideas, opinions, and suggestions to be considered. They share ideas and bounce them back and forth between them.”</p><p style=\"margin-bottom: 1rem; color: #4d4d4d; font-family: Lato, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, Arial, \'sans-serif\'; font-size: 16px;\">“They love discussing, creating projects, and even planning things in the future together. They can join their partner with a full range of experiences from laughter and playfulness to being empathic when needed.”</p>		\n															<img src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/elementor/thumbs/4-prxajzf76ej2teyqocesml5vg9zly73yrlzbhb3sl0.png\" title=\"4\" alt=\"4\" />															\n			<h3>You have boundaries</h3>		\n		<p style=\"margin-bottom: 1rem; color: #4d4d4d; font-family: Lato, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, Arial, \'sans-serif\'; font-size: 16px;\">All healthy relationships will understand that boundaries are important in order to keep each other protected.</p><p style=\"margin-bottom: 1rem; color: #4d4d4d; font-family: Lato, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, Arial, \'sans-serif\'; font-size: 16px;\">According to Abrahams, boundaries can be divided into two important parts:</p><ol><li dir=\"ltr\"><strong>Happy couples don’t need to tell everyone the ins and outs of their lives.</strong><br />“They are more private as they understand the difference between private and public information. They also keep their partner’s vulnerabilities and more fragile parts protected from others.”</li><li dir=\"ltr\"><strong>They have sexual boundaries.</strong><br />“They are faithful, don’t flirt or step over a line that would be disrespectful for their partner and the relationship.”</li></ol>		\n															<img src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/elementor/thumbs/5-prxak0d1d8kd50xdiutf72xc1nuz5w7p3qmsyl2ees.png\" title=\"5\" alt=\"5\" />															\n			<h3>You say “yes” to each other more than “no”</h3>		\n		<p>In the early days of a relationship, you’re usually both “yes” people – doing everything you can to make it clear you’re both pretty into each other.</p><p>However, like other things, this level of effort can fall to the wayside as things progress. More often than not, couples can end up wondering if the other person really… cares.</p><p>“Happy couples understand that when a partner invites them for lunch or a walk or to have sex, that these are gifts in the relationship. Their partner is offering the relationship opportunities to connect and have a space just for two.”</p><p>“Happy couples understand that when they say yes to these opportunities, it creates space for emotional, physical, and sexual intimacy. They understand that such intimacy is a special glue that holds them together and offers a buffer to protect against harder times,” explains Abrahams.</p><p>“When couples I see in therapy say ‘no’ to each other frequently, I encourage them to watch Jim Carrey’s film <em>Yes Man</em> to show how life-enhancing a yes position is. Frequently saying ‘no’ to our partner destroys links between us and the opportunity for connection.”</p>		\n															<img src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/elementor/thumbs/6-prxajvnuf2dxiz47aasacm412qi53ep1f3ddk79d9w.png\" title=\"6\" alt=\"6\" />															\n			<h3>You can depend on each other</h3>		\n		<p>The importance of trust is huge. Major. Without this, a relationship can’t function – you really can’t be comfortable if you don’t have faith in your SO.</p><p>“Happy couples offer each other care, protection and the ability to depend on each other,” says Abrahams.</p><p>She adds that both partners should be able to move between feeling strong, dependable and containing positions for their partner, to being more vulnerable and seeking support from their partner. It really needs to be a balancing act.</p><p>“Neither partner is locked permanently into ‘the carer’ role or ‘the cared for’ role. They move flexibly between these positions when needed.”</p>		\n															<img src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/elementor/thumbs/7-prxajvnuf2dxiz47aasacm412qi53ep1f3ddk79d9w.png\" title=\"7\" alt=\"7\" />															\n			<h3>You keep your identities separate</h3>		\n		<p>This is a big one. Abrahams said one of the most critical things in a healthy relationship is that a couple keeps their individuality.</p><p>“Way back when we met our partner, they had their own identity and engaged in many aspects of their life. We liked this about them and were attracted to who they were as a stand-alone individual.</p><p>“They were interesting, funny, clever, sexy, or had life experience in ways that we enjoyed. We chose to remain with this individual because out of all the other possible people on the planet to partner with, we believed this individual was the best for us.”</p><p>Remember those days?</p><p>Abrahams said as we start dating, we obviously start to make room for each other in our lives and prioritise this.</p><p>Read: That friend who gets into a relationship and you feel like you never see them again.</p><p>“We gave up aspects of our individual identities for this relationship, like not seeing certain friends anymore, less time for hobbies, ditching plans to live overseas, or delaying a career choice,” she says.</p><p>“When we committed even more and lived together, maybe even had children, the stakes got higher, and we had less time for our individual desires to flourish. We all become more responsible to the couple or family unit, with more demands on our minds, time and freedom.”</p><p>And in the process, you kinda just… lose yourself.</p><p>“In relationships we often lose sight of our own identity and what makes us happy as an individual. I see many clients where they feel flat or even depressed at this loss.</p><p>“We need to keep finding time and space for both our own and our partner’s individual identity to be expressed. We can easily lose sight of what makes our heart sing. We may think it is selfish. It’s not, it’s life enhancing. We may not be able to engage in everything we used to, but we all have individual hopes and desires for our time on earth.”</p><p>Abrahams said that for some it can be reconnecting with old friends, picking up an instrument again, pursuing further study, picking up other hobbies, and more.</p><p>“We need to make time in our relationships for, ‘I’m doing more of me’ and ‘you do more of you’. Relationships are a marathon not a sprint. We need to refuel and hydrate ourselves in a way that is meaningful for each of us along the way.”</p><p>Hear, hear.</p>		\n															<img src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/elementor/thumbs/8-prxajwlolwf7ul2u4t6wx3vho4dib3srr80v1h7z3o.png\" title=\"8\" alt=\"8\" />															\n			<h3>You keep your identities separate</h3>		\n		<p>“Happy couples know that when there are difficulties, they need to work through them and not sweep issues under the rug,” says Abrahams.</p><p>“They know that life is not all rosy and there will be happier times and other times where life will be stressful. They are resourceful in how they work through difficulties.”</p><p>Two people who are in a healthy relationship should be able to have those difficult conversations about difficult things and be able to work through them – even if it means bringing in an extra mind or a set of ears.</p><p>“They may look for help online (courses, blogs, chat groups), read books, or even go seek help from wise family, friends, or a therapist. I see these couples who only need a few sessions to sort out an issue. They don’t let things fester,” she says.</p><p>“Less happy couples take longer to seek help and many end up living with upset and anxiety for years before seeking help. Couples take on average six years to see a couples therapist.”</p><p>Six. Years.</p><p>“That’s soul-destroying for many couples, as well as any children at home. Take a leaf out of the happy couples experience and get help as soon as possible.”</p><p><em>If you’re looking for help in improving your communication with your partner, Abrahams has a free e-book available <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/resources/download-top-tips-for-improving-couple-communication-e-book/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">here</a>.</em></p>[elementor-template id=\"3979\"][elementor-template id=\"3975\"]','8 Signs You\'re in the Right Relationship','Mamamia is an Australian news, opinion and lifestyle website targeted at women.','inherit','closed','closed','','4128-revision-v1','','','2022-07-24 10:30:15','2022-07-24 10:30:15','',4128,'http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/?p=4337',0,'revision','',0),(4338,1,'2022-07-24 10:30:15','2022-07-24 10:30:15','<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.7 - 03-07-2022 */\n.e-container.e-container--row .elementor-spacer-inner{width:var(--spacer-size)}.e-container.e-container--column .elementor-spacer-inner,.elementor-column .elementor-spacer-inner{height:var(--spacer-size)}</style>		\n            <h1>\n                8 Signs You\'re in the Right Relationship            \n        </h1>\n            Article - source: Mamamia        \n            <h2>\n                8 Signs You\'re in the Right Relationship            \n        </h2>\n            22 November 2021        \n		<p>When it comes to relationships, we spend a whole lotta time talking about red flags, don’t we? Those kind of intuitive indicators you should never ignore when it comes to dating someone.</p><p>But how often do we talk about *checks notes*… green flags? You know – the good stuff that means you’re with the right kinda person?</p><p>Approximately NEVER, you guys. Why is that?</p><p>Whether you’ve been in a relationship for <em>yonks</em> or in the midst of a pandemic love story and about to enter the world together IRL – there really couldn’t be a better time to check in with yourself.</p><p>To stop and reflect on how certain behaviours in your relationship impact you and make you feel. If the person you’re dating really is… <img role=\"img\" draggable=\"false\" src=\"https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/14.0.0/svg/2728.svg\" alt=\"&#x2728;\" />the one<img role=\"img\" draggable=\"false\" src=\"https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/14.0.0/svg/2728.svg\" alt=\"&#x2728;\" />.</p><p>So, we hit up psychotherapist and couples counsellor <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/about-me/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Lissy Abrahams</a> and asked her to tell us the most common signs of a healthy relationship.</p><p>Get your notepad out, friend. We’re doing a big ol’ listicle.</p>		\n			<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.7 - 03-07-2022 */\n.elementor-widget-image{text-align:center}.elementor-widget-image a{display:inline-block}.elementor-widget-image a img[src$=\".svg\"]{width:48px}.elementor-widget-image img{vertical-align:middle;display:inline-block}</style>												<img src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/elementor/thumbs/1-prxajyhczkhsht03tu0623eeuw48qi08fhbu0156r8.png\" title=\"1\" alt=\"1\" />															\n			<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.7 - 03-07-2022 */\n.elementor-heading-title{padding:0;margin:0;line-height:1}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title[class*=elementor-size-]>a{color:inherit;font-size:inherit;line-height:inherit}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-small{font-size:15px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-medium{font-size:19px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-large{font-size:29px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xl{font-size:39px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xxl{font-size:59px}</style><h3>You balance each other\'s needs</h3>		\n		<p>Whether or not you and your partner share the same goals and interests, Abrahams said couples that balance each other’s individual needs and see the relationship as a team, are in the green zone.</p><p>\"In less happy relationships, partners lose a sense of being a team and become competitors in their day-to-day lives, especially if there is a lot of conflict,\" she shares.</p><p>\"Happy couples have a secure sense that they are both working in the best interests of the team.\"</p><p>This means that both teammates will support each other to be as individually happy, well and fulfilled as possible, said Abrahams.</p><p>\"They understand that for the team to be happy, the two individuals in it need to be happy too. They celebrate each other’s wins and are generous with time, empathy, and attention,\" she says.</p><p>“At the same time, they work together for the greater good of their team, such as keeping their eye on how much money they spend and how much time they have together as a couple.”</p><p>Which team player are you?</p><p>It’s important to remember that when working as part of a group, everyone often has different strengths and abilities – something a happy couple will use to their advantage in order to flourish.</p><p>Think of it like a sport – you can’t play every position at once.</p><p>\"They work with the tension that is always there in couple relationships – balancing couple needs and desires with those of both partner’s individual needs and desires.</p><p>“They understand that these three entities (two partners and one couple relationship) all need to flourish to be happy together.”</p>		\n															<img src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/elementor/thumbs/2-prxajyhczkhsht03tu0623eeuw48qi08fhbu0156r8.png\" title=\"2\" alt=\"2\" />															\n			<h3>You communicate respectfully</h3>		\n		<p>If there’s one thing we know, it’s how important communication is to develop a healthy relationship.</p><p>“Happy couples understand their partner is different from them and will have different opinions, thoughts, behaviours, or viewpoints,” Abrahams says.</p><p>“They see their partner as interesting, and they are often curious about their partner’s ideas. They listen (as opposed to pretending to listen) and are non-judgmental. They are grateful to their partner for their contributions and helpful or kind gestures they make and thank each other for them.”</p><p>It’s critical that both parties feel like they can be super open and honest in this area, and be able to feel comfortable discussing all kinds of matters.</p><p>“Happy couples are not critical or rejecting. They apologise when they are out of line or have hurt their partner. All of this allows the partners to safely speak their minds, unlike less happy couples who shoot each other’s ideas down, don’t listen as it feels threatening, or are judgmental.”</p>		\n															<img src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/elementor/thumbs/3-prxajzf76ej2teyqocesml5vg9zly73yrlzbhb3sl0.png\" title=\"3\" alt=\"3\" />															\n			<h3>You can bounce off each other</h3>		\n		<p>If you regularly take innocent jabs at one another, join the club. But there is a difference between playfulness and dismissiveness.</p><p style=\"margin-bottom: 1rem; color: #4d4d4d; font-family: Lato, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, Arial, \'sans-serif\'; font-size: 16px;\">“Unhappy couples show each other how displeased, hurt, resentful or frustrated they are with their relationship and each other quite frequently,” Abrahams says.</p><p style=\"margin-bottom: 1rem; color: #4d4d4d; font-family: Lato, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, Arial, \'sans-serif\'; font-size: 16px;\">“They use strategies to cut the links between them, such as they push back, dismiss or reject their partner’s ideas.”</p><p style=\"margin-bottom: 1rem; color: #4d4d4d; font-family: Lato, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, Arial, \'sans-serif\'; font-size: 16px;\">Abrahams said to picture this as a pair of scissors cutting the link between two minds.</p><p style=\"margin-bottom: 1rem; color: #4d4d4d; font-family: Lato, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, Arial, \'sans-serif\'; font-size: 16px;\">Not good.</p><p style=\"margin-bottom: 1rem; color: #4d4d4d; font-family: Lato, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, Arial, \'sans-serif\'; font-size: 16px;\">“Happy couples allow their partner’s ideas, opinions, and suggestions to be considered. They share ideas and bounce them back and forth between them.”</p><p style=\"margin-bottom: 1rem; color: #4d4d4d; font-family: Lato, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, Arial, \'sans-serif\'; font-size: 16px;\">“They love discussing, creating projects, and even planning things in the future together. They can join their partner with a full range of experiences from laughter and playfulness to being empathic when needed.”</p>		\n															<img src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/elementor/thumbs/4-prxajzf76ej2teyqocesml5vg9zly73yrlzbhb3sl0.png\" title=\"4\" alt=\"4\" />															\n			<h3>You have boundaries</h3>		\n		<p style=\"margin-bottom: 1rem; color: #4d4d4d; font-family: Lato, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, Arial, \'sans-serif\'; font-size: 16px;\">All healthy relationships will understand that boundaries are important in order to keep each other protected.</p><p style=\"margin-bottom: 1rem; color: #4d4d4d; font-family: Lato, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, Arial, \'sans-serif\'; font-size: 16px;\">According to Abrahams, boundaries can be divided into two important parts:</p><ol><li dir=\"ltr\"><strong>Happy couples don’t need to tell everyone the ins and outs of their lives.</strong><br />“They are more private as they understand the difference between private and public information. They also keep their partner’s vulnerabilities and more fragile parts protected from others.”</li><li dir=\"ltr\"><strong>They have sexual boundaries.</strong><br />“They are faithful, don’t flirt or step over a line that would be disrespectful for their partner and the relationship.”</li></ol>		\n															<img src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/elementor/thumbs/5-prxak0d1d8kd50xdiutf72xc1nuz5w7p3qmsyl2ees.png\" title=\"5\" alt=\"5\" />															\n			<h3>You say “yes” to each other more than “no”</h3>		\n		<p>In the early days of a relationship, you’re usually both “yes” people – doing everything you can to make it clear you’re both pretty into each other.</p><p>However, like other things, this level of effort can fall to the wayside as things progress. More often than not, couples can end up wondering if the other person really… cares.</p><p>“Happy couples understand that when a partner invites them for lunch or a walk or to have sex, that these are gifts in the relationship. Their partner is offering the relationship opportunities to connect and have a space just for two.”</p><p>“Happy couples understand that when they say yes to these opportunities, it creates space for emotional, physical, and sexual intimacy. They understand that such intimacy is a special glue that holds them together and offers a buffer to protect against harder times,” explains Abrahams.</p><p>“When couples I see in therapy say ‘no’ to each other frequently, I encourage them to watch Jim Carrey’s film <em>Yes Man</em> to show how life-enhancing a yes position is. Frequently saying ‘no’ to our partner destroys links between us and the opportunity for connection.”</p>		\n															<img src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/elementor/thumbs/6-prxajvnuf2dxiz47aasacm412qi53ep1f3ddk79d9w.png\" title=\"6\" alt=\"6\" />															\n			<h3>You can depend on each other</h3>		\n		<p>The importance of trust is huge. Major. Without this, a relationship can’t function – you really can’t be comfortable if you don’t have faith in your SO.</p><p>“Happy couples offer each other care, protection and the ability to depend on each other,” says Abrahams.</p><p>She adds that both partners should be able to move between feeling strong, dependable and containing positions for their partner, to being more vulnerable and seeking support from their partner. It really needs to be a balancing act.</p><p>“Neither partner is locked permanently into ‘the carer’ role or ‘the cared for’ role. They move flexibly between these positions when needed.”</p>		\n															<img src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/elementor/thumbs/7-prxajvnuf2dxiz47aasacm412qi53ep1f3ddk79d9w.png\" title=\"7\" alt=\"7\" />															\n			<h3>You keep your identities separate</h3>		\n		<p>This is a big one. Abrahams said one of the most critical things in a healthy relationship is that a couple keeps their individuality.