(5380,3,'2022-09-28 10:22:35','2022-09-28 10:22:35','<style>/*! elementor - v3.7.7 - 20-09-2022 */<br />\r\n.elementor-column .elementor-spacer-inner{height:var(--spacer-size)}.e-container{--container-widget-width:100%}.e-container>.elementor-widget-spacer{width:var(--container-widget-width,var(--spacer-size));-ms-flex-item-align:stretch;align-self:stretch;-ms-flex-negative:0;flex-shrink:0}.e-container>.elementor-widget-spacer>.elementor-widget-container,.e-container>.elementor-widget-spacer>.elementor-widget-container>.elementor-spacer{height:100%}.e-container>.elementor-widget-spacer>.elementor-widget-container>.elementor-spacer>.elementor-spacer-inner{height:var(--container-widget-height,var(--spacer-size))}</style>\r\n<h1>Mamam!a</h1>\r\nArticle - source: Mamamia\r\n<h2>What to know about your \'relational template\' and how it affects the way you treat your partner.</h2>\r\n14 August 2022\r\n\r\nHow we respond and react to our partner in our committed adult relationships is predominantly related to our childhood experiences with our parents or primary caregivers.\r\n\r\nThese early influences on our lives create an imprint of relationships, which we may or may not be aware of.\r\n\r\nThis imprint is like a relational template, which shapes our ideas and expectations of relationships and of how we and our partner should communicate and behave in our relationship.\r\n\r\nOur mind and body are wired to relate to our partner according to this relational template.\r\n<h3><strong>Relational templates in couple relationships</strong></h3>\r\nIn any relationship, we’ll share some beliefs with our partner about how relationships should work, but we never have the same relational templates. That’s because we have lived in different homes, had different families and had completely different experiences.\r\n\r\nIt’s important for us to remember this, as we often create a fantasy that we should have similar views, expectations and behaviours in relationships. Even though it would be convenient if this were the case, this simply can’t occur, as we’re two very different beings and our life experiences have left us with different relational imprints.\r\n\r\nBelow are just a few examples of life experiences that would differ from our partner’s experiences, creating differing parental responses and contributing to our different relational templates:\r\n\r\n&nbsp;\r\n<ul>\r\n 	<li>Parents’ expectations or rules</li>\r\n 	<li>Parents’ capacity to emotionally see us as a child</li>\r\n 	<li>Sense of parental protectiveness and safety</li>\r\n 	<li>Parents’ own relationship: conflict, capacity for repair, their ability to apologise, gestures of love</li>\r\n 	<li>Parents’ separation or divorce</li>\r\n 	<li>Parental experiences with extended families</li>\r\n 	<li>Family trauma such as early parental death or illness, poverty, a sudden loss of money, or being a migrant</li>\r\n 	<li>Own separation or divorce</li>\r\n 	<li>Relationships with siblings and birth order</li>\r\n</ul>\r\nWe can see how these experiences shape our mind, our relational wiring, how we absorb and process information and experiences, and how we feel about them.\r\n\r\nThese life experiences shape our ability to tolerate different viewpoints, and influence whether we listen well to our partner or find it difficult. They also influence what we react to and how, and what sets us off into fight-or-flight mode.\r\n\r\nWe all grow up in environments that are uniquely ours. Therefore, in our relationship we’ll always encounter differences that we’ll need to work through together. We all have different triggers and behave differently in fight-or-flight mode.\r\n\r\nWe all have different thoughts about conflict: who was right or wrong? Who was to blame? Who started it? And we all have a different understanding of why we fight with our partner. All these beliefs and behaviours define our default expectations, rules for safety and non-negotiables in our relationship.\r\n\r\nOur relational template will determine how we react to our partner when our expectations of each other and our relationship differ. Sometimes we can talk through differences; other times we can’t. Sometimes we can feel frightened by our partner’s actions, words or behaviour.\r\n\r\nOur relational templates are different, and the gap between them can be perceived as a threat.\r\n\r\nUnderstanding our relational templates is critical if we want or need to reduce conflict and form a healthier relationship with our partner.\r\n<h3><strong>Why it\'s important to understand your relational template</strong></h3>\r\nWe all need to examine how our childhood experiences persist inside of us today, and how this impacts our relationship. Only when we make these connections, can we change the dynamic of our couple conflict. We, as individuals, can make our relationship better.\r\n\r\nIn the first one or two sessions with a new client or couple, I always seek some access to their relational template and wiring. I simply ask them about their relationship with their parents and what their parents’ relationship was like growing up.\r\n\r\nBy understanding how we’re relationally wired, we can learn how to avoid getting into the emotional boxing ring, and if we do happen to find ourselves there, we can exit faster with fewer body blows. When we understand this, we can then understand why we really fight with our partner. This is a game changer.\r\n\r\nTo do this, we’ll look at our experiences with parents or caregivers where we felt secure and protected, as well as experiences where we felt less safe or less protected. This will offer clues about our relational wiring and help us understand why and how we fight with our partner. This exercise isn’t about blaming or shaming anyone.\r\n\r\nIt’s not about accusing our parents or judging them for how we were raised. This is about objectively considering what happened in the past to understand how our relational wiring impacts our adult relationship today.\r\n\r\nI’d love for everyone to see how normal it is to have couple conflict. The truth is that couple relationships are often messy and complicated.\r\n\r\nDuring the dizzy joy of the honeymoon period, we often have no idea that we can end up locked in confusing and exhausting cycles of conflict. We have no idea that at the heart of these episodes is fear and a lack of safety.\r\n\r\nBut this is not new – this is from our childhood and was encoded way back then.\r\n<h3><strong>Safety and trust develop in childhood</strong></h3>\r\nWe’re not born feeling safe. In fact, it’s the opposite. Just think of a newborn baby with no ability to dress itself, feed itself or even soothe itself. From the moment they’re born, they’re completely dependent on their parents for their survival. This enormous dependency means danger and threat is never far away. When we hear a hungry baby crying, it pulls at our heartstrings because their distress is so evident. They can’t go to the fridge and grab a snack.\r\n\r\nThey’re literally screaming for their lives, and their nervous system is registering danger and threat.\r\n\r\nAs a baby, our sense of safety develops when we’re with parents who protect, feed, soothe and nurture us. We learn to feel safe knowing our parents are with us, attending to things we simply can’t do yet.\r\n\r\nAs children, it is written deeply into our mammalian core that it’s our parents’ job to keep us safe. That’s why children instinctively seek their parents when they’re hurt or afraid.\r\n\r\nWhen our parents protect us, meet our basic needs, comfort us and are available to us, we learn we can really trust them. These experiences calm our nervous system, and we feel safe.\r\n\r\nWhen parents take care of our physical and emotional safety, we can have some scrapes, be soothed by them, recover and re-establish our feelings of being protected.\r\n\r\nWe will still experience fear and danger, but we know our parent will comfort us. When these experiences are repeated during our childhood, we learn to tolerate upsetting and distressing experiences. This is how we become more resilient, and all of these moments of comfort and soothing are encoded in our relational wiring.\r\n\r\nIt’s important to note that no parent can offer perfect protection and safety; we have all had some experiences where our parents were not physically or emotionally able to help us feel secure.\r\n\r\nParents are also human, and they can be out of line at times, or maybe even a little frightening. There will always be ruptures or difficulties in parent–child relationships, but what’s critical is how they’re repaired.\r\n\r\nWhen our parent repeatedly sees that we’re slightly frightened or are feeling an absence of protection from them and they’re apologetic, this becomes an established pattern that we learn to rely on.\r\n\r\nAs they repeatedly re-establish trust with us, we’re more likely to develop distress tolerance, which we carry through to our adult relationships. This is how our relational wiring around safety and trust develops – through our parent–child relationships.\r\n<h3><strong>The theory of relational wiring</strong></h3>\r\nThe importance of security and safety in childhood has been extensively studied across the world through a body of research and clinical work called attachment theory, and it forms the basis of our relational wiring.\r\n\r\nThis work, started by John Bowlby, examines the types of emotional bonds children form with their parents or primary caregivers. He described attachment as a special emotional relationship that involves an exchange of comfort, care and pleasure.\r\n\r\nIt’s easy to understand how a baby would see their parent or primary caregiver as an attachment figure. As babies, we normally don’t have many primary attachment figures – sometimes just one – with whom we share that exchange.\r\n\r\nWe’ve already talked about how vulnerable and dependent a baby truly is, so having an attachment figure who is focused on them increases their chance of survival.\r\n\r\nResearchers were interested in the distress behaviours babies revealed when they were left alone by their parent (attachment figure) and were suddenly feeling vulnerable and unsafe. Any parent whose baby cries when they go to the toilet will know exactly how this feels.\r\n\r\nWhat’s important to take away from this is that loss or the threat of loss is central to psychological distress.\r\n<h3><strong>Research: The Adult Attachment Interview</strong></h3>\r\nThe Adult Attachment Interview was a protocol developed in 1985 using a semi-structured interview with participants to determine their mental representations of their childhood attachment experiences. The aim is to get a sense of their relational template.\r\n\r\nIt’s a complex interview, and requires training to conduct. In a nutshell, it focuses on two key areas:\r\n\r\n1. Eliciting the subject’s memories and their relationship with their parent(s) in childhood, including how they coped.\r\n\r\n2. The extent to which they evaluated or integrated those experiences as an adult today, and their current relationships with their parent(s).\r\n\r\nThe subjects were also assessed for the coherence of their narrative. This was done by assessing how truthful and consistent they were, whether there was too little or too much information provided, how relevant the material was, and finally whether they were clear in the interview.\r\n\r\nThis research was groundbreaking. It found that our adult attachment styles map onto our infant attachment styles. They weren’t always an exact fit, but there was typically a style that fitted more than others.\r\n\r\nThe names of the categories in childhood and adulthood are essentially the same, or very similar. Let me show you how.\r\n\r\nIf a child was securely attached, then as an adult they were likely to be securely attached. They became resilient adults.\r\n\r\nIf a child was insecurely attached then they were as an adult, too. There were three similar styles that corresponded to these.\r\n\r\n1. An ambivalently attached child became a preoccupied adult – think of the clingy/angry style.\r\n\r\n2. An avoidantly attached child created a fortress and continued to do so as an adult with a dismissing attachment style.\r\n\r\nEssentially, what this reveals is that our minds were relationally wired by twelve to eighteen months of age, and this becomes our relational template in adulthood. This template carries our expectations and beliefs about relationships, how we believe we should or shouldn’t treat or be treated by our partner, and our capacity to tolerate distress, or not.\r\n\r\nWe have no idea that our attachment style plays out in our adult behaviour and relationships. We just think ‘this is me,’ and that dictates what we believe and how we behave. We don’t question why we behave in a sulky or childlike manner, nor do we see a problem with our blaming, critical or aloof behaviour. It’s just who we are, right? Well, no – it’s how we’ve always behaved according to our relational wiring, but it’s not who we are.\r\n\r\nWe all know someone who makes the same ‘mistakes’ in relationships, leaving friends scratching their heads, wondering when they’ll learn their lesson. We can even be that person! The reason we repeat relationship ‘mistakes’ is due to our relational template.\r\n\r\nLet’s look at the adult attachment styles in more detail.\r\n\r\n<style>/*! elementor - v3.7.7 - 20-09-2022 */<br />\r\n.elementor-heading-title{padding:0;margin:0;line-height:1}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title[class*=elementor-size-]>a{color:inherit;font-size:inherit;line-height:inherit}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-small{font-size:15px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-medium{font-size:19px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-large{font-size:29px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xl{font-size:39px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xxl{font-size:59px}</style>\r\n<h3>1. Secure adult attachment: resilient style</h3>\r\nAdults with a secure attachment style -\r\n<ul>\r\n 	<li>Are independent and self-reliant</li>\r\n 	<li>Are confident</li>\r\n 	<li>Have trusting, close and enduring relationships in life</li>\r\n 	<li>Can speak about their own emotions</li>\r\n 	<li>Are aware of other people’s needs and emotions</li>\r\n 	<li>Can rely on others when needed</li>\r\n 	<li>Developed distress tolerance</li>\r\n</ul>\r\n<h3>2. Insecure adult attachment. Preoccupied adult attachment: clingy/angry style</h3>\r\nAdults with a clingy/angry attachment style -\r\n<ul>\r\n 	<li>Are needy, requiring ongoing reassurance from their partner, fearing rejection or abandonment worry/are anxious that their partner doesn’t love them.</li>\r\n 	<li>Have trouble trusting others</li>\r\n 	<li>Lack impulse control, can be angry, unpredictable or moody</li>\r\n 	<li>Connect through conflict</li>\r\n 	<li>Blame others, not acknowledging their own responsibility</li>\r\n 	<li>Are overly sensitive to their partner’s emotional and physical whereabouts</li>\r\n</ul>\r\nThese adults become preoccupied with the relationship; they can’t find a comfortable way of being in it. Their parent was sometimes there for them and sometimes not, and this left a mark on them that affects how they behave as adults.\r\n<h3>3. Dismissing adult attachment: fortress style</h3>\r\nPartners with this attachment style are often dragged into couples therapy by their partner. They don\'t like talking about their feelings, as they\'re just not used to doing so. Characteristics of the adult fortress attachment style include -\r\n<ul>\r\n 	<li>Communicates in an intellectual and controlled manner</li>\r\n 	<li>Is distant emotionally and rejects others’ emotions</li>\r\n 	<li>Invests little emotion in social or romantic relationships</li>\r\n 	<li>Shows a narrow or limited emotional range</li>\r\n 	<li>Is unable or unwilling to share thoughts and feelings with others</li>\r\n 	<li>Is unable to depend on others or unable to allow their partner to depend on them</li>\r\n 	<li>Prefers independence and autonomy over depending on others</li>\r\n 	<li>Shows a calm exterior, typically hiding their anxiety</li>\r\n 	<li>Uses distraction from feelings, such as work or exercise</li>\r\n</ul>\r\n<h3>4. Unresolved/disorganised adult attachment: no strategy style</h3>\r\nTypical behaviours of the unresolved/disorganised adult attachment style include -\r\n<ul>\r\n 	<li>Has traumatic memories, post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) or dissociation</li>\r\n 	<li>Struggles with mood and anxiety – depression, overwhelm, a sense of disconnection, a fear of abandonment, helplessness, rage, feeling trapped or irritable</li>\r\n 	<li>Relies on substances (drugs and/or alcohol)</li>\r\n 	<li>Is unable to understand their own feelings or recognise the mental states of others (including their partner)</li>\r\n 	<li>Lacks trust, empathy and remorse for others</li>\r\n 	<li>Shows chaotic or unpredictable emotional states</li>\r\n 	<li>Is unable to tolerate intimacy in a relationship</li>\r\n 	<li>May be narcissistic or appear to be narcissistic</li>\r\n</ul>\r\n<h3>The good news</h3>\r\nThe good news for all of us is that these attachment styles aren’t fixed for life. The concept of earned secure attachment applies to people who have made sense of and created meaning from past experiences with their parents that led to insecure attachment.\r\n\r\nWith earned secure attachment, we accept these past experiences and escape the hold they have over our lives. This enables us to relate to our partner in a healthier way and remove the soul-destroying episodes of conflict from our relationship. It is an important component for decreasing couple conflict.\r\n\r\n<a href=\"https://www.booktopia.com.au/relationship-reset-lissy-abrahams/book/9781760989781.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><em>Relationship Reset</em></a> is published by <a href=\"https://www.panmacmillan.com.au/9781760989781/relationship-reset/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Pan Macmillan Australia</a> and is available now from Booktopia, Book Depository, Amazon and all the other online bookstores.\r\n\r\n<em>For more from Lissy Abrahams, you can follow her on </em><a href=\"https://www.instagram.com/lissy.abrahams/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><em>Instagram</em></a><em>.</em>\r\n\r\n<em>Feature image: Getty</em>','There are 3 ways to stop the \'conflict cycle\'',' Relationships can be TOUGH. 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opinion and lifestyle website targeted at women.','inherit','closed','closed','','4757-revision-v1','','','2022-09-28 10:29:38','2022-09-28 10:29:38','',4757,'https://www.lissyabrahams.com/?p=5386',0,'revision','',0),(5387,3,'2022-09-28 10:38:23','2022-09-28 10:38:23','','Couple Conflict','','inherit','open','closed','','couple-conflict','','','2022-09-28 10:38:23','2022-09-28 10:38:23','',5379,'http://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/09/Couple-Conflict.png',0,'attachment','image/png',0),(5388,3,'2022-09-28 10:46:32','2022-09-28 10:46:32','<style>/*! elementor - v3.7.7 - 20-09-2022 */<br />\r\n.elementor-column .elementor-spacer-inner{height:var(--spacer-size)}.e-container{--container-widget-width:100%}.e-container>.elementor-widget-spacer{width:var(--container-widget-width,var(--spacer-size));-ms-flex-item-align:stretch;align-self:stretch;-ms-flex-negative:0;flex-shrink:0}.e-container>.elementor-widget-spacer>.elementor-widget-container,.e-container>.elementor-widget-spacer>.elementor-widget-container>.elementor-spacer{height:100%}.e-container>.elementor-widget-spacer>.elementor-widget-container>.elementor-spacer>.elementor-spacer-inner{height:var(--container-widget-height,var(--spacer-size))}</style>\r\n<h1>Mamam!a</h1>\r\nArticle - source: Mamamia\r\n<h2>What to know about your \'relational template\' and how it affects the way you treat your partner.</h2>\r\n14 August 2022\r\n\r\nHow we respond and react to our partner in our committed adult relationships is predominantly related to our childhood experiences with our parents or primary caregivers.\r\n\r\nThese early influences on our lives create an imprint of relationships, which we may or may not be aware of.\r\n\r\nThis imprint is like a relational template, which shapes our ideas and expectations of relationships and of how we and our partner should communicate and behave in our relationship.\r\n\r\nOur mind and body are wired to relate to our partner according to this relational template.\r\n<h3><strong>Relational templates in couple relationships</strong></h3>\r\nIn any relationship, we’ll share some beliefs with our partner about how relationships should work, but we never have the same relational templates. That’s because we have lived in different homes, had different families and had completely different experiences.\r\n\r\nIt’s important for us to remember this, as we often create a fantasy that we should have similar views, expectations and behaviours in relationships. Even though it would be convenient if this were the case, this simply can’t occur, as we’re two very different beings and our life experiences have left us with different relational imprints.\r\n\r\nBelow are just a few examples of life experiences that would differ from our partner’s experiences, creating differing parental responses and contributing to our different relational templates:\r\n\r\n&nbsp;\r\n<ul>\r\n 	<li>Parents’ expectations or rules</li>\r\n 	<li>Parents’ capacity to emotionally see us as a child</li>\r\n 	<li>Sense of parental protectiveness and safety</li>\r\n 	<li>Parents’ own relationship: conflict, capacity for repair, their ability to apologise, gestures of love</li>\r\n 	<li>Parents’ separation or divorce</li>\r\n 	<li>Parental experiences with extended families</li>\r\n 	<li>Family trauma such as early parental death or illness, poverty, a sudden loss of money, or being a migrant</li>\r\n 	<li>Own separation or divorce</li>\r\n 	<li>Relationships with siblings and birth order</li>\r\n</ul>\r\nWe can see how these experiences shape our mind, our relational wiring, how we absorb and process information and experiences, and how we feel about them.\r\n\r\nThese life experiences shape our ability to tolerate different viewpoints, and influence whether we listen well to our partner or find it difficult. They also influence what we react to and how, and what sets us off into fight-or-flight mode.\r\n\r\nWe all grow up in environments that are uniquely ours. Therefore, in our relationship we’ll always encounter differences that we’ll need to work through together. We all have different triggers and behave differently in fight-or-flight mode.\r\n\r\nWe all have different thoughts about conflict: who was right or wrong? Who was to blame? Who started it? And we all have a different understanding of why we fight with our partner. All these beliefs and behaviours define our default expectations, rules for safety and non-negotiables in our relationship.