</p><p>“Way back when we met our partner, they had their own identity and engaged in many aspects of their life. We liked this about them and were attracted to who they were as a stand-alone individual.</p><p>“They were interesting, funny, clever, sexy, or had life experience in ways that we enjoyed. We chose to remain with this individual because out of all the other possible people on the planet to partner with, we believed this individual was the best for us.”</p><p>Remember those days?</p><p>Abrahams said as we start dating, we obviously start to make room for each other in our lives and prioritise this.</p><p>Read: That friend who gets into a relationship and you feel like you never see them again.</p><p>“We gave up aspects of our individual identities for this relationship, like not seeing certain friends anymore, less time for hobbies, ditching plans to live overseas, or delaying a career choice,” she says.</p><p>“When we committed even more and lived together, maybe even had children, the stakes got higher, and we had less time for our individual desires to flourish. We all become more responsible to the couple or family unit, with more demands on our minds, time and freedom.”</p><p>And in the process, you kinda just… lose yourself.</p><p>“In relationships we often lose sight of our own identity and what makes us happy as an individual. I see many clients where they feel flat or even depressed at this loss.</p><p>“We need to keep finding time and space for both our own and our partner’s individual identity to be expressed. We can easily lose sight of what makes our heart sing. We may think it is selfish. It’s not, it’s life enhancing. We may not be able to engage in everything we used to, but we all have individual hopes and desires for our time on earth.”</p><p>Abrahams said that for some it can be reconnecting with old friends, picking up an instrument again, pursuing further study, picking up other hobbies, and more.</p><p>“We need to make time in our relationships for, ‘I’m doing more of me’ and ‘you do more of you’. Relationships are a marathon not a sprint. We need to refuel and hydrate ourselves in a way that is meaningful for each of us along the way.”</p><p>Hear, hear.</p>		\n															<img src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/elementor/thumbs/8-prxajwlolwf7ul2u4t6wx3vho4dib3srr80v1h7z3o.png\" title=\"8\" alt=\"8\" />															\n			<h3>You keep your identities separate</h3>		\n		<p>“Happy couples know that when there are difficulties, they need to work through them and not sweep issues under the rug,” says Abrahams.</p><p>“They know that life is not all rosy and there will be happier times and other times where life will be stressful. They are resourceful in how they work through difficulties.”</p><p>Two people who are in a healthy relationship should be able to have those difficult conversations about difficult things and be able to work through them – even if it means bringing in an extra mind or a set of ears.</p><p>“They may look for help online (courses, blogs, chat groups), read books, or even go seek help from wise family, friends, or a therapist. I see these couples who only need a few sessions to sort out an issue. They don’t let things fester,” she says.</p><p>“Less happy couples take longer to seek help and many end up living with upset and anxiety for years before seeking help. Couples take on average six years to see a couples therapist.”</p><p>Six. Years.</p><p>“That’s soul-destroying for many couples, as well as any children at home. Take a leaf out of the happy couples experience and get help as soon as possible.”</p><p><em>If you’re looking for help in improving your communication with your partner, Abrahams has a free e-book available <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/resources/download-top-tips-for-improving-couple-communication-e-book/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">here</a>.</em></p>[elementor-template id=\"3979\"][elementor-template id=\"3975\"]','8 Signs You\'re in the Right Relationship','Mamamia is an Australian news, opinion and lifestyle website targeted at women.','inherit','closed','closed','','4128-revision-v1','','','2022-07-24 10:30:15','2022-07-24 10:30:15','',4128,'http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/?p=4338',0,'revision','',0),(4339,1,'2022-07-24 10:30:16','2022-07-24 10:30:16','<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.7 - 03-07-2022 */\n.e-container.e-container--row .elementor-spacer-inner{width:var(--spacer-size)}.e-container.e-container--column .elementor-spacer-inner,.elementor-column .elementor-spacer-inner{height:var(--spacer-size)}</style>		\n            <h1>\n                8 Signs You\'re in the Right Relationship            \n        </h1>\n            Article - source: Mamamia        \n            <h2>\n                8 Signs You\'re in the Right Relationship            \n        </h2>\n            22 November 2021        \n		<p>When it comes to relationships, we spend a whole lotta time talking about red flags, don’t we? Those kind of intuitive indicators you should never ignore when it comes to dating someone.</p><p>But how often do we talk about *checks notes*… green flags? You know – the good stuff that means you’re with the right kinda person?</p><p>Approximately NEVER, you guys. Why is that?</p><p>Whether you’ve been in a relationship for <em>yonks</em> or in the midst of a pandemic love story and about to enter the world together IRL – there really couldn’t be a better time to check in with yourself.</p><p>To stop and reflect on how certain behaviours in your relationship impact you and make you feel. If the person you’re dating really is… <img role=\"img\" draggable=\"false\" src=\"https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/14.0.0/svg/2728.svg\" alt=\"&#x2728;\" />the one<img role=\"img\" draggable=\"false\" src=\"https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/14.0.0/svg/2728.svg\" alt=\"&#x2728;\" />.</p><p>So, we hit up psychotherapist and couples counsellor <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/about-me/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Lissy Abrahams</a> and asked her to tell us the most common signs of a healthy relationship.</p><p>Get your notepad out, friend. We’re doing a big ol’ listicle.</p>		\n			<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.7 - 03-07-2022 */\n.elementor-widget-image{text-align:center}.elementor-widget-image a{display:inline-block}.elementor-widget-image a img[src$=\".svg\"]{width:48px}.elementor-widget-image img{vertical-align:middle;display:inline-block}</style>												<img src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/elementor/thumbs/1-prxajyhczkhsht03tu0623eeuw48qi08fhbu0156r8.png\" title=\"1\" alt=\"1\" />															\n			<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.7 - 03-07-2022 */\n.elementor-heading-title{padding:0;margin:0;line-height:1}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title[class*=elementor-size-]>a{color:inherit;font-size:inherit;line-height:inherit}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-small{font-size:15px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-medium{font-size:19px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-large{font-size:29px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xl{font-size:39px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xxl{font-size:59px}</style><h3>You balance each other\'s needs</h3>		\n		<p>Whether or not you and your partner share the same goals and interests, Abrahams said couples that balance each other’s individual needs and see the relationship as a team, are in the green zone.</p><p>\"In less happy relationships, partners lose a sense of being a team and become competitors in their day-to-day lives, especially if there is a lot of conflict,\" she shares.</p><p>\"Happy couples have a secure sense that they are both working in the best interests of the team.\"</p><p>This means that both teammates will support each other to be as individually happy, well and fulfilled as possible, said Abrahams.</p><p>\"They understand that for the team to be happy, the two individuals in it need to be happy too. They celebrate each other’s wins and are generous with time, empathy, and attention,\" she says.</p><p>“At the same time, they work together for the greater good of their team, such as keeping their eye on how much money they spend and how much time they have together as a couple.”</p><p>Which team player are you?</p><p>It’s important to remember that when working as part of a group, everyone often has different strengths and abilities – something a happy couple will use to their advantage in order to flourish.</p><p>Think of it like a sport – you can’t play every position at once.</p><p>\"They work with the tension that is always there in couple relationships – balancing couple needs and desires with those of both partner’s individual needs and desires.</p><p>“They understand that these three entities (two partners and one couple relationship) all need to flourish to be happy together.”</p>		\n															<img src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/elementor/thumbs/2-prxajyhczkhsht03tu0623eeuw48qi08fhbu0156r8.png\" title=\"2\" alt=\"2\" />															\n			<h3>You communicate respectfully</h3>		\n		<p>If there’s one thing we know, it’s how important communication is to develop a healthy relationship.</p><p>“Happy couples understand their partner is different from them and will have different opinions, thoughts, behaviours, or viewpoints,” Abrahams says.</p><p>“They see their partner as interesting, and they are often curious about their partner’s ideas. They listen (as opposed to pretending to listen) and are non-judgmental. They are grateful to their partner for their contributions and helpful or kind gestures they make and thank each other for them.”</p><p>It’s critical that both parties feel like they can be super open and honest in this area, and be able to feel comfortable discussing all kinds of matters.</p><p>“Happy couples are not critical or rejecting. They apologise when they are out of line or have hurt their partner. All of this allows the partners to safely speak their minds, unlike less happy couples who shoot each other’s ideas down, don’t listen as it feels threatening, or are judgmental.”</p>		\n															<img src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/elementor/thumbs/3-prxajzf76ej2teyqocesml5vg9zly73yrlzbhb3sl0.png\" title=\"3\" alt=\"3\" />															\n			<h3>You can bounce off each other</h3>		\n		<p>If you regularly take innocent jabs at one another, join the club. But there is a difference between playfulness and dismissiveness.</p><p style=\"margin-bottom: 1rem; color: #4d4d4d; font-family: Lato, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, Arial, \'sans-serif\'; font-size: 16px;\">“Unhappy couples show each other how displeased, hurt, resentful or frustrated they are with their relationship and each other quite frequently,” Abrahams says.</p><p style=\"margin-bottom: 1rem; color: #4d4d4d; font-family: Lato, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, Arial, \'sans-serif\'; font-size: 16px;\">“They use strategies to cut the links between them, such as they push back, dismiss or reject their partner’s ideas.”</p><p style=\"margin-bottom: 1rem; color: #4d4d4d; font-family: Lato, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, Arial, \'sans-serif\'; font-size: 16px;\">Abrahams said to picture this as a pair of scissors cutting the link between two minds.</p><p style=\"margin-bottom: 1rem; color: #4d4d4d; font-family: Lato, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, Arial, \'sans-serif\'; font-size: 16px;\">Not good.</p><p style=\"margin-bottom: 1rem; color: #4d4d4d; font-family: Lato, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, Arial, \'sans-serif\'; font-size: 16px;\">“Happy couples allow their partner’s ideas, opinions, and suggestions to be considered. They share ideas and bounce them back and forth between them.”</p><p style=\"margin-bottom: 1rem; color: #4d4d4d; font-family: Lato, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, Arial, \'sans-serif\'; font-size: 16px;\">“They love discussing, creating projects, and even planning things in the future together. They can join their partner with a full range of experiences from laughter and playfulness to being empathic when needed.”</p>		\n															<img src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/elementor/thumbs/4-prxajzf76ej2teyqocesml5vg9zly73yrlzbhb3sl0.png\" title=\"4\" alt=\"4\" />															\n			<h3>You have boundaries</h3>		\n		<p style=\"margin-bottom: 1rem; color: #4d4d4d; font-family: Lato, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, Arial, \'sans-serif\'; font-size: 16px;\">All healthy relationships will understand that boundaries are important in order to keep each other protected.</p><p style=\"margin-bottom: 1rem; color: #4d4d4d; font-family: Lato, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, Arial, \'sans-serif\'; font-size: 16px;\">According to Abrahams, boundaries can be divided into two important parts:</p><ol><li dir=\"ltr\"><strong>Happy couples don’t need to tell everyone the ins and outs of their lives.</strong><br />“They are more private as they understand the difference between private and public information. They also keep their partner’s vulnerabilities and more fragile parts protected from others.”</li><li dir=\"ltr\"><strong>They have sexual boundaries.</strong><br />“They are faithful, don’t flirt or step over a line that would be disrespectful for their partner and the relationship.”</li></ol>		\n															<img src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/elementor/thumbs/5-prxak0d1d8kd50xdiutf72xc1nuz5w7p3qmsyl2ees.png\" title=\"5\" alt=\"5\" />															\n			<h3>You say “yes” to each other more than “no”</h3>		\n		<p>In the early days of a relationship, you’re usually both “yes” people – doing everything you can to make it clear you’re both pretty into each other.</p><p>However, like other things, this level of effort can fall to the wayside as things progress. More often than not, couples can end up wondering if the other person really… cares.</p><p>“Happy couples understand that when a partner invites them for lunch or a walk or to have sex, that these are gifts in the relationship. Their partner is offering the relationship opportunities to connect and have a space just for two.”</p><p>“Happy couples understand that when they say yes to these opportunities, it creates space for emotional, physical, and sexual intimacy. They understand that such intimacy is a special glue that holds them together and offers a buffer to protect against harder times,” explains Abrahams.</p><p>“When couples I see in therapy say ‘no’ to each other frequently, I encourage them to watch Jim Carrey’s film <em>Yes Man</em> to show how life-enhancing a yes position is. Frequently saying ‘no’ to our partner destroys links between us and the opportunity for connection.”</p>		\n															<img src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/elementor/thumbs/6-prxajvnuf2dxiz47aasacm412qi53ep1f3ddk79d9w.png\" title=\"6\" alt=\"6\" />															\n			<h3>You can depend on each other</h3>		\n		<p>The importance of trust is huge. Major. Without this, a relationship can’t function – you really can’t be comfortable if you don’t have faith in your SO.</p><p>“Happy couples offer each other care, protection and the ability to depend on each other,” says Abrahams.</p><p>She adds that both partners should be able to move between feeling strong, dependable and containing positions for their partner, to being more vulnerable and seeking support from their partner. It really needs to be a balancing act.</p><p>“Neither partner is locked permanently into ‘the carer’ role or ‘the cared for’ role. They move flexibly between these positions when needed.”</p>		\n															<img src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/elementor/thumbs/7-prxajvnuf2dxiz47aasacm412qi53ep1f3ddk79d9w.png\" title=\"7\" alt=\"7\" />															\n			<h3>You keep your identities separate</h3>		\n		<p>This is a big one. Abrahams said one of the most critical things in a healthy relationship is that a couple keeps their individuality.</p><p>“Way back when we met our partner, they had their own identity and engaged in many aspects of their life. We liked this about them and were attracted to who they were as a stand-alone individual.</p><p>“They were interesting, funny, clever, sexy, or had life experience in ways that we enjoyed. We chose to remain with this individual because out of all the other possible people on the planet to partner with, we believed this individual was the best for us.”</p><p>Remember those days?</p><p>Abrahams said as we start dating, we obviously start to make room for each other in our lives and prioritise this.</p><p>Read: That friend who gets into a relationship and you feel like you never see them again.</p><p>“We gave up aspects of our individual identities for this relationship, like not seeing certain friends anymore, less time for hobbies, ditching plans to live overseas, or delaying a career choice,” she says.</p><p>“When we committed even more and lived together, maybe even had children, the stakes got higher, and we had less time for our individual desires to flourish. We all become more responsible to the couple or family unit, with more demands on our minds, time and freedom.”</p><p>And in the process, you kinda just… lose yourself.</p><p>“In relationships we often lose sight of our own identity and what makes us happy as an individual. I see many clients where they feel flat or even depressed at this loss.</p><p>“We need to keep finding time and space for both our own and our partner’s individual identity to be expressed. We can easily lose sight of what makes our heart sing. We may think it is selfish. It’s not, it’s life enhancing. We may not be able to engage in everything we used to, but we all have individual hopes and desires for our time on earth.”</p><p>Abrahams said that for some it can be reconnecting with old friends, picking up an instrument again, pursuing further study, picking up other hobbies, and more.</p><p>“We need to make time in our relationships for, ‘I’m doing more of me’ and ‘you do more of you’. Relationships are a marathon not a sprint. We need to refuel and hydrate ourselves in a way that is meaningful for each of us along the way.”</p><p>Hear, hear.</p>		\n															<img src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/elementor/thumbs/8-prxajwlolwf7ul2u4t6wx3vho4dib3srr80v1h7z3o.png\" title=\"8\" alt=\"8\" />															\n			<h3>You keep your identities separate</h3>		\n		<p>“Happy couples know that when there are difficulties, they need to work through them and not sweep issues under the rug,” says Abrahams.</p><p>“They know that life is not all rosy and there will be happier times and other times where life will be stressful. They are resourceful in how they work through difficulties.”</p><p>Two people who are in a healthy relationship should be able to have those difficult conversations about difficult things and be able to work through them – even if it means bringing in an extra mind or a set of ears.</p><p>“They may look for help online (courses, blogs, chat groups), read books, or even go seek help from wise family, friends, or a therapist. I see these couples who only need a few sessions to sort out an issue. They don’t let things fester,” she says.</p><p>“Less happy couples take longer to seek help and many end up living with upset and anxiety for years before seeking help. Couples take on average six years to see a couples therapist.”</p><p>Six. Years.</p><p>“That’s soul-destroying for many couples, as well as any children at home. Take a leaf out of the happy couples experience and get help as soon as possible.”</p><p><em>If you’re looking for help in improving your communication with your partner, Abrahams has a free e-book available <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/resources/download-top-tips-for-improving-couple-communication-e-book/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">here</a>.</em></p>[elementor-template id=\"3979\"][elementor-template id=\"3975\"]','8 Signs You\'re in the Right Relationship','Mamamia is an Australian news, opinion and lifestyle website targeted at women.','inherit','closed','closed','','4128-revision-v1','','','2022-07-24 10:30:16','2022-07-24 10:30:16','',4128,'http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/?p=4339',0,'revision','',0),(4340,1,'2022-07-24 10:31:34','2022-07-24 10:31:34','<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.7 - 03-07-2022 */<br />\r\n.e-container.e-container--row .elementor-spacer-inner{width:var(--spacer-size)}.e-container.e-container--column .elementor-spacer-inner,.elementor-column .elementor-spacer-inner{height:var(--spacer-size)}</style>\r\n<h1>8 Signs You\'re in the Right Relationship</h1>\r\nArticle - source: Mamamia\r\n<h2>8 Signs You\'re in the Right Relationship</h2>\r\n22 November 2021\r\n\r\nWhen it comes to relationships, we spend a whole lotta time talking about red flags, don’t we? Those kind of intuitive indicators you should never ignore when it comes to dating someone.\r\n\r\nBut how often do we talk about *checks notes*… green flags? You know – the good stuff that means you’re with the right kinda person?\r\n\r\nApproximately NEVER, you guys. Why is that?\r\n\r\nWhether you’ve been in a relationship for <em>yonks</em> or in the midst of a pandemic love story and about to enter the world together IRL – there really couldn’t be a better time to check in with yourself.\r\n\r\nTo stop and reflect on how certain behaviours in your relationship impact you and make you feel. If the person you’re dating really is… <img role=\"img\" draggable=\"false\" src=\"https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/14.0.0/svg/2728.svg\" alt=\"&#x2728;\" />the one<img role=\"img\" draggable=\"false\" src=\"https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/14.0.0/svg/2728.svg\" alt=\"&#x2728;\" />.\r\n\r\nSo, we hit up psychotherapist and couples counsellor <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/about-me/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Lissy Abrahams</a> and asked her to tell us the most common signs of a healthy relationship.\r\n\r\nGet your notepad out, friend. We’re doing a big ol’ listicle.\r\n\r\n<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.7 - 03-07-2022 */<br />\r\n.elementor-widget-image{text-align:center}.elementor-widget-image a{display:inline-block}.elementor-widget-image a img[src$=\".svg\"]{width:48px}.elementor-widget-image img{vertical-align:middle;display:inline-block}</style>\r\n\r\n<img title=\"1\" src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/elementor/thumbs/1-prxajyhczkhsht03tu0623eeuw48qi08fhbu0156r8.png\" alt=\"1\" />\r\n\r\n<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.7 - 03-07-2022 */<br />\r\n.elementor-heading-title{padding:0;margin:0;line-height:1}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title[class*=elementor-size-]>a{color:inherit;font-size:inherit;line-height:inherit}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-small{font-size:15px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-medium{font-size:19px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-large{font-size:29px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xl{font-size:39px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xxl{font-size:59px}</style>\r\n<h3>You balance each other\'s needs</h3>\r\nWhether or not you and your partner share the same goals and interests, Abrahams said couples that balance each other’s individual needs and see the relationship as a team, are in the green zone.\r\n\r\n\"In less happy relationships, partners lose a sense of being a team and become competitors in their day-to-day lives, especially if there is a lot of conflict,\" she shares.\r\n\r\n\"Happy couples have a secure sense that they are both working in the best interests of the team.\"\r\n\r\nThis means that both teammates will support each other to be as individually happy, well and fulfilled as possible, said Abrahams.\r\n\r\n\"They understand that for the team to be happy, the two individuals in it need to be happy too. They celebrate each other’s wins and are generous with time, empathy, and attention,\" she says.\r\n\r\n“At the same time, they work together for the greater good of their team, such as keeping their eye on how much money they spend and how much time they have together as a couple.”\r\n\r\nWhich team player are you?\r\n\r\nIt’s important to remember that when working as part of a group, everyone often has different strengths and abilities – something a happy couple will use to their advantage in order to flourish.\r\n\r\nThink of it like a sport – you can’t play every position at once.\r\n\r\n\"They work with the tension that is always there in couple relationships – balancing couple needs and desires with those of both partner’s individual needs and desires.\r\n\r\n“They understand that these three entities (two partners and one couple relationship) all need to flourish to be happy together.”\r\n\r\n<img title=\"2\" src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/elementor/thumbs/2-prxajyhczkhsht03tu0623eeuw48qi08fhbu0156r8.png\" alt=\"2\" />\r\n<h3>You communicate respectfully</h3>\r\nIf there’s one thing we know, it’s how important communication is to develop a healthy relationship.\r\n\r\n“Happy couples understand their partner is different from them and will have different opinions, thoughts, behaviours, or viewpoints,” Abrahams says.\r\n\r\n“They see their partner as interesting, and they are often curious about their partner’s ideas. They listen (as opposed to pretending to listen) and are non-judgmental. They are grateful to their partner for their contributions and helpful or kind gestures they make and thank each other for them.”\r\n\r\nIt’s critical that both parties feel like they can be super open and honest in this area, and be able to feel comfortable discussing all kinds of matters.\r\n\r\n“Happy couples are not critical or rejecting. They apologise when they are out of line or have hurt their partner. All of this allows the partners to safely speak their minds, unlike less happy couples who shoot each other’s ideas down, don’t listen as it feels threatening, or are judgmental.”\r\n\r\n<img title=\"3\" src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/elementor/thumbs/3-prxajzf76ej2teyqocesml5vg9zly73yrlzbhb3sl0.png\" alt=\"3\" />\r\n<h3>You can bounce off each other</h3>\r\nIf you regularly take innocent jabs at one another, join the club. But there is a difference between playfulness and dismissiveness.\r\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 1rem; color: #4d4d4d; font-family: Lato, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, Arial, \'sans-serif\'; font-size: 16px;\">“Unhappy couples show each other how displeased, hurt, resentful or frustrated they are with their relationship and each other quite frequently,” Abrahams says.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 1rem; color: #4d4d4d; font-family: Lato, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, Arial, \'sans-serif\'; font-size: 16px;\">“They use strategies to cut the links between them, such as they push back, dismiss or reject their partner’s ideas.”</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 1rem; color: #4d4d4d; font-family: Lato, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, Arial, \'sans-serif\'; font-size: 16px;\">Abrahams said to picture this as a pair of scissors cutting the link between two minds.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 1rem; color: #4d4d4d; font-family: Lato, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, Arial, \'sans-serif\'; font-size: 16px;\">Not good.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 1rem; color: #4d4d4d; font-family: Lato, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, Arial, \'sans-serif\'; font-size: 16px;\">“Happy couples allow their partner’s ideas, opinions, and suggestions to be considered. They share ideas and bounce them back and forth between them.”</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 1rem; color: #4d4d4d; font-family: Lato, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, Arial, \'sans-serif\'; font-size: 16px;\">“They love discussing, creating projects, and even planning things in the future together. They can join their partner with a full range of experiences from laughter and playfulness to being empathic when needed.”</p>\r\n<img title=\"4\" src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/elementor/thumbs/4-prxajzf76ej2teyqocesml5vg9zly73yrlzbhb3sl0.png\" alt=\"4\" />\r\n<h3>You have boundaries</h3>\r\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 1rem; color: #4d4d4d; font-family: Lato, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, Arial, \'sans-serif\'; font-size: 16px;\">All healthy relationships will understand that boundaries are important in order to keep each other protected.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 1rem; color: #4d4d4d; font-family: Lato, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, Arial, \'sans-serif\'; font-size: 16px;\">According to Abrahams, boundaries can be divided into two important parts:</p>\r\n\r\n<ol>\r\n 	<li dir=\"ltr\"><strong>Happy couples don’t need to tell everyone the ins and outs of their lives.</strong>\r\n“They are more private as they understand the difference between private and public information. They also keep their partner’s vulnerabilities and more fragile parts protected from others.”</li>\r\n 	<li dir=\"ltr\"><strong>They have sexual boundaries.</strong>\r\n“They are faithful, don’t flirt or step over a line that would be disrespectful for their partner and the relationship.”</li>\r\n</ol>\r\n<img title=\"5\" src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/elementor/thumbs/5-prxak0d1d8kd50xdiutf72xc1nuz5w7p3qmsyl2ees.png\" alt=\"5\" />\r\n<h3>You say “yes” to each other more than “no”</h3>\r\nIn the early days of a relationship, you’re usually both “yes” people – doing everything you can to make it clear you’re both pretty into each other.\r\n\r\nHowever, like other things, this level of effort can fall to the wayside as things progress. More often than not, couples can end up wondering if the other person really… cares.\r\n\r\n“Happy couples understand that when a partner invites them for lunch or a walk or to have sex, that these are gifts in the relationship. Their partner is offering the relationship opportunities to connect and have a space just for two.”\r\n\r\n“Happy couples understand that when they say yes to these opportunities, it creates space for emotional, physical, and sexual intimacy. They understand that such intimacy is a special glue that holds them together and offers a buffer to protect against harder times,” explains Abrahams.\r\n\r\n“When couples I see in therapy say ‘no’ to each other frequently, I encourage them to watch Jim Carrey’s film <em>Yes Man</em> to show how life-enhancing a yes position is. Frequently saying ‘no’ to our partner destroys links between us and the opportunity for connection.”\r\n\r\n<img title=\"6\" src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/elementor/thumbs/6-prxajvnuf2dxiz47aasacm412qi53ep1f3ddk79d9w.png\" alt=\"6\" />\r\n<h3>You can depend on each other</h3>\r\nThe importance of trust is huge. Major. Without this, a relationship can’t function – you really can’t be comfortable if you don’t have faith in your SO.\r\n\r\n“Happy couples offer each other care, protection and the ability to depend on each other,” says Abrahams.\r\n\r\nShe adds that both partners should be able to move between feeling strong, dependable and containing positions for their partner, to being more vulnerable and seeking support from their partner. It really needs to be a balancing act.\r\n\r\n“Neither partner is locked permanently into ‘the carer’ role or ‘the cared for’ role. They move flexibly between these positions when needed.”\r\n\r\n<img title=\"7\" src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/elementor/thumbs/7-prxajvnuf2dxiz47aasacm412qi53ep1f3ddk79d9w.png\" alt=\"7\" />\r\n<h3>You keep your identities separate</h3>\r\nThis is a big one. Abrahams said one of the most critical things in a healthy relationship is that a couple keeps their individuality.\r\n\r\n“Way back when we met our partner, they had their own identity and engaged in many aspects of their life. We liked this about them and were attracted to who they were as a stand-alone individual.\r\n\r\n“They were interesting, funny, clever, sexy, or had life experience in ways that we enjoyed. We chose to remain with this individual because out of all the other possible people on the planet to partner with, we believed this individual was the best for us.”\r\n\r\nRemember those days?\r\n\r\nAbrahams said as we start dating, we obviously start to make room for each other in our lives and prioritise this.\r\n\r\nRead: That friend who gets into a relationship and you feel like you never see them again.\r\n\r\n“We gave up aspects of our individual identities for this relationship, like not seeing certain friends anymore, less time for hobbies, ditching plans to live overseas, or delaying a career choice,” she says.\r\n\r\n“When we committed even more and lived together, maybe even had children, the stakes got higher, and we had less time for our individual desires to flourish. We all become more responsible to the couple or family unit, with more demands on our minds, time and freedom.”\r\n\r\nAnd in the process, you kinda just… lose yourself.\r\n\r\n“In relationships we often lose sight of our own identity and what makes us happy as an individual. I see many clients where they feel flat or even depressed at this loss.\r\n\r\n“We need to keep finding time and space for both our own and our partner’s individual identity to be expressed. We can easily lose sight of what makes our heart sing. We may think it is selfish. It’s not, it’s life enhancing. We may not be able to engage in everything we used to, but we all have individual hopes and desires for our time on earth.”\r\n\r\nAbrahams said that for some it can be reconnecting with old friends, picking up an instrument again, pursuing further study, picking up other hobbies, and more.\r\n\r\n“We need to make time in our relationships for, ‘I’m doing more of me’ and ‘you do more of you’. Relationships are a marathon not a sprint. We need to refuel and hydrate ourselves in a way that is meaningful for each of us along the way.”\r\n\r\nHear, hear.\r\n\r\n<img title=\"8\" src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/elementor/thumbs/8-prxajwlolwf7ul2u4t6wx3vho4dib3srr80v1h7z3o.png\" alt=\"8\" />\r\n<h3>You keep your identities separate</h3>\r\n“Happy couples know that when there are difficulties, they need to work through them and not sweep issues under the rug,” says Abrahams.\r\n\r\n“They know that life is not all rosy and there will be happier times and other times where life will be stressful. They are resourceful in how they work through difficulties.”\r\n\r\nTwo people who are in a healthy relationship should be able to have those difficult conversations about difficult things and be able to work through them – even if it means bringing in an extra mind or a set of ears.\r\n\r\n“They may look for help online (courses, blogs, chat groups), read books, or even go seek help from wise family, friends, or a therapist. I see these couples who only need a few sessions to sort out an issue. They don’t let things fester,” she says.\r\n\r\n“Less happy couples take longer to seek help and many end up living with upset and anxiety for years before seeking help. Couples take on average six years to see a couples therapist.”\r\n\r\nSix. Years.\r\n\r\n“That’s soul-destroying for many couples, as well as any children at home. Take a leaf out of the happy couples experience and get help as soon as possible.”\r\n\r\n<em>If you’re looking for help in improving your communication with your partner, Abrahams has a free e-book available <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/resources/download-top-tips-for-improving-couple-communication-e-book/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">here</a>.</em>\r\n\r\n[elementor-template id=\"3979\"][elementor-template id=\"3975\"]','8 Signs You\'re in the Right Relationship','Mamamia is an Australian news, opinion and lifestyle website targeted at women.','inherit','closed','closed','','4128-revision-v1','','','2022-07-24 10:31:34','2022-07-24 10:31:34','',4128,'http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/?p=4340',0,'revision','',0),(4341,1,'2021-11-09 10:41:58','2021-11-09 10:41:58','<style>/*! elementor - v3.7.2 - 21-08-2022 */\n.elementor-column .elementor-spacer-inner{height:var(--spacer-size)}.e-container{--container-widget-width:100%}.e-container>.elementor-widget-spacer{width:var(--container-widget-width,var(--spacer-size));-ms-flex-item-align:stretch;align-self:stretch;-ms-flex-negative:0;flex-shrink:0}.e-container>.elementor-widget-spacer>.elementor-widget-container,.e-container>.elementor-widget-spacer>.elementor-widget-container>.elementor-spacer{height:100%}.e-container>.elementor-widget-spacer>.elementor-widget-container>.elementor-spacer>.elementor-spacer-inner{height:var(--container-widget-height,var(--spacer-size))}</style>		\n            <h1>\n                MamaM!a            \n        </h1>\n            Article - source: Mamamia        \n            <h2>\n                15 Things Your Partner Will Never Do If You Are in a Healthy Relationship            \n        </h2>\n            9 November 2021        \n		<p>Relationships can be TOUGH. And while things like cheating and trust issues are some very obvious red flags that things are not<em> great</em>, experts say there are also some smaller things that can give you an idea of just how healthy your relationship is.</p><p>And while these little things are really important for a healthy relationship, it\'s also critical you don\'t ignore small signs of disrespect.</p><p>To find out what some of these signs are, we hit up psychotherapist and couples counsellor <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/about-me/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Lissy Abrahams</a>, and asked her to tell us 15 things your partner won\'t do if you\'re in a healthy relationship.</p>		\n			<style>/*! elementor - v3.7.2 - 21-08-2022 */\n.elementor-heading-title{padding:0;margin:0;line-height:1}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title[class*=elementor-size-]>a{color:inherit;font-size:inherit;line-height:inherit}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-small{font-size:15px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-medium{font-size:19px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-large{font-size:29px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xl{font-size:39px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xxl{font-size:59px}</style><h3>1. They never impose their struggles on to you</h3>		\n		<p>If someone really loves you, they’ll always be there for you - through thick and thin. However, Abrahams reminds us that it\'s important your partner doesn\'t rely on you to fill a gap missing in themselves.</p><p>\"A good partner will never impose their mental health struggles onto you, as they recognise that by looking after themselves and receiving professional help, they are also looking after you and the relationship,\" said Abrahams. </p><p>\"A good partner knows it’s not your responsibility to \'fix\' them.\"</p>		\n			<h3>2. They never block the potential to improve your relationship</h3>		\n		<p>No matter how good your relationship is, there\'s always going to be arguments - but what matters is how you deal with them. Your partner should always put the needs of the relationship first, and want to talk through issues rather than leaving things to fester in the dark.</p><p>\"A good partner never says \'no\' to you when you want to go to couples therapy. I have seen the damage that this causes when partners say no and block their potential to develop. This causes more conflict between partners and prevents happiness being created in their relationship,\" said Abrahams.</p>		\n			<h3>3. They\'re never controlling</h3>		\n		<p>If you\'re in a healthy relationship, you should have room for spending time with family and friends. A partner who loves and respects you won\'t monopolise your time or keep you to themselves. You should never feel restricted for seeing people outside of your relationship.</p><p>\"Your partner should understand that you are a separate individual with your own mind and desires and these need to be respected. Some examples: If you want to see friends, they encourage you to go and don’t try to make you cancel to stay home with them.</p><p>\"They don’t try to make you eat food you don’t want in your body. They don’t try to guilt or manipulate you to get their way, or force their life view on to you.\"   </p>		\n			<h3>4. They never pick apart your appearance</h3>		\n		<p>Your partner should also never take jabs at your appearance, lower your self-confidence or make you feel bad about yourself. It\'s a d**k move and a sign of a bad relationship.