\r\n\r\nOur relational template will determine how we react to our partner when our expectations of each other and our relationship differ. Sometimes we can talk through differences; other times we can’t. Sometimes we can feel frightened by our partner’s actions, words or behaviour.\r\n\r\nOur relational templates are different, and the gap between them can be perceived as a threat.\r\n\r\nUnderstanding our relational templates is critical if we want or need to reduce conflict and form a healthier relationship with our partner.\r\n<h3><strong>Why it\'s important to understand your relational template</strong></h3>\r\nWe all need to examine how our childhood experiences persist inside of us today, and how this impacts our relationship. Only when we make these connections, can we change the dynamic of our couple conflict. We, as individuals, can make our relationship better.\r\n\r\nIn the first one or two sessions with a new client or couple, I always seek some access to their relational template and wiring. I simply ask them about their relationship with their parents and what their parents’ relationship was like growing up.\r\n\r\nBy understanding how we’re relationally wired, we can learn how to avoid getting into the emotional boxing ring, and if we do happen to find ourselves there, we can exit faster with fewer body blows. When we understand this, we can then understand why we really fight with our partner. This is a game changer.\r\n\r\nTo do this, we’ll look at our experiences with parents or caregivers where we felt secure and protected, as well as experiences where we felt less safe or less protected. This will offer clues about our relational wiring and help us understand why and how we fight with our partner. This exercise isn’t about blaming or shaming anyone.\r\n\r\nIt’s not about accusing our parents or judging them for how we were raised. This is about objectively considering what happened in the past to understand how our relational wiring impacts our adult relationship today.\r\n\r\nI’d love for everyone to see how normal it is to have couple conflict. The truth is that couple relationships are often messy and complicated.\r\n\r\nDuring the dizzy joy of the honeymoon period, we often have no idea that we can end up locked in confusing and exhausting cycles of conflict. We have no idea that at the heart of these episodes is fear and a lack of safety.\r\n\r\nBut this is not new – this is from our childhood and was encoded way back then.\r\n<h3><strong>Safety and trust develop in childhood</strong></h3>\r\nWe’re not born feeling safe. In fact, it’s the opposite. Just think of a newborn baby with no ability to dress itself, feed itself or even soothe itself. From the moment they’re born, they’re completely dependent on their parents for their survival. This enormous dependency means danger and threat is never far away. When we hear a hungry baby crying, it pulls at our heartstrings because their distress is so evident. They can’t go to the fridge and grab a snack.\r\n\r\nThey’re literally screaming for their lives, and their nervous system is registering danger and threat.\r\n\r\nAs a baby, our sense of safety develops when we’re with parents who protect, feed, soothe and nurture us. We learn to feel safe knowing our parents are with us, attending to things we simply can’t do yet.\r\n\r\nAs children, it is written deeply into our mammalian core that it’s our parents’ job to keep us safe. That’s why children instinctively seek their parents when they’re hurt or afraid.\r\n\r\nWhen our parents protect us, meet our basic needs, comfort us and are available to us, we learn we can really trust them. These experiences calm our nervous system, and we feel safe.\r\n\r\nWhen parents take care of our physical and emotional safety, we can have some scrapes, be soothed by them, recover and re-establish our feelings of being protected.\r\n\r\nWe will still experience fear and danger, but we know our parent will comfort us. When these experiences are repeated during our childhood, we learn to tolerate upsetting and distressing experiences. This is how we become more resilient, and all of these moments of comfort and soothing are encoded in our relational wiring.\r\n\r\nIt’s important to note that no parent can offer perfect protection and safety; we have all had some experiences where our parents were not physically or emotionally able to help us feel secure.\r\n\r\nParents are also human, and they can be out of line at times, or maybe even a little frightening. There will always be ruptures or difficulties in parent–child relationships, but what’s critical is how they’re repaired.\r\n\r\nWhen our parent repeatedly sees that we’re slightly frightened or are feeling an absence of protection from them and they’re apologetic, this becomes an established pattern that we learn to rely on.\r\n\r\nAs they repeatedly re-establish trust with us, we’re more likely to develop distress tolerance, which we carry through to our adult relationships. This is how our relational wiring around safety and trust develops – through our parent–child relationships.\r\n<h3><strong>The theory of relational wiring</strong></h3>\r\nThe importance of security and safety in childhood has been extensively studied across the world through a body of research and clinical work called attachment theory, and it forms the basis of our relational wiring.\r\n\r\nThis work, started by John Bowlby, examines the types of emotional bonds children form with their parents or primary caregivers. He described attachment as a special emotional relationship that involves an exchange of comfort, care and pleasure.\r\n\r\nIt’s easy to understand how a baby would see their parent or primary caregiver as an attachment figure. As babies, we normally don’t have many primary attachment figures – sometimes just one – with whom we share that exchange.\r\n\r\nWe’ve already talked about how vulnerable and dependent a baby truly is, so having an attachment figure who is focused on them increases their chance of survival.\r\n\r\nResearchers were interested in the distress behaviours babies revealed when they were left alone by their parent (attachment figure) and were suddenly feeling vulnerable and unsafe. Any parent whose baby cries when they go to the toilet will know exactly how this feels.\r\n\r\nWhat’s important to take away from this is that loss or the threat of loss is central to psychological distress.\r\n<h3><strong>Research: The Adult Attachment Interview</strong></h3>\r\nThe Adult Attachment Interview was a protocol developed in 1985 using a semi-structured interview with participants to determine their mental representations of their childhood attachment experiences. The aim is to get a sense of their relational template.\r\n\r\nIt’s a complex interview, and requires training to conduct. In a nutshell, it focuses on two key areas:\r\n\r\n1. Eliciting the subject’s memories and their relationship with their parent(s) in childhood, including how they coped.\r\n\r\n2. The extent to which they evaluated or integrated those experiences as an adult today, and their current relationships with their parent(s).\r\n\r\nThe subjects were also assessed for the coherence of their narrative. This was done by assessing how truthful and consistent they were, whether there was too little or too much information provided, how relevant the material was, and finally whether they were clear in the interview.\r\n\r\nThis research was groundbreaking. It found that our adult attachment styles map onto our infant attachment styles. They weren’t always an exact fit, but there was typically a style that fitted more than others.\r\n\r\nThe names of the categories in childhood and adulthood are essentially the same, or very similar. Let me show you how.\r\n\r\nIf a child was securely attached, then as an adult they were likely to be securely attached. They became resilient adults.\r\n\r\nIf a child was insecurely attached then they were as an adult, too. There were three similar styles that corresponded to these.\r\n\r\n1. An ambivalently attached child became a preoccupied adult – think of the clingy/angry style.\r\n\r\n2. An avoidantly attached child created a fortress and continued to do so as an adult with a dismissing attachment style.\r\n\r\nEssentially, what this reveals is that our minds were relationally wired by twelve to eighteen months of age, and this becomes our relational template in adulthood. This template carries our expectations and beliefs about relationships, how we believe we should or shouldn’t treat or be treated by our partner, and our capacity to tolerate distress, or not.\r\n\r\nWe have no idea that our attachment style plays out in our adult behaviour and relationships. We just think ‘this is me,’ and that dictates what we believe and how we behave. We don’t question why we behave in a sulky or childlike manner, nor do we see a problem with our blaming, critical or aloof behaviour. It’s just who we are, right? Well, no – it’s how we’ve always behaved according to our relational wiring, but it’s not who we are.\r\n\r\nWe all know someone who makes the same ‘mistakes’ in relationships, leaving friends scratching their heads, wondering when they’ll learn their lesson. We can even be that person! The reason we repeat relationship ‘mistakes’ is due to our relational template.\r\n\r\nLet’s look at the adult attachment styles in more detail.\r\n\r\n<style>/*! elementor - v3.7.7 - 20-09-2022 */<br />\r\n.elementor-heading-title{padding:0;margin:0;line-height:1}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title[class*=elementor-size-]>a{color:inherit;font-size:inherit;line-height:inherit}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-small{font-size:15px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-medium{font-size:19px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-large{font-size:29px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xl{font-size:39px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xxl{font-size:59px}</style>\r\n<h3>1. Secure adult attachment: resilient style</h3>\r\nAdults with a secure attachment style -\r\n<ul>\r\n 	<li>Are independent and self-reliant</li>\r\n 	<li>Are confident</li>\r\n 	<li>Have trusting, close and enduring relationships in life</li>\r\n 	<li>Can speak about their own emotions</li>\r\n 	<li>Are aware of other people’s needs and emotions</li>\r\n 	<li>Can rely on others when needed</li>\r\n 	<li>Developed distress tolerance</li>\r\n</ul>\r\n<h3>2. Insecure adult attachment. Preoccupied adult attachment: clingy/angry style</h3>\r\nAdults with a clingy/angry attachment style -\r\n<ul>\r\n 	<li>Are needy, requiring ongoing reassurance from their partner, fearing rejection or abandonment worry/are anxious that their partner doesn’t love them.</li>\r\n 	<li>Have trouble trusting others</li>\r\n 	<li>Lack impulse control, can be angry, unpredictable or moody</li>\r\n 	<li>Connect through conflict</li>\r\n 	<li>Blame others, not acknowledging their own responsibility</li>\r\n 	<li>Are overly sensitive to their partner’s emotional and physical whereabouts</li>\r\n</ul>\r\nThese adults become preoccupied with the relationship; they can’t find a comfortable way of being in it. Their parent was sometimes there for them and sometimes not, and this left a mark on them that affects how they behave as adults.\r\n<h3>3. Dismissing adult attachment: fortress style</h3>\r\nPartners with this attachment style are often dragged into couples therapy by their partner. They don\'t like talking about their feelings, as they\'re just not used to doing so. Characteristics of the adult fortress attachment style include -\r\n<ul>\r\n 	<li>Communicates in an intellectual and controlled manner</li>\r\n 	<li>Is distant emotionally and rejects others’ emotions</li>\r\n 	<li>Invests little emotion in social or romantic relationships</li>\r\n 	<li>Shows a narrow or limited emotional range</li>\r\n 	<li>Is unable or unwilling to share thoughts and feelings with others</li>\r\n 	<li>Is unable to depend on others or unable to allow their partner to depend on them</li>\r\n 	<li>Prefers independence and autonomy over depending on others</li>\r\n 	<li>Shows a calm exterior, typically hiding their anxiety</li>\r\n 	<li>Uses distraction from feelings, such as work or exercise</li>\r\n</ul>\r\n<h3>4. Unresolved/disorganised adult attachment: no strategy style</h3>\r\nTypical behaviours of the unresolved/disorganised adult attachment style include -\r\n<ul>\r\n 	<li>Has traumatic memories, post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) or dissociation</li>\r\n 	<li>Struggles with mood and anxiety – depression, overwhelm, a sense of disconnection, a fear of abandonment, helplessness, rage, feeling trapped or irritable</li>\r\n 	<li>Relies on substances (drugs and/or alcohol)</li>\r\n 	<li>Is unable to understand their own feelings or recognise the mental states of others (including their partner)</li>\r\n 	<li>Lacks trust, empathy and remorse for others</li>\r\n 	<li>Shows chaotic or unpredictable emotional states</li>\r\n 	<li>Is unable to tolerate intimacy in a relationship</li>\r\n 	<li>May be narcissistic or appear to be narcissistic</li>\r\n</ul>\r\n<h3>The good news</h3>\r\nThe good news for all of us is that these attachment styles aren’t fixed for life. The concept of earned secure attachment applies to people who have made sense of and created meaning from past experiences with their parents that led to insecure attachment.\r\n\r\nWith earned secure attachment, we accept these past experiences and escape the hold they have over our lives. This enables us to relate to our partner in a healthier way and remove the soul-destroying episodes of conflict from our relationship. It is an important component for decreasing couple conflict.\r\n\r\n<a href=\"https://www.booktopia.com.au/relationship-reset-lissy-abrahams/book/9781760989781.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><em>Relationship Reset</em></a> is published by <a href=\"https://www.panmacmillan.com.au/9781760989781/relationship-reset/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Pan Macmillan Australia</a> and is available now from Booktopia, Book Depository, Amazon and all the other online bookstores.\r\n\r\n<em>For more from Lissy Abrahams, you can follow her on </em><a href=\"https://www.instagram.com/lissy.abrahams/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><em>Instagram</em></a><em>.</em>\r\n\r\n<em>Feature image: Getty</em>','There are 3 ways to stop the \'conflict cycle\'',' Relationships can be TOUGH. And while things like cheating and trust issues are some very obvious red...','inherit','closed','closed','','5379-revision-v1','','','2022-09-28 10:46:32','2022-09-28 10:46:32','',5379,'https://www.lissyabrahams.com/?p=5388',0,'revision','',0),(5389,3,'2022-09-28 10:46:32','2022-09-28 10:46:32','<style>/*! elementor - v3.7.7 - 20-09-2022 */<br />\r\n.elementor-column .elementor-spacer-inner{height:var(--spacer-size)}.e-container{--container-widget-width:100%}.e-container>.elementor-widget-spacer{width:var(--container-widget-width,var(--spacer-size));-ms-flex-item-align:stretch;align-self:stretch;-ms-flex-negative:0;flex-shrink:0}.e-container>.elementor-widget-spacer>.elementor-widget-container,.e-container>.elementor-widget-spacer>.elementor-widget-container>.elementor-spacer{height:100%}.e-container>.elementor-widget-spacer>.elementor-widget-container>.elementor-spacer>.elementor-spacer-inner{height:var(--container-widget-height,var(--spacer-size))}</style>\r\n<h1>Mamam!a</h1>\r\nArticle - source: Mamamia\r\n<h2>What to know about your \'relational template\' and how it affects the way you treat your partner.</h2>\r\n14 August 2022\r\n\r\nHow we respond and react to our partner in our committed adult relationships is predominantly related to our childhood experiences with our parents or primary caregivers.\r\n\r\nThese early influences on our lives create an imprint of relationships, which we may or may not be aware of.\r\n\r\nThis imprint is like a relational template, which shapes our ideas and expectations of relationships and of how we and our partner should communicate and behave in our relationship.\r\n\r\nOur mind and body are wired to relate to our partner according to this relational template.\r\n<h3><strong>Relational templates in couple relationships</strong></h3>\r\nIn any relationship, we’ll share some beliefs with our partner about how relationships should work, but we never have the same relational templates. That’s because we have lived in different homes, had different families and had completely different experiences.\r\n\r\nIt’s important for us to remember this, as we often create a fantasy that we should have similar views, expectations and behaviours in relationships. Even though it would be convenient if this were the case, this simply can’t occur, as we’re two very different beings and our life experiences have left us with different relational imprints.\r\n\r\nBelow are just a few examples of life experiences that would differ from our partner’s experiences, creating differing parental responses and contributing to our different relational templates:\r\n\r\n&nbsp;\r\n<ul>\r\n 	<li>Parents’ expectations or rules</li>\r\n 	<li>Parents’ capacity to emotionally see us as a child</li>\r\n 	<li>Sense of parental protectiveness and safety</li>\r\n 	<li>Parents’ own relationship: conflict, capacity for repair, their ability to apologise, gestures of love</li>\r\n 	<li>Parents’ separation or divorce</li>\r\n 	<li>Parental experiences with extended families</li>\r\n 	<li>Family trauma such as early parental death or illness, poverty, a sudden loss of money, or being a migrant</li>\r\n 	<li>Own separation or divorce</li>\r\n 	<li>Relationships with siblings and birth order</li>\r\n</ul>\r\nWe can see how these experiences shape our mind, our relational wiring, how we absorb and process information and experiences, and how we feel about them.\r\n\r\nThese life experiences shape our ability to tolerate different viewpoints, and influence whether we listen well to our partner or find it difficult. They also influence what we react to and how, and what sets us off into fight-or-flight mode.\r\n\r\nWe all grow up in environments that are uniquely ours. Therefore, in our relationship we’ll always encounter differences that we’ll need to work through together. We all have different triggers and behave differently in fight-or-flight mode.\r\n\r\nWe all have different thoughts about conflict: who was right or wrong? Who was to blame? Who started it? And we all have a different understanding of why we fight with our partner. All these beliefs and behaviours define our default expectations, rules for safety and non-negotiables in our relationship.\r\n\r\nOur relational template will determine how we react to our partner when our expectations of each other and our relationship differ. Sometimes we can talk through differences; other times we can’t. Sometimes we can feel frightened by our partner’s actions, words or behaviour.\r\n\r\nOur relational templates are different, and the gap between them can be perceived as a threat.\r\n\r\nUnderstanding our relational templates is critical if we want or need to reduce conflict and form a healthier relationship with our partner.\r\n<h3><strong>Why it\'s important to understand your relational template</strong></h3>\r\nWe all need to examine how our childhood experiences persist inside of us today, and how this impacts our relationship. Only when we make these connections, can we change the dynamic of our couple conflict. We, as individuals, can make our relationship better.\r\n\r\nIn the first one or two sessions with a new client or couple, I always seek some access to their relational template and wiring. I simply ask them about their relationship with their parents and what their parents’ relationship was like growing up.\r\n\r\nBy understanding how we’re relationally wired, we can learn how to avoid getting into the emotional boxing ring, and if we do happen to find ourselves there, we can exit faster with fewer body blows. When we understand this, we can then understand why we really fight with our partner. This is a game changer.\r\n\r\nTo do this, we’ll look at our experiences with parents or caregivers where we felt secure and protected, as well as experiences where we felt less safe or less protected. This will offer clues about our relational wiring and help us understand why and how we fight with our partner. This exercise isn’t about blaming or shaming anyone.\r\n\r\nIt’s not about accusing our parents or judging them for how we were raised. This is about objectively considering what happened in the past to understand how our relational wiring impacts our adult relationship today.\r\n\r\nI’d love for everyone to see how normal it is to have couple conflict. The truth is that couple relationships are often messy and complicated.\r\n\r\nDuring the dizzy joy of the honeymoon period, we often have no idea that we can end up locked in confusing and exhausting cycles of conflict. We have no idea that at the heart of these episodes is fear and a lack of safety.\r\n\r\nBut this is not new – this is from our childhood and was encoded way back then.\r\n<h3><strong>Safety and trust develop in childhood</strong></h3>\r\nWe’re not born feeling safe. In fact, it’s the opposite. Just think of a newborn baby with no ability to dress itself, feed itself or even soothe itself. From the moment they’re born, they’re completely dependent on their parents for their survival. This enormous dependency means danger and threat is never far away. When we hear a hungry baby crying, it pulls at our heartstrings because their distress is so evident. They can’t go to the fridge and grab a snack.\r\n\r\nThey’re literally screaming for their lives, and their nervous system is registering danger and threat.\r\n\r\nAs a baby, our sense of safety develops when we’re with parents who protect, feed, soothe and nurture us. We learn to feel safe knowing our parents are with us, attending to things we simply can’t do yet.\r\n\r\nAs children, it is written deeply into our mammalian core that it’s our parents’ job to keep us safe. That’s why children instinctively seek their parents when they’re hurt or afraid.\r\n\r\nWhen our parents protect us, meet our basic needs, comfort us and are available to us, we learn we can really trust them. These experiences calm our nervous system, and we feel safe.\r\n\r\nWhen parents take care of our physical and emotional safety, we can have some scrapes, be soothed by them, recover and re-establish our feelings of being protected.\r\n\r\nWe will still experience fear and danger, but we know our parent will comfort us. When these experiences are repeated during our childhood, we learn to tolerate upsetting and distressing experiences. This is how we become more resilient, and all of these moments of comfort and soothing are encoded in our relational wiring.\r\n\r\nIt’s important to note that no parent can offer perfect protection and safety; we have all had some experiences where our parents were not physically or emotionally able to help us feel secure.