</p><p>\"A good partner will never suggest you need anti-wrinkle injections, fillers, or plastic surgery,\" said Abrahams. \"They know that your body is great the way it is, and it is yours. They respect that it’s not their body to meddle with for their own sake or pleasure.\"</p>		\n			<h3>5. They never disrespect you</h3>		\n		<p>It may sound simple, but this is one that\'s often overlooked.</p><p>\"A good partner will never use you to make other people jealous or score points with others. If they ask you to wear particularly revealing clothing or ask you to perform in a particular way to bolster their own standing in the eyes of others, then this is a misuse of you. It’s narcissistic.\"</p>		\n			<h3>6. They never minimise or dismiss your feelings</h3>		\n		<p>Your partner should understand how important it is to listen to how you\'re feeling. You should never feel that they avoid important conversations - rather, seek them out and approach them with respect.</p><p>\"They also understand that listening and wanting to know how you feel is important for creating psychological safety in a relationship,\" she adds.</p>		\n			<h3>7. They never discourage you</h3>		\n		<p>One of the best signs of a person\'s confidence is their ability to help support the ambitions of others. </p><p>Abrahams said a good partner will never discourage your psychological, educational, or physical development, nor stand in the way of you accessing it. </p><p>\"They will see that your wellbeing and development is a good thing for you and will offer support to help you facilitate your experience, such as offering financial support or taking the children that day.\"</p>		\n			<h3>8. They respect your feelings</h3>		\n		<p>Whenever you feel like you need to prove your worth in a relationship, this isn\'t a good sign. \"A good partner will never forget that you are an asset in their lives and worthy of protecting you and the relationship,\" reminds Abrahams.</p><p>\"They understand that being with you is a privilege and not a right – even if you have tricky bits,\" she adds.</p><p>\"This means they don’t forget you and the relationship and step over your agreed upon couple boundaries when they are out for a night drinking with their mates.\"</p>		\n			<h3>9. They pull their weight at home</h3>		\n		<p>If your partner really loves you, you\'ll work as a team. </p><p>\"A good partner will never make you do all the housework. They understand they produce mess and dirt and that they are part of the tidying and cleaning solution with you.</p><p>\"They\'ll also never assume it is your role to solely look after the kids, and understand that they need to participate and share the load, even if you do take on more of this than them.\"</p>		\n			<h3>10. They don\'t try to control your finances</h3>		\n		<p>We\'re just going to be straight up with this one: Your partner should never control your finances - unless you have a gambling problem or an addiction to spending. </p><p>\"They will understand that we all have a different relationship with money, and we need to discuss and set boundaries together that we both adhere to – for the greater good,\" said Abrahams.  </p>		\n			<h3>11. They never criticise your body</h3>		\n		<p>While there’s nothing wrong with being with someone who encourages you to be the healthiest version of yourself, there\'s a line between wanting the best for someone and criticising their lifestyle choices. </p><p>Because if this kind of criticism is constant, it\'ll end up making you feel sh*tty about yourself.</p><p>\"A good partner will never ask you to lose weight for them. They understand that bodies change throughout life and that neither of us are likely to be the size or shape we were when we met,\" said Abrahams.</p>		\n			<h3>12. They understand physical boundaries</h3>		\n		<p>Another important one? Boundaries. Especially physical boundaries.</p><p>\"A good partner will never touch your body in a way you don’t want once you have told them. They will remember that your body boundary is important and that to push their sexual agenda onto you is disrespectful and will breed a lack of trust in them.\" </p>		\n			<h3>13. They never dismiss your career</h3>		\n		<p>A partner who loves and respects you will be your number one supporter. They\'ll push you to challenge yourself and aim for big goals - not dismiss them as silly or unrealistic.</p><p>\"A good partner will never disregard your career as unimportant after having children. They will want to participate in discussions and support you to get you back to work when you are ready – even if this does not align with their opinion on this,\" said Abrahams.</p>		\n			<h3>14. The would never mentally  or physically harm you</h3>		\n		<p>This is one is crucial. A good partner will always be able to recognise their self worth without attempting to place anyone (you) below them, or break someone else\'s self-confidence.</p><p>\"A good partner will never raise their hand or harm you or verbally abuse you,\" said Abrahams. \"They know that they\'re upset or angry feelings should not be taken out on you.\"</p>		\n			<h3>15. They don\'t compare you to other people</h3>		\n		<p>A good partner will never compare you to other people or make you alter your behaviour \"when their past experiences have left a mark on them\". </p><p>For example, if they have been cheated on in a past relationship and they struggle with trust, a good partner will not make you responsible for this and understand they need to work on this inside of themselves.</p><p>\"This means they would not ask you to repeatedly text them when you’re out without them and they don’t put limits on who you can and cannot speak to when you’re at a party.\"</p><p><em>If you\'re looking for help in improving your relationship with your partner, Abrahams has a free e-book available <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/service/5-mistakes-couples-make/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">here</a>. </em></p><p><em>If you or a loved one is experiencing family violence, support is available. Call 1800 RESPECT on 1800 737 732 or visit the website to chat online.</em></p><p><em>If you are concerned about your behaviour within a relationship, call Relationships Australia on 1300 364 277 to find a service near you.</em></p>','15 Things Your Partner Will Never do if You\'re in a Healthy Relationship',' Relationships can be TOUGH. And while things like cheating and trust issues are some very obvious red...','publish','closed','closed','','15-things-partner-never-do-if-healthy-relationship','','','2022-10-17 02:18:19','2022-10-17 02:18:19','',0,'http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/?post_type=case-study&#038;p=4341',0,'case-study','',0),(4342,1,'2022-07-24 10:36:00','2022-07-24 10:36:00','','reed-naliboff-tP0ZiwR-LQ-unsplash','','inherit','open','closed','','reed-naliboff-tp0ziwr-lq-unsplash','','','2022-07-24 10:36:00','2022-07-24 10:36:00','',4341,'http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/reed-naliboff-tP0ZiwR-LQ-unsplash.jpg',0,'attachment','image/jpeg',0),(4343,1,'2022-07-24 10:41:58','2022-07-24 10:41:58','<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.7 - 03-07-2022 */<br />.e-container.e-container--row .elementor-spacer-inner{width:var(--spacer-size)}.e-container.e-container--column .elementor-spacer-inner,.elementor-column .elementor-spacer-inner{height:var(--spacer-size)}</style>\r\n<h1>8 Signs You\'re in the Right Relationship</h1>\r\nArticle - source: Mamamia\r\n<h2>8 Signs You\'re in the Right Relationship</h2>\r\n22 November 2021\r\n\r\nWhen it comes to relationships, we spend a whole lotta time talking about red flags, don’t we? Those kind of intuitive indicators you should never ignore when it comes to dating someone.\r\n\r\nBut how often do we talk about *checks notes*… green flags? You know – the good stuff that means you’re with the right kinda person?\r\n\r\nApproximately NEVER, you guys. Why is that?\r\n\r\nWhether you’ve been in a relationship for <em>yonks</em> or in the midst of a pandemic love story and about to enter the world together IRL – there really couldn’t be a better time to check in with yourself.\r\n\r\nTo stop and reflect on how certain behaviours in your relationship impact you and make you feel. If the person you’re dating really is… <img role=\"img\" draggable=\"false\" src=\"https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/14.0.0/svg/2728.svg\" alt=\"&#x2728;\" />the one<img role=\"img\" draggable=\"false\" src=\"https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/14.0.0/svg/2728.svg\" alt=\"&#x2728;\" />.\r\n\r\nSo, we hit up psychotherapist and couples counsellor <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/about-me/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Lissy Abrahams</a> and asked her to tell us the most common signs of a healthy relationship.\r\n\r\nGet your notepad out, friend. We’re doing a big ol’ listicle.\r\n\r\n<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.7 - 03-07-2022 */<br />.elementor-widget-image{text-align:center}.elementor-widget-image a{display:inline-block}.elementor-widget-image a img[src$=\".svg\"]{width:48px}.elementor-widget-image img{vertical-align:middle;display:inline-block}</style>\r\n\r\n<img title=\"1\" src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/elementor/thumbs/1-prxajyhczkhsht03tu0623eeuw48qi08fhbu0156r8.png\" alt=\"1\" />\r\n\r\n<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.7 - 03-07-2022 */<br />.elementor-heading-title{padding:0;margin:0;line-height:1}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title[class*=elementor-size-]>a{color:inherit;font-size:inherit;line-height:inherit}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-small{font-size:15px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-medium{font-size:19px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-large{font-size:29px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xl{font-size:39px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xxl{font-size:59px}</style>\r\n<h3>You balance each other\'s needs</h3>\r\nWhether or not you and your partner share the same goals and interests, Abrahams said couples that balance each other’s individual needs and see the relationship as a team, are in the green zone.\r\n\r\n\"In less happy relationships, partners lose a sense of being a team and become competitors in their day-to-day lives, especially if there is a lot of conflict,\" she shares.\r\n\r\n\"Happy couples have a secure sense that they are both working in the best interests of the team.\"\r\n\r\nThis means that both teammates will support each other to be as individually happy, well and fulfilled as possible, said Abrahams.\r\n\r\n\"They understand that for the team to be happy, the two individuals in it need to be happy too. They celebrate each other’s wins and are generous with time, empathy, and attention,\" she says.\r\n\r\n“At the same time, they work together for the greater good of their team, such as keeping their eye on how much money they spend and how much time they have together as a couple.”\r\n\r\nWhich team player are you?\r\n\r\nIt’s important to remember that when working as part of a group, everyone often has different strengths and abilities – something a happy couple will use to their advantage in order to flourish.\r\n\r\nThink of it like a sport – you can’t play every position at once.\r\n\r\n\"They work with the tension that is always there in couple relationships – balancing couple needs and desires with those of both partner’s individual needs and desires.\r\n\r\n“They understand that these three entities (two partners and one couple relationship) all need to flourish to be happy together.”\r\n\r\n<img title=\"2\" src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/elementor/thumbs/2-prxajyhczkhsht03tu0623eeuw48qi08fhbu0156r8.png\" alt=\"2\" />\r\n<h3>You communicate respectfully</h3>\r\nIf there’s one thing we know, it’s how important communication is to develop a healthy relationship.\r\n\r\n“Happy couples understand their partner is different from them and will have different opinions, thoughts, behaviours, or viewpoints,” Abrahams says.\r\n\r\n“They see their partner as interesting, and they are often curious about their partner’s ideas. They listen (as opposed to pretending to listen) and are non-judgmental. They are grateful to their partner for their contributions and helpful or kind gestures they make and thank each other for them.”\r\n\r\nIt’s critical that both parties feel like they can be super open and honest in this area, and be able to feel comfortable discussing all kinds of matters.\r\n\r\n“Happy couples are not critical or rejecting. They apologise when they are out of line or have hurt their partner. All of this allows the partners to safely speak their minds, unlike less happy couples who shoot each other’s ideas down, don’t listen as it feels threatening, or are judgmental.”\r\n\r\n<img title=\"3\" src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/elementor/thumbs/3-prxajzf76ej2teyqocesml5vg9zly73yrlzbhb3sl0.png\" alt=\"3\" />\r\n<h3>You can bounce off each other</h3>\r\nIf you regularly take innocent jabs at one another, join the club. But there is a difference between playfulness and dismissiveness.\r\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 1rem; color: #4d4d4d; font-family: Lato, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, Arial, \'sans-serif\'; font-size: 16px;\">“Unhappy couples show each other how displeased, hurt, resentful or frustrated they are with their relationship and each other quite frequently,” Abrahams says.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 1rem; color: #4d4d4d; font-family: Lato, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, Arial, \'sans-serif\'; font-size: 16px;\">“They use strategies to cut the links between them, such as they push back, dismiss or reject their partner’s ideas.”</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 1rem; color: #4d4d4d; font-family: Lato, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, Arial, \'sans-serif\'; font-size: 16px;\">Abrahams said to picture this as a pair of scissors cutting the link between two minds.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 1rem; color: #4d4d4d; font-family: Lato, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, Arial, \'sans-serif\'; font-size: 16px;\">Not good.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 1rem; color: #4d4d4d; font-family: Lato, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, Arial, \'sans-serif\'; font-size: 16px;\">“Happy couples allow their partner’s ideas, opinions, and suggestions to be considered. They share ideas and bounce them back and forth between them.”</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 1rem; color: #4d4d4d; font-family: Lato, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, Arial, \'sans-serif\'; font-size: 16px;\">“They love discussing, creating projects, and even planning things in the future together. They can join their partner with a full range of experiences from laughter and playfulness to being empathic when needed.”</p>\r\n<img title=\"4\" src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/elementor/thumbs/4-prxajzf76ej2teyqocesml5vg9zly73yrlzbhb3sl0.png\" alt=\"4\" />\r\n<h3>You have boundaries</h3>\r\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 1rem; color: #4d4d4d; font-family: Lato, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, Arial, \'sans-serif\'; font-size: 16px;\">All healthy relationships will understand that boundaries are important in order to keep each other protected.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 1rem; color: #4d4d4d; font-family: Lato, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, Arial, \'sans-serif\'; font-size: 16px;\">According to Abrahams, boundaries can be divided into two important parts:</p>\r\n\r\n<ol>\r\n 	<li dir=\"ltr\"><strong>Happy couples don’t need to tell everyone the ins and outs of their lives.</strong>\r\n“They are more private as they understand the difference between private and public information. They also keep their partner’s vulnerabilities and more fragile parts protected from others.”</li>\r\n 	<li dir=\"ltr\"><strong>They have sexual boundaries.</strong>\r\n“They are faithful, don’t flirt or step over a line that would be disrespectful for their partner and the relationship.”</li>\r\n</ol>\r\n<img title=\"5\" src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/elementor/thumbs/5-prxak0d1d8kd50xdiutf72xc1nuz5w7p3qmsyl2ees.png\" alt=\"5\" />\r\n<h3>You say “yes” to each other more than “no”</h3>\r\nIn the early days of a relationship, you’re usually both “yes” people – doing everything you can to make it clear you’re both pretty into each other.\r\n\r\nHowever, like other things, this level of effort can fall to the wayside as things progress. More often than not, couples can end up wondering if the other person really… cares.\r\n\r\n“Happy couples understand that when a partner invites them for lunch or a walk or to have sex, that these are gifts in the relationship. Their partner is offering the relationship opportunities to connect and have a space just for two.”\r\n\r\n“Happy couples understand that when they say yes to these opportunities, it creates space for emotional, physical, and sexual intimacy. They understand that such intimacy is a special glue that holds them together and offers a buffer to protect against harder times,” explains Abrahams.\r\n\r\n“When couples I see in therapy say ‘no’ to each other frequently, I encourage them to watch Jim Carrey’s film <em>Yes Man</em> to show how life-enhancing a yes position is. Frequently saying ‘no’ to our partner destroys links between us and the opportunity for connection.”\r\n\r\n<img title=\"6\" src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/elementor/thumbs/6-prxajvnuf2dxiz47aasacm412qi53ep1f3ddk79d9w.png\" alt=\"6\" />\r\n<h3>You can depend on each other</h3>\r\nThe importance of trust is huge. Major. Without this, a relationship can’t function – you really can’t be comfortable if you don’t have faith in your SO.\r\n\r\n“Happy couples offer each other care, protection and the ability to depend on each other,” says Abrahams.\r\n\r\nShe adds that both partners should be able to move between feeling strong, dependable and containing positions for their partner, to being more vulnerable and seeking support from their partner. It really needs to be a balancing act.\r\n\r\n“Neither partner is locked permanently into ‘the carer’ role or ‘the cared for’ role. They move flexibly between these positions when needed.”\r\n\r\n<img title=\"7\" src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/elementor/thumbs/7-prxajvnuf2dxiz47aasacm412qi53ep1f3ddk79d9w.png\" alt=\"7\" />\r\n<h3>You keep your identities separate</h3>\r\nThis is a big one. Abrahams said one of the most critical things in a healthy relationship is that a couple keeps their individuality.\r\n\r\n“Way back when we met our partner, they had their own identity and engaged in many aspects of their life. We liked this about them and were attracted to who they were as a stand-alone individual.\r\n\r\n“They were interesting, funny, clever, sexy, or had life experience in ways that we enjoyed. We chose to remain with this individual because out of all the other possible people on the planet to partner with, we believed this individual was the best for us.”\r\n\r\nRemember those days?\r\n\r\nAbrahams said as we start dating, we obviously start to make room for each other in our lives and prioritise this.\r\n\r\nRead: That friend who gets into a relationship and you feel like you never see them again.\r\n\r\n“We gave up aspects of our individual identities for this relationship, like not seeing certain friends anymore, less time for hobbies, ditching plans to live overseas, or delaying a career choice,” she says.\r\n\r\n“When we committed even more and lived together, maybe even had children, the stakes got higher, and we had less time for our individual desires to flourish. We all become more responsible to the couple or family unit, with more demands on our minds, time and freedom.”\r\n\r\nAnd in the process, you kinda just… lose yourself.\r\n\r\n“In relationships we often lose sight of our own identity and what makes us happy as an individual. I see many clients where they feel flat or even depressed at this loss.\r\n\r\n“We need to keep finding time and space for both our own and our partner’s individual identity to be expressed. We can easily lose sight of what makes our heart sing. We may think it is selfish. It’s not, it’s life enhancing. We may not be able to engage in everything we used to, but we all have individual hopes and desires for our time on earth.”\r\n\r\nAbrahams said that for some it can be reconnecting with old friends, picking up an instrument again, pursuing further study, picking up other hobbies, and more.\r\n\r\n“We need to make time in our relationships for, ‘I’m doing more of me’ and ‘you do more of you’. Relationships are a marathon not a sprint. We need to refuel and hydrate ourselves in a way that is meaningful for each of us along the way.”\r\n\r\nHear, hear.\r\n\r\n<img title=\"8\" src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/elementor/thumbs/8-prxajwlolwf7ul2u4t6wx3vho4dib3srr80v1h7z3o.png\" alt=\"8\" />\r\n<h3>You keep your identities separate</h3>\r\n“Happy couples know that when there are difficulties, they need to work through them and not sweep issues under the rug,” says Abrahams.\r\n\r\n“They know that life is not all rosy and there will be happier times and other times where life will be stressful. They are resourceful in how they work through difficulties.”\r\n\r\nTwo people who are in a healthy relationship should be able to have those difficult conversations about difficult things and be able to work through them – even if it means bringing in an extra mind or a set of ears.\r\n\r\n“They may look for help online (courses, blogs, chat groups), read books, or even go seek help from wise family, friends, or a therapist. I see these couples who only need a few sessions to sort out an issue. They don’t let things fester,” she says.\r\n\r\n“Less happy couples take longer to seek help and many end up living with upset and anxiety for years before seeking help. Couples take on average six years to see a couples therapist.”\r\n\r\nSix. Years.\r\n\r\n“That’s soul-destroying for many couples, as well as any children at home. Take a leaf out of the happy couples experience and get help as soon as possible.”\r\n\r\n<em>If you’re looking for help in improving your communication with your partner, Abrahams has a free e-book available <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/resources/download-top-tips-for-improving-couple-communication-e-book/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">here</a>.</em>\r\n\r\n[elementor-template id=\"3979\"][elementor-template id=\"3975\"]','15 Things Your Partner Will Never do if You\'re in a Healthy Relationship','Mamamia is an Australian news, opinion and lifestyle website targeted at women.','inherit','closed','closed','','4341-revision-v1','','','2022-07-24 10:41:58','2022-07-24 10:41:58','',4341,'http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/?p=4343',0,'revision','',0),(4344,1,'2022-07-24 10:43:02','2022-07-24 10:43:02','<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.7 - 03-07-2022 */<br />.e-container.e-container--row .elementor-spacer-inner{width:var(--spacer-size)}.e-container.e-container--column .elementor-spacer-inner,.elementor-column .elementor-spacer-inner{height:var(--spacer-size)}</style>\r\n<h1>8 Signs You\'re in the Right Relationship</h1>\r\nArticle - source: Mamamia\r\n<h2>8 Signs You\'re in the Right Relationship</h2>\r\n22 November 2021\r\n\r\nWhen it comes to relationships, we spend a whole lotta time talking about red flags, don’t we? Those kind of intuitive indicators you should never ignore when it comes to dating someone.\r\n\r\nBut how often do we talk about *checks notes*… green flags? You know – the good stuff that means you’re with the right kinda person?\r\n\r\nApproximately NEVER, you guys. Why is that?\r\n\r\nWhether you’ve been in a relationship for <em>yonks</em> or in the midst of a pandemic love story and about to enter the world together IRL – there really couldn’t be a better time to check in with yourself.\r\n\r\nTo stop and reflect on how certain behaviours in your relationship impact you and make you feel. If the person you’re dating really is… <img role=\"img\" draggable=\"false\" src=\"https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/14.0.0/svg/2728.svg\" alt=\"&#x2728;\" />the one<img role=\"img\" draggable=\"false\" src=\"https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/14.0.0/svg/2728.svg\" alt=\"&#x2728;\" />.\r\n\r\nSo, we hit up psychotherapist and couples counsellor <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/about-me/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Lissy Abrahams</a> and asked her to tell us the most common signs of a healthy relationship.\r\n\r\nGet your notepad out, friend. We’re doing a big ol’ listicle.\r\n\r\n<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.7 - 03-07-2022 */<br />.elementor-widget-image{text-align:center}.elementor-widget-image a{display:inline-block}.elementor-widget-image a img[src$=\".svg\"]{width:48px}.elementor-widget-image img{vertical-align:middle;display:inline-block}</style>\r\n\r\n<img title=\"1\" src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/elementor/thumbs/1-prxajyhczkhsht03tu0623eeuw48qi08fhbu0156r8.png\" alt=\"1\" />\r\n\r\n<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.7 - 03-07-2022 */<br />.elementor-heading-title{padding:0;margin:0;line-height:1}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title[class*=elementor-size-]>a{color:inherit;font-size:inherit;line-height:inherit}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-small{font-size:15px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-medium{font-size:19px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-large{font-size:29px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xl{font-size:39px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xxl{font-size:59px}</style>\r\n<h3>You balance each other\'s needs</h3>\r\nWhether or not you and your partner share the same goals and interests, Abrahams said couples that balance each other’s individual needs and see the relationship as a team, are in the green zone.\r\n\r\n\"In less happy relationships, partners lose a sense of being a team and become competitors in their day-to-day lives, especially if there is a lot of conflict,\" she shares.\r\n\r\n\"Happy couples have a secure sense that they are both working in the best interests of the team.\"\r\n\r\nThis means that both teammates will support each other to be as individually happy, well and fulfilled as possible, said Abrahams.\r\n\r\n\"They understand that for the team to be happy, the two individuals in it need to be happy too. They celebrate each other’s wins and are generous with time, empathy, and attention,\" she says.\r\n\r\n“At the same time, they work together for the greater good of their team, such as keeping their eye on how much money they spend and how much time they have together as a couple.”\r\n\r\nWhich team player are you?\r\n\r\nIt’s important to remember that when working as part of a group, everyone often has different strengths and abilities – something a happy couple will use to their advantage in order to flourish.\r\n\r\nThink of it like a sport – you can’t play every position at once.\r\n\r\n\"They work with the tension that is always there in couple relationships – balancing couple needs and desires with those of both partner’s individual needs and desires.\r\n\r\n“They understand that these three entities (two partners and one couple relationship) all need to flourish to be happy together.”\r\n\r\n<img title=\"2\" src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/elementor/thumbs/2-prxajyhczkhsht03tu0623eeuw48qi08fhbu0156r8.png\" alt=\"2\" />\r\n<h3>You communicate respectfully</h3>\r\nIf there’s one thing we know, it’s how important communication is to develop a healthy relationship.\r\n\r\n“Happy couples understand their partner is different from them and will have different opinions, thoughts, behaviours, or viewpoints,” Abrahams says.\r\n\r\n“They see their partner as interesting, and they are often curious about their partner’s ideas. They listen (as opposed to pretending to listen) and are non-judgmental. They are grateful to their partner for their contributions and helpful or kind gestures they make and thank each other for them.”\r\n\r\nIt’s critical that both parties feel like they can be super open and honest in this area, and be able to feel comfortable discussing all kinds of matters.\r\n\r\n“Happy couples are not critical or rejecting. They apologise when they are out of line or have hurt their partner. All of this allows the partners to safely speak their minds, unlike less happy couples who shoot each other’s ideas down, don’t listen as it feels threatening, or are judgmental.”\r\n\r\n<img title=\"3\" src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/elementor/thumbs/3-prxajzf76ej2teyqocesml5vg9zly73yrlzbhb3sl0.png\" alt=\"3\" />\r\n<h3>You can bounce off each other</h3>\r\nIf you regularly take innocent jabs at one another, join the club. But there is a difference between playfulness and dismissiveness.\r\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 1rem; color: #4d4d4d; font-family: Lato, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, Arial, \'sans-serif\'; font-size: 16px;\">“Unhappy couples show each other how displeased, hurt, resentful or frustrated they are with their relationship and each other quite frequently,” Abrahams says.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 1rem; color: #4d4d4d; font-family: Lato, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, Arial, \'sans-serif\'; font-size: 16px;\">“They use strategies to cut the links between them, such as they push back, dismiss or reject their partner’s ideas.”</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 1rem; color: #4d4d4d; font-family: Lato, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, Arial, \'sans-serif\'; font-size: 16px;\">Abrahams said to picture this as a pair of scissors cutting the link between two minds.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 1rem; color: #4d4d4d; font-family: Lato, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, Arial, \'sans-serif\'; font-size: 16px;\">Not good.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 1rem; color: #4d4d4d; font-family: Lato, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, Arial, \'sans-serif\'; font-size: 16px;\">“Happy couples allow their partner’s ideas, opinions, and suggestions to be considered. They share ideas and bounce them back and forth between them.”</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 1rem; color: #4d4d4d; font-family: Lato, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, Arial, \'sans-serif\'; font-size: 16px;\">“They love discussing, creating projects, and even planning things in the future together. They can join their partner with a full range of experiences from laughter and playfulness to being empathic when needed.”</p>\r\n<img title=\"4\" src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/elementor/thumbs/4-prxajzf76ej2teyqocesml5vg9zly73yrlzbhb3sl0.png\" alt=\"4\" />\r\n<h3>You have boundaries</h3>\r\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 1rem; color: #4d4d4d; font-family: Lato, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, Arial, \'sans-serif\'; font-size: 16px;\">All healthy relationships will understand that boundaries are important in order to keep each other protected.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 1rem; color: #4d4d4d; font-family: Lato, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, Arial, \'sans-serif\'; font-size: 16px;\">According to Abrahams, boundaries can be divided into two important parts:</p>\r\n\r\n<ol>\r\n 	<li dir=\"ltr\"><strong>Happy couples don’t need to tell everyone the ins and outs of their lives.</strong>\r\n“They are more private as they understand the difference between private and public information. They also keep their partner’s vulnerabilities and more fragile parts protected from others.”</li>\r\n 	<li dir=\"ltr\"><strong>They have sexual boundaries.</strong>\r\n“They are faithful, don’t flirt or step over a line that would be disrespectful for their partner and the relationship.”</li>\r\n</ol>\r\n<img title=\"5\" src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/elementor/thumbs/5-prxak0d1d8kd50xdiutf72xc1nuz5w7p3qmsyl2ees.png\" alt=\"5\" />\r\n<h3>You say “yes” to each other more than “no”</h3>\r\nIn the early days of a relationship, you’re usually both “yes” people – doing everything you can to make it clear you’re both pretty into each other.\r\n\r\nHowever, like other things, this level of effort can fall to the wayside as things progress. More often than not, couples can end up wondering if the other person really… cares.\r\n\r\n“Happy couples understand that when a partner invites them for lunch or a walk or to have sex, that these are gifts in the relationship. Their partner is offering the relationship opportunities to connect and have a space just for two.”\r\n\r\n“Happy couples understand that when they say yes to these opportunities, it creates space for emotional, physical, and sexual intimacy. They understand that such intimacy is a special glue that holds them together and offers a buffer to protect against harder times,” explains Abrahams.\r\n\r\n“When couples I see in therapy say ‘no’ to each other frequently, I encourage them to watch Jim Carrey’s film <em>Yes Man</em> to show how life-enhancing a yes position is. Frequently saying ‘no’ to our partner destroys links between us and the opportunity for connection.”\r\n\r\n<img title=\"6\" src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/elementor/thumbs/6-prxajvnuf2dxiz47aasacm412qi53ep1f3ddk79d9w.png\" alt=\"6\" />\r\n<h3>You can depend on each other</h3>\r\nThe importance of trust is huge. Major. Without this, a relationship can’t function – you really can’t be comfortable if you don’t have faith in your SO.\r\n\r\n“Happy couples offer each other care, protection and the ability to depend on each other,” says Abrahams.\r\n\r\nShe adds that both partners should be able to move between feeling strong, dependable and containing positions for their partner, to being more vulnerable and seeking support from their partner. It really needs to be a balancing act.\r\n\r\n“Neither partner is locked permanently into ‘the carer’ role or ‘the cared for’ role. They move flexibly between these positions when needed.”\r\n\r\n<img title=\"7\" src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/elementor/thumbs/7-prxajvnuf2dxiz47aasacm412qi53ep1f3ddk79d9w.png\" alt=\"7\" />\r\n<h3>You keep your identities separate</h3>\r\nThis is a big one. Abrahams said one of the most critical things in a healthy relationship is that a couple keeps their individuality.\r\n\r\n“Way back when we met our partner, they had their own identity and engaged in many aspects of their life. We liked this about them and were attracted to who they were as a stand-alone individual.\r\n\r\n“They were interesting, funny, clever, sexy, or had life experience in ways that we enjoyed. We chose to remain with this individual because out of all the other possible people on the planet to partner with, we believed this individual was the best for us.”\r\n\r\nRemember those days?\r\n\r\nAbrahams said as we start dating, we obviously start to make room for each other in our lives and prioritise this.\r\n\r\nRead: That friend who gets into a relationship and you feel like you never see them again.\r\n\r\n“We gave up aspects of our individual identities for this relationship, like not seeing certain friends anymore, less time for hobbies, ditching plans to live overseas, or delaying a career choice,” she says.\r\n\r\n“When we committed even more and lived together, maybe even had children, the stakes got higher, and we had less time for our individual desires to flourish. We all become more responsible to the couple or family unit, with more demands on our minds, time and freedom.”\r\n\r\nAnd in the process, you kinda just… lose yourself.\r\n\r\n“In relationships we often lose sight of our own identity and what makes us happy as an individual. I see many clients where they feel flat or even depressed at this loss.\r\n\r\n“We need to keep finding time and space for both our own and our partner’s individual identity to be expressed. We can easily lose sight of what makes our heart sing. We may think it is selfish. It’s not, it’s life enhancing. We may not be able to engage in everything we used to, but we all have individual hopes and desires for our time on earth.”\r\n\r\nAbrahams said that for some it can be reconnecting with old friends, picking up an instrument again, pursuing further study, picking up other hobbies, and more.\r\n\r\n“We need to make time in our relationships for, ‘I’m doing more of me’ and ‘you do more of you’. Relationships are a marathon not a sprint. We need to refuel and hydrate ourselves in a way that is meaningful for each of us along the way.”\r\n\r\nHear, hear.\r\n\r\n<img title=\"8\" src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/elementor/thumbs/8-prxajwlolwf7ul2u4t6wx3vho4dib3srr80v1h7z3o.png\" alt=\"8\" />\r\n<h3>You keep your identities separate</h3>\r\n“Happy couples know that when there are difficulties, they need to work through them and not sweep issues under the rug,” says Abrahams.\r\n\r\n“They know that life is not all rosy and there will be happier times and other times where life will be stressful. They are resourceful in how they work through difficulties.”\r\n\r\nTwo people who are in a healthy relationship should be able to have those difficult conversations about difficult things and be able to work through them – even if it means bringing in an extra mind or a set of ears.\r\n\r\n“They may look for help online (courses, blogs, chat groups), read books, or even go seek help from wise family, friends, or a therapist. I see these couples who only need a few sessions to sort out an issue. They don’t let things fester,” she says.\r\n\r\n“Less happy couples take longer to seek help and many end up living with upset and anxiety for years before seeking help. Couples take on average six years to see a couples therapist.”\r\n\r\nSix. Years.\r\n\r\n“That’s soul-destroying for many couples, as well as any children at home. Take a leaf out of the happy couples experience and get help as soon as possible.”\r\n\r\n<em>If you’re looking for help in improving your communication with your partner, Abrahams has a free e-book available <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/resources/download-top-tips-for-improving-couple-communication-e-book/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">here</a>.</em>\r\n\r\n[elementor-template id=\"3979\"][elementor-template id=\"3975\"]','15 Things Your Partner Will Never do if You\'re in a Healthy Relationship',' Relationships can be TOUGH. And while things like cheating and trust issues are some very obvious red...','inherit','closed','closed','','4341-revision-v1','','','2022-07-24 10:43:02','2022-07-24 10:43:02','',4341,'http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/?p=4344',0,'revision','',0),(4345,1,'2022-07-24 10:43:35','2022-07-24 10:43:35','<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.7 - 03-07-2022 */<br />.e-container.e-container--row .elementor-spacer-inner{width:var(--spacer-size)}.e-container.e-container--column .elementor-spacer-inner,.elementor-column .elementor-spacer-inner{height:var(--spacer-size)}</style>\r\n<h1>8 Signs You\'re in the Right Relationship</h1>\r\nArticle - source: Mamamia\r\n<h2>8 Signs You\'re in the Right Relationship</h2>\r\n22 November 2021\r\n\r\nWhen it comes to relationships, we spend a whole lotta time talking about red flags, don’t we? Those kind of intuitive indicators you should never ignore when it comes to dating someone.\r\n\r\nBut how often do we talk about *checks notes*… green flags? You know – the good stuff that means you’re with the right kinda person?\r\n\r\nApproximately NEVER, you guys. Why is that?\r\n\r\nWhether you’ve been in a relationship for <em>yonks</em> or in the midst of a pandemic love story and about to enter the world together IRL – there really couldn’t be a better time to check in with yourself.\r\n\r\nTo stop and reflect on how certain behaviours in your relationship impact you and make you feel. If the person you’re dating really is… <img role=\"img\" draggable=\"false\" src=\"https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/14.0.0/svg/2728.svg\" alt=\"&#x2728;\" />the one<img role=\"img\" draggable=\"false\" src=\"https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/14.0.0/svg/2728.svg\" alt=\"&#x2728;\" />.\r\n\r\nSo, we hit up psychotherapist and couples counsellor <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/about-me/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Lissy Abrahams</a> and asked her to tell us the most common signs of a healthy relationship.\r\n\r\nGet your notepad out, friend. We’re doing a big ol’ listicle.