\r\n\r\nParents are also human, and they can be out of line at times, or maybe even a little frightening. There will always be ruptures or difficulties in parent–child relationships, but what’s critical is how they’re repaired.\r\n\r\nWhen our parent repeatedly sees that we’re slightly frightened or are feeling an absence of protection from them and they’re apologetic, this becomes an established pattern that we learn to rely on.\r\n\r\nAs they repeatedly re-establish trust with us, we’re more likely to develop distress tolerance, which we carry through to our adult relationships. This is how our relational wiring around safety and trust develops – through our parent–child relationships.\r\n<h3><strong>The theory of relational wiring</strong></h3>\r\nThe importance of security and safety in childhood has been extensively studied across the world through a body of research and clinical work called attachment theory, and it forms the basis of our relational wiring.\r\n\r\nThis work, started by John Bowlby, examines the types of emotional bonds children form with their parents or primary caregivers. He described attachment as a special emotional relationship that involves an exchange of comfort, care and pleasure.\r\n\r\nIt’s easy to understand how a baby would see their parent or primary caregiver as an attachment figure. As babies, we normally don’t have many primary attachment figures – sometimes just one – with whom we share that exchange.\r\n\r\nWe’ve already talked about how vulnerable and dependent a baby truly is, so having an attachment figure who is focused on them increases their chance of survival.\r\n\r\nResearchers were interested in the distress behaviours babies revealed when they were left alone by their parent (attachment figure) and were suddenly feeling vulnerable and unsafe. Any parent whose baby cries when they go to the toilet will know exactly how this feels.\r\n\r\nWhat’s important to take away from this is that loss or the threat of loss is central to psychological distress.\r\n<h3><strong>Research: The Adult Attachment Interview</strong></h3>\r\nThe Adult Attachment Interview was a protocol developed in 1985 using a semi-structured interview with participants to determine their mental representations of their childhood attachment experiences. The aim is to get a sense of their relational template.\r\n\r\nIt’s a complex interview, and requires training to conduct. In a nutshell, it focuses on two key areas:\r\n\r\n1. Eliciting the subject’s memories and their relationship with their parent(s) in childhood, including how they coped.\r\n\r\n2. The extent to which they evaluated or integrated those experiences as an adult today, and their current relationships with their parent(s).\r\n\r\nThe subjects were also assessed for the coherence of their narrative. This was done by assessing how truthful and consistent they were, whether there was too little or too much information provided, how relevant the material was, and finally whether they were clear in the interview.\r\n\r\nThis research was groundbreaking. It found that our adult attachment styles map onto our infant attachment styles. They weren’t always an exact fit, but there was typically a style that fitted more than others.\r\n\r\nThe names of the categories in childhood and adulthood are essentially the same, or very similar. Let me show you how.\r\n\r\nIf a child was securely attached, then as an adult they were likely to be securely attached. They became resilient adults.\r\n\r\nIf a child was insecurely attached then they were as an adult, too. There were three similar styles that corresponded to these.\r\n\r\n1. An ambivalently attached child became a preoccupied adult – think of the clingy/angry style.\r\n\r\n2. An avoidantly attached child created a fortress and continued to do so as an adult with a dismissing attachment style.\r\n\r\nEssentially, what this reveals is that our minds were relationally wired by twelve to eighteen months of age, and this becomes our relational template in adulthood. This template carries our expectations and beliefs about relationships, how we believe we should or shouldn’t treat or be treated by our partner, and our capacity to tolerate distress, or not.\r\n\r\nWe have no idea that our attachment style plays out in our adult behaviour and relationships. We just think ‘this is me,’ and that dictates what we believe and how we behave. We don’t question why we behave in a sulky or childlike manner, nor do we see a problem with our blaming, critical or aloof behaviour. It’s just who we are, right? Well, no – it’s how we’ve always behaved according to our relational wiring, but it’s not who we are.\r\n\r\nWe all know someone who makes the same ‘mistakes’ in relationships, leaving friends scratching their heads, wondering when they’ll learn their lesson. We can even be that person! The reason we repeat relationship ‘mistakes’ is due to our relational template.\r\n\r\nLet’s look at the adult attachment styles in more detail.\r\n\r\n<style>/*! elementor - v3.7.7 - 20-09-2022 */<br />\r\n.elementor-heading-title{padding:0;margin:0;line-height:1}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title[class*=elementor-size-]>a{color:inherit;font-size:inherit;line-height:inherit}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-small{font-size:15px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-medium{font-size:19px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-large{font-size:29px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xl{font-size:39px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xxl{font-size:59px}</style>\r\n<h3>1. Secure adult attachment: resilient style</h3>\r\nAdults with a secure attachment style -\r\n<ul>\r\n 	<li>Are independent and self-reliant</li>\r\n 	<li>Are confident</li>\r\n 	<li>Have trusting, close and enduring relationships in life</li>\r\n 	<li>Can speak about their own emotions</li>\r\n 	<li>Are aware of other people’s needs and emotions</li>\r\n 	<li>Can rely on others when needed</li>\r\n 	<li>Developed distress tolerance</li>\r\n</ul>\r\n<h3>2. Insecure adult attachment. Preoccupied adult attachment: clingy/angry style</h3>\r\nAdults with a clingy/angry attachment style -\r\n<ul>\r\n 	<li>Are needy, requiring ongoing reassurance from their partner, fearing rejection or abandonment worry/are anxious that their partner doesn’t love them.</li>\r\n 	<li>Have trouble trusting others</li>\r\n 	<li>Lack impulse control, can be angry, unpredictable or moody</li>\r\n 	<li>Connect through conflict</li>\r\n 	<li>Blame others, not acknowledging their own responsibility</li>\r\n 	<li>Are overly sensitive to their partner’s emotional and physical whereabouts</li>\r\n</ul>\r\nThese adults become preoccupied with the relationship; they can’t find a comfortable way of being in it. Their parent was sometimes there for them and sometimes not, and this left a mark on them that affects how they behave as adults.\r\n<h3>3. Dismissing adult attachment: fortress style</h3>\r\nPartners with this attachment style are often dragged into couples therapy by their partner. They don\'t like talking about their feelings, as they\'re just not used to doing so. Characteristics of the adult fortress attachment style include -\r\n<ul>\r\n 	<li>Communicates in an intellectual and controlled manner</li>\r\n 	<li>Is distant emotionally and rejects others’ emotions</li>\r\n 	<li>Invests little emotion in social or romantic relationships</li>\r\n 	<li>Shows a narrow or limited emotional range</li>\r\n 	<li>Is unable or unwilling to share thoughts and feelings with others</li>\r\n 	<li>Is unable to depend on others or unable to allow their partner to depend on them</li>\r\n 	<li>Prefers independence and autonomy over depending on others</li>\r\n 	<li>Shows a calm exterior, typically hiding their anxiety</li>\r\n 	<li>Uses distraction from feelings, such as work or exercise</li>\r\n</ul>\r\n<h3>4. Unresolved/disorganised adult attachment: no strategy style</h3>\r\nTypical behaviours of the unresolved/disorganised adult attachment style include -\r\n<ul>\r\n 	<li>Has traumatic memories, post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) or dissociation</li>\r\n 	<li>Struggles with mood and anxiety – depression, overwhelm, a sense of disconnection, a fear of abandonment, helplessness, rage, feeling trapped or irritable</li>\r\n 	<li>Relies on substances (drugs and/or alcohol)</li>\r\n 	<li>Is unable to understand their own feelings or recognise the mental states of others (including their partner)</li>\r\n 	<li>Lacks trust, empathy and remorse for others</li>\r\n 	<li>Shows chaotic or unpredictable emotional states</li>\r\n 	<li>Is unable to tolerate intimacy in a relationship</li>\r\n 	<li>May be narcissistic or appear to be narcissistic</li>\r\n</ul>\r\n<h3>The good news</h3>\r\nThe good news for all of us is that these attachment styles aren’t fixed for life. The concept of earned secure attachment applies to people who have made sense of and created meaning from past experiences with their parents that led to insecure attachment.\r\n\r\nWith earned secure attachment, we accept these past experiences and escape the hold they have over our lives. This enables us to relate to our partner in a healthier way and remove the soul-destroying episodes of conflict from our relationship. It is an important component for decreasing couple conflict.\r\n\r\n<a href=\"https://www.booktopia.com.au/relationship-reset-lissy-abrahams/book/9781760989781.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><em>Relationship Reset</em></a> is published by <a href=\"https://www.panmacmillan.com.au/9781760989781/relationship-reset/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Pan Macmillan Australia</a> and is available now from Booktopia, Book Depository, Amazon and all the other online bookstores.\r\n\r\n<em>For more from Lissy Abrahams, you can follow her on </em><a href=\"https://www.instagram.com/lissy.abrahams/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><em>Instagram</em></a><em>.</em>\r\n\r\n<em>Feature image: Getty</em>','There are 3 ways to stop the \'conflict cycle\'',' Relationships can be TOUGH. And while things like cheating and trust issues are some very obvious red...','inherit','closed','closed','','5379-revision-v1','','','2022-09-28 10:46:32','2022-09-28 10:46:32','',5379,'https://www.lissyabrahams.com/?p=5389',0,'revision','',0),(5390,3,'2022-09-28 10:46:33','2022-09-28 10:46:33','<style>/*! elementor - v3.7.7 - 20-09-2022 */\n.elementor-column .elementor-spacer-inner{height:var(--spacer-size)}.e-container{--container-widget-width:100%}.e-container>.elementor-widget-spacer{width:var(--container-widget-width,var(--spacer-size));-ms-flex-item-align:stretch;align-self:stretch;-ms-flex-negative:0;flex-shrink:0}.e-container>.elementor-widget-spacer>.elementor-widget-container,.e-container>.elementor-widget-spacer>.elementor-widget-container>.elementor-spacer{height:100%}.e-container>.elementor-widget-spacer>.elementor-widget-container>.elementor-spacer>.elementor-spacer-inner{height:var(--container-widget-height,var(--spacer-size))}</style>		\n            <h1>\n                Mamam!a            \n        </h1>\n            Article - source: Mamamia        \n            <h2>\n                There are 3 ways to stop the \'conflict cycle\'            \n        </h2>\n            4 September 2022        \n		<p>When there are ongoing cycles of conflict in our couple relationship, we often unconsciously take our partner’s comments, behaviour, opinion, tone of voice or facial expression as a threat. In that moment, we’re triggered into fight- or-flight and our mind and body react to our partner as if they were a hungry bear chasing us. </p><p>The threat feels very real, and we react accordingly. We fight or run for our lives. The tragedy is that couples can do this for years, or even decades. </p><p>Remember, it typically takes around six years of conflict before a couple will contact a therapist for help. Conflict is incredibly distressing for both partners. It’s easy to see the distress on the fighters: they shout, blame, degrade, regress, make their bodies bigger or voices louder in anger. </p><p>Those who flee the conflict are also extremely distressed, even if they don’t look it. Remember, they have the same cascading survival reaction that compels them to run away as the fighters have to attack. Both experience a surge in their adrenaline and cortisol levels, and their heart rate and blood pressure increase.</p><p>Prolonged couple conflict causes suffering for both partners. It’s gruelling, both physically and mentally, and it takes time and energy to recover from each exhausting episode. Very few of us bounce back after a fight without any lingering impact. </p><p>The residue of conflict impacts our <a href=\"https://www.mamamia.com.au/signs-of-a-healthy-relationship/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">relationship</a> and creates the perfect climate for the ego to tell elaborate stories of our partner’s inadequacy. It’s vastly different from the way we saw each other at the start of the relationship. </p><p>I see many couples where both partners feel vulnerable and powerless within their relationship. Their dynamic has changed. They both feel victim-like and see their partner as powerful, and even persecutory. When they come to me for therapy, typically they’ve both been using their go-to ego defence mechanisms and telling themselves ego-based stories for years. </p><p>These behaviours and narratives are entrenched in their relationship, so both partners have plenty of ‘evidence’ to back up their ego’s version of the ‘truth’. Often, they disregard any information that conflicts with their version. </p><p>Many of the partners engaged in cycles of conflict didn’t develop distress tolerance in their relationships with their parents when they were children. It’s not their fault. And it’s not your fault. It’s not your parents’ fault, either, or even their parents’ fault – they didn’t develop distress tolerance either.</p><p>We know our ability or inability to tolerate distress is handed down from parent to child. You know already that securely attached people have a higher threshold for handling distress than those who are insecurely attached.</p><p>It’s a different experience for the insecurely attached. Their threshold is lower, and arousal is higher, which means more distress to deal with, more ego-based stories and defence mechanisms. </p><p>Those who were faced with the biological paradox will have an even lower threshold for distress tolerance, and they live with chronic arousal, perceiving many more threats in everyday life, and certainly in their relationship. </p><h3><strong>Why judgement is problematic</strong></h3><p> </p><p>What’s important here is that we don’t judge ourselves, our partner, or anyone, for being insecurely attached and not developing distress tolerance. It’s easy to want to judge our partner for their inadequacies or blame our parents for our insecure attachment. </p><p>Using judgement may allow us a little ego boost. However, it’s not healthy for us – and it’s using the ego defence mechanism projection. It’s fine to acknowledge that it’s a shame, or that life would have been simpler if we were securely attached, but judgement is problematic. It implies that we’re not like the person we’re judging (so we’re ‘good’), and therefore are better than them (as they’re ‘bad’). </p><p>Do you recognise this? Whenever we use the extremes of good and bad, we’re using the defence mechanism called splitting. It means we’ve separated the person into the black and white binary and removed all grey zones. </p><p>So, what’s in the grey zone? Well, everything that’s about all of us being complex, real and multifaceted human beings. The grey zone contains an understanding of our partner’s journey, their <a href=\"https://www.mamamia.com.au/adult-attachment-styles/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">relational templates</a> and childhood experiences, our journey, our need or safety and what our ego and physiology do when we perceive danger. </p><p>We’re no more ‘good’ than they are ‘bad’. We all need to understand that there are no angels or devils in this life. My clients often want to make me out as ‘good’, as if my life is perfect and that I never struggle with tough times. I always tell my clients that there are no halos in my consulting room – not on their heads and certainly not on mine. </p><p>Just like all of us mortals, I behave according to my <a href=\"https://www.mamamia.com.au/avoidant-attachment-style-relationships/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">attachment style </a>and can hit my limit of distress tolerance. I work within myself to increase my threshold of what I can tolerate. </p><p>We’re all in the human experience together. When we judge someone, we believe they should know better and behave better. We can also judge our own behaviour harshly, whether it’s with our partner or with others. We can be so fearful of being seen as inadequate and deemed unacceptable in our community. </p><p>Remember, abandonment is primitively wired within us as being akin to death – a lone human didn’t live for long in the wild. Today, there’s a major problem socially and via the media, as we judge all adults through the lens of a securely attached template. It’s a bit rich, isn’t it, given that only 60 per cent of us are actually securely attached. We don’t mind being completely inconsistent within ourselves as we delight in judging a monumental celebrity downfall. </p><p>We love to gossip about it and judge that celebrity accordingly. We even sound holier than thou and feel rather unblemished as we speak. We see the celebrity splashed across the internet, hiding their ashamed faces on the evening news and in magazines. We love seeing how terrified, unworthy and below us they are now. We devour this stuff because it makes us feel better about our own lives.</p><p>We do this to our partner in our relationship, too. We judge them harshly for what they don’t know exists inside them. </p><p>When we hit our own threshold of distress tolerance, we often make excuses for our cruel or out-of-control behaviour. We may have called our partner ‘weak’ or ‘pathetic’ or yelled at them to ‘shut up!’, with expletives added for emphasis to frighten them just a little more. Or maybe we punished them with the silent treatment for days. </p>		\n			<style>/*! elementor - v3.7.7 - 20-09-2022 */\n.elementor-widget-image{text-align:center}.elementor-widget-image a{display:inline-block}.elementor-widget-image a img[src$=\".svg\"]{width:48px}.elementor-widget-image img{vertical-align:middle;display:inline-block}</style>												<img width=\"640\" height=\"450\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/09/Couple-Conflict.png\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/09/Couple-Conflict.png 654w, https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/09/Couple-Conflict-300x211.png 300w, https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/09/Couple-Conflict-600x422.png 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" />															\n		<p>One of the best things we can do in our relationship is to stop our judgement and develop empathy for both of our individual struggles and how they interact in our relationship. </p><p>We’re all humans, influenced by our primitive biology and relational wiring. We all can feel sadness, anxiety, irritation, shame, humiliation, guilt, pain and frustration. We’d be robots if we didn’t. The difference lies in our ability to manage these feelings.</p><p>The first step we can take is to attend to our own home. It’s your turn to explore your own threshold of distress tolerance, to understand why and how you fight with your partner. You’re not responsible for the attachment style you developed, nor for what triggers you into flight-or-fight with your partner. You’re not even responsible for the ego-based stories you’ve been constructing in your mind for decades. </p><p>However, now that you know about attachment styles, distress intolerance, triggers, ego-based stories and defence mechanisms, it’s your responsibility to liberate your relationship from the suffering caused by these things. And it’s not just the suffering to your relationship. </p><p>We take ourselves everywhere, and when we take responsibility and liberate ourselves from the impact of the past, we liberate our partner, any children, friends, family and colleagues at work. Developing distress tolerance is how you stop the cycles of conflict with your partner. </p><p>The more you do this, the more peace you’ll both feel. This creates the space to make happy memories together. I see this with my clients all the time. They do the work and the dark grey cloud that hovered over them disappears. </p><h3><strong>How do we develop distress tolerance?</strong></h3><p>We can’t separate mind and body as they influence each other constantly. We are one organism. This means we need both mind and body solutions for developing distress tolerance. </p><p>I believe there are two main categories of coping strategies that are critical for developing distress tolerance. They allow you to reduce your reactivity to triggers through understanding how your triggers link to that whiff of familiarity from the past. </p><p>This awareness will help you calm down and then you’ll recover more quickly. For couples, this decreases the damage of the conflict. These categories are connected and overlap in practice, but I’ll present them separately so you can see how they work. They are - </p><p>1. Bio-hacks for calming ourselves down. </p><p>2. Developing earned secure attachment. </p>		\n			<style>/*! elementor - v3.7.7 - 20-09-2022 */\n.elementor-heading-title{padding:0;margin:0;line-height:1}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title[class*=elementor-size-]>a{color:inherit;font-size:inherit;line-height:inherit}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-small{font-size:15px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-medium{font-size:19px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-large{font-size:29px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xl{font-size:39px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xxl{font-size:59px}</style><h3>Bio-hacks for calming ourselves down</h3>		\n		<p>Bio-hacks are strategic interventions that you can apply yourself to improve your health, wellbeing or performance. You can use these to calm down whenever you want or need to. You already know that your limbic system is your brain’s emotional centre.&nbsp;</p>\n<p>When your amygdalae determine you are under threat, your body releases the stress hormones adrenaline and cortisol, which increase your heart rate and blood pressure. These changes prepare your body for fight-or-flight, and your thinking brain takes a back seat.