\r\n\r\n<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.7 - 03-07-2022 */<br />.elementor-widget-image{text-align:center}.elementor-widget-image a{display:inline-block}.elementor-widget-image a img[src$=\".svg\"]{width:48px}.elementor-widget-image img{vertical-align:middle;display:inline-block}</style>\r\n\r\n<img title=\"1\" src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/elementor/thumbs/1-prxajyhczkhsht03tu0623eeuw48qi08fhbu0156r8.png\" alt=\"1\" />\r\n\r\n<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.7 - 03-07-2022 */<br />.elementor-heading-title{padding:0;margin:0;line-height:1}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title[class*=elementor-size-]>a{color:inherit;font-size:inherit;line-height:inherit}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-small{font-size:15px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-medium{font-size:19px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-large{font-size:29px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xl{font-size:39px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xxl{font-size:59px}</style>\r\n<h3>You balance each other\'s needs</h3>\r\nWhether or not you and your partner share the same goals and interests, Abrahams said couples that balance each other’s individual needs and see the relationship as a team, are in the green zone.\r\n\r\n\"In less happy relationships, partners lose a sense of being a team and become competitors in their day-to-day lives, especially if there is a lot of conflict,\" she shares.\r\n\r\n\"Happy couples have a secure sense that they are both working in the best interests of the team.\"\r\n\r\nThis means that both teammates will support each other to be as individually happy, well and fulfilled as possible, said Abrahams.\r\n\r\n\"They understand that for the team to be happy, the two individuals in it need to be happy too. They celebrate each other’s wins and are generous with time, empathy, and attention,\" she says.\r\n\r\n“At the same time, they work together for the greater good of their team, such as keeping their eye on how much money they spend and how much time they have together as a couple.”\r\n\r\nWhich team player are you?\r\n\r\nIt’s important to remember that when working as part of a group, everyone often has different strengths and abilities – something a happy couple will use to their advantage in order to flourish.\r\n\r\nThink of it like a sport – you can’t play every position at once.\r\n\r\n\"They work with the tension that is always there in couple relationships – balancing couple needs and desires with those of both partner’s individual needs and desires.\r\n\r\n“They understand that these three entities (two partners and one couple relationship) all need to flourish to be happy together.”\r\n\r\n<img title=\"2\" src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/elementor/thumbs/2-prxajyhczkhsht03tu0623eeuw48qi08fhbu0156r8.png\" alt=\"2\" />\r\n<h3>You communicate respectfully</h3>\r\nIf there’s one thing we know, it’s how important communication is to develop a healthy relationship.\r\n\r\n“Happy couples understand their partner is different from them and will have different opinions, thoughts, behaviours, or viewpoints,” Abrahams says.\r\n\r\n“They see their partner as interesting, and they are often curious about their partner’s ideas. They listen (as opposed to pretending to listen) and are non-judgmental. They are grateful to their partner for their contributions and helpful or kind gestures they make and thank each other for them.”\r\n\r\nIt’s critical that both parties feel like they can be super open and honest in this area, and be able to feel comfortable discussing all kinds of matters.\r\n\r\n“Happy couples are not critical or rejecting. They apologise when they are out of line or have hurt their partner. All of this allows the partners to safely speak their minds, unlike less happy couples who shoot each other’s ideas down, don’t listen as it feels threatening, or are judgmental.”\r\n\r\n<img title=\"3\" src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/elementor/thumbs/3-prxajzf76ej2teyqocesml5vg9zly73yrlzbhb3sl0.png\" alt=\"3\" />\r\n<h3>You can bounce off each other</h3>\r\nIf you regularly take innocent jabs at one another, join the club. But there is a difference between playfulness and dismissiveness.\r\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 1rem; color: #4d4d4d; font-family: Lato, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, Arial, \'sans-serif\'; font-size: 16px;\">“Unhappy couples show each other how displeased, hurt, resentful or frustrated they are with their relationship and each other quite frequently,” Abrahams says.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 1rem; color: #4d4d4d; font-family: Lato, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, Arial, \'sans-serif\'; font-size: 16px;\">“They use strategies to cut the links between them, such as they push back, dismiss or reject their partner’s ideas.”</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 1rem; color: #4d4d4d; font-family: Lato, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, Arial, \'sans-serif\'; font-size: 16px;\">Abrahams said to picture this as a pair of scissors cutting the link between two minds.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 1rem; color: #4d4d4d; font-family: Lato, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, Arial, \'sans-serif\'; font-size: 16px;\">Not good.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 1rem; color: #4d4d4d; font-family: Lato, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, Arial, \'sans-serif\'; font-size: 16px;\">“Happy couples allow their partner’s ideas, opinions, and suggestions to be considered. They share ideas and bounce them back and forth between them.”</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 1rem; color: #4d4d4d; font-family: Lato, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, Arial, \'sans-serif\'; font-size: 16px;\">“They love discussing, creating projects, and even planning things in the future together. They can join their partner with a full range of experiences from laughter and playfulness to being empathic when needed.”</p>\r\n<img title=\"4\" src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/elementor/thumbs/4-prxajzf76ej2teyqocesml5vg9zly73yrlzbhb3sl0.png\" alt=\"4\" />\r\n<h3>You have boundaries</h3>\r\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 1rem; color: #4d4d4d; font-family: Lato, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, Arial, \'sans-serif\'; font-size: 16px;\">All healthy relationships will understand that boundaries are important in order to keep each other protected.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 1rem; color: #4d4d4d; font-family: Lato, \'Helvetica Neue\', Helvetica, Arial, \'sans-serif\'; font-size: 16px;\">According to Abrahams, boundaries can be divided into two important parts:</p>\r\n\r\n<ol>\r\n 	<li dir=\"ltr\"><strong>Happy couples don’t need to tell everyone the ins and outs of their lives.</strong>\r\n“They are more private as they understand the difference between private and public information. They also keep their partner’s vulnerabilities and more fragile parts protected from others.”</li>\r\n 	<li dir=\"ltr\"><strong>They have sexual boundaries.</strong>\r\n“They are faithful, don’t flirt or step over a line that would be disrespectful for their partner and the relationship.”</li>\r\n</ol>\r\n<img title=\"5\" src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/elementor/thumbs/5-prxak0d1d8kd50xdiutf72xc1nuz5w7p3qmsyl2ees.png\" alt=\"5\" />\r\n<h3>You say “yes” to each other more than “no”</h3>\r\nIn the early days of a relationship, you’re usually both “yes” people – doing everything you can to make it clear you’re both pretty into each other.\r\n\r\nHowever, like other things, this level of effort can fall to the wayside as things progress. More often than not, couples can end up wondering if the other person really… cares.\r\n\r\n“Happy couples understand that when a partner invites them for lunch or a walk or to have sex, that these are gifts in the relationship. Their partner is offering the relationship opportunities to connect and have a space just for two.”\r\n\r\n“Happy couples understand that when they say yes to these opportunities, it creates space for emotional, physical, and sexual intimacy. They understand that such intimacy is a special glue that holds them together and offers a buffer to protect against harder times,” explains Abrahams.\r\n\r\n“When couples I see in therapy say ‘no’ to each other frequently, I encourage them to watch Jim Carrey’s film <em>Yes Man</em> to show how life-enhancing a yes position is. Frequently saying ‘no’ to our partner destroys links between us and the opportunity for connection.”\r\n\r\n<img title=\"6\" src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/elementor/thumbs/6-prxajvnuf2dxiz47aasacm412qi53ep1f3ddk79d9w.png\" alt=\"6\" />\r\n<h3>You can depend on each other</h3>\r\nThe importance of trust is huge. Major. Without this, a relationship can’t function – you really can’t be comfortable if you don’t have faith in your SO.\r\n\r\n“Happy couples offer each other care, protection and the ability to depend on each other,” says Abrahams.\r\n\r\nShe adds that both partners should be able to move between feeling strong, dependable and containing positions for their partner, to being more vulnerable and seeking support from their partner. It really needs to be a balancing act.\r\n\r\n“Neither partner is locked permanently into ‘the carer’ role or ‘the cared for’ role. They move flexibly between these positions when needed.”\r\n\r\n<img title=\"7\" src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/elementor/thumbs/7-prxajvnuf2dxiz47aasacm412qi53ep1f3ddk79d9w.png\" alt=\"7\" />\r\n<h3>You keep your identities separate</h3>\r\nThis is a big one. Abrahams said one of the most critical things in a healthy relationship is that a couple keeps their individuality.\r\n\r\n“Way back when we met our partner, they had their own identity and engaged in many aspects of their life. We liked this about them and were attracted to who they were as a stand-alone individual.\r\n\r\n“They were interesting, funny, clever, sexy, or had life experience in ways that we enjoyed. We chose to remain with this individual because out of all the other possible people on the planet to partner with, we believed this individual was the best for us.”\r\n\r\nRemember those days?\r\n\r\nAbrahams said as we start dating, we obviously start to make room for each other in our lives and prioritise this.\r\n\r\nRead: That friend who gets into a relationship and you feel like you never see them again.\r\n\r\n“We gave up aspects of our individual identities for this relationship, like not seeing certain friends anymore, less time for hobbies, ditching plans to live overseas, or delaying a career choice,” she says.\r\n\r\n“When we committed even more and lived together, maybe even had children, the stakes got higher, and we had less time for our individual desires to flourish. We all become more responsible to the couple or family unit, with more demands on our minds, time and freedom.”\r\n\r\nAnd in the process, you kinda just… lose yourself.\r\n\r\n“In relationships we often lose sight of our own identity and what makes us happy as an individual. I see many clients where they feel flat or even depressed at this loss.\r\n\r\n“We need to keep finding time and space for both our own and our partner’s individual identity to be expressed. We can easily lose sight of what makes our heart sing. We may think it is selfish. It’s not, it’s life enhancing. We may not be able to engage in everything we used to, but we all have individual hopes and desires for our time on earth.”\r\n\r\nAbrahams said that for some it can be reconnecting with old friends, picking up an instrument again, pursuing further study, picking up other hobbies, and more.\r\n\r\n“We need to make time in our relationships for, ‘I’m doing more of me’ and ‘you do more of you’. Relationships are a marathon not a sprint. We need to refuel and hydrate ourselves in a way that is meaningful for each of us along the way.”\r\n\r\nHear, hear.\r\n\r\n<img title=\"8\" src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/elementor/thumbs/8-prxajwlolwf7ul2u4t6wx3vho4dib3srr80v1h7z3o.png\" alt=\"8\" />\r\n<h3>You keep your identities separate</h3>\r\n“Happy couples know that when there are difficulties, they need to work through them and not sweep issues under the rug,” says Abrahams.\r\n\r\n“They know that life is not all rosy and there will be happier times and other times where life will be stressful. They are resourceful in how they work through difficulties.”\r\n\r\nTwo people who are in a healthy relationship should be able to have those difficult conversations about difficult things and be able to work through them – even if it means bringing in an extra mind or a set of ears.\r\n\r\n“They may look for help online (courses, blogs, chat groups), read books, or even go seek help from wise family, friends, or a therapist. I see these couples who only need a few sessions to sort out an issue. They don’t let things fester,” she says.\r\n\r\n“Less happy couples take longer to seek help and many end up living with upset and anxiety for years before seeking help. Couples take on average six years to see a couples therapist.”\r\n\r\nSix. Years.\r\n\r\n“That’s soul-destroying for many couples, as well as any children at home. Take a leaf out of the happy couples experience and get help as soon as possible.”\r\n\r\n<em>If you’re looking for help in improving your communication with your partner, Abrahams has a free e-book available <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/resources/download-top-tips-for-improving-couple-communication-e-book/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">here</a>.</em>\r\n\r\n[elementor-template id=\"3979\"][elementor-template id=\"3975\"]','8 Signs You\'re in the Right Relationship','When it comes to relationships, we spend a whole lotta time talking about red flags, don\'t we? Those kind of...','inherit','closed','closed','','4128-revision-v1','','','2022-07-24 10:43:35','2022-07-24 10:43:35','',4128,'http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/?p=4345',0,'revision','',0),(4347,1,'2022-07-24 10:47:25','2022-07-24 10:47:25','<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.7 - 03-07-2022 */<br />\r\n.e-container.e-container--row .elementor-spacer-inner{width:var(--spacer-size)}.e-container.e-container--column .elementor-spacer-inner,.elementor-column .elementor-spacer-inner{height:var(--spacer-size)}</style>\r\n<h1>About Lissy</h1>\r\nIntroducing Lissy Abrahams\r\n<h2>Leading individual and couple psychotherapist</h2>\r\nHas dedicated her career to helping hundreds of clients navigate life\'s obstacles and challenges\r\n\r\nLissy was initiated into the awkwardness of human minds when she was 15 years old when her Mum became a family lawyer. She was intrigued hearing about court cases, hearing about people’s strengths and vulnerabilities, and the nightmare for children caught in the parental crossfire. This paved the way for her to study psychology.\r\n\r\nLater, Lissy headed to London and was blessed to have been selected as one of four therapists invited into the Master of psychoanalytic psychotherapy for couples at the world-renowned Tavistock Relationships. Following this 4-year training, she had the good fortune to be employed by Tavistock Relationships to work as a tutor, lecturer, and couples therapist.\r\n\r\nLissy returned to Sydney, and founded the Sydney-based therapy clinic, Heath Group Practice. Here she manages and works therapeutically with clients around the world. She has published academic work, held positions on the Couple, Child and Family Psychotherapy Association of Australasia, and the British Society of Couple Psychotherapists and Counsellors. 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data-element_type=\"section\">\r\n<h3>Vocational Graduate Diploma of Family Dispute Resolution (Australian Institute for Relationship Studies)</h3>\r\n<h3>Master in Couple Psychoanalytic Psychotherapy (Tavistock Relationships, London, UK)</h3>\r\n<h3>Post-Graduate Diploma in Attachment, Psychoanalysis and Couple Relationships (Tavistock Relationships, London, UK)</h3>\r\n<h3>Bachelor of Science (Psychology) (Hons) (University of NSW)</h3>\r\n<h3>Diploma of Teaching (University Of Technology, Sydney)</h3>\r\n</section><style>.elementor-3624 .elementor-element.elementor-element-2f977b37.elementor-view-stacked .elementor-icon{background-color:#D8C5A9;fill:#333333;color:#333333;}.elementor-3624 .elementor-element.elementor-element-2f977b37.elementor-view-framed .elementor-icon, .elementor-3624 .elementor-element.elementor-element-2f977b37.elementor-view-default .elementor-icon{fill:#D8C5A9;color:#D8C5A9;border-color:#D8C5A9;}.elementor-3624 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She was intrigued hearing about court cases, hearing about people’s strengths and vulnerabilities, and the nightmare for children caught in the parental crossfire. This paved the way for her to study psychology.\r\n\r\nLater, Lissy headed to London and was blessed to have been selected as one of four therapists invited into the Master of psychoanalytic psychotherapy for couples at the world-renowned Tavistock Relationships. Following this 4-year training, she had the good fortune to be employed by Tavistock Relationships to work as a tutor, lecturer, and couples therapist.\r\n\r\nLissy returned to Sydney, and founded the Sydney-based therapy clinic, Heath Group Practice. Here she manages and works therapeutically with clients around the world. She has published academic work, held positions on the Couple, Child and Family Psychotherapy Association of Australasia, and the British Society of Couple Psychotherapists and Counsellors. 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data-element_type=\"section\">\r\n<h3>Vocational Graduate Diploma of Family Dispute Resolution (Australian Institute for Relationship Studies)</h3>\r\n<h3>Master in Couple Psychoanalytic Psychotherapy (Tavistock Relationships, London, UK)</h3>\r\n<h3>Post-Graduate Diploma in Attachment, Psychoanalysis and Couple Relationships (Tavistock Relationships, London, UK)</h3>\r\n<h3>Bachelor of Science (Psychology) (Hons) (University of NSW)</h3>\r\n<h3>Diploma of Teaching (University Of Technology, Sydney)</h3>\r\n</section><style>.elementor-3624 .elementor-element.elementor-element-2f977b37.elementor-view-stacked .elementor-icon{background-color:#D8C5A9;fill:#333333;color:#333333;}.elementor-3624 .elementor-element.elementor-element-2f977b37.elementor-view-framed .elementor-icon, .elementor-3624 .elementor-element.elementor-element-2f977b37.elementor-view-default .elementor-icon{fill:#D8C5A9;color:#D8C5A9;border-color:#D8C5A9;}.elementor-3624 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She was intrigued hearing about court cases, hearing about people’s strengths and vulnerabilities, and the nightmare for children caught in the parental crossfire. This paved the way for her to study psychology.</p><p>Later, Lissy headed to London and was blessed to have been selected as one of four candidates invited into the Master of psychoanalytic psychotherapy for couples at the world-renowned Tavistock Relationships. Following this 4-year training, she had the good fortune to be employed by Tavistock Relationships to work as a tutor, lecturer, and couples therapist.</p><p>Lissy returned to Sydney, and founded the Sydney-based therapy clinic, Heath Group Practice. Here she manages and works therapeutically with clients around the world. She has published academic work, was vice-president of the Couple, Child and Family Psychotherapy Association of Australasia, and held various positions on the Tavistock Relationships Association of Psychotherapists and Counsellors. Lissy is also part of Mamamia’s health expert panel.</p><p>Lissy believes we all have the capacity to improve our lives and relationships with the right knowledge and practical strategies. Yet not everyone can access Lissy one-on-one, so she ensures help is available through her interviews on podcasts, TV appearances, and via her blogs and resources. Her successful online course - ‘Fight Less, Love More’ - helps partners stop fighting and communicate respectfully. 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Lissy believes we all have the capacity to improve our lives, whether it’s our own mental wellbeing, or our work or home life. We just need the right knowledge and skills. Lissy helps her clients not just get back on track but also to flourish.</p><p style=\"margin-bottom: 12.75pt; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;\">Lissy studied psychology in Sydney and then completed her Masters of Couple Psychoanalytic Psychotherapy at the internationally renowned Tavistock Relationships, London. Here, she worked therapeutically with couples, as well as lectured and tutored trainee counsellors. She also had an independent therapy practice.</p><p style=\"margin-bottom: 12.75pt; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;\">She has held positions on the Tavistock Relationships Association of Psychotherapists and Counsellors, and was Vice President of the Couple, Child, and Family Psychotherapy Association of Australasia. Lissy is part of Mamamia’s health expert panel.</p><p> </p><p style=\"background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;\">Lissy founded and runs a Sydney-based therapy clinic, Heath Group Practice, and works therapeutically with clients here and around the world. Her successful online course ‘Fight Less, Love More’ explores the real reasons why couples fight, provides guided activities for participants to identify why they are having difficulty communicating, and teaches the vital skills needed to break repeated cycles of conflict. She is also the author of Relationship Reset and has published academically.</p>		\n    <a href=\"Mailto:lissy@lissyabrahams.com\">\n                Contact Lissy about a Guest Appearance\n    </a>\n			<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.7 - 03-07-2022 */\n.elementor-heading-title{padding:0;margin:0;line-height:1}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title[class*=elementor-size-]>a{color:inherit;font-size:inherit;line-height:inherit}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-small{font-size:15px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-medium{font-size:19px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-large{font-size:29px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xl{font-size:39px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xxl{font-size:59px}</style><h2>As featured in</h2>		\n		[elementor-template id=\"4098\"]		\n            <h2>\n                Guest Appearances            \n        </h2>\n            Below is  a selection of some of Lissy\'s guest appearances        \n            All\n                    Article                \n                    Mamamia                \n                    TV Appearance                \n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study/ten/\"><img src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/2020/04/case_std1-768x530.jpg\" width=\"768\" height=\"530\" alt=\"case-featured\" title=\"case_std1\" /></a>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study-category/tv-appearance/\" rel=\"tag\">TV Appearance</a>                            \n                            <h3>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study/ten/\">Ten</a>\n                            </h3>\n                            <h3>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/?post_type=case-study&#038;p=4177\">Elementor #4177</a>\n                            </h3>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study/mamamia/\"><img src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/2020/04/case_std1-768x530.jpg\" width=\"768\" height=\"530\" alt=\"case-featured\" title=\"case_std1\" /></a>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study-category/mamamia/\" rel=\"tag\">Mamamia</a>                            \n                            <h3>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study/mamamia/\">Mamamia</a>\n                            </h3>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study/john-seriously-psychologically-customer-satisfaction/\"><img src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/2020/05/case_std6-768x530.jpg\" width=\"768\" height=\"530\" alt=\"case-featured\" title=\"case_std6\" /></a>\n                            <h3>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study/john-seriously-psychologically-customer-satisfaction/\">John Seriously Psychologically Customer Satisfaction</a>\n                            </h3>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study/serious-mental-disorders-resolved-how/\"><img src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/2020/05/case_std5-768x530.jpg\" width=\"768\" height=\"530\" alt=\"case_std5\" title=\"case_std5\" /></a>\n                            <h3>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study/serious-mental-disorders-resolved-how/\">Serious Mental Disorders,  Resolved How</a>\n                            </h3>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study/overcoming-difficulties-to-come-to-love/\"><img src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/2020/05/case_std4-768x530.jpg\" width=\"768\" height=\"530\" alt=\"case_std4\" title=\"case_std4\" /></a>\n                            <h3>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study/overcoming-difficulties-to-come-to-love/\">Overcoming Difficulties To  Come to Love</a>\n                            </h3>','Media','','inherit','closed','closed','','3650-revision-v1','','','2022-07-24 11:15:11','2022-07-24 11:15:11','',3650,'http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/?p=4362',0,'revision','',0),(4363,1,'2022-07-24 11:15:11','2022-07-24 11:15:11','<style>/*! 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Lissy believes we all have the capacity to improve our lives, whether it’s our own mental wellbeing, or our work or home life. We just need the right knowledge and skills. Lissy helps her clients not just get back on track but also to flourish.</p><p style=\"margin-bottom: 12.75pt; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;\">Lissy studied psychology in Sydney and then completed her Masters of Couple Psychoanalytic Psychotherapy at the internationally renowned Tavistock Relationships, London. Here, she worked therapeutically with couples, as well as lectured and tutored trainee counsellors. She also had an independent therapy practice.</p><p style=\"margin-bottom: 12.75pt; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;\">She has held positions on the Tavistock Relationships Association of Psychotherapists and Counsellors, and was Vice President of the Couple, Child, and Family Psychotherapy Association of Australasia. Lissy is part of Mamamia’s health expert panel.</p><p> </p><p style=\"background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;\">Lissy founded and runs a Sydney-based therapy clinic, Heath Group Practice, and works therapeutically with clients here and around the world. Her successful online course ‘Fight Less, Love More’ explores the real reasons why couples fight, provides guided activities for participants to identify why they are having difficulty communicating, and teaches the vital skills needed to break repeated cycles of conflict. She is also the author of Relationship Reset and has published academically.</p>		\n    <a href=\"Mailto:lissy@lissyabrahams.com\">\n                Contact Lissy about a Guest Appearance\n    </a>\n			<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.7 - 03-07-2022 */\n.elementor-heading-title{padding:0;margin:0;line-height:1}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title[class*=elementor-size-]>a{color:inherit;font-size:inherit;line-height:inherit}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-small{font-size:15px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-medium{font-size:19px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-large{font-size:29px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xl{font-size:39px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xxl{font-size:59px}</style><h2>As featured in</h2>		\n		[elementor-template id=\"4098\"]		\n            <h2>\n                Guest Appearances            \n        </h2>\n            Below is  a selection of some of Lissy\'s guest appearances        \n            All\n                    Article                \n                    Mamamia                \n                    TV Appearance                \n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study/ten/\"><img src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/2020/04/case_std1-768x530.jpg\" width=\"768\" height=\"530\" alt=\"case-featured\" title=\"case_std1\" /></a>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study-category/tv-appearance/\" rel=\"tag\">TV Appearance</a>                            \n                            <h3>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study/ten/\">Ten</a>\n                            </h3>\n                            <h3>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/?post_type=case-study&#038;p=4177\">Elementor #4177</a>\n                            </h3>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study/mamamia/\"><img src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/2020/04/case_std1-768x530.jpg\" width=\"768\" height=\"530\" alt=\"case-featured\" title=\"case_std1\" /></a>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study-category/mamamia/\" rel=\"tag\">Mamamia</a>                            \n                            <h3>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study/mamamia/\">Mamamia</a>\n                            </h3>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study/john-seriously-psychologically-customer-satisfaction/\"><img src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/2020/05/case_std6-768x530.jpg\" width=\"768\" height=\"530\" alt=\"case-featured\" title=\"case_std6\" /></a>\n                            <h3>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study/john-seriously-psychologically-customer-satisfaction/\">John Seriously Psychologically Customer Satisfaction</a>\n                            </h3>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study/serious-mental-disorders-resolved-how/\"><img src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/2020/05/case_std5-768x530.jpg\" width=\"768\" height=\"530\" alt=\"case_std5\" title=\"case_std5\" /></a>\n                            <h3>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study/serious-mental-disorders-resolved-how/\">Serious Mental Disorders,  Resolved How</a>\n                            </h3>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study/overcoming-difficulties-to-come-to-love/\"><img src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/2020/05/case_std4-768x530.jpg\" width=\"768\" height=\"530\" alt=\"case_std4\" title=\"case_std4\" /></a>\n                            <h3>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study/overcoming-difficulties-to-come-to-love/\">Overcoming Difficulties To  Come to Love</a>\n                            </h3>','Media','','inherit','closed','closed','','3650-revision-v1','','','2022-07-24 11:15:11','2022-07-24 11:15:11','',3650,'http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/?p=4363',0,'revision','',0),(4364,1,'2022-07-24 11:15:11','2022-07-24 11:15:11','<style>/*! 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Lissy believes we all have the capacity to improve our lives, whether it’s our own mental wellbeing, or our work or home life. We just need the right knowledge and skills. Lissy helps her clients not just get back on track but also to flourish.</p><p style=\"margin-bottom: 12.75pt; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;\">Lissy studied psychology in Sydney and then completed her Masters of Couple Psychoanalytic Psychotherapy at the internationally renowned Tavistock Relationships, London. Here, she worked therapeutically with couples, as well as lectured and tutored trainee counsellors. She also had an independent therapy practice.</p><p style=\"margin-bottom: 12.75pt; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;\">She has held positions on the Tavistock Relationships Association of Psychotherapists and Counsellors, and was Vice President of the Couple, Child, and Family Psychotherapy Association of Australasia. Lissy is part of Mamamia\'s health expert panel.</p><p style=\"background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;\">Lissy founded and runs a Sydney-based therapy clinic, Heath Group Practice, and works therapeutically with clients here and around the world. Her successful online course ‘Fight Less, Love More’ explores the real reasons why couples fight, provides guided activities for participants to identify why they are having difficulty communicating, and teaches the vital skills needed to break repeated cycles of conflict. She is also the author of Relationship Reset and has published academically.</p>		\n    <a href=\"Mailto:lissy@lissyabrahams.com\">\n                Contact Lissy about a Guest Appearance\n    </a>\n			<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.7 - 03-07-2022 */\n.elementor-heading-title{padding:0;margin:0;line-height:1}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title[class*=elementor-size-]>a{color:inherit;font-size:inherit;line-height:inherit}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-small{font-size:15px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-medium{font-size:19px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-large{font-size:29px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xl{font-size:39px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xxl{font-size:59px}</style><h2>As featured in</h2>		\n		[elementor-template id=\"4098\"]		\n            <h2>\n                Guest Appearances            \n        </h2>\n            Below is  a selection of some of Lissy\'s guest appearances        \n            All\n                    Articles                \n                    Mamamia                \n                    Podcasts                \n                    TV Appearances                \n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study/15-things-partner-never-do-if-healthy-relationship/\"><img src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/reed-naliboff-tP0ZiwR-LQ-unsplash-scaled-768x530.jpg\" width=\"768\" height=\"530\" alt=\"reed-naliboff-tP0ZiwR-LQ-unsplash\" title=\"reed-naliboff-tP0ZiwR-LQ-unsplash\" /></a>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study-category/mamamia/\" rel=\"tag\">Mamamia</a>                            \n                            <h3>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study/15-things-partner-never-do-if-healthy-relationship/\">15 Things Your Partner Will Never do if You&#8217;re in a Healthy Relationship</a>\n                            </h3>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study/podcasts/\"><img src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/2020/04/case_std1-768x530.jpg\" width=\"768\" height=\"530\" alt=\"case-featured\" title=\"case_std1\" /></a>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study-category/podcasts/\" rel=\"tag\">Podcasts</a>                            \n                            <h3>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study/podcasts/\">Podcasts</a>\n                            </h3>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study/articles/\"><img src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/2020/04/case_std1-768x530.jpg\" width=\"768\" height=\"530\" alt=\"case-featured\" title=\"case_std1\" /></a>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study-category/articles/\" rel=\"tag\">Articles</a>                            \n                            <h3>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study/articles/\">Articles</a>\n                            </h3>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study/tv/\"><img src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/2020/04/case_std1-768x530.jpg\" width=\"768\" height=\"530\" alt=\"case-featured\" title=\"case_std1\" /></a>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study-category/tv-appearances/\" rel=\"tag\">TV Appearances</a>                            \n                            <h3>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study/tv/\">TV Appearances</a>\n                            </h3>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study/8-signs-in-right-relationship/\"><img src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/shutterstock_305085290-768x530.jpg\" width=\"768\" height=\"530\" alt=\"Happy,Couple,On,The,Beach,,Summer,Vacations,Or,Honeymoon\" title=\"Happy,Couple,On,The,Beach,,Summer,Vacations,Or,Honeymoon\" /></a>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study-category/mamamia/\" rel=\"tag\">Mamamia</a>                            \n                            <h3>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study/8-signs-in-right-relationship/\">8 Signs You&#8217;re in the Right Relationship</a>\n                            </h3>','Media','','inherit','closed','closed','','3650-revision-v1','','','2022-07-24 11:15:11','2022-07-24 11:15:11','',3650,'http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/?p=4364',0,'revision','',0),(4365,1,'2022-07-24 11:15:51','2022-07-24 11:15:51','<style>/*! 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Lissy believes we all have the capacity to improve our lives, whether it’s our own mental wellbeing, or our work or home life. We just need the right knowledge and skills. Lissy helps her clients not just get back on track but also to flourish.</p><p style=\"margin-bottom: 12.75pt; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;\">Lissy studied psychology in Sydney and then completed her Masters of Couple Psychoanalytic Psychotherapy at the internationally renowned Tavistock Relationships, London. Here, she worked therapeutically with couples, as well as lectured and tutored trainee counsellors. She also had an independent therapy practice.</p><p style=\"margin-bottom: 12.75pt; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;\">She has held positions on the Tavistock Relationships Association of Psychotherapists and Counsellors, and was Vice President of the Couple, Child, and Family Psychotherapy Association of Australasia. Lissy is part of Mamamia\'s health expert panel.</p><p style=\"background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;\">Lissy founded and runs a Sydney-based therapy clinic, Heath Group Practice, and works therapeutically with clients here and around the world. Her successful online course ‘Fight Less, Love More’ explores the real reasons why couples fight, provides guided activities for participants to identify why they are having difficulty communicating, and teaches the vital skills needed to break repeated cycles of conflict. She is also the author of Relationship Reset and has published academically.