&nbsp;</p>\n<p>Sometimes the left hemisphere goes offline, as in the case of adults with childhood trauma. To develop distress tolerance, you need to learn to get yourself out of fight-or-flight mode, to calm your whole system. Then you can get on with your life and think creatively about your next steps.&nbsp;</p>\n<h4><strong>Stop the conflict and take time out</strong></h4>\n<p>The first thing you need to do is to stop the episode of conflict. You need to take time out from the fight with your partner, even if that means physically moving away from them and into a safe space. You can’t calm yourself down if your fight-or-flight response is still being stimulated, as the hormones will keep surging through your body.&nbsp;</p>\n<p>So, we need to take the time to calm down before returning to each other. Think about how long you need. Is it fifteen minutes or is it hours? Take the time to ensure you don’t keep re-triggering each other. When you reunite, you need to have a mindset that’s open to resolving the conflict in a respectful way. You may even simply let it go and move on.&nbsp;</p>\n<p>Once you’ve taken time out, you can use some simple hacks to calm down. These help you join your mind and body together to focus on your here and now. When you’re triggered, you’ve confused what’s past and present. We all only have now: our past is over, and our future is not yet written.&nbsp;</p>\n<p>There are many ways to calm down, and I’m going to share my top three go-to tools. These tools have been scientifically tested, and even medical experts recommend their effectiveness. The more often I use these, the higher my threshold for tolerating distress becomes. Most of my clients find them life changing. They can be done anytime and anywhere. Just make sure you keep your eyes open during the breathing exercise when driving!&nbsp;</p>\n<p>My top three bio-hacks are:&nbsp;</p>\n<p>1. Breathing exercise to stimulate the vagus nerve.&nbsp;</p>\n<p>2. Mindfulness.&nbsp;</p>\n<p>3. Riding the 90-second wave.&nbsp;</p>\n<p>These bio-hacks return us to the present. And the only fact we really have (as opposed to the fake news created by our ego) is that our physical sensations are actually happening in the present. By focusing on being present and calming down, we can learn to tolerate distress within ourselves.&nbsp;</p>\n<p>This means we’re not needing our external world to be our crutch. We’re not distracting ourselves by reading, watching TV, tidying the office drawers or rearranging the kitchen cupboards. Distraction is being used as a defence mechanism.&nbsp;</p>\n<p>What we often try to do is use the external world to help tidy up our distressed internal world. We unconsciously believe we’ll get our mind in order if we can just achieve order in the kitchen. (And of course, it’s nice to have a compelling reason to tidy the kitchen cupboards). But distraction won’t help increase distress tolerance, and developing distress tolerance is critical for decreasing the cycles of conflict in our relationship.&nbsp;</p>\n<h4><strong>1. Breathing exercise to stimulate the vagus nerve.&nbsp;</strong></h4><strong><br></strong>\n<p>At a biological level, breathing is the most powerful way we can regulate our fight-or-flight response. This works because of our vagus nerve and its incredibly calming capacity. The vagus nerve is the tenth cranial nerve, and it extends from our brainstem down through the neck and thorax to our abdomen.&nbsp;</p>\n<p>Think of it as a two-way street that carries a massive range of messages from our digestive system and organs to the brain, and back again. When we stimulate the vagus nerve, we send a message to our body saying it’s time to relax and de-stress. You do this simply by taking a slow, deep, deliberate breath in through your nose and down to your stomach. Then, you exhale slowly. These deep breaths activate neurons that detect blood pressure. The neurons also signal to the vagus nerve that your blood pressure is too high, so it lowers your heart rate, which helps you calm down.</p>\n<h4><strong>2. Mindfulness.</strong></h4><strong><br></strong>\n<p>You will now be aware that you compound your own stress and distress by creating ego-based stories that evoke sadness, anxiety or fear. And you know that your ego is just a part of your mind, continuously concerned with your identity from moment to moment. Mindfulness is a great tool to help us calm down when our ego’s stories take off, tell fake news or lack coherence. We’ve seen what happens to us physically and mentally when we let the stories rule the roost. Mindfulness takes our attention away from our left hemisphere, allowing us to drop the stories and redirect our mind to ourselves as an entire living and breathing organism.</p>\n<h4><strong>3. Riding the 90-second wave.</strong></h4><h4><strong>&nbsp;</strong></h4>\n<p>For this approach, we can think of our body’s experience during fight-or-flight as a wave in the ocean with a beginning and an end.&nbsp;</p>\n<p>Following her stroke, Jill Bolte Taylor discovered that the physical sensations of fight-or-flight (such as surging adrenaline, racing heart rate, increasing blood pressure) reach a peak and then dissipate by themselves in 90 seconds. This means the physiological experience of emotions such as anger, frustration, sadness or distress takes only 90 seconds to ride through our body.&nbsp;</p>\n<p>So, why all this talk of distress intolerance if we only need to cope for 90 seconds? Bolte Taylor explains that our thoughts continue to re-stimulate our nervous system, which causes the fight-or-flight reaction to occur again and again.&nbsp;</p>\n<p>Think of it like this: we don’t normally just see one wave hit the beach. They keep rolling in, one after the other, in a continuous cycle. Similarly, our ego-based stories keep reactivating the physiological waves, keeping us in fight or flight until we stop the stories or become exhausted.</p>\n<p>This is why it’s critical you become aware of the stories you tell yourself. These stories repeatedly hurt you and your relationship. Remember, the stories don’t just stay in your mind. If you believe you are stupid or hard done by or not good enough, then you’ll treat yourself accordingly. If you believe your partner is disappointing, selfish or cruel, you’ll treat them&nbsp;as such. Where your mind goes, your behaviour often follows, and this has consequences for your relationship.</p>\n<p>These hacks are simple. The more frequently you use these strategies, the more you’ll want to keep using them to alleviate your distress, anxiety and sadness. You’ll no longer be held hostage or feel helpless in the face of your emotional state.&nbsp;</p>\n<p>The beauty of these hacks is that you can take them with you wherever you go. Over time, you’ll become more resilient and increase your threshold for tolerating distress.</p>\n<p><em>This is an extract from&nbsp;</em><a href=\"https://www.booktopia.com.au/relationship-reset-lissy-abrahams/book/9781760989781.html?irclickid=Tumwb6xpQxyNUNV0vi2cWRoIUkDRHoTV5V-CQw0&amp;utm_campaign=Skimbit%20Ltd.&amp;utm_medium=affiliate&amp;utm_source=Impact&amp;bk_source=10078&amp;bk_source_id=10078&amp;irgwc=1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><em>Relationship Reset</em></a>, published by Pan Macmillan Australia, available now from&nbsp;<a href=\"https://www.booktopia.com.au/relationship-reset-lissy-abrahams/book/9781760989781.html?irclickid=Tumwb6xpQxyNUNV0vi2cWRoIUkDRHoTV5V-CQw0&amp;utm_campaign=Skimbit%20Ltd.&amp;utm_medium=affiliate&amp;utm_source=Impact&amp;bk_source=10078&amp;bk_source_id=10078&amp;irgwc=1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Booktopia</a>, Book Depository, Amazon and all the other online bookstores.&nbsp;</p>\n<p>For more from Lissy Abrahams, you can follow her on<a href=\"https://www.instagram.com/lissy.abrahams/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">&nbsp;Instagram</a>.</p>\n<p><em>Have you practiced any of these hacks before? 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She is also the author of Relationship Reset and has published academically.</p>		\n    <a href=\"Mailto:lissy@lissyabrahams.com\">\n                Contact Lissy about a Guest Appearance\n    </a>\n            <h2>\n                Guest Appearances            \n        </h2>\n            Below is  a selection of some of Lissy\'s guest appearances        \n            All\n                    Articles                \n                    Podcasts                \n                    TV Appearances                \n                                <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/4-things-you-do-when-you-and-your-partner-have-very-different-love-languages/\"><img src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/shutterstock_1385860784-768x511-1.jpg\" width=\"768\" height=\"511\" alt=\"shutterstock_1385860784-768x511\" title=\"shutterstock_1385860784-768x511\" /></a>\n                                <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study-category/articles/\" rel=\"tag\">Articles</a>, <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study-category/mamamia/\" rel=\"tag\">Mamamia</a>                            \n                            <h3>\n                                <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/4-things-you-do-when-you-and-your-partner-have-very-different-love-languages/\">4 Things To Do When You And Your Partner Have VERY Different Love Languages</a>\n                            </h3>\n                                <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/mamamia/\"><img src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/blog1.jpg\" width=\"722\" height=\"454\" alt=\"Couple snuggling at beach\" title=\"Couple snuggling at beach\" /></a>\n                                <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study-category/articles/\" rel=\"tag\">Articles</a>, <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study-category/mamamia/\" rel=\"tag\">Mamamia</a>                            \n                            <h3>\n                                <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/mamamia/\">Mamamia</a>\n                            </h3>\n                                <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/your-relational-template-and-how-it-affects-how-you-treat-your-partner/\"><img src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/09/Relational-Templates-Impact-on-Partner.png\" width=\"653\" height=\"435\" alt=\"Relational Templates &amp; Impact on Partner\" title=\"Relational Templates &amp; Impact on Partner\" /></a>\n                                <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study-category/articles/\" rel=\"tag\">Articles</a>, <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study-category/mamamia/\" rel=\"tag\">Mamamia</a>                            \n                            <h3>\n                                <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/your-relational-template-and-how-it-affects-how-you-treat-your-partner/\">What to know about your &#8216;relational template&#8217; and how it affects the way you treat your partner.</a>\n                            </h3>','Media','','inherit','closed','closed','','3650-revision-v1','','','2022-10-17 02:23:21','2022-10-17 02:23:21','',3650,'https://www.lissyabrahams.com/?p=5407',0,'revision','',0),(5408,3,'2022-10-17 02:23:21','2022-10-17 02:23:21','<style>/*! 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She also had an independent therapy practice.</p><p style=\"margin-bottom: 12.75pt; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;\">She has held positions on the Tavistock Relationships Association of Psychotherapists and Counsellors, and was Vice President of the Couple, Child, and Family Psychotherapy Association of Australasia. Lissy is part of Mamamia\'s health expert panel.</p><p style=\"background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;\">Lissy founded and runs a Sydney-based therapy clinic, Heath Group Practice, and works therapeutically with clients here and around the world. 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Lissy believes we all have the capacity to improve our lives, whether it’s our own mental wellbeing, or our work or home life. We just need the right knowledge and skills. Lissy helps her clients not just get back on track but also to flourish.</p><p style=\"margin-bottom: 12.75pt; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;\">Lissy studied psychology in Sydney and then completed her Masters of Couple Psychoanalytic Psychotherapy at the internationally renowned Tavistock Relationships, London. Here, she worked therapeutically with couples, as well as lectured and tutored trainee counsellors. She also had an independent therapy practice.</p><p style=\"margin-bottom: 12.75pt; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;\">She has held positions on the Tavistock Relationships Association of Psychotherapists and Counsellors, and was Vice President of the Couple, Child, and Family Psychotherapy Association of Australasia. Lissy is part of Mamamia\'s health expert panel.</p><p style=\"background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;\">Lissy founded and runs a Sydney-based therapy clinic, Heath Group Practice, and works therapeutically with clients here and around the world. 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She is also the author of Relationship Reset and has published academically.</p>		\n    <a href=\"Mailto:lissy@lissyabrahams.com\">\n                Contact Lissy about a Guest Appearance\n    </a>\n            <h2>\n                Guest Appearances            \n        </h2>\n            Below is  a selection of some of Lissy\'s guest appearances        \n                    All\n                            Articles                        \n                            Podcasts                        \n                            TV Appearances                        \n                                <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/3-ways-to-stop-the-conflict-cycle/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img width=\"653\" height=\"434\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/Stop-Couple-Conflict.png\" alt=\"\" /></a>\n                                <h3>\n                                    <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/3-ways-to-stop-the-conflict-cycle/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">There are 3 ways to stop the &#8216;conflict cycle&#8217;</a>\n                                </h3>\n                                    Relationships can be TOUGH. And while things like cheating and trust issues are some very obvious red...                                \n                                <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/3-ways-to-stop-the-conflict-cycle/\">\n                                </a>\n                                <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/your-relational-template-and-how-it-affects-how-you-treat-your-partner/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img width=\"653\" height=\"435\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/09/Relational-Templates-Impact-on-Partner.png\" alt=\"\" /></a>\n                                <h3>\n                                    <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/your-relational-template-and-how-it-affects-how-you-treat-your-partner/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">What to know about your &#8216;relational template&#8217; and how it affects the way you treat your partner.</a>\n                                </h3>\n                                    Relationships can be TOUGH. And while things like cheating and trust issues are some very obvious red...                                \n                                <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/your-relational-template-and-how-it-affects-how-you-treat-your-partner/\">\n                                </a>\n                                <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/the-daily-telegraph/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img width=\"2560\" height=\"1707\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/Newspapers-scaled.jpg\" alt=\"\" /></a>\n                                <h3>\n                                    <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/the-daily-telegraph/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">The Daily Telegraph</a>\n                                </h3>\n                                    The Daily Telegraph, also nicknamed The Tele, is an Australian tabloid newspaper published by Nationwide News Pty Limited                                \n                                <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/the-daily-telegraph/\">\n                                </a>\n                                <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/mamamia/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img width=\"722\" height=\"454\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/blog1.jpg\" alt=\"\" /></a>\n                                <h3>\n                                    <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/mamamia/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Mamamia</a>\n                                </h3>\n                                    Mamamia (stylised as MamaM!a) is an Australian news, opinion and lifestyle website targeted at women.                                \n                                <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/mamamia/\">\n                                </a>\n                                <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/podcasts/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img width=\"2560\" height=\"1280\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/Podcasts-scaled-e1658696318621.jpeg\" alt=\"\" /></a>\n                                <h3>\n                                    <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/podcasts/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Podcasts</a>\n                                </h3>\n                                    Lissy is often invited as a guest expert on podcasts.                                \n                                <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/podcasts/\">\n                                </a>\n                                <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/articles/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img width=\"1000\" height=\"667\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/AdobeStock_76311829_Preview.jpeg\" alt=\"\" /></a>\n                                <h3>\n                                    <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/articles/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Articles</a>\n                                </h3>\n                                    A selection of articles where Lissy has been interviewed.                                \n                                <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/articles/\">\n                                </a>\n                <a href=\"\" target=\"\" rel=\"noopener\">\n                    Read More\n                </a>','Media','','inherit','closed','closed','','3650-revision-v1','','','2022-10-17 02:23:21','2022-10-17 02:23:21','',3650,'https://www.lissyabrahams.com/?p=5409',0,'revision','',0),(5410,3,'2022-10-17 02:50:45','2022-10-17 02:50:45','<style>/*! 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She also had an independent therapy practice.</p><p style=\"margin-bottom: 12.75pt; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;\">She has held positions on the Tavistock Relationships Association of Psychotherapists and Counsellors, and was Vice President of the Couple, Child, and Family Psychotherapy Association of Australasia. Lissy is part of Mamamia\'s health expert panel.</p><p style=\"background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;\">Lissy founded and runs a Sydney-based therapy clinic, Heath Group Practice, and works therapeutically with clients here and around the world. Her successful online course ‘Fight Less, Love More’ explores the real reasons why couples fight, provides guided activities for participants to identify why they are having difficulty communicating, and teaches the vital skills needed to break repeated cycles of conflict. She is also the author of Relationship Reset and has published academically.</p>		\n    <a href=\"Mailto:lissy@lissyabrahams.com\">\n                Contact Lissy about a Guest Appearance\n    </a>\n            <h2>\n                Guest Appearances            \n        </h2>\n            Below is  a selection of some of Lissy\'s guest appearances        \n                    All\n                            Articles                        \n                            Podcasts                        \n                            TV Appearances                        \n                                <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/3-ways-to-stop-the-conflict-cycle/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img width=\"653\" height=\"434\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/Stop-Couple-Conflict.png\" alt=\"\" /></a>\n                                <h3>\n                                    <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/3-ways-to-stop-the-conflict-cycle/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">There are 3 ways to stop the &#8216;conflict cycle&#8217;</a>\n                                </h3>\n                                    Relationships can be TOUGH. And while things like cheating and trust issues are some very obvious red...                                \n                                <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/3-ways-to-stop-the-conflict-cycle/\">\n                                </a>\n                                <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/your-relational-template-and-how-it-affects-how-you-treat-your-partner/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img width=\"653\" height=\"435\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/09/Relational-Templates-Impact-on-Partner.png\" alt=\"\" /></a>\n                                <h3>\n                                    <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/your-relational-template-and-how-it-affects-how-you-treat-your-partner/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">What to know about your &#8216;relational template&#8217; and how it affects the way you treat your partner.</a>\n                                </h3>\n                                    Relationships can be TOUGH. And while things like cheating and trust issues are some very obvious red...                                \n                                <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/your-relational-template-and-how-it-affects-how-you-treat-your-partner/\">\n                                </a>\n                                <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/the-daily-telegraph/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img width=\"2560\" height=\"1707\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/Newspapers-scaled.jpg\" alt=\"\" /></a>\n                                <h3>\n                                    <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/the-daily-telegraph/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">The Daily Telegraph</a>\n                                </h3>\n                                    The Daily Telegraph, also nicknamed The Tele, is an Australian tabloid newspaper published by Nationwide News Pty Limited                                \n                                <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/the-daily-telegraph/\">\n                                </a>\n                                <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/mamamia/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img width=\"722\" height=\"454\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/blog1.jpg\" alt=\"\" /></a>\n                                <h3>\n                                    <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/mamamia/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Mamamia</a>\n                                </h3>\n                                    Mamamia (stylised as MamaM!a) is an Australian news, opinion and lifestyle website targeted at women.                                \n                                <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/mamamia/\">\n                                </a>\n                                <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/podcasts/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img width=\"2560\" height=\"1280\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/Podcasts-scaled-e1658696318621.jpeg\" alt=\"\" /></a>\n                                <h3>\n                                    <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/podcasts/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Podcasts</a>\n                                </h3>\n                                    Lissy is often invited as a guest expert on podcasts.                                \n                                <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/podcasts/\">\n                                </a>\n                                <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/articles/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img width=\"1000\" height=\"667\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/AdobeStock_76311829_Preview.jpeg\" alt=\"\" /></a>\n                                <h3>\n                                    <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/articles/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Articles</a>\n                                </h3>\n                                    A selection of articles where Lissy has been interviewed.                                \n                                <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/articles/\">\n                                </a>\n                <a href=\"\" target=\"\" rel=\"noopener\">\n                    Read More\n                </a>','Media','','inherit','closed','closed','','3650-revision-v1','','','2022-10-17 02:50:45','2022-10-17 02:50:45','',3650,'https://www.lissyabrahams.com/?p=5410',0,'revision','',0);
INSERT INTO `wpjr_posts` VALUES (5411,3,'2022-10-17 02:50:46','2022-10-17 02:50:46','<style>/*! elementor - v3.7.8 - 02-10-2022 */\n.elementor-column .elementor-spacer-inner{height:var(--spacer-size)}.e-container{--container-widget-width:100%}.e-container>.elementor-widget-spacer{width:var(--container-widget-width,var(--spacer-size));-ms-flex-item-align:stretch;align-self:stretch;-ms-flex-negative:0;flex-shrink:0}.e-container>.elementor-widget-spacer>.elementor-widget-container,.e-container>.elementor-widget-spacer>.elementor-widget-container>.elementor-spacer{height:100%}.e-container>.elementor-widget-spacer>.elementor-widget-container>.elementor-spacer>.elementor-spacer-inner{height:var(--container-widget-height,var(--spacer-size))}</style>		\n            <h1>\n                Media            \n        </h1>\n			<style>/*! elementor - v3.7.8 - 02-10-2022 */\n.elementor-heading-title{padding:0;margin:0;line-height:1}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title[class*=elementor-size-]>a{color:inherit;font-size:inherit;line-height:inherit}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-small{font-size:15px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-medium{font-size:19px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-large{font-size:29px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xl{font-size:39px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xxl{font-size:59px}</style><h2>As featured in...</h2>		\n		[elementor-template id=\"4440\"][elementor-template id=\"4443\"]		\n			<style>/*! elementor - v3.7.8 - 02-10-2022 */\n.elementor-widget-image{text-align:center}.elementor-widget-image a{display:inline-block}.elementor-widget-image a img[src$=\".svg\"]{width:48px}.elementor-widget-image img{vertical-align:middle;display:inline-block}</style>												<img src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/JA_Lissy_03.png\" title=\"JA_Lissy_03\" alt=\"JA_Lissy_03\" />															\n            <h2>\n                Lissy is passionate about...            \n        </h2>\n		<p>Helping people thrive.</p><p>She is a leading psychotherapist who has dedicated her career to helping her clients navigate life’s obstacles and challenges.</p><p style=\"margin-bottom: 12.75pt; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;\">When we just don’t feel right, for whatever reason, we can feel sad, anxious, or frightened. Lissy believes we all have the capacity to improve our lives, whether it’s our own mental wellbeing, or our work or home life. We just need the right knowledge and skills. Lissy helps her clients not just get back on track but also to flourish.</p><p style=\"margin-bottom: 12.75pt; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;\">Lissy studied psychology in Sydney and then completed her Masters of Couple Psychoanalytic Psychotherapy at the internationally renowned Tavistock Relationships, London. Here, she worked therapeutically with couples, as well as lectured and tutored trainee counsellors. She also had an independent therapy practice.</p><p style=\"margin-bottom: 12.75pt; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;\">She has held positions on the Tavistock Relationships Association of Psychotherapists and Counsellors, and was Vice President of the Couple, Child, and Family Psychotherapy Association of Australasia. Lissy is part of Mamamia\'s health expert panel.</p><p style=\"background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;\">Lissy founded and runs a Sydney-based therapy clinic, Heath Group Practice, and works therapeutically with clients here and around the world. Her successful online course ‘Fight Less, Love More’ explores the real reasons why couples fight, provides guided activities for participants to identify why they are having difficulty communicating, and teaches the vital skills needed to break repeated cycles of conflict. She is also the author of Relationship Reset and has published academically.</p>		\n    <a href=\"Mailto:lissy@lissyabrahams.com\">\n                Contact Lissy about a Guest Appearance\n    </a>\n            <h2>\n                Guest Appearances            \n        </h2>\n            Below is  a selection of some of Lissy\'s guest appearances        \n                    All\n                            Articles                        \n                            Podcasts                        \n                            TV Appearances                        \n                                <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/3-ways-to-stop-the-conflict-cycle/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img width=\"653\" height=\"434\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/Stop-Couple-Conflict.png\" alt=\"\" /></a>\n                                <h3>\n                                    <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/3-ways-to-stop-the-conflict-cycle/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">There are 3 ways to stop the &#8216;conflict cycle&#8217;</a>\n                                </h3>\n                                    Relationships can be TOUGH. And while things like cheating and trust issues are some very obvious red...                                \n                                <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/3-ways-to-stop-the-conflict-cycle/\">\n                                </a>\n                                <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/your-relational-template-and-how-it-affects-how-you-treat-your-partner/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img width=\"653\" height=\"435\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/09/Relational-Templates-Impact-on-Partner.png\" alt=\"\" /></a>\n                                <h3>\n                                    <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/your-relational-template-and-how-it-affects-how-you-treat-your-partner/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">What to know about your &#8216;relational template&#8217; and how it affects the way you treat your partner.</a>\n                                </h3>\n                                    Relationships can be TOUGH. And while things like cheating and trust issues are some very obvious red...                                \n                                <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/your-relational-template-and-how-it-affects-how-you-treat-your-partner/\">\n                                </a>\n                                <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/the-daily-telegraph/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img width=\"2560\" height=\"1707\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/Newspapers-scaled.jpg\" alt=\"\" /></a>\n                                <h3>\n                                    <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/the-daily-telegraph/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">The Daily Telegraph</a>\n                                </h3>\n                                    The Daily Telegraph, also nicknamed The Tele, is an Australian tabloid newspaper published by Nationwide News Pty Limited                                \n                                <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/the-daily-telegraph/\">\n                                </a>\n                                <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/mamamia/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img width=\"722\" height=\"454\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/blog1.jpg\" alt=\"\" /></a>\n                                <h3>\n                                    <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/mamamia/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Mamamia</a>\n                                </h3>\n                                    Mamamia (stylised as MamaM!a) is an Australian news, opinion and lifestyle website targeted at women.                                \n                                <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/mamamia/\">\n                                </a>\n                                <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/podcasts/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img width=\"2560\" height=\"1280\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/Podcasts-scaled-e1658696318621.jpeg\" alt=\"\" /></a>\n                                <h3>\n                                    <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/podcasts/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Podcasts</a>\n                                </h3>\n                                    Lissy is often invited as a guest expert on podcasts.                                \n                                <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/podcasts/\">\n                                </a>\n                                <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/articles/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img width=\"1000\" height=\"667\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/AdobeStock_76311829_Preview.jpeg\" alt=\"\" /></a>\n                                <h3>\n                                    <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/articles/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Articles</a>\n                                </h3>\n                                    A selection of articles where Lissy has been interviewed.                                \n                                <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/articles/\">\n                                </a>\n                <a href=\"\" target=\"\" rel=\"noopener\">\n                    Read More\n                </a>','Media','','inherit','closed','closed','','3650-revision-v1','','','2022-10-17 02:50:46','2022-10-17 02:50:46','',3650,'https://www.lissyabrahams.com/?p=5411',0,'revision','',0),(5412,3,'2022-10-17 02:50:46','2022-10-17 02:50:46','<style>/*! 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Lissy believes we all have the capacity to improve our lives, whether it’s our own mental wellbeing, or our work or home life. We just need the right knowledge and skills. Lissy helps her clients not just get back on track but also to flourish.</p><p style=\"margin-bottom: 12.75pt; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;\">Lissy studied psychology in Sydney and then completed her Masters of Couple Psychoanalytic Psychotherapy at the internationally renowned Tavistock Relationships, London. Here, she worked therapeutically with couples, as well as lectured and tutored trainee counsellors. She also had an independent therapy practice.</p><p style=\"margin-bottom: 12.75pt; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;\">She has held positions on the Tavistock Relationships Association of Psychotherapists and Counsellors, and was Vice President of the Couple, Child, and Family Psychotherapy Association of Australasia. Lissy is part of Mamamia\'s health expert panel.</p><p style=\"background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;\">Lissy founded and runs a Sydney-based therapy clinic, Heath Group Practice, and works therapeutically with clients here and around the world. Her successful online course ‘Fight Less, Love More’ explores the real reasons why couples fight, provides guided activities for participants to identify why they are having difficulty communicating, and teaches the vital skills needed to break repeated cycles of conflict. She is also the author of Relationship Reset and has published academically.</p>		\n    <a href=\"Mailto:lissy@lissyabrahams.com\">\n                Contact Lissy about a Guest Appearance\n    </a>\n            <h2>\n                Guest Appearances            \n        </h2>\n            Below is  a selection of some of Lissy\'s guest appearances        \n                    All\n                            Articles                        \n                            Podcasts                        \n                            TV Appearances                        \n                                <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/3-ways-to-stop-the-conflict-cycle/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img width=\"653\" height=\"434\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/Stop-Couple-Conflict.png\" alt=\"\" /></a>\n                                <h3>\n                                    <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/3-ways-to-stop-the-conflict-cycle/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">There are 3 ways to stop the &#8216;conflict cycle&#8217;</a>\n                                </h3>\n                                    Relationships can be TOUGH. And while things like cheating and trust issues are some very obvious red...                                \n                                <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/3-ways-to-stop-the-conflict-cycle/\">\n                                </a>\n                                <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/your-relational-template-and-how-it-affects-how-you-treat-your-partner/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img width=\"653\" height=\"435\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/09/Relational-Templates-Impact-on-Partner.png\" alt=\"\" /></a>\n                                <h3>\n                                    <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/your-relational-template-and-how-it-affects-how-you-treat-your-partner/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">What to know about your &#8216;relational template&#8217; and how it affects the way you treat your partner.</a>\n                                </h3>\n                                    Relationships can be TOUGH. And while things like cheating and trust issues are some very obvious red...                                \n                                <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/your-relational-template-and-how-it-affects-how-you-treat-your-partner/\">\n                                </a>\n                                <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/the-daily-telegraph/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img width=\"2560\" height=\"1707\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/Newspapers-scaled.jpg\" alt=\"\" /></a>\n                                <h3>\n                                    <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/the-daily-telegraph/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">The Daily Telegraph</a>\n                                </h3>\n                                    The Daily Telegraph, also nicknamed The Tele, is an Australian tabloid newspaper published by Nationwide News Pty Limited                                \n                                <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/the-daily-telegraph/\">\n                                </a>\n                                <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/mamamia/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img width=\"722\" height=\"454\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/blog1.jpg\" alt=\"\" /></a>\n                                <h3>\n                                    <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/mamamia/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Mamamia</a>\n                                </h3>\n                                    Mamamia (stylised as MamaM!a) is an Australian news, opinion and lifestyle website targeted at women.                                \n                                <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/mamamia/\">\n                                </a>\n                                <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/podcasts/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img width=\"2560\" height=\"1280\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/Podcasts-scaled-e1658696318621.jpeg\" alt=\"\" /></a>\n                                <h3>\n                                    <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/podcasts/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Podcasts</a>\n                                </h3>\n                                    Lissy is often invited as a guest expert on podcasts.                                \n                                <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/podcasts/\">\n                                </a>\n                                <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/articles/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img width=\"1000\" height=\"667\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/AdobeStock_76311829_Preview.jpeg\" alt=\"\" /></a>\n                                <h3>\n                                    <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/articles/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Articles</a>\n                                </h3>\n                                    A selection of articles where Lissy has been interviewed.                                \n                                <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/articles/\">\n                                </a>\n                <a href=\"\" target=\"\" rel=\"noopener\">\n                    Read More\n                </a>','Media','','inherit','closed','closed','','3650-revision-v1','','','2022-10-17 02:50:46','2022-10-17 02:50:46','',3650,'https://www.lissyabrahams.com/?p=5412',0,'revision','',0),(5413,3,'2022-10-17 02:51:34','2022-10-17 02:51:34','<style>/*! 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Here\'s how\"></iframe>		\n															<img src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/elementor/thumbs/SCS_podcast_3-e1659852287780-pswfn2ezqkd7wn96h07p7j0vic52zc7h8qjgsb3d34.png\" title=\"Segal Conflict Solutions\" alt=\"Segal Conflict Solutions\" />															\n            segal conflict solutions        \n            <h2>\n                Why employers should be wooing employees back to the office after COVID            \n        </h2>\n            3 August 2022        \n		<iframe style=\"border-radius: 12px;\" src=\"https://open.spotify.com/embed/episode/5z4i6sWqlra07N86EzhQHs?utm_source=generator\" width=\"100%\" height=\"180\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"></iframe>		\n															<img width=\"114\" height=\"68\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/Radio-National.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n            ABC Radio national        \n            <h2>\n                Could your childhood baggage be ruining your relationship?            \n        </h2>\n            4 August 2022 - <b>Interview starts at 32:13</b>        \n		<iframe allow=\"autoplay *; encrypted-media *; fullscreen *; clipboard-write\" frameborder=\"0\" height=\"175\" style=\"width:100%;max-width:660px;overflow:hidden;background:transparent;\" sandbox=\"allow-forms allow-popups allow-same-origin allow-scripts allow-storage-access-by-user-activation allow-top-navigation-by-user-activation\" src=\"https://embed.podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/retiring-when-inflation-is-high-and-resetting-your/id73330343?i=1000574948325\"></iframe> 		\n															<img src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/nova-entertainment-logo-e1661236396796.png\" title=\"nova-entertainment-logo\" alt=\"nova-entertainment-logo\" />															\n            Nova         \n            <h2>\n                It\'s not them...it\'s you<br>            \n        </h2>\n            22 August 2022        \n		<iframe src=\"https://omny.fm/shows/separate-bathrooms-and-other-handy-marriage-tips/lissy-abrahams/embed\" allow=\"autoplay; clipboard-write\" width=\"100%\" height=\"180\" frameborder=\"0\" title=\"It\'s Not Them... 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She also had an independent therapy practice.</p><p style=\"margin-bottom: 12.75pt; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;\">She has held positions on the Tavistock Relationships Association of Psychotherapists and Counsellors, and was Vice President of the Couple, Child, and Family Psychotherapy Association of Australasia. Lissy is part of Mamamia\'s health expert panel.</p><p style=\"background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;\">Lissy founded and runs a Sydney-based therapy clinic, Heath Group Practice, and works therapeutically with clients here and around the world. 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And while things like cheating and trust issues are some very obvious red...                                \n                                <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/3-ways-to-stop-the-conflict-cycle/\">\n                                </a>\n                                <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/your-relational-template-and-how-it-affects-how-you-treat-your-partner/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img width=\"653\" height=\"435\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/09/Relational-Templates-Impact-on-Partner.png\" alt=\"\" /></a>\n                                <h3>\n                                    <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/your-relational-template-and-how-it-affects-how-you-treat-your-partner/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">What to know about your &#8216;relational template&#8217; and how it affects the way you treat your partner.</a>\n                                </h3>\n                                    Relationships can be TOUGH. And while things like cheating and trust issues are some very obvious red...                                \n                                <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/your-relational-template-and-how-it-affects-how-you-treat-your-partner/\">\n                                </a>\n                                <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/the-daily-telegraph/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img width=\"2560\" height=\"1707\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/Newspapers-scaled.jpg\" alt=\"\" /></a>\n                                <h3>\n                                    <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/the-daily-telegraph/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">The Daily Telegraph</a>\n                                </h3>\n                                    The Daily Telegraph, also nicknamed The Tele, is an Australian tabloid newspaper published by Nationwide News Pty Limited                                \n                                <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/the-daily-telegraph/\">\n                                </a>\n                                <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/mamamia/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img width=\"722\" height=\"454\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/blog1.jpg\" alt=\"\" /></a>\n                                <h3>\n                                    <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/mamamia/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Mamamia</a>\n                                </h3>\n                                    Mamamia (stylised as MamaM!a) is an Australian news, opinion and lifestyle website targeted at women.                                \n                                <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/mamamia/\">\n                                </a>\n                                <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/podcasts/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img width=\"2560\" height=\"1280\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/Podcasts-scaled-e1658696318621.jpeg\" alt=\"\" /></a>\n                                <h3>\n                                    <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/podcasts/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Podcasts</a>\n                                </h3>\n                                    Lissy is often invited as a guest expert on podcasts.                                \n                                <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/podcasts/\">\n                                </a>\n                                <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/articles/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img width=\"1000\" height=\"667\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/AdobeStock_76311829_Preview.jpeg\" alt=\"\" /></a>\n                                <h3>\n                                    <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/articles/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Articles</a>\n                                </h3>\n                                    A selection of articles where Lissy has been interviewed.                                \n                                <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/articles/\">\n                                </a>\n                <a href=\"\" target=\"\" rel=\"noopener\">\n                    Read More\n                </a>','Media','','inherit','closed','closed','','3650-revision-v1','','','2022-10-17 04:12:58','2022-10-17 04:12:58','',3650,'https://www.lissyabrahams.com/?p=5440',0,'revision','',0),(5441,3,'2022-10-17 04:12:58','2022-10-17 04:12:58','<style>/*! 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Lissy believes we all have the capacity to improve our lives, whether it’s our own mental wellbeing, or our work or home life. We just need the right knowledge and skills. Lissy helps her clients not just get back on track but also to flourish.</p><p style=\"margin-bottom: 12.75pt; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;\">Lissy studied psychology in Sydney and then completed her Masters of Couple Psychoanalytic Psychotherapy at the internationally renowned Tavistock Relationships, London. Here, she worked therapeutically with couples, as well as lectured and tutored trainee counsellors. She also had an independent therapy practice.</p><p style=\"margin-bottom: 12.75pt; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;\">She has held positions on the Tavistock Relationships Association of Psychotherapists and Counsellors, and was Vice President of the Couple, Child, and Family Psychotherapy Association of Australasia. Lissy is part of Mamamia\'s health expert panel.</p><p style=\"background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;\">Lissy founded and runs a Sydney-based therapy clinic, Heath Group Practice, and works therapeutically with clients here and around the world. Her successful online course ‘Fight Less, Love More’ explores the real reasons why couples fight, provides guided activities for participants to identify why they are having difficulty communicating, and teaches the vital skills needed to break repeated cycles of conflict. She is also the author of Relationship Reset and has published academically.</p>		\n    <a href=\"Mailto:lissy@lissyabrahams.com\">\n                Contact Lissy about a Guest Appearance\n    </a>\n            <h2>\n                Guest Appearances            \n        </h2>\n            Below is  a selection of some of Lissy\'s guest appearances        \n                    All\n                            Articles                        \n                            Podcasts                        \n                            TV Appearances                        \n                                <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/3-ways-to-stop-the-conflict-cycle/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img width=\"653\" height=\"434\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/Stop-Couple-Conflict.png\" alt=\"\" /></a>\n                                <h3>\n                                    <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/3-ways-to-stop-the-conflict-cycle/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">There are 3 ways to stop the &#8216;conflict cycle&#8217;</a>\n                                </h3>\n                                    Relationships can be TOUGH. And while things like cheating and trust issues are some very obvious red...                                \n                                <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/3-ways-to-stop-the-conflict-cycle/\">\n                                </a>\n                                <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/your-relational-template-and-how-it-affects-how-you-treat-your-partner/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img width=\"653\" height=\"435\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/09/Relational-Templates-Impact-on-Partner.png\" alt=\"\" /></a>\n                                <h3>\n                                    <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/your-relational-template-and-how-it-affects-how-you-treat-your-partner/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">What to know about your &#8216;relational template&#8217; and how it affects the way you treat your partner.</a>\n                                </h3>\n                                    Relationships can be TOUGH. And while things like cheating and trust issues are some very obvious red...                                \n                                <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/your-relational-template-and-how-it-affects-how-you-treat-your-partner/\">\n                                </a>\n                                <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/the-daily-telegraph/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img width=\"2560\" height=\"1707\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/Newspapers-scaled.jpg\" alt=\"\" /></a>\n                                <h3>\n                                    <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/the-daily-telegraph/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">The Daily Telegraph</a>\n                                </h3>\n                                    The Daily Telegraph, also nicknamed The Tele, is an Australian tabloid newspaper published by Nationwide News Pty Limited                                \n                                <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/the-daily-telegraph/\">\n                                </a>\n                                <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/mamamia/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img width=\"722\" height=\"454\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/blog1.jpg\" alt=\"\" /></a>\n                                <h3>\n                                    <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/mamamia/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Mamamia</a>\n                                </h3>\n                                    Mamamia (stylised as MamaM!a) is an Australian news, opinion and lifestyle website targeted at women.                                \n                                <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/mamamia/\">\n                                </a>\n                                <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/podcasts/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img width=\"2560\" height=\"1280\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/Podcasts-scaled-e1658696318621.jpeg\" alt=\"\" /></a>\n                                <h3>\n                                    <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/podcasts/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Podcasts</a>\n                                </h3>\n                                    Lissy is often invited as a guest expert on podcasts.                                \n                                <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/podcasts/\">\n                                </a>\n                                <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/articles/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img width=\"1000\" height=\"667\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/AdobeStock_76311829_Preview.jpeg\" alt=\"\" /></a>\n                                <h3>\n                                    <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/articles/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Articles</a>\n                                </h3>\n                                    A selection of articles where Lissy has been interviewed.                                \n                                <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/articles/\">\n                                </a>\n                <a href=\"\" target=\"\" rel=\"noopener\">\n                    Read More\n                </a>','Media','','inherit','closed','closed','','3650-revision-v1','','','2022-10-17 04:12:58','2022-10-17 04:12:58','',3650,'https://www.lissyabrahams.com/?p=5441',0,'revision','',0),(5442,3,'2022-10-17 04:12:58','2022-10-17 04:12:58','<style>/*! 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elementor - v3.7.8 - 02-10-2022 */\n.elementor-widget-image{text-align:center}.elementor-widget-image a{display:inline-block}.elementor-widget-image a img[src$=\".svg\"]{width:48px}.elementor-widget-image img{vertical-align:middle;display:inline-block}</style>												<img src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/JA_Lissy_03.png\" title=\"JA_Lissy_03\" alt=\"JA_Lissy_03\" />															\n            <h2>\n                Lissy is passionate about...            \n        </h2>\n		<p>Helping people thrive.</p><p>She is a leading psychotherapist who has dedicated her career to helping her clients navigate life’s obstacles and challenges.</p><p style=\"margin-bottom: 12.75pt; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;\">When we just don’t feel right, for whatever reason, we can feel sad, anxious, or frightened. Lissy believes we all have the capacity to improve our lives, whether it’s our own mental wellbeing, or our work or home life. We just need the right knowledge and skills. Lissy helps her clients not just get back on track but also to flourish.</p><p style=\"margin-bottom: 12.75pt; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;\">Lissy studied psychology in Sydney and then completed her Masters of Couple Psychoanalytic Psychotherapy at the internationally renowned Tavistock Relationships, London. Here, she worked therapeutically with couples, as well as lectured and tutored trainee counsellors. She also had an independent therapy practice.</p><p style=\"margin-bottom: 12.75pt; background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;\">She has held positions on the Tavistock Relationships Association of Psychotherapists and Counsellors, and was Vice President of the Couple, Child, and Family Psychotherapy Association of Australasia. Lissy is part of Mamamia\'s health expert panel.</p><p style=\"background-image: initial; background-position: initial; background-size: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial;\">Lissy founded and runs a Sydney-based therapy clinic, Heath Group Practice, and works therapeutically with clients here and around the world. Her successful online course ‘Fight Less, Love More’ explores the real reasons why couples fight, provides guided activities for participants to identify why they are having difficulty communicating, and teaches the vital skills needed to break repeated cycles of conflict. She is also the author of Relationship Reset and has published academically.</p>		\n    <a href=\"Mailto:lissy@lissyabrahams.com\">\n                Contact Lissy about a Guest Appearance\n    </a>\n            <h2>\n                Guest Appearances            \n        </h2>\n            Below is  a selection of some of Lissy\'s guest appearances        \n                    All\n                            Articles                        \n                            Podcasts                        \n                            TV Appearances                        \n                                <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/tv/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img width=\"2560\" height=\"1707\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/Media-scaled.jpeg\" alt=\"\" /></a>\n                                <h3>\n                                    <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/tv/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">TV Appearances</a>\n                                </h3>\n                                    Lissy\'s guest appearances on TV                                \n                                <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/tv/\">\n                                </a>\n                                <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/3-ways-to-stop-the-conflict-cycle/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img width=\"653\" height=\"434\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/Stop-Couple-Conflict.png\" alt=\"\" /></a>\n                                <h3>\n                                    <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/3-ways-to-stop-the-conflict-cycle/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">There are 3 ways to stop the &#8216;conflict cycle&#8217;</a>\n                                </h3>\n                                    Relationships can be TOUGH. And while things like cheating and trust issues are some very obvious red...                                \n                                <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/3-ways-to-stop-the-conflict-cycle/\">\n                                </a>\n                                <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/your-relational-template-and-how-it-affects-how-you-treat-your-partner/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img width=\"653\" height=\"435\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/09/Relational-Templates-Impact-on-Partner.png\" alt=\"\" /></a>\n                                <h3>\n                                    <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/your-relational-template-and-how-it-affects-how-you-treat-your-partner/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">What to know about your &#8216;relational template&#8217; and how it affects the way you treat your partner.</a>\n                                </h3>\n                                    Relationships can be TOUGH. And while things like cheating and trust issues are some very obvious red...                                \n                                <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/your-relational-template-and-how-it-affects-how-you-treat-your-partner/\">\n                                </a>\n                                <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/the-daily-telegraph/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img width=\"2560\" height=\"1707\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/Newspapers-scaled.jpg\" alt=\"\" /></a>\n                                <h3>\n                                    <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/the-daily-telegraph/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">The Daily Telegraph</a>\n                                </h3>\n                                    The Daily Telegraph, also nicknamed The Tele, is an Australian tabloid newspaper published by Nationwide News Pty Limited                                \n                                <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/the-daily-telegraph/\">\n                                </a>\n                                <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/mamamia/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img width=\"722\" height=\"454\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/blog1.jpg\" alt=\"\" /></a>\n                                <h3>\n                                    <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/mamamia/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Mamamia</a>\n                                </h3>\n                                    Mamamia (stylised as MamaM!a) is an Australian news, opinion and lifestyle website targeted at women.                                \n                                <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/mamamia/\">\n                                </a>\n                                <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/podcasts/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img width=\"2560\" height=\"1280\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/Podcasts-scaled-e1658696318621.jpeg\" alt=\"\" /></a>\n                                <h3>\n                                    <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/podcasts/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Podcasts</a>\n                                </h3>\n                                    Lissy is often invited as a guest expert on podcasts.                                \n                                <a href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/case-study/podcasts/\">\n                                </a>\n                <a href=\"\" target=\"\" rel=\"noopener\">\n                    Read More\n                </a>','Media','','inherit','closed','closed','','3650-revision-v1','','','2022-10-17 04:12:58','2022-10-17 04:12:58','',3650,'https://www.lissyabrahams.com/?p=5442',0,'revision','',0),(5443,3,'2022-10-18 02:02:24','2022-10-18 02:02:24','','Luke-and-Susie-Logo-Gracify-Media-Smile','','inherit','open','closed','','luke-and-susie-logo-gracify-media-smile','','','2022-10-18 02:02:24','2022-10-18 02:02:24','',4319,'http://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/Luke-and-Susie-Logo-Gracify-Media-Smile.png',0,'attachment','image/png',0),(5444,3,'2022-10-18 02:03:53','2022-10-18 02:03:53','<style>/*! 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Thing to Improve Couple Communication<br />\n        </h2>\n            2 September 2021        \n		<p><iframe title=\"A psychotherapist on the No 1. thing to improve couple communication\" src=\"https://omny.fm/shows/healthy-ish/a-psychotherapist-on-the-no-1-thing-to-improve-cou/embed?style=Cover\" width=\"100%\" height=\"180\" frameborder=\"0\"></iframe></p>		\n            <h2>\n                When Christmas Stress Hits            \n        </h2>\n            16 December 2021        \n		<p><iframe title=\"When Christmas stress hits...\" src=\"https://omny.fm/shows/healthy-ish/when-christmas-stress-hits/embed?style=Cover\" width=\"100%\" height=\"180\" frameborder=\"0\"></iframe></p>		\n															<img width=\"120\" height=\"105\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/BodySoul-Healthy-ish-extra-e1658551477615.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n            body+soul Healthy-ish extra        \n            <h2>\n                What Couples Who Communicate Well Do Differently            \n        </h2>\n            2 September 2021        \n		<iframe src=\"https://omny.fm/shows/extra-healthy-ish/what-couples-who-communicate-well-do-differently/embed?style=Cover\" width=\"100%\" height=\"180\" allow=\"autoplay; clipboard-write\" frameborder=\"0\" title=\"What couples who communicate well do differently\"></iframe>		\n            <h2>\n                How to  Deal with Family Crap at Christmas            \n        </h2>\n            16 December 2021        \n		<iframe src=\"https://omny.fm/shows/extra-healthy-ish/how-to-deal-with-family-crap-at-christmas/embed?in_playlist=extra-healthy-ish&style=Cover\" width=\"100%\" height=\"180\" allow=\"autoplay; clipboard-write\" frameborder=\"0\" title=\"How to deal with family crap at Christmas\"></iframe>		\n															<img width=\"160\" height=\"80\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/ido-podcast-small-1.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n            i do podcast        \n            <h2>\n                How to Have a Peaceful Divorce or Separation            \n        </h2>\n		<iframe allow=\"autoplay *; encrypted-media *; fullscreen *; clipboard-write\" frameborder=\"0\" height=\"175\" style=\"width:100%;max-width:660px;overflow:hidden;background:transparent;\" sandbox=\"allow-forms allow-popups allow-same-origin allow-scripts allow-storage-access-by-user-activation allow-top-navigation-by-user-activation\" src=\"https://embed.podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/how-to-have-a-peaceful-divorce-or-separation/id840534227?i=1000535247963\"></iframe>		\n															<img width=\"93\" height=\"43\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/291768450_602847517894882_6401580038014845901_n.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n            faster than normal by peter shankman        \n            <h2>\n                Creating Connected Relationships            \n        </h2>\n																<a href=\"https://www.fasterthannormal.com/creating-connected-relationships-w-psychotherapist-lissy-abrahams/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">\n							<img width=\"562\" height=\"102\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/faster-than-normal-podcast-1.png\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/faster-than-normal-podcast-1.png 562w, https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/faster-than-normal-podcast-1-300x54.png 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 562px) 100vw, 562px\" />								</a>\n															<img width=\"150\" height=\"150\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/Feed-Play-Love-150x150.jpg\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/Feed-Play-Love-150x150.jpg 150w, https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/Feed-Play-Love-300x300.jpg 300w, https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/Feed-Play-Love-e1658306061762.jpg 100w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px\" />															\n            feed play love with Shevonne hunt        \n            <h2>\n                Want to Stop Fighting with Your Partner? <br>- Here\'s How            \n        </h2>\n            26 July 2022        \n		<iframe src=\"https://omny.fm/shows/feed-play-love1/want-to-stop-fighting-with-your-partner/embed?style=Cover\" width=\"100%\" height=\"180\" allow=\"autoplay; clipboard-write\" frameborder=\"0\" title=\"Want to stop fighting with your partner? 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Here\'s how\"></iframe>		\n															<img src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/elementor/thumbs/SCS_podcast_3-e1659852287780-pswfn2ezqkd7wn96h07p7j0vic52zc7h8qjgsb3d34.png\" title=\"Segal Conflict Solutions\" alt=\"Segal Conflict Solutions\" />															\n            segal conflict solutions        \n            <h2>\n                Why employers should be wooing employees back to the office after COVID            \n        </h2>\n            3 August 2022        \n		<iframe style=\"border-radius: 12px;\" src=\"https://open.spotify.com/embed/episode/5z4i6sWqlra07N86EzhQHs?utm_source=generator\" width=\"100%\" height=\"180\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"></iframe>		\n															<img width=\"114\" height=\"68\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/Radio-National.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n            ABC Radio national        \n            <h2>\n                Could your childhood baggage be ruining your relationship?            \n        </h2>\n            4 August 2022 - <b>Interview starts at 32:13</b>        \n		<iframe allow=\"autoplay *; encrypted-media *; fullscreen *; clipboard-write\" frameborder=\"0\" height=\"175\" style=\"width:100%;max-width:660px;overflow:hidden;background:transparent;\" sandbox=\"allow-forms allow-popups allow-same-origin allow-scripts allow-storage-access-by-user-activation allow-top-navigation-by-user-activation\" src=\"https://embed.podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/retiring-when-inflation-is-high-and-resetting-your/id73330343?i=1000574948325\"></iframe> 		\n															<img src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/nova-entertainment-logo-e1661236396796.png\" title=\"nova-entertainment-logo\" alt=\"nova-entertainment-logo\" />															\n            Nova         \n            <h2>\n                It\'s not them...it\'s you<br>            \n        </h2>\n            22 August 2022        \n		<iframe src=\"https://omny.fm/shows/separate-bathrooms-and-other-handy-marriage-tips/lissy-abrahams/embed\" allow=\"autoplay; clipboard-write\" width=\"100%\" height=\"180\" frameborder=\"0\" title=\"It\'s Not Them... 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Thing to Improve Couple Communication<br />\n        </h2>\n            2 September 2021        \n		<p><iframe title=\"A psychotherapist on the No 1. thing to improve couple communication\" src=\"https://omny.fm/shows/healthy-ish/a-psychotherapist-on-the-no-1-thing-to-improve-cou/embed?style=Cover\" width=\"100%\" height=\"180\" frameborder=\"0\"></iframe></p>		\n            <h2>\n                When Christmas Stress Hits            \n        </h2>\n            16 December 2021        \n		<p><iframe title=\"When Christmas stress hits...\" src=\"https://omny.fm/shows/healthy-ish/when-christmas-stress-hits/embed?style=Cover\" width=\"100%\" height=\"180\" frameborder=\"0\"></iframe></p>		\n															<img width=\"120\" height=\"105\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/BodySoul-Healthy-ish-extra-e1658551477615.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n            body+soul Healthy-ish extra        \n            <h2>\n                What Couples Who Communicate Well Do Differently            \n        </h2>\n            2 September 2021        \n		<iframe src=\"https://omny.fm/shows/extra-healthy-ish/what-couples-who-communicate-well-do-differently/embed?style=Cover\" width=\"100%\" height=\"180\" allow=\"autoplay; clipboard-write\" frameborder=\"0\" title=\"What couples who communicate well do differently\"></iframe>		\n            <h2>\n                How to  Deal with Family Crap at Christmas            \n        </h2>\n            16 December 2021        \n		<iframe src=\"https://omny.fm/shows/extra-healthy-ish/how-to-deal-with-family-crap-at-christmas/embed?in_playlist=extra-healthy-ish&style=Cover\" width=\"100%\" height=\"180\" allow=\"autoplay; clipboard-write\" frameborder=\"0\" title=\"How to deal with family crap at Christmas\"></iframe>		\n															<img width=\"160\" height=\"80\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/ido-podcast-small-1.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n            i do podcast        \n            <h2>\n                How to Have a Peaceful Divorce or Separation            \n        </h2>\n		<iframe allow=\"autoplay *; encrypted-media *; fullscreen *; clipboard-write\" frameborder=\"0\" height=\"175\" style=\"width:100%;max-width:660px;overflow:hidden;background:transparent;\" sandbox=\"allow-forms allow-popups allow-same-origin allow-scripts allow-storage-access-by-user-activation allow-top-navigation-by-user-activation\" src=\"https://embed.podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/how-to-have-a-peaceful-divorce-or-separation/id840534227?i=1000535247963\"></iframe>		\n															<img width=\"93\" height=\"43\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/291768450_602847517894882_6401580038014845901_n.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n            faster than normal by peter shankman        \n            <h2>\n                Creating Connected Relationships            \n        </h2>\n																<a href=\"https://www.fasterthannormal.com/creating-connected-relationships-w-psychotherapist-lissy-abrahams/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">\n							<img width=\"562\" height=\"102\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/faster-than-normal-podcast-1.png\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/faster-than-normal-podcast-1.png 562w, https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/faster-than-normal-podcast-1-300x54.png 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 562px) 100vw, 562px\" />								</a>\n															<img width=\"150\" height=\"150\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/Feed-Play-Love-150x150.jpg\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/Feed-Play-Love-150x150.jpg 150w, https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/Feed-Play-Love-300x300.jpg 300w, https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/Feed-Play-Love-e1658306061762.jpg 100w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px\" />															\n            feed play love with Shevonne hunt        \n            <h2>\n                Want to Stop Fighting with Your Partner? <br>- Here\'s How            \n        </h2>\n            26 July 2022        \n		<iframe src=\"https://omny.fm/shows/feed-play-love1/want-to-stop-fighting-with-your-partner/embed?style=Cover\" width=\"100%\" height=\"180\" allow=\"autoplay; clipboard-write\" frameborder=\"0\" title=\"Want to stop fighting with your partner? Here\'s how\"></iframe>		\n															<img src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/elementor/thumbs/SCS_podcast_3-e1659852287780-pswfn2ezqkd7wn96h07p7j0vic52zc7h8qjgsb3d34.png\" title=\"Segal Conflict Solutions\" alt=\"Segal Conflict Solutions\" />															\n            segal conflict solutions        \n            <h2>\n                Why employers should be wooing employees back to the office after COVID            \n        </h2>\n            3 August 2022        \n		<iframe style=\"border-radius: 12px;\" src=\"https://open.spotify.com/embed/episode/5z4i6sWqlra07N86EzhQHs?utm_source=generator\" width=\"100%\" height=\"180\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"></iframe>		\n															<img width=\"114\" height=\"68\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/Radio-National.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n            ABC Radio national        \n            <h2>\n                Could your childhood baggage be ruining your relationship?            \n        </h2>\n            4 August 2022 - <b>Interview starts at 32:13</b>        \n		<iframe allow=\"autoplay *; encrypted-media *; fullscreen *; clipboard-write\" frameborder=\"0\" height=\"175\" style=\"width:100%;max-width:660px;overflow:hidden;background:transparent;\" sandbox=\"allow-forms allow-popups allow-same-origin allow-scripts allow-storage-access-by-user-activation allow-top-navigation-by-user-activation\" src=\"https://embed.podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/retiring-when-inflation-is-high-and-resetting-your/id73330343?i=1000574948325\"></iframe> 		\n															<img src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/nova-entertainment-logo-e1661236396796.png\" title=\"nova-entertainment-logo\" alt=\"nova-entertainment-logo\" />															\n            Nova         \n            <h2>\n                It\'s not them...it\'s you<br>            \n        </h2>\n            22 August 2022        \n		<iframe src=\"https://omny.fm/shows/separate-bathrooms-and-other-handy-marriage-tips/lissy-abrahams/embed\" allow=\"autoplay; clipboard-write\" width=\"100%\" height=\"180\" frameborder=\"0\" title=\"It\'s Not Them... It\'s You\"></iframe>		\n															<img width=\"9360\" height=\"2043\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/Luke-and-Susie-Logo-Gracify-Media-Smile.png\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/Luke-and-Susie-Logo-Gracify-Media-Smile.png 9360w, https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/Luke-and-Susie-Logo-Gracify-Media-Smile-300x65.png 300w, https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/Luke-and-Susie-Logo-Gracify-Media-Smile-1024x224.png 1024w, https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/Luke-and-Susie-Logo-Gracify-Media-Smile-768x168.png 768w, https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/Luke-and-Susie-Logo-Gracify-Media-Smile-1536x335.png 1536w, https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/Luke-and-Susie-Logo-Gracify-Media-Smile-2048x447.png 2048w, https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/Luke-and-Susie-Logo-Gracify-Media-Smile-600x131.png 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 9360px) 100vw, 9360px\" />															\n            Luke and Susie - Gracify        \n            <h2>\n                Could your childhood baggage be ruining your relationship?            \n        </h2>\n            12 October 2022         \n		<iframe src=\"https://omny.fm/shows/luke-and-susie-podcast/lissy-abrahams-relationship-reset/embed\" width=\"100%\" height=\"180\" allow=\"autoplay; clipboard-write\" frameborder=\"0\" title=\"Lissy Abrahams - Relationship Reset\"></iframe>','Podcasts',' Lissy is often invited as a guest expert on podcasts.','inherit','closed','closed','','4319-revision-v1','','','2022-10-18 02:04:20','2022-10-18 02:04:20','',4319,'https://www.lissyabrahams.com/?p=5448',0,'revision','',0),(5449,3,'2022-10-18 02:04:20','2022-10-18 02:04:20','<style>/*! 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elementor - v3.7.8 - 02-10-2022 */\n.elementor-widget-image{text-align:center}.elementor-widget-image a{display:inline-block}.elementor-widget-image a img[src$=\".svg\"]{width:48px}.elementor-widget-image img{vertical-align:middle;display:inline-block}</style>												<img width=\"100\" height=\"100\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/BodySoul-Healthish-e1658306050495.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n            BODY+SOUL HEALTHY-ISH        \n            <h2>\n                The No 1. Thing to Improve Couple Communication<br />\n        </h2>\n            2 September 2021        \n		<p><iframe title=\"A psychotherapist on the No 1. thing to improve couple communication\" src=\"https://omny.fm/shows/healthy-ish/a-psychotherapist-on-the-no-1-thing-to-improve-cou/embed?style=Cover\" width=\"100%\" height=\"180\" frameborder=\"0\"></iframe></p>		\n            <h2>\n                When Christmas Stress Hits            \n        </h2>\n            16 December 2021        \n		<p><iframe title=\"When Christmas stress hits...\" src=\"https://omny.fm/shows/healthy-ish/when-christmas-stress-hits/embed?style=Cover\" width=\"100%\" height=\"180\" frameborder=\"0\"></iframe></p>		\n															<img width=\"120\" height=\"105\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/BodySoul-Healthy-ish-extra-e1658551477615.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n            body+soul Healthy-ish extra        \n            <h2>\n                What Couples Who Communicate Well Do Differently            \n        </h2>\n            2 September 2021        \n		<iframe src=\"https://omny.fm/shows/extra-healthy-ish/what-couples-who-communicate-well-do-differently/embed?style=Cover\" width=\"100%\" height=\"180\" allow=\"autoplay; clipboard-write\" frameborder=\"0\" title=\"What couples who communicate well do differently\"></iframe>		\n            <h2>\n                How to  Deal with Family Crap at Christmas            \n        </h2>\n            16 December 2021        \n		<iframe src=\"https://omny.fm/shows/extra-healthy-ish/how-to-deal-with-family-crap-at-christmas/embed?in_playlist=extra-healthy-ish&style=Cover\" width=\"100%\" height=\"180\" allow=\"autoplay; clipboard-write\" frameborder=\"0\" title=\"How to deal with family crap at Christmas\"></iframe>		\n															<img width=\"160\" height=\"80\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/ido-podcast-small-1.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n            i do podcast        \n            <h2>\n                How to Have a Peaceful Divorce or Separation            \n        </h2>\n		<iframe allow=\"autoplay *; encrypted-media *; fullscreen *; clipboard-write\" frameborder=\"0\" height=\"175\" style=\"width:100%;max-width:660px;overflow:hidden;background:transparent;\" sandbox=\"allow-forms allow-popups allow-same-origin allow-scripts allow-storage-access-by-user-activation allow-top-navigation-by-user-activation\" src=\"https://embed.podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/how-to-have-a-peaceful-divorce-or-separation/id840534227?i=1000535247963\"></iframe>		\n															<img width=\"93\" height=\"43\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/291768450_602847517894882_6401580038014845901_n.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n            faster than normal by peter shankman        \n            <h2>\n                Creating Connected Relationships            \n        </h2>\n																<a href=\"https://www.fasterthannormal.com/creating-connected-relationships-w-psychotherapist-lissy-abrahams/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">\n							<img width=\"562\" height=\"102\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/faster-than-normal-podcast-1.png\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/faster-than-normal-podcast-1.png 562w, https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/faster-than-normal-podcast-1-300x54.png 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 562px) 100vw, 562px\" />								</a>\n															<img width=\"150\" height=\"150\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/Feed-Play-Love-150x150.jpg\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/Feed-Play-Love-150x150.jpg 150w, https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/Feed-Play-Love-300x300.jpg 300w, https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/Feed-Play-Love-e1658306061762.jpg 100w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px\" />															\n            feed play love with Shevonne hunt        \n            <h2>\n                Want to Stop Fighting with Your Partner? <br>- Here\'s How            \n        </h2>\n            26 July 2022        \n		<iframe src=\"https://omny.fm/shows/feed-play-love1/want-to-stop-fighting-with-your-partner/embed?style=Cover\" width=\"100%\" height=\"180\" allow=\"autoplay; clipboard-write\" frameborder=\"0\" title=\"Want to stop fighting with your partner? Here\'s how\"></iframe>		\n															<img src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/elementor/thumbs/SCS_podcast_3-e1659852287780-pswfn2ezqkd7wn96h07p7j0vic52zc7h8qjgsb3d34.png\" title=\"Segal Conflict Solutions\" alt=\"Segal Conflict Solutions\" />															\n            segal conflict solutions        \n            <h2>\n                Why employers should be wooing employees back to the office after COVID            \n        </h2>\n            3 August 2022        \n		<iframe style=\"border-radius: 12px;\" src=\"https://open.spotify.com/embed/episode/5z4i6sWqlra07N86EzhQHs?utm_source=generator\" width=\"100%\" height=\"180\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"></iframe>		\n															<img width=\"114\" height=\"68\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/Radio-National.png\" alt=\"\" />															\n            ABC Radio national        \n            <h2>\n                Could your childhood baggage be ruining your relationship?            \n        </h2>\n            4 August 2022 - <b>Interview starts at 32:13</b>        \n		<iframe allow=\"autoplay *; encrypted-media *; fullscreen *; clipboard-write\" frameborder=\"0\" height=\"175\" style=\"width:100%;max-width:660px;overflow:hidden;background:transparent;\" sandbox=\"allow-forms allow-popups allow-same-origin allow-scripts allow-storage-access-by-user-activation allow-top-navigation-by-user-activation\" src=\"https://embed.podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/retiring-when-inflation-is-high-and-resetting-your/id73330343?i=1000574948325\"></iframe> 		\n															<img src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/nova-entertainment-logo-e1661236396796.png\" title=\"nova-entertainment-logo\" alt=\"nova-entertainment-logo\" />															\n            Nova         \n            <h2>\n                It\'s not them...it\'s you<br>            \n        </h2>\n            22 August 2022        \n		<iframe src=\"https://omny.fm/shows/separate-bathrooms-and-other-handy-marriage-tips/lissy-abrahams/embed\" allow=\"autoplay; clipboard-write\" width=\"100%\" height=\"180\" frameborder=\"0\" title=\"It\'s Not Them... It\'s You\"></iframe>		\n															<img width=\"9360\" height=\"2043\" src=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/Luke-and-Susie-Logo-Gracify-Media-Smile.png\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/Luke-and-Susie-Logo-Gracify-Media-Smile.png 9360w, https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/Luke-and-Susie-Logo-Gracify-Media-Smile-300x65.png 300w, https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/Luke-and-Susie-Logo-Gracify-Media-Smile-1024x224.png 1024w, https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/Luke-and-Susie-Logo-Gracify-Media-Smile-768x168.png 768w, https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/Luke-and-Susie-Logo-Gracify-Media-Smile-1536x335.png 1536w, https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/Luke-and-Susie-Logo-Gracify-Media-Smile-2048x447.png 2048w, https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/Luke-and-Susie-Logo-Gracify-Media-Smile-600x131.png 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 9360px) 100vw, 9360px\" />															\n            Luke and Susie - Gracify        \n            <h2>\n                Relationship Reset            \n        </h2>\n            12 October 2022         \n		<iframe src=\"https://omny.fm/shows/luke-and-susie-podcast/lissy-abrahams-relationship-reset/embed\" width=\"100%\" height=\"180\" allow=\"autoplay; clipboard-write\" frameborder=\"0\" title=\"Lissy Abrahams - Relationship Reset\"></iframe>','Podcasts',' Lissy is often invited as a guest expert on podcasts.','inherit','closed','closed','','4319-revision-v1','','','2022-10-18 02:04:20','2022-10-18 02:04:20','',4319,'https://www.lissyabrahams.com/?p=5449',0,'revision','',0),(5450,3,'2022-10-27 02:23:09','2022-10-27 02:23:09','Well, it’s nearly that totally creepy time of the year where we are legally allowed to walk about freely, goo all over faces, acting like lunatics, knocking on random doors to exchange a moments “spookiness” for a piece of lame candy.\r\n\r\nWe never used to have Halloween in Australia. We knew it was American, and we didn’t pretend it was part of our culture. It was nice to see it in film or TV. Then I moved to London, and Halloween celebrations were starting to infiltrate London life. Houses were draped in scary. In fact, some competitively so. Pumpkins were either hacked or carved creatively.\r\n\r\nI didn’t need to worry as my kids weren’t interested in it – until they were. And suddenly it was on our agenda. That’s when I truly knew that I couldn’t stand Halloween. Being the good sport that I was, I shared my view with my daughters. They just didn’t see it my way – it was just fun, lollies, costumes and of course “everyone is doing it”. They bought the commercialised version of Halloween hook, line, and sinker.\r\n\r\nThe costumes were kind of cute despite being horridly overpriced for a wear only once-a-year outfit. And let’s note that children grow a lot in a year – so this outfit is often a one-time wonder! The kids loved scabbing from complete strangers, which undermined my intensive stranger danger training to ensure they didn’t accept offerings from strangers nor invitations to come to their car to see their puppy.\r\n\r\nWas I the only parent to have a slight fear that some mad neighbour was going to poison the chocs?? Only a few years before there had been anthrax attacks in America, and London was gripped by the Polonium-210 poisoning of Russian businessman Alexander Litvinenko, not to mention the widespread use of Rohypnol as a date-rape drug.\r\n\r\nCould I really be the only parent concerned about spiking? Well, it appears I was, and how lonely it was to be <em>that</em> parent who both hated and had anxiety about Halloween. Maybe as a therapist I’d just seen and heard too much.\r\n\r\nThe children’s massive, sweet stash flew in the face of moderation lessons I’d been implementing and because the contraband was delivered directly into the children’s own receptacle – the sweets were technically “theirs”. This all irritated me. I just couldn’t hide it. This Halloween-hating, bitch-mama told them to choose their fav 10 sweets and then send the rest back out to fellow trick or treaters.\r\n\r\nWhy were we indulging kids in this weird American culture that had no relevance to us? I totally get it from a child’s perspective – but why do we buy into it? Even if we know that Halloween celebrates All Hallows’ Eve dating back to a pagan festival, why do we celebrate it now? Does anyone care about that?\r\n\r\nHow’s this - the origins were that people would dress up as saints and go door to door. Yes – you read it correctly – saints!\r\n\r\nHow did we go from door knocking saints to grotesque and misshapen faces in expensive outfits often worn once, sweet begging, and poison dodging Halloween? This feels like a whopping stretch to me. Have you ever seen even one kid in a saint costume on Halloween? Yeah – me neither.\r\n\r\nWell, I guess saints’ costumes don’t sell so well. In 2020 – even in the middle of a pandemic – Halloween added $8 million to the US economy. So, it makes perfect sense why Halloween moved swiftly around the globe in the last 2 decades. Everyone wants a dollar from the merch.\r\n\r\nIf we really need to have Halloween – why can’t we get the kids to engage in behaviour that’s even remotely saintly before scabbing - like performing a random act of kindness, or raise some money for charity, or walk the neighbour’s dog. Then I think I might just like Halloween – even a little bit.','I can’t stand Halloween! How’s that for AWKWARD?','','publish','open','open','','i-cant-stand-halloween','','','2022-10-27 10:02:05','2022-10-27 10:02:05','',0,'https://www.lissyabrahams.com/?p=5450',0,'post','',0),(5451,3,'2022-10-27 02:18:43','2022-10-27 02:18:43','','20221027_I Hate Halloween_Blog','','inherit','open','closed','','20221027_i-hate-halloween_blog','','','2022-10-27 02:18:43','2022-10-27 02:18:43','',5450,'http://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/10/20221027_I-Hate-Halloween_Blog.png',0,'attachment','image/png',0),(5452,3,'2022-10-27 02:18:55','2022-10-27 02:18:55','<p>Recently I shared with you how our triggers are a massive blind spot that can cause distress and chaos in our lives. And as they are unconscious, for most of us we have absolutely no idea what triggers us and why.</p><p>It is the why that leads me to share with you the next major blind spot that impacts our lives – this is our relational template. The way we have been consciously and unconsciously wired is held in our relational templates.</p><p>When we were young, we absorbed so much information, the happy and connected times, and the frightening or lonely times. Imagine that these experiences were encoded into our relational template – it is like a program that we run our relationships from throughout life.</p><p>It holds our expectations, beliefs, opinions, and rules for how we should or shouldn’t behave and be treated in a relationship. We all have a unique relational template – made up of thousands and thousands of interactions with parents or caregivers.</p><p>What we don’t truly understand is how we are wired for relationships inside of our own mind. We might get a glimpse of it through our behaviour or the stories we create about ourselves, others, and situations.</p><p>Our partner’s relational template will be different so there will always be a gap between theirs and ours. What’s critical is how partners navigate this gap. It’s the difference between a safe and happy enough relationship and one that struggles, has conflict, or even ends.</p><p>For many of us who can’t tolerate this gap, we will experience what’s called distress intolerance. This means we are unable to sit with the difficult feelings that come up for when faced with our partner having different relationship expectations, beliefs, opinions, or rules from us. </p><p>We can feel distressed, sad, lonely, overwhelmed if our partner doesn’t:</p>		\r\n			<link rel=\"stylesheet\" href=\"https://www.lissyabrahams.com/wp-content/plugins/elementor/assets/css/widget-icon-list.min.css\">		<ul>\r\n							<li>\r\n										Respect us in a way that we want to be respected \r\n									</li>\r\n								<li>\r\n										Protect us in a way that we want protection \r\n									</li>\r\n								<li>\r\n										Communicate in a way that we approve of\r\n									</li>\r\n								<li>\r\n										Celebrate our birthday or anniversary with significant importance\r\n									</li>\r\n								<li>\r\n										Offer us sufficient care, concern, or containment so we feel safe\r\n									</li>\r\n						</ul>\r\n			<style>/*! elementor - v3.7.4 - 31-08-2022 */\r\n.elementor-column .elementor-spacer-inner{height:var(--spacer-size)}.e-container{--container-widget-width:100%}.e-container>.elementor-widget-spacer{width:var(--container-widget-width,var(--spacer-size));-ms-flex-item-align:stretch;align-self:stretch;-ms-flex-negative:0;flex-shrink:0}.e-container>.elementor-widget-spacer>.elementor-widget-container,.e-container>.elementor-widget-spacer>.elementor-widget-container>.elementor-spacer{height:100%}.e-container>.elementor-widget-spacer>.elementor-widget-container>.elementor-spacer>.elementor-spacer-inner{height:var(--container-widget-height,var(--spacer-size))}</style>		\r\n		<p>We can even feel betrayal at a deep level when faced with the reality of who our partner is, compared to who we want them to be, so we feel safe. We want them to operate according to our relational template. We may even try to control them and move them to be like us. This doesn’t work generally. No-one like to be changed or controlled and deep down we all want to be accepted for who we are.</p><p>If we can’t sit with and process this distress, we usually try to suppress it by stuffing it down inside of ourselves or we shove the awful feelings onto someone else. I call the latter emotional vomiting. We all know what it feels like to have someone’s emotional vomit on us. It feels brutal and icky. We will typically have something to say about it. </p><p>It’s critical for all of us to work on ourselves to stop the chaos and distress in our own lives. We also have a responsibility to not emotionally vomit on others. This means we need to understand how our own relational templates from childhood still operate in us today.</p><p>Are we still clingy? Are we still mistrusting? Are we still secretive? Are we still lonely? We don’t need to keep doing this today, but we can’t change what we don’t know. So how do we do this? Therapy, books, online courses, and podcasts are helpful for joining our past with our present. We can then increase our ability to tolerate the gap between our relational template and others, so we are less distressed and create less chaos in life.</p>','I can’t stand Halloween! How’s that for AWKWARD?','','inherit','closed','closed','','5450-revision-v1','','','2022-10-27 02:18:55','2022-10-27 02:18:55','',5450,'https://www.lissyabrahams.com/?p=5452',0,'revision','',0),(5453,3,'2022-10-27 02:23:40','2022-10-27 02:23:40','<p>Well, it’s nearly that totally creepy time of the year where we are legally allowed to walk about freely, goo all over faces, acting like lunatics, knocking on random doors to exchange a moments “spookiness” for a piece of lame candy.</p><p> </p><p>We never used to have Halloween in Australia. We knew it was American, and we didn’t pretend it was part of our culture. It was nice to see it in film or TV. Then I moved to London, and Halloween celebrations were starting to infiltrate London life. Houses were draped in scary. In fact, some competitively so. Pumpkins were either hacked or carved creatively.</p><p> </p><p>I didn’t need to worry as my kids weren’t interested in it – until they were. And suddenly it was on our agenda. That’s when I truly knew that I couldn’t stand Halloween. Being the good sport that I was, I shared my view with my daughters. They just didn’t see it my way – it was just fun, lollies, costumes and of course “everyone is doing it”. They bought the commercialised version of Halloween hook, line, and sinker. </p><p> </p><p>The costumes were kind of cute despite being horridly overpriced for a wear only once-a-year outfit. And let’s note that children grow a lot in a year – so this outfit is often a one-time wonder! The kids loved scabbing from complete strangers, which undermined my intensive stranger danger training to ensure they didn’t accept offerings from strangers nor invitations to come to their car to see their puppy.</p><p> </p><p>Was I the only parent to have a slight fear that some mad neighbour was going to poison the chocs?? Only a few years before there had been anthrax attacks in America, and London was gripped by the Polonium-210 poisoning of Russian businessman Alexander Litvinenko, not to mention the widespread use of Rohypnol as a date-rape drug.</p><p> </p><p>Could I really be the only parent concerned about spiking? Well, it appears I was, and how lonely it was to be that parent who both hated and had anxiety about Halloween. Maybe as a therapist I’d just seen and heard too much.</p><p> </p><p>The children’s massive, sweet stash flew in the face of moderation lessons I’d been implementing and because the contraband was delivered directly into the children’s own receptacle – the sweets were technically “theirs”. This all irritated me. I just couldn’t hide it. This Halloween-hating, bitch-mama told them to choose their fav 10 sweets and then send the rest back out to fellow trick or treaters.</p><p> </p><p>Why were we indulging kids in this weird American culture that had no relevance to us? I totally get it from a child’s perspective – but why do we buy into it? Even if we know that Halloween celebrates All Hallows’ Eve dating back to a pagan festival, why do we celebrate it now? Does anyone care about that?</p><p> </p><p>How’s this - the origins were that people would dress up as saints and go door to door. Yes – you read it correctly – saints!  </p><p> </p><p>How did we go from door knocking saints to grotesque and misshapen faces in expensive outfits often worn once, sweet begging, and poison dodging Halloween? This feels like a whopping stretch to me. Have you ever seen even one kid in a saint costume on Halloween? Yeah – me neither.</p><p> </p><p>Well, I guess saints’ costumes don’t sell so well. In 2020 – even in the middle of a pandemic – Halloween added $8 million to the US economy. So, it makes perfect sense why Halloween moved swiftly around the globe in the last 2 decades. Everyone wants a dollar from the merch.</p><p> </p><p>If we really need to have Halloween – why can’t we get the kids to engage in behaviour that’s even remotely saintly before scabbing - like performing a random act of kindness, or raise some money for charity, or walk the neighbour’s dog. Then I think I might just like Halloween – even a little bit.</p>','I can’t stand Halloween! How’s that for AWKWARD?','','inherit','closed','closed','','5450-revision-v1','','','2022-10-27 02:23:40','2022-10-27 02:23:40','',5450,'https://www.lissyabrahams.com/?p=5453',0,'revision','',0),(5454,3,'2022-10-27 02:23:40','2022-10-27 02:23:40','<p>Well, it’s nearly that totally creepy time of the year where we are legally allowed to walk about freely, goo all over faces, acting like lunatics, knocking on random doors to exchange a moments “spookiness” for a piece of lame candy.</p><p> </p><p>We never used to have Halloween in Australia. We knew it was American, and we didn’t pretend it was part of our culture. It was nice to see it in film or TV. Then I moved to London, and Halloween celebrations were starting to infiltrate London life. Houses were draped in scary. In fact, some competitively so. Pumpkins were either hacked or carved creatively.</p><p> </p><p>I didn’t need to worry as my kids weren’t interested in it – until they were. And suddenly it was on our agenda. That’s when I truly knew that I couldn’t stand Halloween. Being the good sport that I was, I shared my view with my daughters. They just didn’t see it my way – it was just fun, lollies, costumes and of course “everyone is doing it”. They bought the commercialised version of Halloween hook, line, and sinker. </p><p> </p><p>The costumes were kind of cute despite being horridly overpriced for a wear only once-a-year outfit. And let’s note that children grow a lot in a year – so this outfit is often a one-time wonder! The kids loved scabbing from complete strangers, which undermined my intensive stranger danger training to ensure they didn’t accept offerings from strangers nor invitations to come to their car to see their puppy.</p><p> </p><p>Was I the only parent to have a slight fear that some mad neighbour was going to poison the chocs?? Only a few years before there had been anthrax attacks in America, and London was gripped by the Polonium-210 poisoning of Russian businessman Alexander Litvinenko, not to mention the widespread use of Rohypnol as a date-rape drug.</p><p> </p><p>Could I really be the only parent concerned about spiking? Well, it appears I was, and how lonely it was to be that parent who both hated and had anxiety about Halloween. Maybe as a therapist I’d just seen and heard too much.</p><p> </p><p>The children’s massive, sweet stash flew in the face of moderation lessons I’d been implementing and because the contraband was delivered directly into the children’s own receptacle – the sweets were technically “theirs”. This all irritated me. I just couldn’t hide it. This Halloween-hating, bitch-mama told them to choose their fav 10 sweets and then send the rest back out to fellow trick or treaters.</p><p> </p><p>Why were we indulging kids in this weird American culture that had no relevance to us? I totally get it from a child’s perspective – but why do we buy into it? Even if we know that Halloween celebrates All Hallows’ Eve dating back to a pagan festival, why do we celebrate it now? Does anyone care about that?</p><p> </p><p>How’s this - the origins were that people would dress up as saints and go door to door. Yes – you read it correctly – saints!  </p><p> </p><p>How did we go from door knocking saints to grotesque and misshapen faces in expensive outfits often worn once, sweet begging, and poison dodging Halloween? This feels like a whopping stretch to me. Have you ever seen even one kid in a saint costume on Halloween? Yeah – me neither.</p><p> </p><p>Well, I guess saints’ costumes don’t sell so well. In 2020 – even in the middle of a pandemic – Halloween added $8 million to the US economy. So, it makes perfect sense why Halloween moved swiftly around the globe in the last 2 decades. Everyone wants a dollar from the merch.</p><p> </p><p>If we really need to have Halloween – why can’t we get the kids to engage in behaviour that’s even remotely saintly before scabbing - like performing a random act of kindness, or raise some money for charity, or walk the neighbour’s dog. Then I think I might just like Halloween – even a little bit.</p>','I can’t stand Halloween! How’s that for AWKWARD?','','inherit','closed','closed','','5450-revision-v1','','','2022-10-27 02:23:40','2022-10-27 02:23:40','',5450,'https://www.lissyabrahams.com/?p=5454',0,'revision','',0),(5455,3,'2022-10-27 02:23:41','2022-10-27 02:23:41','<p>Well, it’s nearly that totally creepy time of the year where we are legally allowed to walk about freely, goo all over faces, acting like lunatics, knocking on random doors to exchange a moments “spookiness” for a piece of lame candy.</p><p>We never used to have Halloween in Australia. We knew it was American, and we didn’t pretend it was part of our culture. It was nice to see it in film or TV. Then I moved to London, and Halloween celebrations were starting to infiltrate London life. Houses were draped in scary. In fact, some competitively so. Pumpkins were either hacked or carved creatively.</p><p>I didn’t need to worry as my kids weren’t interested in it – until they were. And suddenly it was on our agenda. That’s when I truly knew that I couldn’t stand Halloween. Being the good sport that I was, I shared my view with my daughters. They just didn’t see it my way – it was just fun, lollies, costumes and of course “everyone is doing it”. They bought the commercialised version of Halloween hook, line, and sinker. </p><p>The costumes were kind of cute despite being horridly overpriced for a wear only once-a-year outfit. And let’s note that children grow a lot in a year – so this outfit is often a one-time wonder! The kids loved scabbing from complete strangers, which undermined my intensive stranger danger training to ensure they didn’t accept offerings from strangers nor invitations to come to their car to see their puppy.</p><p>Was I the only parent to have a slight fear that some mad neighbour was going to poison the chocs?? Only a few years before there had been anthrax attacks in America, and London was gripped by the Polonium-210 poisoning of Russian businessman Alexander Litvinenko, not to mention the widespread use of Rohypnol as a date-rape drug.</p><p>Could I really be the only parent concerned about spiking? Well, it appears I was, and how lonely it was to be <em>that</em> parent who both hated and had anxiety about Halloween. Maybe as a therapist I’d just seen and heard too much.</p><p>The children’s massive, sweet stash flew in the face of moderation lessons I’d been implementing and because the contraband was delivered directly into the children’s own receptacle – the sweets were technically “theirs”. This all irritated me. I just couldn’t hide it. This Halloween-hating, bitch-mama told them to choose their fav 10 sweets and then send the rest back out to fellow trick or treaters.</p><p>Why were we indulging kids in this weird American culture that had no relevance to us? I totally get it from a child’s perspective – but why do we buy into it? Even if we know that Halloween celebrates All Hallows’ Eve dating back to a pagan festival, why do we celebrate it now? Does anyone care about that?</p><p>How’s this - the origins were that people would dress up as saints and go door to door. Yes – you read it correctly – saints!  </p><p>How did we go from door knocking saints to grotesque and misshapen faces in expensive outfits often worn once, sweet begging, and poison dodging Halloween? This feels like a whopping stretch to me. Have you ever seen even one kid in a saint costume on Halloween? Yeah – me neither.</p><p>Well, I guess saints’ costumes don’t sell so well. In 2020 – even in the middle of a pandemic – Halloween added $8 million to the US economy. So, it makes perfect sense why Halloween moved swiftly around the globe in the last 2 decades. Everyone wants a dollar from the merch.</p><p>If we really need to have Halloween – why can’t we get the kids to engage in behaviour that’s even remotely saintly before scabbing - like performing a random act of kindness, or raise some money for charity, or walk the neighbour’s dog. Then I think I might just like Halloween – even a little bit.</p>','I can’t stand Halloween! 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