</p>		\n    <a href=\"Mailto:lissy@lissyabrahams.com\">\n                Contact Lissy about a Guest Appearance\n    </a>\n			<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.7 - 03-07-2022 */\n.elementor-heading-title{padding:0;margin:0;line-height:1}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title[class*=elementor-size-]>a{color:inherit;font-size:inherit;line-height:inherit}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-small{font-size:15px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-medium{font-size:19px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-large{font-size:29px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xl{font-size:39px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xxl{font-size:59px}</style><h2>As featured in</h2>		\n		[elementor-template id=\"4098\"]		\n            <h2>\n                Guest Appearances            \n        </h2>\n            Below is  a selection of some of Lissy\'s guest appearances        \n            All\n                    Articles                \n                    Mamamia                \n                    Podcasts                \n                    TV Appearances                \n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study/15-things-partner-never-do-if-healthy-relationship/\"><img src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/reed-naliboff-tP0ZiwR-LQ-unsplash-scaled-768x530.jpg\" width=\"768\" height=\"530\" alt=\"reed-naliboff-tP0ZiwR-LQ-unsplash\" title=\"reed-naliboff-tP0ZiwR-LQ-unsplash\" /></a>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study-category/mamamia/\" rel=\"tag\">Mamamia</a>                            \n                            <h3>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study/15-things-partner-never-do-if-healthy-relationship/\">15 Things Your Partner Will Never do if You&#8217;re in a Healthy Relationship</a>\n                            </h3>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study/podcasts/\"><img src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/2020/04/case_std1-768x530.jpg\" width=\"768\" height=\"530\" alt=\"case-featured\" title=\"case_std1\" /></a>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study-category/podcasts/\" rel=\"tag\">Podcasts</a>                            \n                            <h3>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study/podcasts/\">Podcasts</a>\n                            </h3>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study/articles/\"><img src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/2020/04/case_std1-768x530.jpg\" width=\"768\" height=\"530\" alt=\"case-featured\" title=\"case_std1\" /></a>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study-category/articles/\" rel=\"tag\">Articles</a>                            \n                            <h3>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study/articles/\">Articles</a>\n                            </h3>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study/tv/\"><img src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/2020/04/case_std1-768x530.jpg\" width=\"768\" height=\"530\" alt=\"case-featured\" title=\"case_std1\" /></a>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study-category/tv-appearances/\" rel=\"tag\">TV Appearances</a>                            \n                            <h3>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study/tv/\">TV Appearances</a>\n                            </h3>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study/8-signs-in-right-relationship/\"><img src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/shutterstock_305085290-768x530.jpg\" width=\"768\" height=\"530\" alt=\"Happy,Couple,On,The,Beach,,Summer,Vacations,Or,Honeymoon\" title=\"Happy,Couple,On,The,Beach,,Summer,Vacations,Or,Honeymoon\" /></a>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study-category/mamamia/\" rel=\"tag\">Mamamia</a>                            \n                            <h3>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study/8-signs-in-right-relationship/\">8 Signs You&#8217;re in the Right Relationship</a>\n                            </h3>','Media','','inherit','closed','closed','','3650-revision-v1','','','2022-07-24 11:15:51','2022-07-24 11:15:51','',3650,'http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/?p=4365',0,'revision','',0),(4366,1,'2022-07-24 11:15:51','2022-07-24 11:15:51','<style>/*! 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Lissy believes we all have the capacity to improve our lives, whether it’s our own mental wellbeing, or our work or home life. We just need the right knowledge and skills. Lissy helps her clients not just get back on track but also to flourish.</p><p style=\"margin-bottom: 12.75pt; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;\">Lissy studied psychology in Sydney and then completed her Masters of Couple Psychoanalytic Psychotherapy at the internationally renowned Tavistock Relationships, London. Here, she worked therapeutically with couples, as well as lectured and tutored trainee counsellors. She also had an independent therapy practice.</p><p style=\"margin-bottom: 12.75pt; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;\">She has held positions on the Tavistock Relationships Association of Psychotherapists and Counsellors, and was Vice President of the Couple, Child, and Family Psychotherapy Association of Australasia. Lissy is part of Mamamia\'s health expert panel.</p><p style=\"background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;\">Lissy founded and runs a Sydney-based therapy clinic, Heath Group Practice, and works therapeutically with clients here and around the world. Her successful online course ‘Fight Less, Love More’ explores the real reasons why couples fight, provides guided activities for participants to identify why they are having difficulty communicating, and teaches the vital skills needed to break repeated cycles of conflict. She is also the author of Relationship Reset and has published academically.</p>		\n    <a href=\"Mailto:lissy@lissyabrahams.com\">\n                Contact Lissy about a Guest Appearance\n    </a>\n			<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.7 - 03-07-2022 */\n.elementor-heading-title{padding:0;margin:0;line-height:1}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title[class*=elementor-size-]>a{color:inherit;font-size:inherit;line-height:inherit}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-small{font-size:15px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-medium{font-size:19px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-large{font-size:29px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xl{font-size:39px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xxl{font-size:59px}</style><h2>As featured in</h2>		\n		[elementor-template id=\"4098\"]		\n            <h2>\n                Guest Appearances            \n        </h2>\n            Below is  a selection of some of Lissy\'s guest appearances        \n            All\n                    Articles                \n                    Mamamia                \n                    Podcasts                \n                    TV Appearances                \n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study/15-things-partner-never-do-if-healthy-relationship/\"><img src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/reed-naliboff-tP0ZiwR-LQ-unsplash-scaled-768x530.jpg\" width=\"768\" height=\"530\" alt=\"reed-naliboff-tP0ZiwR-LQ-unsplash\" title=\"reed-naliboff-tP0ZiwR-LQ-unsplash\" /></a>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study-category/mamamia/\" rel=\"tag\">Mamamia</a>                            \n                            <h3>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study/15-things-partner-never-do-if-healthy-relationship/\">15 Things Your Partner Will Never do if You&#8217;re in a Healthy Relationship</a>\n                            </h3>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study/podcasts/\"><img src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/2020/04/case_std1-768x530.jpg\" width=\"768\" height=\"530\" alt=\"case-featured\" title=\"case_std1\" /></a>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study-category/podcasts/\" rel=\"tag\">Podcasts</a>                            \n                            <h3>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study/podcasts/\">Podcasts</a>\n                            </h3>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study/articles/\"><img src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/2020/04/case_std1-768x530.jpg\" width=\"768\" height=\"530\" alt=\"case-featured\" title=\"case_std1\" /></a>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study-category/articles/\" rel=\"tag\">Articles</a>                            \n                            <h3>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study/articles/\">Articles</a>\n                            </h3>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study/tv/\"><img src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/2020/04/case_std1-768x530.jpg\" width=\"768\" height=\"530\" alt=\"case-featured\" title=\"case_std1\" /></a>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study-category/tv-appearances/\" rel=\"tag\">TV Appearances</a>                            \n                            <h3>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study/tv/\">TV Appearances</a>\n                            </h3>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study/8-signs-in-right-relationship/\"><img src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/shutterstock_305085290-768x530.jpg\" width=\"768\" height=\"530\" alt=\"Happy,Couple,On,The,Beach,,Summer,Vacations,Or,Honeymoon\" title=\"Happy,Couple,On,The,Beach,,Summer,Vacations,Or,Honeymoon\" /></a>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study-category/mamamia/\" rel=\"tag\">Mamamia</a>                            \n                            <h3>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study/8-signs-in-right-relationship/\">8 Signs You&#8217;re in the Right Relationship</a>\n                            </h3>','Media','','inherit','closed','closed','','3650-revision-v1','','','2022-07-24 11:15:51','2022-07-24 11:15:51','',3650,'http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/?p=4366',0,'revision','',0),(4367,1,'2022-07-24 11:15:51','2022-07-24 11:15:51','<style>/*! 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She also had an independent therapy practice.</p><p style=\"margin-bottom: 12.75pt; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;\">She has held positions on the Tavistock Relationships Association of Psychotherapists and Counsellors, and was Vice President of the Couple, Child, and Family Psychotherapy Association of Australasia. Lissy is part of Mamamia\'s health expert panel.</p><p style=\"background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;\">Lissy founded and runs a Sydney-based therapy clinic, Heath Group Practice, and works therapeutically with clients here and around the world. Her successful online course ‘Fight Less, Love More’ explores the real reasons why couples fight, provides guided activities for participants to identify why they are having difficulty communicating, and teaches the vital skills needed to break repeated cycles of conflict. 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She also had an independent therapy practice.</p><p style=\"margin-bottom: 12.75pt; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;\">She has held positions on the Tavistock Relationships Association of Psychotherapists and Counsellors, and was Vice President of the Couple, Child, and Family Psychotherapy Association of Australasia. Lissy is part of Mamamia\'s health expert panel.</p><p style=\"background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;\">Lissy founded and runs a Sydney-based therapy clinic, Heath Group Practice, and works therapeutically with clients here and around the world. Her successful online course ‘Fight Less, Love More’ explores the real reasons why couples fight, provides guided activities for participants to identify why they are having difficulty communicating, and teaches the vital skills needed to break repeated cycles of conflict. She is also the author of Relationship Reset and has published academically.</p>		\n    <a href=\"Mailto:lissy@lissyabrahams.com\">\n                Contact Lissy about a Guest Appearance\n    </a>\n			<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.7 - 03-07-2022 */\n.elementor-heading-title{padding:0;margin:0;line-height:1}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title[class*=elementor-size-]>a{color:inherit;font-size:inherit;line-height:inherit}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-small{font-size:15px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-medium{font-size:19px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-large{font-size:29px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xl{font-size:39px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xxl{font-size:59px}</style><h2>As featured in</h2>		\n		[elementor-template id=\"4098\"]		\n            <h2>\n                Guest Appearances            \n        </h2>\n            Below is  a selection of some of Lissy\'s guest appearances        \n            All\n                    Articles                \n                    Podcasts                \n                    TV Appearances                \n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study/15-things-partner-never-do-if-healthy-relationship/\"><img src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/reed-naliboff-tP0ZiwR-LQ-unsplash-scaled-768x530.jpg\" width=\"768\" height=\"530\" alt=\"reed-naliboff-tP0ZiwR-LQ-unsplash\" title=\"reed-naliboff-tP0ZiwR-LQ-unsplash\" /></a>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study-category/mamamia/\" rel=\"tag\">Mamamia</a>                            \n                            <h3>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study/15-things-partner-never-do-if-healthy-relationship/\">15 Things Your Partner Will Never do if You&#8217;re in a Healthy Relationship</a>\n                            </h3>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study/podcasts/\"><img src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/2020/04/case_std1-768x530.jpg\" width=\"768\" height=\"530\" alt=\"case-featured\" title=\"case_std1\" /></a>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study-category/podcasts/\" rel=\"tag\">Podcasts</a>                            \n                            <h3>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study/podcasts/\">Podcasts</a>\n                            </h3>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study/articles/\"><img src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/2020/04/case_std1-768x530.jpg\" width=\"768\" height=\"530\" alt=\"case-featured\" title=\"case_std1\" /></a>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study-category/articles/\" rel=\"tag\">Articles</a>                            \n                            <h3>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study/articles/\">Articles</a>\n                            </h3>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study/tv/\"><img src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/2020/04/case_std1-768x530.jpg\" width=\"768\" height=\"530\" alt=\"case-featured\" title=\"case_std1\" /></a>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study-category/tv-appearances/\" rel=\"tag\">TV Appearances</a>                            \n                            <h3>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study/tv/\">TV Appearances</a>\n                            </h3>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study/8-signs-in-right-relationship/\"><img src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/shutterstock_305085290-768x530.jpg\" width=\"768\" height=\"530\" alt=\"Happy,Couple,On,The,Beach,,Summer,Vacations,Or,Honeymoon\" title=\"Happy,Couple,On,The,Beach,,Summer,Vacations,Or,Honeymoon\" /></a>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study-category/mamamia/\" rel=\"tag\">Mamamia</a>                            \n                            <h3>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study/8-signs-in-right-relationship/\">8 Signs You&#8217;re in the Right Relationship</a>\n                            </h3>','Media','','inherit','closed','closed','','3650-revision-v1','','','2022-07-24 11:20:59','2022-07-24 11:20:59','',3650,'http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/?p=4368',0,'revision','',0),(4369,1,'2022-07-24 11:20:59','2022-07-24 11:20:59','<style>/*! 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Lissy believes we all have the capacity to improve our lives, whether it’s our own mental wellbeing, or our work or home life. We just need the right knowledge and skills. Lissy helps her clients not just get back on track but also to flourish.</p><p style=\"margin-bottom: 12.75pt; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;\">Lissy studied psychology in Sydney and then completed her Masters of Couple Psychoanalytic Psychotherapy at the internationally renowned Tavistock Relationships, London. Here, she worked therapeutically with couples, as well as lectured and tutored trainee counsellors. She also had an independent therapy practice.</p><p style=\"margin-bottom: 12.75pt; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;\">She has held positions on the Tavistock Relationships Association of Psychotherapists and Counsellors, and was Vice President of the Couple, Child, and Family Psychotherapy Association of Australasia. Lissy is part of Mamamia\'s health expert panel.</p><p style=\"background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;\">Lissy founded and runs a Sydney-based therapy clinic, Heath Group Practice, and works therapeutically with clients here and around the world. Her successful online course ‘Fight Less, Love More’ explores the real reasons why couples fight, provides guided activities for participants to identify why they are having difficulty communicating, and teaches the vital skills needed to break repeated cycles of conflict. She is also the author of Relationship Reset and has published academically.</p>		\n    <a href=\"Mailto:lissy@lissyabrahams.com\">\n                Contact Lissy about a Guest Appearance\n    </a>\n			<style>/*! elementor - v3.6.7 - 03-07-2022 */\n.elementor-heading-title{padding:0;margin:0;line-height:1}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title[class*=elementor-size-]>a{color:inherit;font-size:inherit;line-height:inherit}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-small{font-size:15px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-medium{font-size:19px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-large{font-size:29px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xl{font-size:39px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xxl{font-size:59px}</style><h2>As featured in</h2>		\n		[elementor-template id=\"4098\"]		\n            <h2>\n                Guest Appearances            \n        </h2>\n            Below is  a selection of some of Lissy\'s guest appearances        \n            All\n                    Articles                \n                    Podcasts                \n                    TV Appearances                \n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study/15-things-partner-never-do-if-healthy-relationship/\"><img src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/reed-naliboff-tP0ZiwR-LQ-unsplash-scaled-768x530.jpg\" width=\"768\" height=\"530\" alt=\"reed-naliboff-tP0ZiwR-LQ-unsplash\" title=\"reed-naliboff-tP0ZiwR-LQ-unsplash\" /></a>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study-category/mamamia/\" rel=\"tag\">Mamamia</a>                            \n                            <h3>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study/15-things-partner-never-do-if-healthy-relationship/\">15 Things Your Partner Will Never do if You&#8217;re in a Healthy Relationship</a>\n                            </h3>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study/podcasts/\"><img src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/2020/04/case_std1-768x530.jpg\" width=\"768\" height=\"530\" alt=\"case-featured\" title=\"case_std1\" /></a>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study-category/podcasts/\" rel=\"tag\">Podcasts</a>                            \n                            <h3>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study/podcasts/\">Podcasts</a>\n                            </h3>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study/articles/\"><img src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/2020/04/case_std1-768x530.jpg\" width=\"768\" height=\"530\" alt=\"case-featured\" title=\"case_std1\" /></a>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study-category/articles/\" rel=\"tag\">Articles</a>                            \n                            <h3>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study/articles/\">Articles</a>\n                            </h3>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study/tv/\"><img src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/2020/04/case_std1-768x530.jpg\" width=\"768\" height=\"530\" alt=\"case-featured\" title=\"case_std1\" /></a>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study-category/tv-appearances/\" rel=\"tag\">TV Appearances</a>                            \n                            <h3>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study/tv/\">TV Appearances</a>\n                            </h3>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study/8-signs-in-right-relationship/\"><img src=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/shutterstock_305085290-768x530.jpg\" width=\"768\" height=\"530\" alt=\"Happy,Couple,On,The,Beach,,Summer,Vacations,Or,Honeymoon\" title=\"Happy,Couple,On,The,Beach,,Summer,Vacations,Or,Honeymoon\" /></a>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study-category/mamamia/\" rel=\"tag\">Mamamia</a>                            \n                            <h3>\n                                <a href=\"http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/case-study/8-signs-in-right-relationship/\">8 Signs You&#8217;re in the Right Relationship</a>\n                            </h3>','Media','','inherit','closed','closed','','3650-revision-v1','','','2022-07-24 11:20:59','2022-07-24 11:20:59','',3650,'http://116.90.63.253/~lissyabr/?p=4369',0,'revision','',0),